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Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Raymond247(m): 9:41am On Dec 03, 2009
Its Something that has been common but its funny, u would see some ladies living i dont care life in their early age(18-28) they just want to catch the fun, when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. why is it common to our 9ja babes?
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Godmother(f): 9:49am On Dec 03, 2009
Still thinking.Will tell you as soon as I come up with an answer grin
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by ayomidej(f): 1:07pm On Dec 03, 2009
I don't know the answer but there is loads of them in my church (its a pity)
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by SisiKill1: 1:18pm On Dec 03, 2009
How's your friend now, ehn? Why didn't you update us? Abi you don't want us to know what went down, eh Ray Ray? wink
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Ben13: 1:23pm On Dec 03, 2009
what of the ones that lived all their life in the church and no one is seeking their hand in marriage, even at 30?
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Dec 03, 2009
^ u r very correct, i know some ladies lyk dat
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by PCbusayo(f): 2:02pm On Dec 03, 2009
sad
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Raymond247(m): 2:05pm On Dec 03, 2009
@sisi kill
my dear i decided to let it go, but we are ok sha!
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 2:05pm On Dec 03, 2009
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by bigrod1: 2:38pm On Dec 03, 2009
[size=16pt]@poster,

the truth is dat some girls are not wise.they want to play around because the guys them too play around.and when the night comes,they start trooping to d church as if they were told to go there and buy their husbands.may god help them but i feel no pity for them.they are d architects of their misfortunes.
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the worst thing is dat d young ones dont learn from their big sistas.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by nethacker(m): 3:32pm On Dec 03, 2009
no mind them jooorr grin them go don do shakara finish wen dem dey their early 20's while dem go dey select d guyz with d best cars n handsome grin grin
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by londoner: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2009
, And there was me thinking it was Igbo ladies who had the monopoly on marrying "late". Come to find its "most naija ladies" now, lol
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by henryhemon(m): 3:54pm On Dec 03, 2009
@londoner,
stop being tribalistic.

@poster,
Thye never believe there will be a point in their life that men will stop saying hello to them.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by compgee(m): 9:53pm On Dec 03, 2009
embarassedAnd there was me thinking it was Igbo ladies who had the monopoly on marrying "late". Come to findoo its "most naija ladies" now, lol cheesy

no need been tribalistic. If some of the Igbo babes could not mary early at they should be sure of what to eat. I mean they can take care of themselves and even there sibilings.
In all one should try to know when an opportunity is available and grab it.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by compgee(m): 9:59pm On Dec 03, 2009
londoner:

, And there was me thinking it was Igbo ladies who had the monopoly on marrying "late". Come to find its "most naija ladies" now, lol

No point been tribalistic. If some of the Igbo babes could not mary early at least they should be sure of what to eat. I mean they can take care of themselves and even there sibilings.
In all one should try to know when an opportunity is available and grab it.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 03, 2009
londoner:

, And there was me thinking it was Igbo ladies who had the monopoly on marrying "late". Come to find its "most naija ladies" now, lol



compgee:


No point been tribalistic. If some of the Igbo babes could not mary early at least they should be sure of what to eat. I mean they can take care of themselves and even there sibilings.
In all one should try to know when an opportunity is available and grab it.

cue for the Yoruba women bashers to make an entrance.

With this issue of smelly cunt, why are people leaving the problems of dirty vaginas of Yoruba females and mentioning Igbo ladies nah.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by MightyMuna(m): 10:06pm On Dec 03, 2009
it is not just Naija females but females worldwide, they mess around in their late teens to mid twenties, till mid-life crisis hits them. its just that we Nigerians believe Church is the answer for everything.

funny thing is, when they reach that certain stage in life, they become very vulnerable and desperate, they end up wrecking their life even further by accepting any man, they don't know that the men know this and the men just use them, have their fun and dump them and their back to square one again.

Ladies, marry early, keep your dignity, resist temptation, in future, you will reap the benefits. good men will chase you, because they know what you are working with.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:07pm On Dec 03, 2009
Abeg jor. Na the ladies why rock pass dey catch the best men. The good girls keep hanging in churches even in their 40s.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Princek12(m): 10:18pm On Dec 03, 2009
michelin89:

Abeg jor. Na the ladies why rock pass dey catch the best men. The good girls keep hanging in churches even in their 40s.
I concur
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 03, 2009
michelin89:

Abeg jor. Na the ladies why rock pass dey catch the best men. The good girls keep hanging in churches even in their 40s.

abi.

