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Gbegirisoup2:
Meaning what. Tobi is still very much around in the entertainment space. He's been getting lot of endorsements. Well I know you are a Titan or whatever you guys call yourselves in your secret groups. But don't be too envious of other people's success. These people don't even care about you.

They don't care about you too. They don't even know you exit. Why are you so pained when you really don't know what I meant.
Imagine associating me with what I don't know, I only meant he styled Alex and Tobi when they were going everywhere as a couple but now they no longer do that.
And you are ranting about Tobi's endorsement. Like it's you and him that share the money.
If you like rant from now till tomorrow, you will never get a dime from that endorsement money.

I have always mind my business since I joined this forum because I don't want any trouble. But vile people like you will still want to drag me to unnecessary drama.

He styled Alex and Tobi too. Where are they today.

subtlemee:
If I was one of the baby mamas I'll be feeling low

I swear

But what are all the daura's doing in the Villa anyways.

After one kid she would change trust me. I was like that at first.

olabrinks:
This is what i'm planning to cook tomorrow.
My pregnant body has been craving this since. Looks Yummyyyy

Thanks dear

FuckHomophobes:
This is appetizingly appetizing

Thanks

Yam porridge

Eyah I knew it

Hauwa my igala sister, please if you are reading this comment never you marry this guy. I'm sorry Op this is the best advice for her.

Hauwa will have a hard time if she decides to marry you, because your mom will be controlling your home from wherever she is.

Op you are a mummy's boy and one day you will be forced to leave Hauwa and take your mum's side.

Anytime you do something wrong, your mum will blame it on Hauwa. It may even turn spiritual las Las.

Please Mr poster if you really love Hauwa, let her go. Save her the trouble, your mom will never accept her no matter how hard she try to be a good daughter in-law. Even your siblings will soon join your mum to fight Hauwa.

Please ladies if you are entering a family that do not like you, do not force it, run for your dear life.
Never ever think they will grow to like you one-day. some may even pretend to like you at first and become something else once you are finally married. So please if you sense any form of rejection just run away.

I'm talking from experience.

SLAP44:
We are fabricating stories on the first page, did you believe the first story up there?

Thank God na fabrication, but even if you are fabricating make it a little believable.

SLAP44:


Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

What!! Couldn't she send her out quietly? I swear if it was me, I would have gotten her arrested for assault. How dare she break bottle on her head just because of her language. Why not just say no, and your brother was just looking. What if she had killed her.

I can't believe this story.

GrabHisBalls:
It's Khafi.

He changed the photo

Wow

But you are showing us avala

Why do some men stop their wife from putting on trousers after marriage?
A man will meet a lady that always put on trousers, and he will be OK with it, infact he would love it on her. But immediately after marriage he doesn't want it anymore and he will still be eyeing girls that are wearing trousers outside.
What really is the problem guys?

So the husband will not through her out again, because she brought a baby from God knows where. A baby he never impregnated her for.

Biglittlelois:
I am yet to see any male here insult the fvcking cesspit, diick hopping, STD carrying, mistake of a man, had it been it was the wife cheating, they will all be foaming in the mouth, with fire in their eyes(if we can actually see them) raining all manner of gutter languages on the woman, and still claim men is only allowed to cheat, bunch of retarded schmucks, nonsense.

As for you Op, you are a relative right? All of you in his family that knows, did it ever click in your brain to talk to the stupid man to stop cheating on her? Can't you all have family meeting, sit the dolt down and talk sense into his empty brain? What if the dingbat give her HIV, HPV and all manner of diseases, una nor dey think ni? Or are you guys scared of the mofo ni? I can't say he is feeding y"all cos the asshole collects money from his wife, and you're looking for a way to reveal it to her smh, Let me tell you, she knows, even illiterates knows Facebook exist so don't kid yourself,

So, it's either she's bidding her time to strike at a perfectly unexpected time, or she choose to stupidly stay cos of the kids, or she's trying to save enough, then leave to where he can never find them, but make no mistake dude, she knows.

It's a man's world my dear. I'm afraid those closer to him are happy about his cheating ways.
And as for her leaving, she is never gonna do that. You know how this traditional women can be.
And what if you try to help her and she calls you the home wrecker. She is someone that always takes her husband's side to make him love her.

