does a lady have to dress like a prostitute to look nice? :oits shows their level of maturity, and gives credence to the saying that they have got fish brains(not all)

U GUYS DIG THIS, HELLO BABY I SAW U FROM AROUND THE CORNER AND I FEEL U R HOT, HOPE U WONT MIND PULLING DOWN UR PANTS AND TOUCHING UR TOES, I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT U GOT UNDER THAT HOOD OF URS, I THINK U NEED A TUNE UP, AND I GOT THE RIGHT TOOLS FOR UR ENGINE BABY!!!!!HA!HA!HA! JUST BE NICE AND CO-OPERATE, I WILL TAKE SLOW WITH YOU, AND WHEN U GET WARMED UP, I CAN THEN RAM U LIKE A BULLDOZER, TILL U SCREAM FOR HELP, BUT NO ONE WILL HEAR U, HA!HA!HA! COCKY AINT I,

04. leave him alone when he's with his boys

09. Let them play their video games as much as they want

19. He never has to say I love you in front of his boys

20. if he's mad, just say everything is your fau

22. All holidays and anniversary means SEX!.

01. Bring us food

06. When they stare at other women,  tell them "oh yeah i'd do her to."

14. Baby them once in a while.

this is a wonderful list and i think "WesleyanA" did her home work well, if all ladies could follow these simply guidelines we won't have the amount of strife we have nowadays, these rules are the magic key to our heart(some guys), ladies learn, i would like to add one golden rule and this rule 100, "LADIES DON'T NAG"[quote][/quote]

I'm mostly like to wait to my wedding night.No need to rush sex.

;DAT LEAST THEIR ARE SOME ANGELS THERE THAT HAVE THEIR HEAD IN THE RIGT PLACE, GO GIRL, U R A GEM

MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MARRY A,
-FREE GIVER,
-A FIFTH HAND/EXPIRED GOOD,
-A BORE HOLE,
-A PUBLIC TOILET,
-A PUBLIC DOG,
-A VIRTUELESS BULK OF FLESH,
-A MATRASS FOR THE NEEDY,
-A PHILANTHROPIST ,
-A CHEWING GUM BABE,
IS LOVE THAT BLIND?MEN!!! IF IT IS, I'LL PUT ON GLASSES, ME!!! KE!!!!WHEN SHE NO USE JAZZ,

SOME PEOPLE DEY TRY,

My idea of the world of MALES and FEMALES, :Dis that it is like that of the "Serengeti game reserve in kenya" where we the PREDATORS(lions,tigers, chetahs) and the PREYS(zebras,antelopes etc), The GUYS in this world are the PREDATORS while the LADIES are the PREYS, so like in these documentaries u see the lions chasing very hard to get the the zebras , and u see the zebras running away from the prey so as not to get eaten , i believe thats how we were made to act , how surprised would u feel if u watched a documentary that shows a zebra walking up to a lion and just lying down for it to be eaten , thats how our ladies of today have become , they have little or no regard for their virtue while some dont even the meaning of virtue , so it doesn't surpise me to hear that i lady compares herself with a guy, imagine a Zebra saying 5 lions have eaten me, does it make any sense, it should be one lion and a lion alone that can/should eat u(disvirgin u most likely ur husband)), whereas a lion can say it has eaten 100 antelopes, with pride, so what i am saying is that i feel sick when girls compare their selves with guys we are not the same, and we can never be the same, so on whether a guy can sleep love a lady and still sleep with another chick, its possible cos some of u have rightly said its in our nature, man is polygamous in nature, and like i said earlier 'SEX DOESN'T CONNOT LOVE' and vise visa, ie a prostitute, a rapist, a pornographic actor/actress, ETC, they have sex regularly but don't feel love at all, so a man can sincerely love a woman but have sex with another woman, e.g his wife is sick, pregnant or out of town, or his girl friend is a virgin e.t.c. he may in order no put stress on her just releive his loins with an lady, isn't that being considerate of him, Men i don tire to type jo!!!!

It is possible; very then, sex has nothing to do with love. A man can forget about it the moment its over. But the woman he loves is always on his mind

My people SEX and LOVE are two different things for men. We can sleep with someone we don't love and love someone without sleeping with them

Guys i think this answers the question well enough, its very possible,

i really wonder why they are fronting , especially when they are not virgins , whats so special about them or do they have three breasts or two virgina's ;d ;d ;d, when you finally get there :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x u find out there is nothing to write home or school about!!!!!!! , its a pity

Men I've tried it a lotta times but we always end up having sex n 4 me I'ld rather have guys as pals so I wont fall into temptation

that is the fact of the whole matter its almost impossible,hw do u expect to put a spoon of honey in your mouth and not lick it, aleast a little, girls r honey meant to be licked not 2b friends, God has made it natural for us to be strongly attracted to the opposite sex, so u can't help it.although ladies i think have a little more self control than guys,so naturally they would say they could be just friends, to me its like a fish saying it wants to be just friends with a hungry cat, the cat will denately agree though ,his intentions would be hidden for the time being, u get my drift!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so from what i gather, because u need to have sexuall compatibility, girls should now keep on having sex with countless number of guys untill she arrives at her sexual ELDORADO!!!!!can u listen to your logic, u forget one fact, man is insatiable, because the guy she says give her multiple orgasm today after some time would be boring to her, so what do u then suggest??another move to another guy, its sickening, u guys have bastardisze the issue of sex so much, i marvel!!!!!!!! it shocks me more when i hear it from girls, whats this world coming to?

