u are very luky iam frm dere too we take care of women,serious

hi there ,

well bout what you said its not true cos am from delta and the same local govt u wrote .

sorry to say (but your man might be pro and superstti)but give him a chance

find out b4 concluding

all men are not the same

"Adultery" should be out of your dictionary. Serious.

Two of my colleagues (who are from there) told me the penalty is death
or a terminal ailment. That there is a god that monitors all housewives.

Besides, their men make very good husbands at least using these my
friends as a case in point

gregg  well i never have heard of the punisments and all but i agree with you that adultery in out of the quesuion


to the lady please keeping loving your dude and be truthful

God speaks

Marry and mortgage ur life

@Poster
Its pure lie! Am from same area, pure Deltan and representing Ndokwa constituency as well in Rivers State. U should be very careful if u eventually get married to him. Reason: Adultery is not in Ndokwa' dictionary, its price is death! very natural and all married women keep off from this. We do take very good care of our girlfriends and wives. Ndokwa is a unique place dear. Exercise no fear. Though, individual attitudes matters, so if u love ur guy, go ahead. all the best dear

The main fact remains that from experience, there are some bad eggs among them cos I have seen some men and women from that area misbehaving. My cousin, who resides in London practising law was once a victim of a girl from that area as the girl gives some neighbours the same food meant for my Lawyer cousin.

there are some bad eggs among them because I have seen some men and women from that area misbehaving

Bad eggs are in every tribe. . . no tribe is 100% perfect. . .they all have their good n bad!. . .

Poster. . .
There is nothing wrong with it. . . . . .what matters most is the love that exists between u both. . .

I've heard the same thing about adultery and the consequences, in that area, though maybe not the kwale side.

very scary stories. I also know someone who passed away some years after messing up his family with an extra marital affair. Dont know if it was coincidence or something else.

But the men do make good husbands. And very stable financially.

mancole:

u are very luky, we take care of women,serious

very true.

Thou shall not commit adultery

Since adultery is punishable by death I'll advise you  to overhaul the man well for bed before you say,  yes I do, 
     Take him to a control room, make sure his JT is in a sound condition that will give you 40yrs guaranty to serve your youthfull sex age. then around 65yrs you can support it with Viagra since body no be wood.

I have a friend from UKWANI he's  nice and trustworthy so my sister your not making a mistake Go where your heart beats.

®~^Sly^~®:

Bad eggs are in every tribe. . . no tribe is 100% perfect. . .they all have their good n bad!. . .

Poster. . .
There is nothing wrong with it. . . . . .what matters most is the love that exists between u both. . .

emmmmm, sly my good brother  , this one wey me and you dey jam everywhere for inside every Efik thread in this place, na coincidence? any idea why?

as you talk the other day say you be Yoruba and white, you sure say na so? Na 100% Yoruba and 100% white, abi some midwest/eastern Nigeria dey for inside?

Unless you also get lovebug for this matter- as in love interest from Efik tribe. I no know other explanation o.



no vex oooo my brother . I just dey talk the thing wey I see for nairaland.

My sister just be very careful with this relationship. You must have read what many of them testified here that adultry is a very serious offense in their place but they failed to tell you that it is only for the women. While the men are allowed by their traditions to indulge in as many adultrous relationships as possible any attempt by their wives is always tragic. So will you love to marry a man whose traditiion allows him to misbehave any how he wants while caging the wives?. The result could be disastrous as anything can happen outside. He might meet a woman outside who will do anything to eliminate you or some other disastrous consequences.

Please do not be decieved by this burning initial love. After some years of marriage when the love begins to wane down and shifts to the children, what happens.

ABEG SHINE YOUR EYES BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

reality4us:

My sister just be very careful with this relationship. You must have read what many of them testified here that adultry is a very serious offense in their place but they failed to tell you that it is only for the women. While the men are allowed by their traditions to indulge in as many adultrous relationships as possible any attempt by their wives is always tragic. So will you love to marry a man whose traditiion allows him to misbehave any how he wants while caging the wives?. The result could be disastrous as anything can happen outside. He might meet a woman outside who will do anything to eliminate you or some other disastrous consequences.

Please do not be decieved by this burning initial love. After some years of marriage when the love begins to wane down and shifts to the children, what happens.

ABEG SHINE YOUR EYES BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

hmm this is just as scary as the other stories I heard. However, the person I know who had extramarital affairs and died some years later, was a man o. Even though he was from Asaba side, not kwale. I thought it must be a general thing in that area.  Maybe it was conicidence. Who knows.

This kind of thing you're saying does seem very harsh on the women, especially since adultery isnt limited to only one tribe in Nigeria, so why should the women suffer so much while the men are given free rein. But to the best of my limited knowledge,  men from that region do make very good husbands. The ones I know have been pretty impressive. They make sure their wives are comfortable, and they seem to have that drive to succeed in life.

however, @ topic, listen to what everyone is saying here, pray, and follow your heart. Do what's best for you.

angel chi:

My nairaland friends, am falling in love with a young man form Delta state, Ndokwa local Government , Kwale or Ukwani, Abbi. From what i heard his people are not only promiscuous but superstitious too. Is anyone from this place or do you know someone, anybody that is from this place. Please tell me about them

YES I KNOW, am in love with him and not his people or his tribe but have i done anything wrong by trying to find out thing about his people?

