Politics › Re: ! Irish Visa,irish Visa ! by Nicklee(m): 11:54pm On Sep 07, 2007 |
South African Passport? , You suck!!!!! |
Health › Re: Marriage And The Sickle Cell Genotype Issue by Nicklee(m): 5:02am On Sep 07, 2007 |
snairegin: I think i have a lot of experience with the whole sickle cell issue and can relate to a lot of do's and don't's & give my own honest & spiritual belief to the whole issue.
God is a father of choices, if u have genuine love & honesty with each other , u should be together. Any doubt in your love or ability to stay together, move on and seperate peacefully. Although, i feel that you should always tell all genetic traits, interests, values etc as early as possible.
My sweet/ sad story, Was in a relationship for 5 and a half years, the last 4yrs living together with the intention of getting married (literarily saving & advancing our careers to pay for a wedding ourselves), parents told me to check her genotype, told them that she had it done in nigeria and she's not sure of accuracy, but recalls it being AA
Told my parents that we would deal with all circumstances when it arises, how stupid i was to trust someone else other than God.
An SS cousin came on holiday (having wealthy parents with dad being a doctor) and died back in nigeria a week after. It prompted her to retest & she turned to be AS as well. Her family & friends auto switched off & insisted we part , months after, she decided that she had to move on as we disagreed on the important topic, What to do if the 25% chance occurs?, she wanted to keep at all costs with tears (optimistic), i wanted a test and abort( realist), our families wanted us to part at all costs( pessimist),
My personal view, if u both love each other & are perfect for each other, pain , suffering , difficult decisions, life's challenges would make u stronger each time, If u both like each other a lot but not love, or one loves and the other doesn't, u should part ways.
AA+ SS, just prepare yourself in the worst of times for your hubby's passing & agree next steps, will, moving on etc, be smart with each other not stupid
AS+SS, don't u dare AS+AS, only if your love is strong enough, personally, i believe medical science is meant to guide our choices rather than be a definite for choices,
Take for example, my ex marries an AA, but the first kid or one of them is diagnosed early with downes syndrome or some serious mental/physical defect, would she not be faced with the same problem? If she keeps the baby with the second best man,she would struggle , If she takes a doc's advice of not keeping the baby, aborting would make her remember me, If she learns of a medical breakthrough in 10 years time or the hubby turns into a monster, she would definately remember me
A woman has a bigger chance of a miscarriage nowadays in the western world than problems after an abortion
God is Love and love is , SELFLESSNESS , SACRIFICE , COMMITMENT and finally , CONTEMPT
God never intends for us to settle for second best , stop the relationship as early as possible but if there is true love and agreed values, stay together
As for me, the next partner has to have same values, love GOD, love me and DOESNT HAVE TO BE AA or even african, as there would always be something in life that would make us all imperfect, challenges to face , bad habits to live with sacrifices to make Very well Said. I think this is the best so far, |
Business › Re: New Cement Plant From 50tpd-300tpd Capacity For Sale by Nicklee(m): 12:22am On Aug 31, 2007 |
For naija abi for Holland?
Na wao oooo |
Business › Re: Aliko Dangote Is $2.5 Billion Richer Than Oprah Winfrey by Nicklee(m): 1:18am On Aug 30, 2007 |
I'm quite sure Dangote is worth more than $4b. Wait till he lists his flour and the cement company on the stock market. With the expectant astronomical price appreciation these stocks will witness, there is no doubt he'll be worth more than $10b. He's got cement, flour, sugar, telecom, oil and gas, etc companies all spinning mega bucks for him. |
Phones › Re: NCC Plans GSM 'Number Portability' by Nicklee(m): 12:51am On Aug 29, 2007 |
Let me help us get this very clear,
The practice of intra network calls being cheaper than inter network calls is a calculated attempt at amassing profits while stifling competition. With number portability, you simply move from network A to network B, while retaining the same old number. You can not imagine the magnitude of competition we'll have when this comes on, and ofcourse we, the subsribers would be kings and the beautiful bride. Call costs will drop, free minutes will abound, text messages will become cheaper, and above all, service and customer relations will be highly improved. It's a good thing, and that is why developed nations have embraced it for so many years. |
Phones › Re: NCC Plans GSM 'Number Portability' by Nicklee(m): 3:31am On Aug 28, 2007 |
This works so well in the USA and makes us, the subscribers, KINGS. It doesn't require rocket science to understand and implement, atleast we would begin to expect better service from the draconian service providers that have milked us so dry, and yet provided us with embarrassing service. |
Investment › Dangote Flour Ipo Out 3rd Sept. by Nicklee(op): 3:39am On Aug 24, 2007 |
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Technology Market › Re: Platium 4 Dell Laptop For Sale by Nicklee(m): 12:33am On Aug 24, 2007 |
Platium 4? What's that? |
Business › Re: Free Sms To Friend All Over The World by Nicklee(m): 7:23pm On Aug 19, 2007 |
If you can't put the website here for all nairalanders to see, then forget it. Googling free SMS will give you millions of sites that give free SMS and they work. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Esso Post-graduate Scholarship by Nicklee(m): 8:24pm On Aug 18, 2007 |
I think the successful ones have been contacted. I know about 6 guys that have their interviews scheduled between 22nd and 23rd. You should call ExxonMobil if you are not sure. |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Esso Post-graduate Scholarship by Nicklee(m): 11:59pm On Aug 17, 2007 |
I got the Esso scholarship last year, to a University in the US. Ten of us were awarded last year.
The interviews for this year's award have been scheduled for the 22nd and 23rd (2 batches)
All the best to y'all that have been invited. |
Investment › Re: Stock Market Tips For Nigerians by Nicklee(m): 9:57pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
Y'all Something doesn't add up here.
NBA's attachment purportedly to be from ARM is actually a subsection from the CSL report uploaded by Omoba3.
So, Is ARM and CSL ( or whoever authored the analysis) in some connivance in this issue?
Whatever be the case, they have 'spoilt my mind' towards the Access bank offer. I wanted to pick up some shares, but now I don't think I want to go ahead.
What y'all think?
, By the way, this is not a football fan-club thread. We all mean business here. Just for the jerks. |
Business › Re: Breaking News: N100 To Become N1 By August 1, 2008 by Nicklee(m): 4:58am On Aug 15, 2007 |
Unless we revamp our economy, this entire process will lead to monumental inflation in the country. Why do we think countries like China and Japan would rather have their currencies the way they are, than let them appreciate over the dollar?
Whenever Soludu and the CBN decide to start this madness, I'll withdraw my holdings in naira and reinvest them in a more stable currency like the Euro. Thereafter, I will stand aside and watch us as we begin the macabre dance of economic death.
We can achieve what we want to achieve by ensuring a more productive economy. Let there be constant power supply and social security in Nigeria, and every other thing would be added unto us. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Drop Your Prayer Point Here. by Nicklee(m): 11:50pm On Aug 14, 2007*. Modified: 8:55am On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Business › Re: Nairalanders, How Much Are You Worth? by Nicklee(m): 6:58am On Aug 05, 2007*. Modified: 8:54am On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Romance › Help: !, This Girl Is On My Case: ? by Nicklee(op): 12:51am On Aug 04, 2007*. Modified: 8:54am On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: My Friend And His Girlfriends "palava" In My House by Nicklee(m): 12:46am On Aug 04, 2007*. Modified: 8:54am On Jan 04, 2015 |
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