Donald3d:
Well, you are right. That's why I said her "upgrade" might still not work.
Many people get married thinking they can "handle it" then they later discover that they want something more. Oga wanted to marry a good, timid geh, now he is ashamed of her, because she is not slaying.

Has he even attempted to help her "slay". The thing is its almost impossible to fix a relationship where one partner is not fully committed.

The thing is, people who would cheat would cheat, some people marry beauty queens that slay more than slay queens and still cheat.
The problem ? Their moral/value system, and lack of contentment and commitment.

People nowadays do not understand why they get married, they don't deeply understand the sacredness of marriage, they don't understand the FACT that marriage is letting go off your selfish and guilty pleasures just to fixate your eyes on your spouse alone, they are not contented. They want everything. This reminds me of the 80/20 rule (From the movie Why Did I Get Married- you should see all the parts, so much to learn !).

But again, I don't blame some men, its a foundational problem, parents spend all their time training the female folk to be prepared for marriage, teach them how to cook, respect and care for their home, and they neglect the very males their daughters and other people's daughters would get married to, making statements like "he is a man, he would marry a woman, leave him alone", whenever he makes errors that need to be corrected.

I have being doing this "research" on men/guys/boys. This care-free attitude and propensity to cheat is as a result of parent's negligence in inculcating values and the need to be accountable and treat people around them with respect.Men from a very little age are made to think they are boys and they can do anything they like and get away with it. That's how boys do . They become care-free at a little age and as expected transfer it into their adult lives by being philanders, as long as it pleases them, they do not care how the other party feels. Its the same reason for other things like domestic and emotional violence, its the same reason why many Nigerian men would NEVER help their wives with domestic chores. They can do as they like, its ingrained in their psyche .


Am I saying women don't cheat or misbehave too ?, they do, but most don't with the impunity with which men do.

Some guys make the fallacious assumptions that they can lay with as many women as they want simultaneously before getting married, and remain faithful to their wives when they eventually do get married. Sorry to burst your bubble bro, its almost impossible. Learn to keep your "johnny" in your pants, learn self control.Self control practiced before marriage, becomes very easy to execute when married.

Today, its Funke, tomorrow Chidinma, next tomorrow its Hauwa , most guys lose count of how many people they have slept with before they turn 25 .How then do you remain faithful when you get married. Its HARD . You have learnt to think with your "johnny" instead of with your head overtime. We have a problem on our hands. Parents need to do better.

I know I may have deviated from the subject matter, but I just felt that it was important for me to dissect this.....

I don dey talk too much, the thing dey pepper me for body, but make I .....

Lol you are so right. With the men are polygamous in nature tale, look were we are today. And of course parents never care about the male child. You will be hearing words like, he is a boy so let him do what ever he likes.

egopersonified:
Even if the wife isnt aware and you tell her, it won't change anything. Seems the side chick thinks she is the main chick, I recommend opening a new face book account and tell the side chick, with pictures of his family.

She knows he is married and with kids too. she just doesn't care because he is crazy about her.

Donald3d:
There is no justification for cheating, but she should also "upgrade" and "slay". I am not justifying the man's actions, but many married women get too relaxed, whether you are educated or not, look good for your husband, wear bum shorts around the house .

Many Nigerian women always go from hot looking divas to wrapper tying, dull-looking, women . They get too relaxed and complacent. This goes for men as well. Be in shape for your spouse, look good, smell nice even if you are more than 50 years old. Don't stop looking and smelling appealing.

Since she wants to keep her marriage, she should make some personal "upgrade". There is still no guarantee however that he would change, but she should give it a shot.

But what stopped him from marrying a slay mama. She has always been timid and all

donstan18:
Who exactly are you to the family to know this much about them?

I don't want to blow my cover because the guy living with them may be here but we are related.

SageMK:
He neglect, abuse and maltreat her yet she's still by his side. Why because each time she look at her hand, the ring adoring her finger take away all her pain. So even with an indisputable proof of his infidelity, that woman will want to side with him and you'll be the villain. Tread carefully.