I am Igbo, from IMO state.

Many people from the place have already responded and confirmed that the land has been mortgaged to a juju that kills adulterous women.
Who knows what their definition of adultery is before they sold their lives to alusi/arunsi.
If I were you,I'll pick race.
a community who made this kind of deal with Satan,do you know what else they promised him?
For your sake and the sake of any children you may bear,please leave the man.
Like you I am Igbo and know not of any Igbo community where Satan has been given a high seat to rule a local Govt area.

Drop the kwale man like a used tampon and run the other direction

chukz4real:

@Poster
Its pure lie! Am from same area, pure Deltan and representing Ndokwa constituency as well in Rivers State. You should be very careful if u eventually get married to him. Reason: Adultery is not in Ndokwa' dictionary, its price is death! very natural and all married women keep off from this. We do take very good care of our girlfriends and wives. Ndokwa is a unique place dear. Exercise no fear. Though, individual attitudes matters, so if u love your guy, go ahead. all the best dear

The above from the horses mouth.
The fear is not in dying from adultery but in a community where evil spirits have been welcomed and enshrined as part of the community.
Is that a place you'll love to call home?
chi chi dear,say NO!
It's not worth it

let them marry their own girls
and other girls who choose to dine with ekwensu

nwando you wan start war here o. Are you an idol worshipper, to talk this way? i thought you were Christian? or at least occasional churchgoer?

You know people from there say the exact same thing you're saying here about people from your own area.

when will this tribalism and tribal war ever end?

i tire o.

make i comot abeg.

reality4us:

My sister just be very careful with this relationship. You must have read what many of them testified here that adultry is a very serious offense in their place but they failed to tell you that it is only for the women. While the men are allowed by their traditions to indulge in as many adultrous relationships as possible any attempt by their wives is always tragic. So will you love to marry a man whose traditiion allows him to misbehave any how he wants while caging the wives?.

Is it true that it's only for the women? If so that is bloody lame

I'm not starting any wars tpia
and no I'm not an idol worshipper
neither would I knowingly eat food sacrificed to idols
by their admission,some evil spirit kills their adulterous women.
It's not a place I'll advice anyone I love to marry from.
I never knew this until now.

If I knew any Igbo community that has mortgaged it's citizens to evil spirits by a local Govt ordinance not individual choices
I wouldn't marry there either.

nwando:

I'm not starting any wars tpia
and no I'm not an idol worshipper
neither would I knowingly eat food sacrificed to idols
by their admission,some evil spirit kills their adulterous women.
It's not a place I'll advice anyone I love to marry from.
I never knew this until now.

If I knew any Igbo community that has mortgaged it's citizens to evil spirits by a local Govt ordinance not individual choices
I wouldn't marry there either.

how have they mortgaged their local govt to evil spirits?

which community in Africa or even the whole world hasnt had one weird/evil custom or the other at some point in time. Werent you on the benue thread? even the british used to do human sacrifice. talkless elsewhere. Billions of stories everywhere.

Some else also said he knows a girl from that area who sleeps around even though she's married.  Likewise I've heard many things about people from the region, which i can't verify since I'm not there.  i wouldnt advise the lady to marry the guy if she's having doubts, but these things you're saying here seem very alarmist, imo.

true, the penalty for adultery seems one sided and very harsh, but maybe there are people who are married to guys from there and can give other viewpoints as well.

as you just raise my blood pressure so, early in the morning. i nearly fell from my chair when i read your posts.

na wa.

adultery is a kwale thing on nairaland? seun has a lot to answer for. why are we suggesting that this girl is not faithful?

@nwando you surprised me here.

kwale people are very nice people. i was in their area for 2yrs. there are loads of sexual activity in that area that may have lead to this thing but why should people be unfaithful in the first place.

i beg go marry th guy and learn how to eat their food

joshjosh:

adultery is a kwale thing on nairaland? seun has a lot to answer for. why are we suggesting that this girl is not faithful?

@nwando you surprised me here.

kwale people are very nice people. i was in their area for 2yrs. there are loads of sexual activity in that area that may have lead to this thing but why should people be unfaithful in the first place.

i beg go marry th guy and learn how to eat their food

Na so we see am my brother I am just speechless.

nwando:

I'm not starting any wars tpia
and no I'm not an idol worshipper
neither would I knowingly eat food sacrificed to idols
by their admission,some evil spirit kills their adulterous women.
It's not a place I'll advice anyone I love to marry from.
I never knew this until now.

If I knew any Igbo community that has mortgaged it's citizens to evil spirits by a local Govt ordinance not individual choices
I wouldn't marry there either.

The Bible said "Thou shall not commit adultery" and also "the wages of sin is death",logically he/she that commit adultery will die because adultery is a sin.

@Poster,
If you are actually serious it would have been better to ask your BF,or your mother instead of coming to nairaland as your oracle of truth.

ok now.
The amadioha of kwale strikes down women when he suspects adultery.
We were talking of sharia stoning adulterous women little did we know there was a worse spirit in kwale that needs neither judge nor jury

chi chi I say run for ya life.
satan doesn't tell the truth
he can just carry innocent people put for im judgement.
flee I say