Wife/women beatin is common in Naija, I doubt these women will ever stand up to these bullies. Most are beaten to submission, even when they see the exit sign they sure won't use it. The wife/women beaters do it out of control, show the woman 'who da man of da house'.  Only a weak man exploits a woman. To all the men and would be wife/women beaters may the devil do a bum job on you in hell. Go fight someone who go fight back, una be COWARDS.

@His_grace, your_grace, your_highness (whatever)
You wan come start your own for here? It's over and done with Karl Ken and me. Besides if na wifey karl ken de look for, am over qualified for the role, I don't cook nor clean. Karl ken is a pensioner if he is truly over seventy years old. I can be a handful, I need a man with an instant erection the moment I walk into the bedroom. If na old man e go take for ever for the tin to rise to the occasion. I no get time for that kan tin.
Meanwhile quit tryin to marry me off to any Tom, Dick, and Harry.
Do remember what the topic on this thread is all about.

@Hannydarl
Phew, glad we got that out the way, thank you.

Get whatever it is that is buggin me out in the open, and take a long walk whilst listening to music. Music really helps to calm me down.

Ooooh la la, I love the French accent.

@ His_grace

Hmmm, coming to London eh, for business or pleasure?

Abeg make you no come dip your mouth for matter wey concern karl ken and N-joy. Show don finish.

@ karl ken
Are you losin sleep over me? I see you are still yappin sweet words about me. You know karl Ken don't get too excited over N-joy, you just might reach an orgasm.
You claim to be an elderly man, but an elderly man should know better than to drag a third party into a row. Like I said this is between you and I, not about your parents or my parents. God bless my parents (and yours) they raised me well, and they taught me to respect my elders. If its true you are an elderly guy you're not just using this to gain my sympathy, I gladly apologize to you. I sure don't want you ending up with a heart attack over N-joy. You are here to n-joy on nairaland. Be happy and don't end up like those grumpy 'ol men, life is too short for that. Have a blessed day.

@karl ken
Glad to see you are bringing yourself down to the gutter where you belong. Am not goin to bring myself down to your level by involving your father. Its between you and I OK. you gave me the HIV+ NOW YOU ARE IN DENIAL. YOU ARE SO ASHAMED FOR ME TO LET EVERYONE ELSE HERE KNOW ABOUT IT. Take heart all will be well,look on the bright side your family still loves you. Oooooh running to hannydarl for support. Does she knows you are a carrier? Thank God for nairaland now everyone knows about you and i. Keep talking  dirrrrty Baby , you know that turns me on. Take my advice and leave this thread with dignity. I know I am. So pleez get a life else where or better still go play with yourself to stop you spreading it all over the place.

@ Hannydarl
Abeg make you no come start fire for here o, have you read my posts at no point did I say my boyfriend is HIV+ and is receiving treatment. I said there are treatment available to prolong their lives. Am on this thread defending HIV+ people. They don't speak for themselves because of the way people react to them.

@ karl ken
Now you're talking, yeah baby keep it coming that's the kind of attitude i was expecting from an educated fool. Now you've gone as far as telling me am HIV+. You couldn't have known that unless you passed it on to me (oops our little secret is out on nairaland). If its advice you're trying to give keep it wrapped round your dick.

Psst, am right here you've been looking in all the wrong places.

We never unite Nigeria na Africa we wan unite, anyway sha no harm in dreaming. Yes I have a dream that one day we shall all be united as one until then i go pray.

Oooooh same here, it's all so true, am speechless

Only dose their mama no born well dey call woman bitch.

True love never ever dies.

I cant speak from experience, but if my man slaps me during a heated argument I sure will walk out on him. It's only a weak man that lashes out at a woman. Nag or no nag no one has the right to slap the other. It's all about control. No be every little thing the man/woman go sey i go slap some sense into head.

Pray for your enemy you can only go to God with a clean heart. Yes your enemy has done you wrong you ask God to forgive them for they know not what they've done.

And what happens when you eradicate religion hmm? Going to church to listen to the word of God is what keeps us going. Good Christians always wanting to do right in the name of our Lord. we need to respect each other religion. And pray they stop using religion as a means to violence.

@Karl ken
You sound like an educated fool, haven't you heard with the treatment they receive now, an HIV person can live as long as you. Pleez go do your HIV research on the net, when you do come back and say something worth saying on the thread, we'll probably stop yawning at your ignorance.

@TV01
You sabi talk, i sey move with the time, gone are de days women were seen and not heard, now we don get voice you dey fear. Women na natural born leaders na we born pikin and na we raise dem with little help from de man. Please make you go read your Bible and make you tell me again why oh why woman no fit lead for church.

We got to move with the time I see nothing wrong attending a church led by a woman. A woman can give just as good as a man.

@his grace
Abortion to me personally is wrong, we live in a world where we now have a choice to have or to abort a baby. We can only pray for those that didn't make it like you and I did.

@karl ken
You bet I would date/marry an HIV person. just you remember your brother/sister could be HIV tomorrow, and its a person like you that shuns them. They are not outcast, so please don't treat them as one.
Have you had an HIV test? if not say no more till you have.

@karl ken
You are definitely going to the wrong church preaching to people about not marrying an HIV person. God's real preacher will teach you to open your arms to your fellow men/women no matter what the situation is. Yes you can live and love an HIV person even though you're negative. If you are well educated about it you'll know the do's and don't about handling yourself. There are so many successful stories about an HIV positive and negative couple making a go of their relationship. There are lot of people out there who are HIV positive, you won't know unless they tell you. But who is willing to say they are HIV positive, a lot of people are too scared to find out if they are a carrier or not.

Only a man can answer that question, they know why they lie. I do know most are compulsive liars. No matter what they say, they will always end up lying. You can slap them with the truth they will still lie.

I'd marry a man who already has a child, child or no child it makes no difference it's love that counts. Even if de pikin na real brat.