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Family › Re: Submission In A Marriage: Women, Why The Resistance? by no1madman(m): 6:04pm On Jul 26, 2010 |
mutter: I am really kind of spoilt and like to get my own way, that`s why I submit to my husband totally. Submission is the most powerful weapon a woman has against a man. Submission more or less means, "his will be done", "his wish is my command". Very simple just get your wish and will to be that of your husband and it will be done. How easy it is to get a man to do what you want, when you let him take all the decisions. When you show a man love and respect, he would always try to please you. I can get anything from my husband. I know how to ask, when and how long I have to ask. If need be I go down on my knees and beg. I never do anything without his approval and permission, I never say no to his wish. When you have a good husband that is no problem at all. My husband is like my father, mother, brother, sister, best friend, lover, all in one. A part of me. The only person on earth that takes a decision and I trust fully that it is my best interest. I not only submit to him, I virtually worship him, if it is allowed to use this word for a human. He is my pride, my dignity, my hold and my comfort. In the past he has taken some decisions, that were different from my wishes, but they always turned out to be the right ones. In the past he sometimes gave me the go ahead but advised me it was a wrong move, I still went on with it, only to realise he was right. then I have to go back to him to sort out the mess, even if it is only lending a consoling ear. Now when he starts with his, you can , but I don`t think it would work out. I just drop the idea immediately. Because he would be right in the end and he is the one to iron out the mistake for me or together with me. I think another aspect of submission is being able to prevent disagreements, quarrels and heated arguments. the easiest way to do this, is with simple words like sorry and please forgive me. It works wonders. We have never had a serious problem in our marriage because we both know how to make use of those words. Later when the heat is over one can talk rationally about the situation ur sense too much!HMMM WISDOM! |
Food › Re: What Are You Eating/drinking Right Now? by no1madman(m): 10:05am On Jul 26, 2010 |
something |
Romance › Re: I Can't Control Myself by no1madman(m): 9:57am On Jul 26, 2010 |
papa190: ^^ The 11th epistle of #1madman hahaha! |
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Romance › Re: I Can't Control Myself by no1madman(m): 9:35am On Jul 26, 2010 |
submit urself 2 God. .Resist d devil,and he'll run away from u. |
Family › Re: A man who impregnated his 12-year-old daughter. by no1madman(m): 1:32pm On Jul 24, 2010 |
so disgusting! i feel like throwing up. |
Family › Re: A man who impregnated his 12-year-old daughter. by no1madman(m): 1:27pm On Jul 24, 2010 |
chei!dis one pass madness. .i thought only white people do such things. .D fool deserves life imprisonment with extreme hard labour. |
Romance › Re: jm by no1madman(m): 4:07pm On Jul 18, 2010 |
hahah!DAT special style weh she give u,no want comot 4 ur memory. u can start by changing ur number. . |
Culture › Re: How Do You Define A Nigerian? by no1madman(m): 1:11am On Jul 17, 2010 |
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Culture › Re: How Do You Define A Nigerian? by no1madman(m): 1:08am On Jul 17, 2010 |
SIMPLE--He's American by birth/Nigerian descent. |
Family › Re: Dad's Renting Late Uncle's House by no1madman(m): 12:34am On Jul 17, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Oboy See Mi Si Wahala What Sort Of Life Is This by no1madman(m): 4:05pm On Jul 14, 2010 |
ur game no tight. |
Family › Re: I Want To Name My Next Child "fabregas"! Please, What's Your Honest Opinion? by no1madman(m): 4:03pm On Jul 14, 2010 |
What about fabulous ? |
Family › Re: Baby Sienna's First Birthday Party! by no1madman(m): 3:58pm On Jul 14, 2010 |
tpiah: congrats.
this your baby resemble oyinbo nah.
