od501:


You made a good point there. But I can recognise abusive words when I hear them, and BIG HEAD is never one of them. And yes, I agree with you when you said it depends on how we were raised. And I will boldly tell you that no amount of harsh, derogatory words can weight us down.

I'm even the softest in term of teasing people, my sisters will tease you to depression if you dare go toll that path, and it has been like that since then we were kids. That's how you train emotionally strong kids, not some bread and butter emotionally volatile humans that always run to papa every time they feel hurt, a male for that matter!

I won't tolerate such wimpy attitude in my bloodline especially from a male child. It's a sign of weakness. And God forbid I breed weak 'men' from my loins.

The society is sick. Words such as Big Head looks so normal in a sick society. Even 'You dey craze?" Is acceptable. There are countries where such words 'Big Head' could get someone arrested.

Building your kids harshly, using hard words doesn't make them strong men. It makes them bad leaders with poor human relations and a very unhealthy look at life generally.

To build strong men, build character. For emotional strength, let them understand the dynamics of communication, and the resason why people talk the way they do. They would learn to listen to the unheard words behind every sound.

Additionally, strong emotions are not built by harsh words but by training through diverse situations and circumstances. Words are not the only things that would threaten the emotions of a man in life. So, harsh words wouldn't make them emotionally strong. Good understanding coupled with good training for effective communication and leadership would do the trick.

Mariamoh:
Ignoramus go and read about d life and death of d prophet (SAW)
U realize he died carrying all d burden DT deaths has 4 us believers

Which prophet are you talking about? Mohammed? He isn't a prophet.

Tell me one of his prophecies. You've been deceived my brother.

Mariamoh:
What a pity! Who told u he died from poison? Ur assertions re baseless and out of context. U tink d Qur'an z like Bible where u can interpret from ur own perception abi.oshe!

He died from poison. Ask your scholars. I'm not ignorant about Islam, its teachings as well as its history.

od501:



"Killing a child's self esteem..?" By just calling him a big head?

Omoh...I wonder the kind of generation we will be building in the next 15-20 years from now. So...teasing a child with big head is now a way of killing the self esteem to the extent it will make them a failure in life. Menh...

So those of us that our parents even bribed the teacher to flog us extra cain if we misbehave, we are all dead abi? Or we are all now psychopaths with delusional mind set?

Na over sabi go kee us for this country. This is how we breed weak men without even knowing it.

I think it depends on how you were brought up. Yes, the child was hurt, that's why he reported to her father. The teacher knew what she was doing, that's why she denied; telling the father she says so to all her students.

There are parents who reprimand their kids with words such as "are you crazy?", "You're mad", "Why are you so dumb?", etc. To such kids, a word such as big head wouldn't matter. You can't say that to my children, they'll take offence immediately because we never use vulgar languages in reprimanding them.

The best way to reprimand a child is to spank him when he needs to be spanked. Advice him when he needs to be advised. Threaten him when he needs to be threatened. And raise a Stern voice against him when his offences call for it. Calling a child names is a very unhealthy practice for bringing up wholesome kids.

And if you would tease a child, do so in a friendly atmosphere with generally acceptable words.

od501:


Let me get it straight, soo... cos your child was called a big head by the teacher "his elder", you went ahead to embarrass the teacher in front of the child. You did all these just to massage the boy's ego and prove to him you are a caring parents, to the detriment of the teacher’s integrity.

And to worsen the situation, you are even proud of your action. You think it is easy? Why did you bring him to the school? You should have home-schooled him yourself, at least no nobody will get the chance to call him big head.

Oga...u no try oo..
This is how we end up raising scallywags, turn around and claim they are just being bold. All this out over sabi is not helping oo...that's why we see different shii happening in our society today. things that normally won't date happen 20 years back. You no try sir. You no try at all..

The guy did the right thing. If the teacher can't act professionally in front of his students, he should be disgraced in front of them. This is a teacher that would be immediately sacked if her action gets to the ears of business minded school owners.

Killing a child's self esteem is a sure way of setting him up for failure in life.

chatinent:

It depends on the project, the requirements, and deadline.

Tell me about yours.

I want to be bringing you regular jobs.

chatinent:
So sad.

