Seun writes: CalabarMan and others, would you accept it if a woman says she slept with a man but she really loves you?

My broda no big deal, I actually dated a babe years ago who was also cutting shows on the side. I didn't suspect anything initially as she was a student then until she gave me something (no ask me what o!). Years later after we had drifted apart she confessed to me that she had a campus bobo she was using to hold body and that the bobo knew about me and kept telling her to dish me but she refused claiming she was in love with me. She told me that she was badly in love with me back then, but the campus bobo was providing an important service. You may not believe it but I was amused and not upset, I laughed over it and before the end of that evening we had invoked okafor's law. At this time she was already into another serious relationship. Babes eh, na whao for them o!. My advice to guys is not to kill yourself over any babe just accept them the way they are and make the best of the moment. when time reach you move on until you find your final resting place.

love is something you share with someone special and once it's there you've got to make it last.And you should know that cheating is a sign that you are not ready for commitment.if you really love your friend and you don't want to cheat on him or her just ake responsibily for your life and stop making excuses.

It is possible; very then, sex has nothing to do with love. A man can forget about it the moment its over. But the woman he loves is always on his mind

My people SEX and LOVE are two different things for men. We can sleep with someone we don't love and love someone without sleeping with them

Guys i think this answers the question well enough, its very possible,

Yap my dear Hibans, i've bin in dat situation 4 a while but not anymore

Men will always cheat, Its in their genes

***love has nothin to do wit it***

@ Hugoboi:

Wetin I do you na?

Its is not possible, u cant love someone and cheat on them at the same time. True love is a choice we make, so no matter how attracted or tempted a man is to another lady, if he loves her sincerely, he would keep his thin btw his legs for her sake.

@ Topic.

Its impossible. If u love someone, u wldnt imagine yourself with someone else xcept that person. And if you do, then the love u have for your gal shld stop u from cheating. If thats no possible, then m sorry 2 say that d guy doesnt love his chick!!

Mystique:

Men will always cheat, Its in their genes

***love has nothin to do wit it***

couldn't have agreed more with u

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Keep deceiving ursef

ok guys comon , what kind of question sis this, you cant claim to "LOVE" somone and then cheat on her, i guess the real questions is are guys who claim to be in love, truely in love?, cos really when you truely love someone your heart, mind and soul, everything is focused on that person, you become blind to every other thing, and all that, really i cant say much about this love thingy cos i would just go on and on and on,

alot of people havent really found love, alot of people create love,
its out there , its real,

so, NO a man cant love a woman and still cheat on her.

Really, it beats me. " how can u claim u love a woman yet u feel very comfortable cheating on her"??

All of you are yarning STORY!

A man can NOT LOVE a woman and still CHEAT ON HER. We r not talking about really like, or adore, or cherish. IM TALKING ABT LOVE.

U don't love someone and cheat on them Intentionally. If u do it because you're drunk, i understand. BUt cheating Intentionally on someone  u claim to "love" is impossible upon impossicant.

When u LOVE someone. U'll scratch out others that are out there. U can admire others, but you still love the one you love. If u go further from admiring other girls, to go on n sleep with them. STOP LYING TO URSELF. U don't LOve that person u claim to love.

U are just selfish. U want to eat ur cake and have it.

It's just like a man beating his wife and saying he beats her becos he loves her. Does that make any sense? You beat me and after beating me for no REASOn whatsoever. U tell me U love me. What verson is ur dictionary? Cos my own dictionary doesn't tell me cheating on me or beating me is a way of showing me you love me.

Shit happens!

Shit Happens

Sirmusty

LOL! one indeed! *nods*

Big Gboozzaaah for Busta.
I will feel better if love is defined in this context. If not, I'm still alien to this type of love.  I always see this type of love on Maury Show period. Let's put everything in context. Either of the party did not know of the flirtation  or was  being untruthful to their -fatina- ma bad patner

listen, , , any person dat agrees to the fact dat a man can cheat and still be in luv shld and can not get angry if his wife or babe sleeps wit his close friend,brother,or neighbour yet she still luv him(guy,boyfriend/husband)

YeS!! a man Can Love a woman and Still Cheat On her.

Word!!!

Of Course thats the word even playaz alwayz have the ''One'' girl they really love

Hey! How come you know so much about this?

kajad:

Hey! How come you know so much about this?

me?? i know Soo much bout love Lol!!!
when a guy IS in Love
when he no longer wants U blah blah blah

To me,when a guy love a lady ,i mean true love ,i think he won't like hurt his feeling,so he won't think of cheating on her belove and it apply to ladies as well.

guys, like all Other humans have feelings and act to it, it aint a matter Of true love, it's a natural thing

Natural thing to cheat??

YeS!!! natural thing to Cheat and natural thing to fantasize bout another woman while U're already Seeing another.

Go Rhoda

I am 100% with u on that notion

Seems like U've falling Victim to tha babes with that angry Smiley, i Suspect Sumtin

trust me Rhoda, dunno if there's any good guy out there but One thing i know for sure if that "no guy is worth the stress"

Aww babes, he must have Really hurt ya , dont match that to every Other guyz babes, Some are worth it and So are U

yes cause its their nature to cheat