₦airaland Forum

Jayjobs:
I am a waec holder, almost 40 and a business man. I am looking for a good country to japa Naija don taya me.
I am looking for a country with easy PR process so I can take my family along in no distant time. I don't mind learning new language

Since you only got an o'level cert. Your best bet is to go using a student visa to Europe, maybe Poland. You can also try work visa to European country and come back for your family later

Canada and Australia is a good country but 10M can't take you and your family there. Couple to the fact that you don't have a degree.

kennethfranc:
I suggest u break it down to an extent Sha ... Am within Nsukka town

I have the plan of going into broiler. day old, feed them to six weeks and sale off. In this period of time it should have attend up-to 2.5kg in weight.
After the first round, I will increase the number. Still breed them to six weeks and sale. By this time, it will be three months. I will return the capital and profit to the investor. And continue with whatever is left for me. And if the investor is ready to continue with me, then we renegotiate The ROI and period.

Am actually from Ede oballa, Nsukka

denobaba:
Where are you based? Provide a bit more information about yourself and the challenges you talked about.

I am based in nsukka, enugu State. The challenge I faced was when I was abducted by evil people on 10th February 2020. I was able to escape by the grace of God. After being rescued, I had some psychological issues that I was unable to sleep for 3months. All of my investments were lost when I was visiting hospitals and therapists. Story long, but I thank God for life.

So, now I want to start the poultry again. To start life back.

Should I break down my plan for the poultry business?

I have been doing the business before, but I was faced with life challenges. Now, I have prepared my farm back. I only need some funds to kickoff.

I will return ₦60,000 in three months. And every dealings with you will be documented.

I have already registered my farm with the CAC.

This will be the best Christmas gift to me.

youngbelieve:
You will return 60k in 3months Bro thats a bit poor nau

If the money will stay Longer than 3 months, then I will return more since production must have been increased.

I have been doing the business before, but I was faced with life challenges. Now, I have prepared my farm back. I only need some funds to kickoff.

I will return ₦60,000 in three months. And every dealings with you will be documented.

I have already registered my farm with the CAC.

This will be the best Christmas gift to me.

We also don't have any kind of scarcity here in enugu, just goods prices going up.

I pray that a Time will come when we will have the price of things going down instead of going up in festive seasons.

UK has great opportunities and rewards hardworking people. Just link up with someone over there, so he can give you a first hand and honest gist of how things work there.


Since you and your wife are good with the idea of moving. Just move, have an open mind to have a new life experience. Don't get emotionally attached to your present job and your farm. Rather have a good investment here.
Move....

Chikispilot:
Hi everyone, sorry for disturbing you
I am a newly admitted student, and From the look of things if I do not look for something tangible to do, I think am gonna be a school drop out before 300 level, so please I have 100k with me right now pls where should I invest this money so that it will yield something positive to support my studies and maybe daily expenses

Invest it in a good tech skill if you can be patient. You can also start a blog. you will be earning not less than $100monthly in 5months time and up-to $400 in one year time
Information marketing and affiliate marketing is OK. You start earning faster but you need a mentor.


If you go to anything related to forex you are on your own.

Goodlyhrt:
The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.

My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.

The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.

This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.

Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.

Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.

My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.

My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.

The story is long I'd have to stop here.

Sorry for your uncle.
Have your uncle tried local solutions

Someone should please drag me to court

I for like do this work but I dey far from Lagos.

This pictures where not taken in Nigeria

Tottenham:
I really appreciate your taking your time to give me a piece of wisdom. I'll definitely take your advice

You are welcome.

eight months ego. A girl message me that she is totally tired of life, and she wants to commit suicide. She was damn serious because her father is dead and her mother is poor. She finished OND in a one polytechnic like that but couldn't further to HND as there were no funds available and her sponsor has all ran away. I had to call her and explained to her that she is even lucky to have finished her OND successfully. I advised her to look for job anywhere to hold herself. She luckily found a job. I can tell you that yesterday she sent money to me to give to her mum to buy Christmas stuff and clothes for her siblings.
Now, you can see how God changes situations from point of suicide to becoming a working lady that sends money to her people.

So, just be patient and focused. You will laugh at last.

Beautiful wedding..






