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helen4:
Fathers and husbands are the heads of the home and they believe in being respected and honoured. They are kings in there homes, therefore people in that household need to forever respect them. They are not egoistic, it's the nature of commanding respect that is in them and get it they must. Some believe it belittle them to enter the kitchen while some believe it's disrespectful to their wives. Op, if u marry the previous generation husband in this new generation, u might do more. I have a friend that his wife dears not eat while he's eating, the wife sits till he finishes his food, gives him water anytime the needs arise, kneels to give him water to wash his hands after eating and even say thank u for eating. Anytime he's eating and the wife is in the kitchen, he will call her to come and give him water that is on the table where he's eating and the wife even eats in the kitchen and she doesn't complain. If it were u, wat will u do?I bet u dad is not as my him. Men are mathematics, once u're able to figure them out, u win.

Am sorry but that is just plain madness. Calling his wife to give him water on the table where he is eating. So he can't stretch his arms and do it himself.Is she his slave. Lol am sure those type of ladies who enjoy such are the ones who don't work and depend 100% on the man.

Elxandre:
You take things way too serious on an anonymous forum
I hope you aren't this aggressive in reality.

It doesn't add anything to my life but I love learning and seeing things from different perspectives, especially, learning about various behavioral patterns, so chill!

lol like I said before I am not emotional nor aggressive. If someone says something you don't like it's does not mean they are emotional or aggressive. Am not going to debate this any further. Do enjoy the rest of your day.

Try and read the pages like I suggested. You will get the perspective in full.

Elxandre:
I couldn't read more than a page, so I'm not sure if you explained yourself or not.
And no need being rude and emotional.
Anyways, suit yourself.

I am not being emotional and if I came across as rude am sorry. Just sick and tired of answering rude people back because they don't like my feelings and opinions. It's silly because it does not add or subtract anything to your lives. Take care

Elxandre:
If we keep judging people consciously based on their colour, that is nothing short of racism.
Notyourb1tch could you ever fall in love with a white man? (idk if you believe in love tho)
and if you do, would you refuse marrying him based solely on his race?

For Gods sake we are in the 21st century.
preserving bloodlines by not having interracial marriages is just another way of saying ' We aren't one'. The major problem the world has today

I am not going to repeat myself over and over again. Start from page 0 because I have explained clearly after being asked this same question and if you still don't understand simply ignore my post. It will not kill you trust me

Qualer:
my dear bitch, i will send you a years supply of bleach (one bottle everyday) so you can wash your brain and self from the inside out. maybe you can begin to reason like a human afterwards. /fingers and toes crossed/

yadi yadi. My opinion get over it. I don't know what's up with all you uncle Tom's getting upset over what I said. People have difference in opinion. I don't see how I feel about certain things affect your lives so do me and yourselves a favour and stop quoting me. Jeez do what you want to do cos I don't care what you decide to do with your private lives. I have said my opinion and preferences and if you don't like them then that is really not my problem. If only we had a block button on this site

I have no words. I really don't. Why could the man not just leave her and get someone else if she cheated on him. Must he kill her? The fact that people nowadays just stand around and make videos of this act is just as despicable.

I have a good feeling that this man beats her on a regular basis. If a man is beating you one day he will kill you and that's a fact.

Am so annoyed right now and some of the comments I am reading here just shows that we have the same set of men here too.

I hope that guy is arrested and taken to jail for a very long time after receiving a beating of his lifetime.

iamord:
very matured!

Thank you.

Lala247:
Nothing backwards ... Not b!tching either just saying nigerian women aint as bad .. Its not a competition i could careless rlly ...
Just didnt agree with what he said .. Im entitled to my opinion even if u dont agree no point shaking ur head love.

lol it is backwards my dear. Who cares what he said in the first place. Will his opinion pay your rent. If you disagree then all you had to do was merely state your point not stoop as low as him. Two wrongs don't make a right. You are entitled to your opinion off course. I guess it just annoys me when ladies act like bitches bitching about whose sht1t smells better. It's just ridiculous.