pretty name, too. wetin!d papa na oyinbo too na!very fair! it's normal,d baby complexion might change later. |
Family › Re: Baby Sienna's First Birthday Party! by no1madman(m): 3:43pm On Jul 14, 2010 |
Congratulations Papa Oghene. .May God's blessings be with u and your family. |
Family › Re: 'killer Mum Spun Kid In Washing Machine' by no1madman(m): 3:36pm On Jul 14, 2010 |
^^yeah!i call it "d ultimate sin"some even strangled their babies and dumped them in d dustbins/freezer. These people cannot handle stress which eventually causes depression,fear, alcohol and drug abuse . |
Food › Re: What Are You Eating/drinking Right Now? by no1madman(m): 10:35am On Jul 13, 2010 |
paul the octopus. |
Romance › Re: Help ! : A Married Woman Wont Let Me Be. by no1madman(m): 6:59pm On Jul 09, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Help ! : A Married Woman Wont Let Me Be. by no1madman(m): 6:30pm On Jul 09, 2010 |
bug24: that magun is what av been thinking in my mind. that these kinda guy who knows he's got a pweety wife and leaves her to go to rig, sure he's hasnt made her walk over broom stick? and the guy come be yoruba man again.
Guyz, i don try run but she no dey gree me o. her calls keep coming. my only problem is that i dont like it when my friends become my enemies, i fear this will be the case if i have to force her to step back.
i never bleep her o. and even when i tried she didnt oblige, this keeps me wondering.,, WHAT DOES SHE REALLY WANT? u even tried to!where's your principle?tell her it's wrong b4 God and man. .be a man!be strong! infidelity is sadly a common issue in our society. .violation of marriage vows cuts deeply. .just know say,all these things get spiritual consequences. .it's all about wisdom. .Allow d man to enjoy his wife so dat u go enjoy your own too. i know d woman has issues in her marriage. .she's emotionally down,not happy,but it's wise to let her go. .simply move on. |
Romance › Re: Help ! : A Married Woman Wont Let Me Be. by no1madman(m): 12:32am On Jul 09, 2010 |
bug24: She's very young and beautiful, every man's dream. We got so very close and she started visiting me. av fondled her already several time and nearly had sex with her but within me i felt something was wrong somwhere, i went to make equiries and i was told she's married with two kids to her credit.
We stay in the same street and she loves me like say tomoro no go come. Av been looking for ways to run away from her but she keeps visiting everytime, guyz, her husband is quite rich and i fear dem fit wan use money spoil my life if the guy discover.
abeg make una rescue me o, i no go lie, i fell in love with her before i discovered she was married and i was so mad at her for not tellin me who she was. God go send u 2 purgatory 4 sucking another man's wife bosom,kissing,finger-bleeping and general romance. |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Gurls Are At War Against Us Men! by no1madman(m): 2:56pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
d bigrod: [size=15pt][color=#000099]{cuts off no1madman`s small di, ck} No try me o!if i put am 4 ur nyansh,u go hear ween. . note:i got no time 2 fight women. |
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Celebrities › Re: No Vacancy In My Heart For Ugly Guys – Jumoke by no1madman(m): 2:33pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
who he he? |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Gurls Are At War Against Us Men! by no1madman(m): 2:13pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
i would rather use my di. .ck 2 fight. .anybody weh make me vex,i go nack am. |
Properties › Re: Houses For Sale @ Victoria Island by no1madman(m): 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
Gone. |
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Family › Re: Betrayed By : by no1madman(m): 4:45pm On Jul 01, 2010 |
IyaBasira: Are you sure about that? It seems to me that its when they were married 2 years that you can trust your wife completely and let her transfer to wherever in the world without being worried. But 2 months? I have always been told that the beginning of a marriage is very exciting but also very fragile, and its at this point that I would ask why you let her stay so far away. I think the first few months are extremely crucial. Obviously I cannot blame the poster because an indisciplined person will always be an indisciplined person wherever he/she is. But as of yet , we don't know if she actually CHEATED on him. All I saw was that her head was on his lap. Maybe she was lying on the couch and her head was on his lap . . . .I think he might be overreacting a bit. Or maybe I don't fully understand the situation. laps indeed!wetin her head dey do 4 another man's laps!when did laps turn 2 pillow? |
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Romance › Re: Would You Date A Guy Without A Car? by no1madman(m): 8:51pm On Jun 30, 2010 |
Material girls!in my opinion,i expect a good girl 2 appreciate me 4 who i am,instead of what i have 2 offer. |
Family › Re: My Husband Or My Figure? by no1madman(m): 2:15pm On Jun 28, 2010 |
Hahahahahah!Breast enlargement indeed! Artificial Breast! hahahahaha!yeye!stupidity!u go hear ween when time reach. |