Of course you would agree since it agrees with your opinions.

To refute your point CIL, what if the useless women have anger-management issues? I don't believe it's asking too much to encourage you to harness that anger in a more thoughful manner.


Maybe you black women should learn how to evalute your damn anger, huh ?
If the men are so useless, then the angry black women shouldn't be worried about them flocking to women of other races since it would benefit THEM in the end.

@the amaka uve seen ONLY about 10 posts where I mentioned ur name where the issue was none ya biz wutsoeva?!?wow,sorry to break ur balls,u got like 10,099 to go.Chiogo,wut kinda wifie are u telling on me?

Sorry to break them?geez I wrote sorry to break ur b*alls!gawd!!!how is ball.s a bad word?

brooknam99:

@the amaka uve seen ONLY about 10 posts where I mentioned your name where the issue was none ya biz wutsoeva?!?wow,sorry to break them,u got like 10,099 to go.Chiogo,wut kinda wifie are u telling on me?

nope.
where your comment was totally unrelated to the thread itself and had nothing to do with anything like that.
you just couldnt help but to bring me up. lol

how is angry hos from the pjs have to do with tribalism? hahahahahaha!!!
the difference is clear.
and ugly fat ho from the pjs is a TYPE of person, benin girls are a WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE.
you see the difference?
you gave a certain type of person "ugly fat hos from the pjs" but when you say "benin girls" you are talking about EVERY SINGLE GIRL from benin.
oh wait!! you dont understand what you wrote yourself?
hmmmmmm.

brooknam99:

Confusionist that's what yall know how to do best.I see mekussx,aloy emeka,igwe 1 and Nchara taught u well.I hate benins!lol.fat binch!I hate ibos too right?because I always call out the evil ones amongst yall that keep attacking other tribes.fat effer! U disgust me!divisionist!this the only way u can think of to garner support from the benins?!I'm bout to start a thread dissing yourba guys in NY.u gone go to them too and say I hate yourbas?hahahhahaha.lol.we both knw datll be futile cus they'll just spit in your ugly,obese,face

and there are plenty of yoruba tribalist and you havent called them out yet. why?

ok go to other threads and u'll see where i called out the yorubas. i aint denying that they got some that are unrepentant tribalists, but u gotta be honest that the ones that usually start the tribalist stuff are usually the ibos mainly ur hubby NCHARA, MEKUSSXX, ALOY EMEKA (SOMETIMES), IGWE1 AND A HOST OF OTHERS!!!

Back to the point - Are Black Women Angry? Fact or Myth?

Angry / Harsh / Mean = Yeah. . . At times. . . But like I say, this also applies to other females around the globe

Gabry:

Angry / Harsh / Mean = Yeah. . . At times. . . But like I say, this also applies to other females around the globe

So are you saying ALL women are just a whole load of headache?

Nigerian women living in Nigeria are the happiest in the world .That is why they don't suffer from depression, Anxiety,stress,bipolar disease,panic attack etc which women suffer abroad.
Guys , There is too much stress abroad which is a major cause of depression and anxiety that will make them to become angry.

snow123:

Nigerian women living in Nigeria are the happiest in the world .That is why they don't suffer from depression, Anxiety,stress,bipolar disease,panic attack etc which women suffer abroad.
Guys , There is too much stress abroad which is a major cause of depression and anxiety that will make them to become angry.

Source?

CILondon:

Back to the point - Are Black Women Angry? Fact or Myth?

Hope you are not deliberately ignoring this post below?

H2O2:

Of course you would agree since it agrees with your opinions.

To refute your point CIL, what if the useless women have anger-management issues? I don't believe it's asking too much to encourage you to harness that anger in a more thoughful manner.


Maybe you black women should learn how to evalute your damn anger, huh ?
If the men are so useless, then the angry black women shouldn't be worried about them flocking to women of other races since it would benefit THEM in the end.

Black women are naturally irritating loud cows that make all manner of noise and cause problems for no just cause either through ceaseless naggings, fightings, quarrels, drama and a host of animalistic things fit for a gender that should be embelished in a zoo.

Its even worse for Nigerian women who are total drama queens that rake, complain, shout, fight, quarrel, nag like biatches tearing their selves out over the silliest of things and its no wonder most men would rather just f*ck them and leave them alone by dumping their angry tired saggy breasted ass on the curb due to their stupidity and unbridled anger that cannot be justified.