I hope this is not another case of #TherRichAlwaysWin.

How much do you charge for undergraduate and graduate research projects?

jimter44:
Who is even hearing of deeper life school case.

The matter is still in court. School principal, teacher and House masters are currently in prison custody. The boys too have been incarcerated.

lalasticlala:
Dowen College: They told my son to describe his sister’s private part, says late Sylvester Oromoni’s father



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/dowen-college-they-told-my-son-to-describe-his-sisters-private-part-says-late-sylvester-oromonis-father/%3famp

The facts are very clear that indeed the crime was committed. The battered body of the boy bears its own testimony. We all play football, and we know that no football injury would leave a small boy with tattared lips, broken hips and an unmovable body in one game play.

The wickedness of the school authority in covering the crime is very appalling. May they reap what they've sown. Their kids would be battered and justice would be denied.

We need to hear from the said guardian too. The testimony of the school and the boy's parents concerning the position of the guardian are in conflict. The guardian should come out and clarify the matter.

Justice must be served. The murderers and their parents if found guilty should be brought to book.

Rip young lad.

#Justice4Sylvester

Mariamoh:
Ur ignorance abt Islamic stinks
Stop displaying in d public save ur d shame

What more is there to know about a prophet who killed people and commanded his followers to do the same. A man who plagiarised the Bible to write his demonic quoran. What else has Islam given to the world other than violence?

Did Mohammed not tell you that if his Aorta was cut off, then he's not a true prophet? Now, why do you keep calling him a prophet?

The Quran says,

"And if he (Muhammad SAW) had forged a false saying concerning Us (Allah), We surely should have seized him by his right hand (or with power and might), And then certainly should have cut off his life artery (Aorta)"(Quran 69:44-46, Muhsin Khan)

Sometime after Muhammad ate poisoned meat and was dying. Then, he exclaimed:

"….Narrated ‘Aisha: The Prophet in his ailment in which he died, used to say, “O ‘Aisha! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison.” (Sahih Bukhari 5:59:713)

FlipModeSquade:
Are you trying to imply that 15 year olds have not been carrying out heinous crimes?

Since the dawn of mankind?

Whether you expect it or not is immaterial..

The fact is that it has been happening..

And it didn't start today..

You have a right to believe in whatever deity you like..

Just like the Buddhist, going muslims,Sango and Amadioha worshippers..

If you are that wise as you claim to be..

And not blinded by your religious cloak..

You would have known that you and your religion ain't special..

Heck,there are millions ready to kill and be killed for their deity..

What makes you think your convictions are special?

Forget the issue of 15yr olds. It was a mere example. Many evils are going on in our world today which were never seen in time past. I can't remember every news I've heard to start listing them here.

What about marriages to toys. You deliberately avoided any talk about that.

Now, I'm not practising religion. All religions are man-made. Jesus didn't bring religion. He brought salvation and a way to walk with God. The devil turned that into religion for many. They bear Christian names and go to church. Yet they do not know Jesus. Neither does Jesus know them.

When we're talking about Jesus, forget religion. That's where the millions of people in the world have been misled. Jesus is Saviour. There's no power in this world that can withstand His name. He's the only one who'll return to judge the world and put an end to wickedness.

The devil knows his end but he deceives all mankind to practice religion thinking it would bring them salvation. No one is saved by being a Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, Taoist, Marxist, etc. A personal encounter with Christ is all that matters. Many pastors and bishops would be found in hell because they were religious without knowing Christ.

Religion kills. Only Jesus saves.

HelloWriter:
But, how come the boy mentioned some names? If he didn't mention those names, how did his brother at home know such names exist at Dowen? Let's wait for a possible counter-statement from the Oromoni family before we can tell who is telling the truth or not. Sometimes, certain dirty practices may be going on among students unknown to the school managers.

Another question is 'how come his lips were so bruised?' The school cleverly avoided any reference to the bruised lips in this press statement.

FlipModeSquade:
Does ritual killings become more or less serious?

Depending on the age and purpose of the ritualist?

And how did you come to know that 15 year olds don't do ritual killings for money..

In the age past?

Where you there to interview every victim?

On who and why they were killed?

