₦airaland Forum

greenprince:
Brother, we have a lot in common. I'm in my early 20s and a cinematographer as well (even though not totally a fan of premiere pro you all love. I prefer Davinci Resolve and hitfilm).
If I'd advise you as a young man who understands your plight, I'll say leave Naija, it's a win-win for you.

You can still run whatever business you want from Europe and make your profit. You sound like someone who knows what he's doing, so job won't be an issue for you. You'd be well paid and you'll earn more than enough money as long as you're willing to learn and work hard. A friend of mine worked just in summer break of less than 2 months and made equivalent of about 220k in Naira as a student for a job with zero experience and reasonable working conditions even though we're in a country with relatively very low income.
You'll get better opportunities and bring out the best in you over here.
As for the lady, I know it will be difficult but you have to be realistic. There's no commitment yet and anything could happen, she could fall for another guy tomorrow. If it's meant to be, heaven will ensure you find your way back to each other. For now, put emotions to bed and pray for God's wisdom. I hope you make the best decision bro.

You should listen to this guy...

Smh...

usagee36:
When you live abroad, you will know pusssssy is not like the way it's given freely in naija. The law covers women so much that the younger women are full of shit. You can't even say hello to a lady on the street or they call the cops on you. You get the word weirdo or pervert. Even this old woman the guy married, she might wake up one morning and say Mike I don't want to see you again. Women are the hardest things in America or the western. But if you ready to spend, they might eat you and run away.

True about the young American ladies but you can relatively easily get an older black American woman, the difficulty is getting a 'good n sane' one...

OgogoroFreak:
Na you go fvck their toto?

They know it's a trick but they need their toto fvcked!

Weirdly put but true. The guy needs his 'papers', the woman needs the sex and attention which younger white guys wont give. It's a silent understanding...

flyca:
I don't know but lemme tell you this:

I'm the least religious person in my family but the most successful (not bragging though). By the way, my family is not even a radically religious one, we are not penticostals. We love God and we worship Him in the most basic way.

But when I left Nigeria, I found out that success (and failure) is in my own hands! Give and take! Hoha!

I quite understand that there is need for humans to have a believe is some supernatural being but most of our beliefs are born out of sheer laziness. We don't want to do our part. We want someone or something to take responsiblities of our inactions etc.

Examples:
Pray to pass exam.
Pray to be rich.
Pray to buy a house.
Pray not to die (on top bad road, and Dangote truck, seiously?)
Pray to complete a project.
Pay tithe to be rich etc

If you want any of these good result, the only way to get them is to work towards it! Work consistently and persistently towards it! It is only when you have done your best, then the ones you cannot change as a human being, you hand them over to God!

So I keyed into that and I have been succeeding exceptionally! Ameeen o. That's how individuals succed. That's how nations succed!

I remember as an undergraduate, I struggled so much with academics in my early years. I was at that time so distracted in a “good” relationship. Then towards exams, I get serious, read what I can and then pray! Thankfully in my 3rd year, I managed to end the relationship and paid full attention to books! Even without “prayers”, I aced all my courses, clinching a 2'1 by the feet!

I know folks are are not religuous and yet not successful (they know they are living below their potentials). Failure is also in our hands. No man (except maybe your parents) can curse you and it will work because he is your “spiritual head”.
My elder sister just failed an interview last week. When I spoke with her the morning of the interview, I knew she was not ready! Guess what, after the interview, she blamed God. Then she balmed her husband. Lol

I won't tell you what to do, or believe. But please use your brain!

Many wont get the deep message in this. Thank you!

phemi01:
Power of money...If not for money a pretty girl like this will not look at tekno twice let alone open her legs for him to impregnate.

This simply shows that everyone's got a price. All these women forming classy will marry a rich Gorilla. look at Oshiomole, Akpororo, basket mouth, just to mention a few. Brothers pls make money, most women don't want love, they want wealth

You are good!..

ziondaughter247:
Lord pls have mercy upon me! I am really tired of this my life & situation. Please turn it around for me

Amen sister...

etrange:
You couldn't scream cause people were around? Did you even read the mess you just typed? When do you want to scream? When no one is around to help?

One would think that people being around is enough weapon for you.

Next time you want to cook up stories for your blog, be a little smart with it and stop making women look stupid.

Good one!

CSTR1003:
If I tell you what is on my mind I will get banned.

They ask your president a simple question of how should Nigeria be helped.

Your president then abandon the question and went around to demarket what should be the strongest selling point of the country.
What else is buhari doing in London? Is he marketing our world class power , infrastructure, tourism ,or what?
What else does Nigeria have as its advantage if not the enormous youths that buhari has just rubbished.

Your president is without doubt the worse leader in the world.

Bless you sir.