Lala247:
Thats a bigg lieeeeeeeeee
Hmmm compare nigerian movie to ghana one
Those girl mehnn

N even here in london, they would slap u for that statement

what does movies have to do with it. It's like saying comparing Bollywood movies to Nollywood movies since the ladies wear Sari's then they are whores. That is a very backwards mentality. I am also in London so I really don't get your point. I just wish women would stop bitching unnecessary . I don't get why everything has to be a constant competition. You will find good and bad from both sides and generally Ghanaian men think Ghanaian women are better just like Nigerian men think Nigerian women are better. Let's stop all this childish rants. Women are indeed their own worst enemies. Smh

Amefrica:
Lol. 'Amefrica' not 'Amerifa' Good try tho

Take care of you!

lol its quite obvious that I need to go to bed. Take care

Goodnight Amefrica, coogar and Co til we meet again

SirShymexx:
Not cocky just supremely confident. I kicked my way out of my mum's womb, so you should know I always get whatever I want.

Well, all I can hear is ya man's voice while shaking profusely cos he is about to lose you to Jafi Joe - the supreme king of zamunda lol.

And since ya voice is silent, then there is light at the end of the tunnel. Shy lol.

goodnight Jaffi Joe

blackpanther25:
You won't understand. I got my answer though. I went through your post and I see you are half Nigerian (not surprised where as that tribe is known for beautiful women), but your other half was a surprise. Most women from that side are quite voluptuous and

and what? I have no words for you.Being half Nigerian does not make me less of a Nigerian and being half Ghanaian does not make me less of a Ghanaian. At the end of the day am a black African women. Honestly am sick of all these stereotypes and cut me the tribe Bs. Beauty is not particular to just a specific tribe or nationality FYI.

SirShymexx:
Lol. No advert but anything can be jacked on these streets, as long as King Jafi Joe is involved lol. That brought back memories of college days when I used to tell chics that I'm jacking them from their bfs lol. And that's always the end game.

Nice pic...tell ya man he's going to start sharing you soon lol.

lmao aren't you the cocky one. My man says don't bother cos you will be wasting your time...

SirShymexx:
When you meet a royalty like King Jafi Joe - king of all kings - you can be disloyal lol.

I hope that isn't a fake pic tho lool.

it's not fake. Am not looking for a man here so there is no need for such. If I was going to put a fake pic up I think your kind of pic would have been sufficient

blackpanther25:
Please forgive me if it may offend you. Where are you from because you don't sound like the typical Nigerian girl

*rolls eyes* I am offended btw. This is really the most ridiculous thing I have heard all day. How does a Nigerian girl sound like? Please enlighten me

SirShymexx:
Queen of where? Zamunda?

Tell her King Jafi Joe wants to put "Hakim" in her belly lol.

I see you want my King to get a heart attack and then these are the same men who say we women ain't loyal....

SirShymexx:
Lol. Uncle Ruckus' and Aunt Tomasina's sibling lol.

Darn! That is the shiit that I don't like. Who is the chic on ya profile? Is that Sis Tomasina?

Watch your language mate. That's the future Queen you are talking about

coogar:
and you actually believe shymexx didn't know the meaning of uncle tom?

Shymexx is this true lol

Amefrica:
Lol. I ain't no 'Uncle Tom', I just tend to argue with open mind. I say it as it is, I've experienced racism here in Canada before, even posted it here on Nairaland - but still, that didn't kill my hope and faith in mankind

Remember, live and let live is the watchword.

Lol have heard a few racist stories about Canada but I think at least in once's lifetime we have all had a racist experience. Am not a racist either and I have nothing against any race . I don't judge those that date outside their race either. Good luck with your girl

SirShymexx:
Pardon my ignorance: what is Uncle Tom?

In simple terms it is a black person who is overeager to win the approval of whites.

Amefrica:
Sure, roger that ma'am. Keep doing you!

#AfricansRock

thanks sugar, I won't lie when I first saw your post I thought darn there goes another uncle Tom

coogar:
she's also one of them



nah - she dates black men because none of the white men she likes would date her. do not for one second think she's dating black men because she genuinely wants to be with black men. hell no, her options are very limited.



like every other thing in life, too much of everything is bad. a woman cannot be too cheap or too dear. there must be a balance!




how do you know subom1 has a huge batty? shymexx, i am starting to suspect you have been on a slaughtering spree in essex.

lol I think we are actually saying the same thing with regards to fat white women.

I agree. Too much of everything Is indeed bad

Amefrica:
Like I don't know, it just sounds a little bit racist to me. Not saying you are one tho lol. There's really nothing wrong with your decision wanting a strong 'black' man.