I see Nigerian women more like a bad traffic jam that arises for no just cause and when you get to the place where the trafic is suppose to occur, you dont see the reason. Thats how horrible and annoying black women can be more especially the stupid Nigerian women mostly under 30/35 though.

Very stupid daft lot!

MYTH.

I think people confuse anger and being opinionated.

MugSmasher:

Black women are naturally irritating loud cows that make all manner of noise and cause problems for no just cause either through ceaseless naggings, fightings, quarrels, drama and a host of animalistic things fit for a gender that should be embelished in a zoo.

Its even worse for Nigerian women who are total drama queens that rake, complain, shout, fight, quarrel, nag like biatches tearing their selves out over the silliest of things and its no wonder most men would rather just bleep them and leave them alone by dumping their angry tired saggy breasted backside on the curb due to their stupidity and unbridled anger that cannot be justified.

I see Nigerian women more like a bad traffic jam that arises for no just cause and when you get to the place where the trafic is suppose to occur, you dont see the reason. Thats how horrible and annoying black women can be more especially the silly Nigerian women mostly under 30/35 though.

Very silly daft lot!   

GUY YOU TOO DEY LIE LIE ABEG GO ANSWER YOUR MAMA' SHE DEY CALL YOU, I'M SURE YOU WERE SHOVED INTO A LOCKER BY BULLY GIRLS AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR SEC SCHOOL DAYS

CILondon:

So are you saying ALL women are just a whole load of headache?

No, Ims aying that on this earth, they are the angry ones, the happy ones, the sad ones, the happy go lucky ones. It takes many sorts of people to make up the world

Not angry per se , just

I mean what is there too be proud off?, is it the one that sees nothing wrong in cheating and having mistresses, or the agbaya that lives in the club all year round shouting "bruv bruv innit" (when his mate are working) or the foolish one that got a 2 years student visa but will waste the whole 2 years wearing hoodie standing in front of Nigeria restaurant toasting girls. The ones that are in school are forming gangs and killing themselves. Nothing makes my head "swell" more than to see a black man in a working environment actually working for a living unfortunately there are not many of them.
When my family moved to Thamesmead in the 80's, the place was heaven on earth, very nice , the Nigeria man have come and spoilt the place, it is now known as the fraud capital of London effectively killing the house prices.

Most Nigeria men are useless, i feel for the good girls that will have to pick a husband from the lots, as i say don't limit yourself to black men, broaden your horizon. Misery loves company, let them marry useless black women. If you happen to have a good Nigeria man, hold him tight, treat him well

Probably myth for most black women except some ghetto-raised ones.

It would be more apt to ask "Disrespectful Black Woman - Fact Or Myth?"

@Vanitty, you got a point there.

Sagamite:

Probably myth for most black women except some ghetto-raised ones.

It would be more apt to ask "Disrespectful Black Woman - Fact Or Myth?"

Disrespectful? In what way?
Interesting

Sagamite:

Probably myth for most black women except some ghetto-raised ones.

It would be more apt to ask "Disrespectful Black Woman - Fact Or Myth?"

Yeah . . . that's true.
The ghetto-raised pips are raised to be bitter.

The female ghetto-breeds feel the need to resist racism, sexism and classism. Meaning they practically hate almost everyone.

CILondon:

Disrespectful? In what way?
Interesting 

They talk rudely or demonstrate mannerism that can be categorised so.

Bar Southern African girls, black girls are overwhelmingly most likely the ones that will feel the need not to just turn a guy down but think it is essential they do something to humiliate him whilst doing so.

They think it is essential in the wooing process, not only to play hard to get, but to be rude doing it.

They are likely the ones to have a good chat with a guy today and tomorrow not pick up his call and not return missed calls.

My closest friends have put a complete ban on black girls and would refuse to go to anywhere where the majority of the females are black. I mean complete and absolute ban, it is a no-go. I have not seen them make A MOVE on a black girl in circa 8 years even when I have seen black girls walk across a club to dance in front of them, they just behave like if she does not exist because they have come to the conclusion black girls are full of shite (not my opinion).

As one of them put it to me a few months ago, he said they are the ones most likely to pull up the highest and rudest wall, but lets imagine that is fine. What is more worse is that you climb that wall all for what? . . . . . . .To face their aggression and constant bickering in a relationship because they feel the need to show they are "a strong woman"? Sorry, but I could not defend that point. I STFU when he said that. And these are black professional men black women would find eligible (Banker in Investment Banking and a Manager in a Big 4 Accounting firm, gym guys). Why would they bother when model-like eastern European girls will die for them?