Aderewah:
The kind of news we see clearly refleets why Nigeria is like this. No news of inventions, discoveries, books, inspiring business startups or generally useful inforation. 90% of youths don't know who Ekotie eboh is but they know all about anto. Pathetic. When a society don't care for the arts, sciences and technology, decay is inevitable.

Bless you!

MyPWisINCORRECT:
Chai,

Me na Australian visa I dey find to scamper from this shithole.

Lol...

PataAlhaja:
I think you are the useless fool here, you stupid thing!

You defend the same "God" who couldn't prevent your dad from being murdered in cold blood.

And you think you wouldn't have become a medical doctor today if you hadn't been "faithful" to the imaginary "God"? There are millions of atheistic medical doctors out there, Nigger!

Get it into your stubborn, abusive skull. There is no God!

...and learn to respect other people's opinion instead of hurling insults.

....and another fool..

Nukilia:
What a country!

I pity that country...

Funkybabee:
You are going to make it in Jesus name

Amen.

LexngtonSteele:
Rest in Peace.....RIP

Unfortunately, he rested in PIECES

Don't you think thats offensive?...

timilehing:
When will Nigeria streets have CCTV installed?

Never. It's a failed state. Get out of there.

uzoclinton:

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I'm not in support of what she did ooo. but I don't think she just took up cane and started flogging him for nothing.... when she's not MAD. Abeg poster go and do your research... ..


As gentle as my mum is, even her get boiling point.... Every woman does...

Nigeria has messed up your head.

tellwisdom:
I said this 9 years ago when i was poor

No mind am. Make he no go broaden him horizon

evansjeff:
and you think this is funny?

Help me ask d silly idiot

pumppin:
.what dead nation are u talking about sucker?,u must be sick in your anus,ewe

Dont mind the joker. Misplaced patriotism!

Narldon:
BENIN!!




LEMME JUZ KEEP KWAYET

Stupid...

Nigeriadondie:
Where is pidgin2 forming patroitic Nigerian that Nigeria is paradise on earth.

I have said it that Nigerians in Nigeria who defends Nigeria wud change their perception once they reach abroad. Forget what u watch on movies when u experience it live and direct u go know say khaki truly no be leather.

Once u travel abroad u will curse our leaders and wish they are hanged on a pole and shot with high calibre bullets from anti- aircraft guns. These beasts ve denied Nigerians good life they truly deserve. Even the so called modern cities like Lagos are like ghettos compared to what u call villages abroad to show u how backward we are. Imagine in Lagos the governor was talking of wi-fi at bus stop when abroad u get free wifi in hospital, schools, markets even inside public buses on ship which u may pay for. The level of technology wud make u look like a bush man from one ancient village, when u wud see u can wash ur plates, clothes with machines and some cases iron them, drones and gps devices to navigate ur way, even technology to make life for d disabled a bit easy or u go hospital and see equipments, abi na school den u will know that d university u went to in Nigeria is a big waste of time especially if u did sciences and engineering. We are over 100 years backwards.

As for social security system in place made me realize that there is far enough to lift everyone out of poverty. The system takes care of d jobless, disabled, pensioners so if u loose job no cause for anxiety over the basic necessity. Even though social security bill was debated on d floor of senate of last administration it didnt pass 2nd reading. It has died a natural death no one is talking about it even d useless Ben Bruce with his common sense rants has not thought of discussing it on d floor.
But in Nigeria it is a dream cos d greed of a few beasts in power wud embezzle far more than they need leaving the docile majority divided by ethnicity and religion in need.

Countries with oil like us such Qatar, UAE, Bahrain, Oman, Kuwait, most western European countries have no poor if u even see what they call poor u will be amazed. Norway with oil like has d world's largest sovereign wealth funds together with other scandanavian countries that are called welfare states with social security systems that are regarded as models for others to follow I can authoritatively tell that poverty is dead not even one person is poor. Forget the useless PAP poverty alleviation programme, or NAPEP national poverty eradication programme yet poverty rate is even higher than it was before.

School free at all levels that if u do Ph.D u re paid while schooling. If u re doing Masters u re eligible to loans.
Truly enough for all I mean for all not what is for all embezzled by few bastards who should be killed.

Equality before d law is another thing, a top govt official if he commits crime with ordinary citizen it is same punishment that wud be meted out. The likes of Saraki wud be in jail by now but sadly he has been acquitted. No justice for poor even though we should not even have poor in d first place.

Until we all unite which is a remote possibilty the status quo remains with no hope in sight. APC, PDP, RIP or whatever can never bring any desired change until we do things diferently. It will always be a mirage.
Nigeria is just a waste of space a country of dashed hopes, unfulfilled dreams, unrealised potentials.

Even d Nigerians are abroad who want to come back to develop home wud face fustration from govt and other bad belle.

