Having survived Buhari torment, Nigerians are supposed to be given some reliefs but here we have more torments put on us.

Me I have already made up my mimd. My children can never rely on education alone. The frustration is too much for graduates. A boy must play football by the Grace of God.

I just want to believe you did well at the interview and you will be called upon

timisquare82:
Can I see the pictures?

Pictures of what?

ItisWell22:
Op, it is well with your soul… 🙏

Amen. Thank you.

Stevenbright:


You will be surprised that the complain of her not being paid in her work place is possibly a lie to avoid supporting the home with her money since you are currently jobless and hustling.

You have to pay close attention to really get to know the person you are dealing with.

Also be watchful for your own safety!

Thank you for your concern. It helps

HarunaWest:
Even at that, if you don't have a back up plan aside a job nowadays. avoid marriage. Ladies of nowadays are not patient like our mothers. A man has no option, he must provide. The world has gone materialistic.

Thank you for your concern.

JeffreyJunior:
First of all, don't listen to anyone who will blame this on her pregnancy or hormonal imbalance.

She is a toxic woman. Psychological issues associated with pregnancy especially first pregnancy and your present financial situation only unearthed her true identity.

Marriage is for better for worse but most people don't ask their spouses the important question of what are your plans for our worse times?

Ask your spouse to tell you his or her real plans, not God forbid or God will not let us down.

Whenever a home becomes battlefield to the extent that fear and tension had set in, the marriage had better be another used to be to avoid deaths, regrets and incarcerations.

That's my candid advice which you are not obligated to take anyway.

Shalom.

Thank you for your concern.

Imagine what is eaten in government houses and what ordinary citizens eat.

HarunaWest:
You want to use poverty to kill her. She will burn you eventually. Make una leg strong small before una go Marry, una no go hear word. Sorry ooo

Bro, our condition wasn't too bad. Just that I lost my job.

Onedayoneday:
That is a very bad act no matter what. Now that she has burnt the boxers, has the money come out?

I don't know if the pregnancy is also contributing.

Jozilinn:
is it a must to visit her mum knowing fully well about the financial problem at home,if she can see 10k to send to the mum no problem, teaching work na another thing entirely I don't blame her besides she's also pregnant... try to get a better paying job,hmm it going to be fyn anyways just make sure you talk to her,shey if you die now na she go suffer am, everywhere na manage, what of her siblings?

She's the first child.

mariahAngel:


Borrow some money if you have to, and give her to go see her mother, if that'll cause peace to reign.

By the way, what inspired your moniker?
Why did you decide to tag yourself that?
Na so una carry negativity wear for neck like bling-bling, when e begin manifest, una go start to dey lament.

For the handler - God is not a man.

Exodus15v11:
Was she like this before you married her? If so, you must've noticed these traits. Perhaps you ignored or overlooked them. You just have to simply manage her at this point.

My brother, she wasn't o. She was very loving and peaceful.

eniolorunfe:


With this your username sef how we wan take believe your tory? U be bot?

God is not a man.

Exmilitant:
So you no wear boxers like this .

borrow money give her make she go see her mumsy.
but i wonder how you plan to carter for the oncoming baby

I will definitely not remain in this state.

This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

This mixture is horrible. Please return to the former state.

Lol. Na their usual antics. Its time for reckoning, they fake sickness.