Y DONT U ARRANGE OTHER SWEET CHICKS FOR HIM , TO SATISFY HI CURIOUSITY , LIKE THEY SAY VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE , COS SINCE U'VE GIVEN HIM UR TREASURE PREMATURELY , U HAVE NOTHING SPECIAL TO OFFER TO HIM ANYMORE WHICH HE CAN'T GET FROM ANYONE OR WHERE ELSE,

hi dayo paul, well i get what u r saying , but can u please give me your remedy to what u call sexual campatibilty, thx

i cry and i am very dissapionted in all you guys(jogego,obong,viera)  that don't value the worth of a virgin, u think every body is as corrupt and moraless as you all are infact you guys are like a virus worst than AIDS in this world it is people like you that have a very negative and bad influence on our ladies of today where they throw their virtue to the winds, i really pity your all and cry for  you guys you are sick to encourage girls to lose theirs virginity anyhow if you know how hard it is to find a virgin you would wonder what this world has turned to, i even posted a topic earlier"are there Graduate virgin Ladies" and was happy to find out that their are still ladies who have their heads in the rigth position and are not infected with you sick reasoning, i really appreciate virgins they tell me that despite the way the whole world has gone nuts and bunkers ,u guys inclusive they can still stand their ground, if u are so keen on have a sexually trained wife then i strongly suggest you go and marry a prostitute then you can be sure that she will know all the tricks you claim to know, i am really pissed with you guys and i am vexed to the bone, stop infecting our decent girls and giving them the wrong impression that guy s don't appreciate virgins, infact i classify them as Angels on earth, if i am lucky and blessed to marry a virgin i will cherish  and respect her so much her so much, it takes guts for a lady to keep her legs together despite sick guys like you lurking out there, i don't believe u had a good up bringing or else you wont be encourage openly and without shame sexual proscumity, i cry for you guys, and for the ladies who are prosmicous, men i pity the unlucky guy that will marry a sick chick who doesn't see anything important,or special about their virtue or virginity you are valueless, , i believe because you ladies are not virgins and can't get it back u envy other ladies who are still virgins and you want to influence them to become as devalued and worthless as u are, u're worse than dogs that sleep around, ladies who have nothing to offer their future would be husband in terms of pride, that at least he married a brand new wife or some one with some dignity not a second hand or third hand girl who has slept with virtually every single guy she has come across, ladies if u are infected please don't infect other virtues ladies, virgins are Angels, they should be appreciated, not castigated, 

CAN YOU TELL A DOG TO BEST FRIENDS WITH A JUICY BONE??
well for me to have a girl as a best friend would be very difficult , except if she isn't pretty and does have any curves at all cos if i am around a chick thats so pretty my mind won't help but imagine , what it would taste like, :oi have a girl thats my friend but not best friend, i keep the distance by imagining that she is HIV positive cos she's quite slime, anyway it actually depends on ur maturity, for me i havent over come that level,that is to see them as just friends with no strings attached,

THANKS ALOT CALABAR MAN ,I TOOK CAREFUL NOTE OF YOUR ADVICE AND WILL EXECUTE IT TO EVERY ONE TO THE LAST DETAIL, AT LEAST I SHOULD SHINE CONGO SMALL NOW, HABA, I CAN'T AFFORD TO LET IT GO LIKE THAT , I WILL LET U KNOW WHAT HAPPENS AS THE DRAMA UNFOLDS , PEACE OUT,

Thanks guys,
i given it some thought, and i thinking of aleast having a taste of her honey at minimum cost b4 leting her go,cos men this girl is delicious,and i won't want to lose out both ways, after all my investments, what do u guys think,

hello guys,
i need your help, its a personal problem and i need objective answers, i met this girl in a cyber cafe (where i worked part time)and we got talking, i felt we had a connection, she told me about her finace abroad who intended to take her over, i could read that she was so bent on going over that she overlooked the feelings aspect of the whole thing, what i read from her(i could be wrong) was that she was going over to meet him not because she loved him but because she wanted to travel out, i didn't sence any thread of love when she talked about him, and to me it felt like an arranged marraige stuff,btw families, she was at the moment working her visa abroad, i had fallen for her and felt threatened , how could i competete with some one abroad, earning dollars offering her green card, and all the works and i was a fresh graduate doing temporary jobs just to get by and praying for a good job, all i could offer was my heart.and she knew it, it took a while b4 i could tell her my mind and i braced myself for the worst, she told me we sholud just be friends, she said i shouldn't mention going out at all, that i knew she was engaged, i didn't give up, but my persistence was fizzling out, and with a stroke of wonderful luck i got a MEGA job which pays hell, men it was more than i could ever imagine, ANYWAY some how she got to know about it, (i didn't want her to)and now i recieve calls,sweet txt messages and flashes, i'm scared i really like her but i don't want to be her branch office, where she go dey collect money from, what do i do, do i play along or just forget about her, cos she doesn't seem to like me for me,