^^your friends simply have the tiger woods syndrome. that's all.

nothing to do with black women's character.


there are far too many black and especially african women who are easygoing to a fault. Should these 'white girl'  black men meet those, they'll still find fault with them over some other thing. They'll say they're too dull or something.

tpia.:

^^your friends simply have the tiger woods syndrome. that's all.

nothing to do with black women's character.


there are far too many black and especially african women who are easygoing to a fault. Should these 'white girl'  black men meet those, they'll still find fault with them over some other thing. They'll say they're too dull or something.

My friends are a bit butta, being that they are not typical Nigerians.

I don't think they have TW syndrome per se, from what I know of them, they just hate stress in life. They just want to be happy and not be arguing. And I must say, they think most black "girls" can not provide that desire. There are some that can, but most just are not mature enough in their interactions in relationships.

Please note my quotation of girls, black women are slightly different. To me, I think black females mostly get there (that maturity) in their early thirties, most of the ones that are under-25 are seriously a joke.

well I'm a black woman & so are most of my female friends ,  and I dont really think black women are angry I think its a myth becos what they really are is Honest

Infact this is perhaps one of the qualites that I like about my black female friends,  better out than in as they say.   
at least we can all laugh about it afterwards. I find my Mediterranean GFs have a similar disposition as well 

I think Black women can be bluntly honest and this can be mistaken for angry

CILondon:

I think Black women can be bluntly honest and this can be mistaken for angry

A girl not picking up calls when she offered the number in the first place and then she starts disturbing the guy with calls when she realises months later that he has dismissed her is not bluntly honest.

A girl not saying just "no" when approached by a guy but needs to put up a disparaging face and demeanor is not bluntly honest.

A girl constantly raising her voice and being militant at the slightest issue is not being bluntly honest.

She is just plainly ill-mannered, immature, disrespectful and very unattractive.

Sagamite:

A girl not picking up calls when she offered the number in the first place and then she starts disturbing the guy with calls when she realises months later that he has dismissed her is not bluntly honest.

A girl not saying just "no" when approached by a guy but needs to put up a disparaging face and demeanor is not bluntly honest.

A girl constantly raising her voice and being militant at the slightest issue is not being bluntly honest.

She is just plainly ill-mannered, immature, disrespectful and very unattractive.

I take it you are referring to some personal experience that happened to you?
Care to share?

Sagamite:

A girl not picking up calls when she offered the number in the first place and then she starts disturbing the guy with calls when she realises months later that he has dismissed her is not bluntly honest.

A girl not saying just "no" when approached by a guy but needs to put up a disparaging face and demeanor is not bluntly honest.

A girl constantly raising her voice and being militant at the slightest issue is not being bluntly honest.

She is just plainly ill-mannered, immature, disrespectful and very unattractive.

Tell them. Some woman out there shouldn't even be talked to talkless of dating. Sadly a lot of you men end up with them anyway.

CILondon:

I take it you are referring to some personal experience that happened to you?
Care to share?

Yep.

Obviously I have had some experiences but normally I tend to be very difficult to annoy because I would be too busy analysing the chic that I would hardly have anytime to take-in the impact. I am quite dismissive of things that offend me as I quickly get something else that engages me.

Let me give an example.

OK, this was about 2 to 3 years ago. I went to have a haircut, so went into a local supermarket to park my car. As I parked, another car was attempting to park next to me. There was a lot of fumbling with the attempt so I guessed it was a chic ^{no disrespect}  . I looked at her face and it was a 9/10, so I sat in my car until she finished parking. I got out of the car and she got out. She was steaming hot. The face was just a teaser, the rest of the package was spectacular. Waist was about 25, hips were spread wide like if it was calling the world from East to West for a UN conference and the front was like 34DD, upon all she was a "umpf" dresser. Not the average girl that wears boring black and dresses down to be inconspicuous, she was very comfortable with her beauty. She was wearing a yellow top with reasonable level of DD cleavage on display, big belt to emphasis a ridiculous waist and the skirt was enough to show nice spotless legs in conjunction with the spotless beautiful face on a dark chocolate skin like Kelly Rowland's. And she walked and carried herself femininely, and was lightly but yet classily accessorized.