Yeah like you know this woman. She always want to be in her husband's good books that is why I want to do it anonymously.

Donald3d:
She probably already knows. She just chose to feign ignorance, the classic Nigerian woman's tale of " he would change", "I am here for my children", "what more can I do" .

Most times any man/woman who is bold enough to inflict physical injury/violence continuously on their spouse without any form of remorse, is also cheating/inflicting emotional injury without remorse(ladies take note of this).

This man has gotten the point where I call point of no return.Anybody who can cheat without remorse(publicly), can kill you if given the chance.

The real question is, if you tell her, what happens next ?

As I always say, its better to treat the root cause of problems than treating the symptoms of the problem.
Oga has no respect for her, simple. So she has to gain some back.
I usually do not encourage divorce, but I would gladly back it when physical violence comes into play, what if she falls and die one day ?

Since you are educated you can help her.
1. I am glad she has something doing already. She should start saving massively.
2. Help her get a lawyer, save all these Facebook posts(screenshot them), have recordings if you can audio/video evidence of all his misbehavior.Get neighbors and people who care about her to testify in court against him.
3. She should file for divorce, for Oga to still be collecting money from her, that means she is not doing badly in business and she can stand on her own with her kids. Let him go and be with his side chick, since he wants her so much that he shamelessly brought her to their matrimonial home !.

I am not encouraging cheating, but when a partner cheats without remorse and does not even attempt to hide it, they are telling you to your face that you are irrelevant in the equation.So do them a favor by taking yourself out of the equation.

People should stop getting married if they can't be faithful to their partners, its nauseating ! .

Yeah she is this typical traditional woman. She always say she will be there for her kids so divorce is out of the picture.
And the man will be very happy if she ask for divorce because he is ashamed of her. He prefers his side chick with all the slay qualities.

donstan18:
From what you've said, it's impossible for the wife not be aware of her husband's cheating activities.

No go do pass yourself.

Believe me she doesn't know. She suspects him but she really doesn't know anything about this lady. And when ever he comes back late he attacks her first, with words like why didn't you open the door quickly or you thought I went to see another woman. He attacks before she attacks

Hi guys
There is this couple I know, actually we are related. The man has been cheating on his wife for years now and openly too.

The wife is not educated, so she is not on facebook, her husband do post pictures of his side chick on facebook and the lady always do same too with heartbreaking captions. They are all lovey dovy on facebook so most of the relatives knows about the affair.

One of the man's close relative lives with him and he also know about the lady, infact the dude do also post this lady's pictures on facebook, to the extent he calls her their wife. While he insult's the main wife at home, he also calls her an illiterate.
He doesn't respect the woman at all.

The poor woman sells some things in the market and her husband will collect her money to take care of his side chick 's extravagant lifestyle. He always celebrate her birthday with big parties but he has never celebrated any of his children's birthday. They have two children .

This man keeps late nights, and sometimes lie to his wife that he has some work outside the state but he will go to stay at his girlfriend's place (he rented the place for her) .

He hits his wife and go about to brag about it .he once slapt his wife in the presence of her friend. He has also done same in his family compound. The funny thing is that he is the one telling people not his wife.

I can't type all the terrible things this man has done. But the matter at hand now is that he cheats on his wife openly. Everyone knows about it even their neighbors, he do bring his side chick home when his wife traveled.
He packed all his kids and wife's stuff and hide them in the store. His relative staying with him do tell on him but not to his wife though.

Now everyone looks at her like a fool and the illiterate that she is. he abandoned her at the hospital to go be with his girl when she had their last child and she even lost the baby.

Now who will tell this woman what her husband is doing. The insult and humiliation. Should I use an unknown number to tell her or should I keep quite. No one is saying anything. They are all looking at her with pity and they can not help her.

Ojiofor:
Suddenly Fulani herdsmen have stopped their killing madness even HelRufai is now showing kindness to christians.Wonder shall never end.

Seriously I'm surprised at this comment. Shouldn't we be happy, were you praying for it not to stop? What is it you really want.

Prestonn:
Fried or cooked? Sweet and looks delicious

Thanks, It is fried.

Sweet potato