Please, how can I move to Canada with ₦5000

Tottenham:
Firstly I'm not an atheist so please nobody should judge me through that lens.
I'm writing with a really heavy heart I'm totally down and down casted. I'm not moving forward in life I'm just stuck. Even worse around May this year I had a terrible pain on my leg and up till now, the pain have refused to go away ( I'm an aspiring footballer so I can't play football for now) . I believe God can do all things, but whenever I pray he doesn't answer, I'm just tired and frustrated, I've even begged God to make a way for me because I don't want to involve myself in any social vices, yet the status quo still remain,

I don't even know what to do again I'm gradually losing my faith and I don't think I can hold on for long if things continues like this...I just need advice from people who have likely been through worse situations. I need external encouragement because mine is failing me.

Does it mean God doesn't see everything I'm going through in other for him to step in, despite my tears, pleas and Prayers

bros you need to drink cold water and calm down. Your hope as a believer is in Christ and not in what you can become physically.
See, God did not forget you and cannot forget you. You are just passing through life challenges. It's very much normal to be frustrated sometimes, but it will be very wrong to dwell in frustration.
Keep on trying. For you to write this means and that you are still on the right path.

Look for any skill to learn in order to keep yourself engaged, it may be an online skill; since u have a phone or learn any good physical skill. Also, try to look inward and check what you can do very well; apart from football. Start learning how to develop it.
BE HAPPY AND STAY SAFE

Englandboy:
I will be very short on this one and I really need help.i am 29yrs of age and I have no relationship at hand please don't mind my way of my writing.
I have been having this erectile dysfunction issue since I was 17 I was been influence to it by a friend on how to watch porn and masturbate as a teen, now am 29 but I have stop masturbating since I was 20yrs my penis has reduce in shape for the past years i have been to different hospital and herbal places but still no solution after taking so many drugs and herbs.
My problem is that I don't have sexual feeling nd have lost my erection if I force my self to have an erection by thinking of sex I will feel some slight headache from the brain like shock and watering discharge of semen will drop to my undies.
I have lost my morning erection sometimes I do have half erection in the morning when I wake up , at times I do have wet dreams in the night I will ejaculate in my undies plenty of watery discharge of semen In my undies that will make my body to be weak all through the day. It really affecting my life am depress am the only son of my mum out of four girls and am the first son
My mum is on me she is telling me to get married but I just don't know how to tell her , I know her very well she can shed tears over a little thing if I tell her it will make her to be down and depressed. Thank you Please I need ur advice

Your mind is doing a great harm to you. You need urgent therapist attention. Look for a good therapist/psychologist .
Start excising or maybe join a gym club. Get a girlfriend asap.

They should be allowed to live their life to the fullest, do whatever they want, besides, no one will get out if the earth alive.

They think tall guys have tall preeks. Which is not always true.
They think tall guys can protect them the more.

caspee:
Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

I truly understand what you are going through because am also an introvert. One horrible thing is that I sometimes cutoff from friends, even when there was no issues between us. And later I will be looking for their attention.

One thing that has been saving me is that people like me, but I find it difficult to open up myself for them. I only crack jokes, we laugh and that's all.


So, I will advise you to always go out to event places...
If you like computer or playing instruments. Go find a place to learn it. From there you can socialize with people there.
Don't look for a girlfriend rather try to make platonic friends. Just normal female friends that you can ask questions, discuss some certain topics with. You can archive this by looking for a girl that sales something you buy regularly. Always go to her shop or office, ask her about a common topic or about the hardship in the country.


You need to travel very often. When you see any amount of money in your hand that can take you to a city or a town. Enter buss, and travel to a place, just to learn about the place, ask questions about the place and visit restaurants there. Talk to strangers more.

Remember, you are the only one that can make yourself happy, so do the things that excites you.

Well deserved

adebayo10977:
Haaaaaaaaa!!!!
Iwo omo Yi..
Go and ask your parents about how you were produced?

Is sex only for reproduction

KefeeBRIGHT91:
...why do you eat?

Well, I eat to satisfy my hunger. But people and society don't see sex as something you have the freedom to do whenever you feel like.

Like, why do we even have sex in the first place?
There are some beliefs that sex is bad, some even confuse us with some kind of meaning of sex.

So I need an Honest answer to why we have sex.

Mynd44,
Lalasticlala