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Career / Re: I'm Scared About My Future, Career Wise by nopretense: 10:14pm On Jun 08, 2021
KennedyF:
Hello everyone,
Bear with me pls, this might be a long read and I apologise in advance for any grammatical error.

Recently I've had a lot of thinking about my life after school, how I can finally support my family after I graduate this year, I am the first son and the first child in my mom's extended family, so I have a lot of people looking up to me, and we only have one source of income in my family which is my dad, and recently he developed a health condition which affects his eyesight, and that is making his work nearly impossible.
The problem now that I'm facing is that I literally don't know what I want to do after school, normally I've had this notion that I will cross that bridge when I reach there, but now the bridge is so close and I have no idea of how to cross, to make things worse, I saw my result this semester and I failed two courses which will make me to come back for an extension, it makes me sad whenever I think about it, cos my dad will have to continue his risky job (thats even riskier cos of his eyesight) for a year or so
Sad part is that I can't even think of any side job that might be profiting me while in school or any work that I can do without a certificate, my friends aren't giving me anything useful, I wanted to learn graphics design, I'm passionate about editing photo and videos, I also wanted to learn animation back when I was in secondary school, but my parents killed that dream telling me to go for a professional course, back then they were still thinking school is the only answer to being successful, now I regret allowing them to let that passion die.
Right now I need you guys advice if you have any concerning my situation, or if you've being in a similar situation like mine, I need to know how you made it out successfully

I will accept your criticism, advice and whatever piece of info you can share with me

A step at a time please, be easy on yourself

Pray to God and trust Him for the best
Romance / Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by nopretense: 11:28am On Mar 29, 2021
londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

Handwriting is so clear, move on bro
May you find love..

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Family / Re: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by nopretense: 11:15pm On Dec 24, 2020
Sebastine1994:
When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much.

I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs,

Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this.

I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.

Forgive yourself
Your good and bad deeds all make you who you are

Give yourself another chance
If there's life, there's hope
Shalom!
Education / Re: Why Are State Owned University Part Of The ASUU Strike? by nopretense: 8:05pm On Oct 24, 2020
CodeTemplar:
The state owned universities have been shut down along with the federal ones and I can't see any link between the state schools and the demands of ASUU. ASUU wants universities funded by the federal government but the state owned universities are owned by states and should be funded by states. From what I know, every state is at liberty to establish as many schools as they want and employ as many hands as they desire to. So how will a federal education budget trickle down to state universities?

Please help me out with any piece of information I might be missing in all of this.

Same question has been asked over time.
I think it's basically for solidarity, adding their weight to make it more serious..

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Education / Re: Difference Between Rusticated And Expelled by nopretense: 11:09pm On Jun 20, 2019
tunjilee003:
in higher institutions i do hear stories of people being rusticated or expelled due to one reasons or The other.... but I don't really know The difference between both, anyone with a tangible idea is welcome... thanks in anticipation
To the best of my knowledge, expulsion means sending a student out of a school totally while rustication is like a long-term suspension, the student may or may not be recalled

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Phones / Re: MTN 120 Gb Cheat: Telecom Provider Lost More Than 1 Zizabyte by nopretense: 4:45pm On Jun 16, 2019
peeta4u:
Twitter will b better for dis

Okay, thanks
Phones / Re: MTN 120 Gb Cheat: Telecom Provider Lost More Than 1 Zizabyte by nopretense: 4:44pm On Jun 16, 2019
suco01:


Haba. How is denro very close to the main road?

The house is close to the main road (where you get bike) and #50-#100 to Berger.

Always read to understand, not to respond.
Romance / Re: How Do I Love Thee? by nopretense: 1:40pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!
Romance / Re: HELP: How Do I Quit My Relationship With An Army Woman I Met On Facebook. by nopretense: 1:39pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!
Romance / Re: The Coolest Yoruba Girls On NL by nopretense: 1:38pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!
Health / Re: Lady Shows Weight Loss Transformation After 2 Years (Photos) by nopretense: 11:41am On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Leave A Man Because Of His Pipe? Honest Response Please. by nopretense: 11:38am On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!
Politics / Re: Igbo How Far? I Heard Powerful Delegation Sent To Tinubu To Help SE Get SGF by nopretense: 11:38am On Jun 16, 2019
Hi everyone.

Trust you're having a great weekend.

A female friend of mine just secured a self-contained apartment at Olasepe Estate, Denro (#100 bike to Ojodu Berger, #50 sometimes).

The estate is properly planned, highly secure and very close to the main road (I've been there).

She needs a decent female roommate who will only pay a token of 40k (rent expires next year June). She claims she needs a gist partner (lool).

She's cool to be with, I bet there'd be no hassle.

If you are interested or you know anyone who might be, pls send me a mail or call/text 08037891605 so I can link you guys.

Cheers!

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