The policy is to catch the men first then kill them later.

Catch them in haste then kill them at leisure.

You sabi wetin I dey talk?
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:28pm On Dec 03, 2009
Sofa them catch them. Me sef wan go catch one na. After I have one, whatever I do with him. . . grin
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 03, 2009
michelin89:

Sofa them catch them. Me sef wan go catch one na. After I have one, whatever I do with him. . . grin

I thought you catch dozens you sexy thang.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 03, 2009
I dey catch them but they nor dey last. angry angry angry Always dying of premature deaths.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by vicade(m): 10:37pm On Dec 03, 2009
Many of such ladies are in my church

One of them is in the choir. Very pretty and endowed. Good singer too. When i heard of her past escapades plus how she was one of the biggest runs girl at UNILAG during her time,omo i Lock up.

That Old things are gone and past away does not work for me.

Runs Girl na same with Asewo

Ashawo(Asewo) no be work o. Na LIFESTYLE.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Diva1(f): 10:46pm On Dec 03, 2009
Raymond247:

Its Something that has been common but its funny, u would see some ladies living i dont care life in their early age(18-28) they just want to catch the fun, when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. why is it common to our 9ja babes?

I would have to agree with you grin
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by PCbusayo(f): 11:01pm On Dec 03, 2009
Diva1:

I would have to agree with you grin

same here.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 12:06am On Dec 04, 2009
Raymond247:

Its Something that has been common but its funny, u would see some ladies living i dont care life in their early age(18-28) they just want to catch the fun, when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. why is it common to our 9ja babes?

You sense of reasoning is very warped. How did you come to the conclusion that girls that marry at 30 and above were wayward when they were younger? You are one of those that make girls jump into any man arms just so that they can be married before 30. Okay, leave the "bad" girls now, let them keep searching. At least you're lucky you are not marrying them abi? Why does it even concern anyone? Some men can be so immature.

Ladies please shine your eye ooo, It's not "How soon?" it's "How well?" If getting the right person means going to church and fasting DO IT!!! It's worth it in the end. There's nothing worse than being stuck with a loser  angry

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Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by Diva1(f): 12:41am On Dec 04, 2009
kech:

You sense of reasoning is very warped. How did you come to the conclusion that girls that marry at 30 and above were wayward when they were younger? You are one of those that make girls jump into any man arms just so that they can be married before 30. Okay, leave the "bad" girls now, let them keep searching. At least you're lucky you are not marrying them abi? Why does it even concern anyone? Some men can be so immature.

Ladies please shine your eye ooo, It's not "How soon?" it's "How well?" If getting the right person means going to church and fasting DO IT!!! It's worth it in the end. There's nothing worse than being stuck with a loser angry

I do understand where he's coming from and I don't think he generalised it the way you are thinking.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 1:44am On Dec 04, 2009
Diva1:

I do understand where he's coming from and I don't think he generalised it the way you are thinking.
Nope, this is definitely a generalization amongst some guys and MOST FOOLISH girls who should know better. When someone says "when they get closer to 29-30 they will start being cautious and try to settle down for a man to ask for thier hand in marriage, after they must have lived a rough life, doing all sorts of rubish with thier virginity they will end up going to church. "  It's no joke. I've seen a lot happen to know not to judge when we're not better. Unless you are Jesus Christ himself I don't think anyone the right to cast any stone.  I guess girls who marry early are the "good girls". Crap.
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by mamagee3(f): 1:52am On Dec 04, 2009
This thread is so funny. grin grin
Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by mamagee9(m): 2:15am On Dec 04, 2009
[size=13pt]what is wrong with that poster

are you sure you are a man cos you sound type like a woman

if this is not gossip i wonder what it is

complete woman rapa OOPS this days they call it gay
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Re: Most Naija Ladies End Up In The Church In Search For A Life Partner Atter 30. by kech(f): 2:36am On Dec 04, 2009
^^^^ That's why I said the post was a bit immature especially coming from a guy.

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