So obviously I switched to GAME mode and said "You should have called me to park the car for you, I need to check if you have dented my car so please wait". She laughed and said she did not dent me. So I yabbed her jokingly a bit more and talked about how many reverses she had to make to complete the parking and animatedly told her that my heart was in my mouth thinking my car was done for. She continued laughing, so I asked her where she was from and she said she was Barbadian, I asked how old she was and she said 23, so I put my hands together to motion to the heavens my gratitude to God and told her "Thank God, you are legal", she laughed and asked how old I taught she was, I said cheekily 13, she laughed and said how is she going to be driving a car if she was 13. I just pulled a face and asked her where she was heading, she said she was going to do her nails in the locality and she was in a hurry and started to walk away. So I asked her to wait and asked for her contact details and she said 'No, that she is sorry she cannot give' and she continued walking away. People were there so I gave up.

Went to have my haircut and came back to take my car and to my surprise hers was still parked next to mine. I thought damn this girl is one of the finest girls I have ever seen in my life and she definitely smiled a bit, so I really do not want to regret never seeing her again. But I was not going to sit in my car waiting for no chic as that might be romantic to her but for me it is plain pathetic as I have 101 things to do normally. So I had a light bulb moment when I looked at the only clue I had: She said she was going to do her nails, I figured, there would not be more than 6 nail-designing shops within walking vicinity of that 100 sq metres, so it would be worth giving it a shot just looking if she was still in any of them before I give up. So I walked around and went from street to street looking for any nail-designing shops. Luckily in the second street I checked 150 metres away I saw her head backing the window reading a mag. The shop was packed with women (about 12), no guys and did not offer any service a guy might need. My hair is too low cut to even enquire about making a conrow  . I thought "bugger"! My liver failed me in entering as I visioned the scenario of all heads turning as I entered and straining their ears to hear what I had to say to her. How embarassing when she says 'NO, I already told you NO'.

So stood outside for about 2 mins hoping I can signal her to come outside but she was backing the outside so did not notice. One of the hairstylist saw me and was wondering why I was outside. I thought I really have to leave or do something. I regained my confidence and decided to enter. BAM! Another light bulb moment. 

I entered, all heads turned to look at me, somehow my liver was still functioning, it had not yet suddenly had the fluid dried out of it, so I felt OK. She was the second person by the door and looked up at me and half-smiled, half-giggled. So I smiled and did like if I knew her and told her "Someone has bashed your car and you need to come and have a look". She laughed and said I was pulling her legs that it is not true. Half-giggling, I said I was serious that she should come and see "The dent is big and she would need to replace the car". She laughed and told me she was going to kill me if it was a lie as she would lose her place on the queue. I said fine but I was serious her car was bashed. She came out and after we walked about 30 metres I confessed it was a lie and she started laughing so much and hitting me lightly and jokingly. (I thought "ah-ahn, body contact", game on) 

[Later when I told my 2 friends aforementioned this, they looked at me and said I was crazy. They were asking me where the hell do I get my confidence from]

She said she was thinking of leaving that queue anyway and she was going to another nail shop, so I walked her to the other shop and we started chatting as she was surprised I knew where she went (more than 1 hour after we initially met) in such a big area full of shops. When we got to the other shop in another 3 mins I sat next to her as she got a slot to do her nails straight away and continued the conversation. She was smiling and very conversant and tapped my knee a few times when I cracked her up with light teasing. Gave me her number when I asked and told me to call her there and then so she can have mine. I stayed another 15 minutes chatting and then told her that I needed to go and I would call her later. She smiled and said cool. As I was about to leave the door, she called out and asked for my name again that it slipped her mind.

Called her 2 days later, we chatted for about half an hour and arranged to meet for a date th next weekend. On the day of the date, I went out to buy some nice tops and trousers. On getting home, 3 hours before the date, just parking my car from coming from the mall, I got a text from her saying she is sorry but she has to cancel. Called her, no pick up. Called her twice later that week, no pick up. Called her once a week for the next 2 weeks, no pick up and no response to text message. On the 4th week she picked and asked her what happened and why the rapid change without explanation. She told me she just changed her mind and shouted what is the big deal. 

Upon all my efforts. 

^^^ ouch honey, that has to hurt, but thank God you have me and my exotic self now ehn

Sagamite:

Upon all my efforts. 

I read through it and thought " that is so cute!"

You did go out and showed interest. Good she didn't stand you up the day of!