Is the Church the only religion that have existed in history?

Many religions and cultures..

In the past and present..

Does not have problems with homosexuality and same sex marriages..

You are sounding naive..

You don't know what goes on behind the closed doors of people's homes..

From time immemorial..

The sooner you acknowledge that the better..

That social media is bringing everything to the public..

Doesn't mean shit wasn't happening..

And you are free to believe in your Jesus..

About how he defied death and whatever..

At the end of the day..

It is just that..

YOUR BELIEFS..

YOU Can't PROVE ANYTHING..

It seems to me you're not a student of history, neither do you follow archeology. And for your information, age matters very much and in crimes and offences. There are certain things never expected of a kid. When he does it, it becomes alarming.

Faith in Christ moves many things. At His name all powers of darkness bow. The witches and wizards, and all occult powers that torment the world cannot near the fire of a true believer in Christ Jesus.

I have personally witnessed Christ's power in my own life. Nothing can change that! When I was casting water spirits out of a woman possessed of them; they were pleading and begging, and there's was nothing Satan their master could do to help them. Even the jobless husband who was made into a begger got a prestigious job. What the name of Jesus cannot move does not exist.

When witches bound a pregnant woman because the husband offended them, the pregnancy overstayed in her womb until the day she encountered Christ's power through me. She was delivered and there was nothing those witches could do!

The powers of darkness know who Jesus is. But they put thoughts in the minds of people like you to lead you away from your Saviour. Of course, you'll be thinking yourself to be wise, but those who have ended in hell know today that the end of such seeming wisdom is eternal doom.

Jesus saves, and He saves totally.

FlipModeSquade:
Murder started one day..

Before that day..

No crime that happened since..

can be compared to it..

Ritual killings of all types have existed..

Since time immemorial..

It was even worse in the past..

Same sex marriages and relationships have been in existence even in the Bible..

That is what they did in Sọdọm and Gomorrah..

There's nothing new under the sun..

Nothing!

And the world is not going to end anytime soon..

We have been hearing this..

Since your Jesus died..

That's where you missed it!

Ritual killings and murders have existed, oh yeah, but never done by a 15yr old for the purpose of becoming rich!

Same sex marriage have existed, oh yes, but never legalised by a church!

Sex with toys and marriages to them have existed too? Many unthinkable sins too numerous to mention are happening in our days. You're not being sincere to your own self.

Yes my Jesus died but He resurrected and today He lives forever. I know Him personally. We communicate daily, and that's what really matters.

There's no hope for anyone who has no life in Christ Jesus.

yahmohy27:
Read the post again , they didn't killed him cos of God but cos of our prophet and if actually he did that , yes he needs to died
And that is the law of every Muslim countries.If I'm a Muslim and I happened to live a place where blasphemy against their prophet or God is prohibited and punishable by the law,I think should obey it or rather leave their count for them.Simple

Your prophet is a false prophet, and your God a false god. Do you know why Allah commanded the killing of Blasphemers? It's because he has no power to cast anyone to hell.

Now, hear the words of the true God:

"Say to them, ‘As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign LORD, I take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that they turn from their ways and live. " Ezekiel 33:1

Mariamoh:

U rere d greatest foolnof all humans to HV said such a trash. Do u know Allah? Read abt Islam 4rm an authentic source to know why u exist

Allah is Satan! There's no doubt about it!

Mohammed said Allah commanded you guys to kill infidels promising you straight transport to Párádísè to enjoy 72 virgins!

Jesus showed us what Allah would do long before Islam came into existence:

"You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies." John 8:44.

Jesus again added:

"...in fact, a time is coming when anyone who kills you will think he is offering a service to God. They will do such things because they have not known the Father or me. I have told you this, so that when the time comes you will remember that I warned you." John 16:2-4.

You're already happy because of the killing since the murderous spirit of Islam resides in you. Rather than show sympathy and condemn the mob attack, you're here attacking Nairalanders for their comments on a fake Allah!

FlipModeSquade:
Murder isn't unimaginable..

Because it has become an everyday experience?

Before Cain murdered Abel?

What in today's world's crime?

Is as unimaginable as murder?

AND if it can happen with just 4 people on earth?