For me, I want a 'strong woman'. You seem like one, it takes 2 to tango

It's not racist cos I don't hate any race. Being pro black and wanting to be with your own race is not racism.

Power is essential to racism. When I say power I don't mean one group is better than another, but the majority group have unforeseen privileges that could potentially help them. White privilege is an example of this.

To me being pro black is about: 1) having pride or appreciation for the black race 2) helping my race succeed in a society that undervalues them.I think that sometimes black people do not value their race.

Don't get me wrong, this doesn’t mean I hate other races or wouldn’t help out anyone who needed help. This simply means I value,love and cherish being black.

coogar:
she doesn't have to be poor to be white trash. paris hilton is rich but she's still white trash. she's an embodiment of ignorance. and from what i can see in the video, she lacks personal hygiene.



what do you know?
everything i have said is the fact - take it from someone who's dated across the racial line from the west end of london to the gritty parts of california. white trash is white trash.

I can't with you lol. But you are right. White trash is white trash

coogar:
they are not cheap but they are extremely deceitful! it's a jungle out there - he must use what he's got to get what he wants. do you know the kind of hoops an average black man must jump to get sėx from a black woman - especially a nigerian woman?




and this is why i am shocked she had to rant about it. the only reason a fat white girl would settle for black men is because she has a very shallow dating pool. most white men don't like adipose cells. her stock is low so she must stoop lower than her usual standard.

the black men who cannot get regular sėx from black women also stoop low to shäg fat white girls. the relationship is perfectly symbiotic. she cannot call out black men for being deceitful and then ignore the fat white women who are equally desperate.

lol but she did not ignore that. She admitted that most of the fat white ladies are desperate and tolerate sh1t that thy would not necessary tolerate. She also said that the reason she dates black men is that no white guy approaches her but on a daily basis she gets about 5 black guys approaching her in Walmart for example yet she sees black women and even Latin women who are more attractive than her but she gets approached because she is white. Basically she was telling white women not to be so desperate that they let these men live in their house, eat their food, use their credit cards and drive their cars cos those are what black men want from them. They are targets.

Secondly there is nothing wrong with not being cheap. If a woman is cheap then you should wonder if she is like this with you then how many others has she been same with. But women are dammed either way. When you are cheap it's a problem and when you are not cheap it's also a problem.....

@ Coogar for curiosity sake why do you call her white trash? Is it because she is fat? That she dates black men? Cos from what I heard she owes her own house and is making her own money so how is she white trash?

coogar:
i saw the video and i didnt learn anything i wasn't aware of. it's the same nonsense & false assumptions i have always heard.



many black men can't get sėx from their female counterparts. white women are generally cheaper to take to bed than black women. a lot of black men know this & some of them can't stand the number of hoops they have to jump to get sėx.

so they go for the ever-willing white women who are less stressful & are even prepared to go dutch on dates. they are less likely to preach religion or use marriage as a leverage to dole out sėx sessions.

why are we then surprised black men go for them, lie to them(mostly at the expense of black women) and get what they want? the average white bimbo would feel lucky if she's told she's more preferable than her black counterpart. it's an old trick!




she's mostly going to be used to pass time. only a crack addict of a black man would settle for that white trash!

So basically you are saying black men are cheap and deceitful as the video says

On a serious note I know this and most black women know this, am sure even to a certain extent white women know this too but they want the D too so it's a win win situation for you both.

Fulaman198:
It means very nice or very good in Fulfulde

I have learnt something new today. Thanks

Fulaboy:
you're meeting 2 fulanis today

Ain't I a lucky girl

Fulaman198:
Woodi Sanne! Very good, I'm very proud of you for saying this. I hope that you practise what you preach online

What you see is what you get. I have no reason to lie or pretend. It's an anonymous forum after all. Btw what does Woodi Sanne mean?

coogar:
some black guys cannot get regular sėx from their female counterparts so they go for white women for a quick fix.

the fat chic in the video is deluded to believe the things black men told her. they are all cheap schemes to get her into bed. after a dozen sėx sessions, they would dump her and go for the next chic on the block.

Did you watch the video because that 'fat white woman' is anything but deluded when it comes to black men and their schemes.

I don't believe the some men can't get sex from their female counterparts. If some men are that desperate there are also fat black women (no offence to anyone) with low self esteem too.