Our useless leaders know this that is y dey run abroad for everything. Where is PMB now? They have no faith in d country they govern. Which of their kids are in our schools. Nigeria is doomed far doomed beyond redemption.

If my govt cannot give me a befitting life, then my citizenship is of no worth not worth a tissue paper and deserves to be dumped.

Until we enact laws to execute corrupt people in power like China does we would never get anywhere. But wud Saraki and his gang of robbers and tout do so? They blame Federal Government but are they not part of the govt? What do they with d constituency allowance they get? What projects have they executed in their constituencies? In the first place d legislature has no business financing projects at all. It is an anomaly but they will never correct it cos it is a way to get their share of the national cake.

Also if u spend 70-75% of d budget on recurrent expenditure and mere 25-30% on capital projects then how do money circulate to create jobs and distribute wealth. It is like spending so much to run ur business on operating cost u end packing up d business. That is y Nigeria is a mess it is not prepared to get out off.

I laugh when people say agriculture is d way. But if u cud not achieve anything with oil is it with agriculture? We have had palm oil over d years which has made Malaysia progressed but what of us what ve we achieved with agrculture? Japan prone to earth quake is resource poor, bombed with nuclear bombs in WW2, but developed its human resources now d world's 3rd largest economy if not d tsunami and Fukushima disaster it was 2nd. China that executes corrupt people just developed their own commercial airplane givng Boeing a run for thier money while we were celebrating pencil manufactured locally. Germany defeated by allies in 1945 divided and occupied by d allies into East and West is now Europe's largest economy and cud absorb over 1 million Syrian refugees who live far better lives than many Nigerians as citizens in their own country who never bother about d welfare of its citizens.

Nigeria has no excuse not to be far developed and rich that would make holders of d green passport proud wherever they go to.

For anyone defending Nigeria pls take a trip abroad and experience it live and tell me if u go get mouth to defend Nigeria.

Where is "PIGDIN2" always blabbing about forming as if she is more Nigerian than we who are also Nigerians all in d name of patroitic citizen defending what u cant defend if u re to be truthful with yourself. I challenge u and your blind supporter "PEACENGINE" to come forward for a constructive argument.

U r blessed bro!.

Fadiga24:
Why are blabbing, it was obvious that I stated the fact.

Should I say Africa is the best continent when all the evidences of hunger, starvation and corruption abound to disprove that fact?

People like you are the problem we have, you refuse to come out of your idealistic shangri-las and see for yourself that the continent is dire straits.

You rather hide your head in the sand and chant whatever mantras that make you not see reality.


(I would have replied your insult in kind, but I would save you for another day)

Mature reaction...be blessed.

RIP

Iconoclaste:
As it is expected, I could pick some holes in the mother's narrative, most importantly despite her inconvenience and knowledge of the fact that her son wasn't getting the best of avail able care her money could pay for, she kept him there with the untenable excuse that he was on oxygen. He could have been moved even with the oxygen mask.
I am not holding the forte for my colleagues, if her account is true, they did really poorly and should face the disciplinary committee but as we all know, there are two sides tons coin.
Sound judgement can only be made after hearing both sides of the story. Most of what I see in the comments are biased and preconceived judgement.
I wish the grieving family fortitude for their loss.

Thanks brother, and if she feels the medical personnel were negligent and didnt offer the best care to her ward she should channel her complaint to the disciplinary committee of the Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria and not the social media....May her sons soul rest in the bosom of the Most High God..
P.S Doctors actually aint supposed to know how to assembly oxygen cylinders, there are handy men for that. Secondly, the information is incomplete, the actual diagnosis wasn't given. For a CT to be ordered then an assessment or suspicion of a cerebral condition was entertained. Also this is an opener for all, patient's have the right to ask questions and demand better care from their doctor's and if not provided, leave that facility to a better one. Moreso, specialized and better cases should be taken to teaching hospitals.
The doctors erred if her account is accurate and could/should be held liable

Third world shithole.....

MisterGrace:
Damn! May the children of all the people behind this act become vagabonds.
May their houses be desolate.
May wailing never depart from their homes.
May mourning and grief envelope their lives.
The may the air, water, fire and the earth work against them forever.
May their names be wiped off the face of the earth.
May their days on earth be filled with sorrow.

And so shall it be.

Amen sir...

Nice

SalamRushdie:
The Nigerian wild animals doing what they know best , cheat, steal, kill , lie and plunder while pretending to be the most religious people on earth

God bless you....

obinna58:
They are all scammers just like Jesus

Idiot

Hassan080196:
I pray you get money to buy Samsung s6edge+,s7/s7 edge or s8. In your life, you'll never remember all those fuckin Chinco phones in your life again. Also,you can try out iPhone too.

Words of wisdom.

Ok