What then do you think that 8 BILLION PEOPLE WILL DO TO EACH OTHER?

Murder has existed from time immemorial but today, we witness grievous sins and iniquities that are very difficult to believe.

For example, who would have believed that some churches would legalise same sex marriage? Who would believe that a 15yr old could kill his younger brother for ritual (And, infact a pastor's son for that matter)? Who would believe that people would be having sex with toys and even marrying toys? The news are full of unthinkable things people do.

Now, before these days, everyone was of the opinion that society would become better with increased civilization. This was the view in Jesus' days, but Jesus had a view to the contrary; He said "Iniquity shall increase." We see it here already.

Not only that, He also said "Knowledge shall increase.". No one preempted all these, but these are some of the numerous signs of the end of days pointed out by Jesus over 2,000 yrs ago.

FlipModeSquade:
Unimaginable crimes have been happening..

Since the dawn of humanity..

No be una talk say Cain murdered his brother Abel?

Just 4 people on earth..

And murder was already rife?

Murder Isn't unimaginable. It's a crime people commit everyday. Listen to the news, you'll discover that crime rate as well as crime ferocity has increased. Very merciless crimes that are actually unthinkable.

Elock1:
oga suicide, rape, war, incest, killings and all evil have been happening even in the Bible times so just calm the fuxk down...

It only multiplies because humans are multiplying in numbers aswell.

Common sense.

There's no common sense here.

It's not just about the multiplication but the gravity of the crimes.

A world where unimaginable crimes happen.

cbrezy:
I just hate how people who call themselves religious leaders keep committing hideous crimes, they are supposed to preach about

If a ritualist or armed robber starts a church for money today, does that make him a religious leader? Most people can't differentiate between true men of God and messangers if Satan

ityP:




Even small departmental elections dey cost plenty money. Direct primaries might start today, but they will null it later. It's not sustainable

How have they been raising money for the ones they've been doing?

elhafeez:
With all the millions/Billions political parties generate on selling forms, they are claiming they can't afford direct primaries. Any party that can't afford direct primaries should be deregistered.

Seconded.

Penguin2:
That Electoral Bill should be sent back to the NASS abeg.

It’s obvious that Direct Primaries can’t work.

What's going to hike the cost of direct primaries other than money distribution to buy the votes of the delegates?

They should tell us what they'll be spending money on that would make the system expensive. Personally, I don't understand.

nkemoma:



Why people fail in life ... I said think of your life FIRST not alone.....

Wrong thinking that leads people to hell.

So, you think anyone can give what he doesn't have? You're mistaken. You only recommend a product after experiencing its effectiveness.

nkemoma:


Deputy Deputy Jesus... Both you and Deputy ain't going to heaven...

Think about your life first before thinking of a saved or unsaved soul

If you think about yourself alone, and even advice others to do so, you already missed it.

nkemoma:


Deputy Jesus..
We need send you go Hellfire for SIWES

Deputy Satan, there's no home for any unsaved soul in heaven.

Deborah98:
The women were said to be carrying out a demonstration demanding that the road should pass through their community to give residents a sense of belonging... How's this juju now ... Funny and hurting how human rights are being infringed

They blocked the road with sticks and hung juju to scare construction workers away. Human right demands taken too far.

Kriss216:
What if the flight is heading to Nigeria?


No be from frying pan to fire be that

Or Afghanistan

FarahAideed:
Watch how the pay this fine sharply but refused to pay baba Ijebu fine till he died

Is Baba Ijebu dead? Or you mean Baba Suwe?

Nutase:
cac search is conducted by law firms who charge the banks. I can reliably confirm to you that the bank doesn't make a dime in search.
Secondly CAC search is not free. Please get your facts right.

It costs only #500. Tell the whole truth.

Kriss216:

After hypnotizing Lagosians, Tinubu and Good intentions shouldn't be in same sentence.

Lol.

His stooges have already started stealing Fadhola's work, saying Tinubu changed Lagos. Whereas, it was Fadhola that brought so many changes to Lagos.

Some Nigerians love to suffer. Can you just imagine some governors rooting for Jonathan, when there are better candidates that would definitely surpass Jonathan in performance.