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These people are not even Nigerians to begin with. Is Musa Luyomba a Nigerian name? They must either be from Zimbabwe or SA going by their names.

Either way its sad for the man but he probably is impotent.

Taryur3:
@youbitch...why do you come and abuse me here...? Seems you high with uk weed...abi? Every toiling has an expiry date...oh...did you think,divorcing will end her struggle...you are a kid in this aspect...av seen so much abusive relationship that is hotter than her own and they are still in existence today.the ball is in her court to choose which ever way that pays her.wts I can see here is mere misunderstanding....live our baby with our parent and come to dubai to work...is the main issue here...she is not going there to stay permanently
..why cnt u guys advise her to go and huzzle for a year in which I think she can visit naija in between to check her daughter.of he stays with her husband for a while there ...she will have some control over him than his parent who is giving order...you guys only think in one way that's why APC keep failing you as u guys just vote for change.no body think of it been positive or negative.shiooor

Utter bollocks. firstly just because some fools decide to stay in abusive relationships does not mean everyone needs too. The will always be better and worse situations. That's life. It seems you don't have anything reasonable to say so please stop quoting me.

Why should a mother abandon her baby for someone else to raise especially someone who hates her guts. I don't know what kind of person you are but I know that it is extremely difficult to leave ur child behind. Some people actually want to raise their kids. Did your mother leave you for others to raise you?

Secondly what is she going to do in Dubai?More likely than not he may be into something illegal like drugs or fraud and if she went there she would be forced to do such. What if she gets arrested there or something bad happens? What If he is married or has a gf in Dubai?

Anyways I dunno why you are killing urself over her matter. She wants a divorce and you ranting here like a baby won't change a thing. Get over yourself.

Nd some unlucky woman will marry this one.

Taryur3:
Gerrarahere.mama lawyer...if you help her to divorce her man...will you find another one for her?you have to sign with her that both of you will marry your husband before you make any step in advising her for divorce...wts going on here is misunderstanding which can easily be settled if both of them have their own privacy.

s.hut up will ya. You are the type of guy that will convince a woman in an abusive relationship to stay and then when she is killed me the first to condemn. Life does not revolve around you. If she wants a divorce it ain't your business and has nothing to do with you unless you are her path ethic excuse of a man husband hiding behind this username?

I read your other thread and it literally broke my heart. You have been through so much and I am so glad you were able to get yourself and baby out of that toxic environment.

This is a clear lesson for women as we should always learn from our relationship.

Marrying the wrong guy and into the wrong family can cause a lot of stress. Its good that you are thinking about the future wrt your child. Get a good lawyer, get custody and I believe that a divorce is possible.

You deserve to be happy and free of those toxic people. I believe that you can find true love again. My grandma experienced something similar with her first husband but she met my grandpa so it is still possible. Irrespective I would rather be alone and at peace and concentrate on my baby, family and job than have to deal with that silly excuse of a man and his wicked family. I applaud you two years is no beans. At least you have done your part.

This is why i dont think i will ever have a maid

sukkot:
come on now. i aint tryna derail this thread. posting 98 cases ? really ? the point here is some igbo dude said igbo men dont touch their wives while yoruba always beat theirs. and i proved him wrong by posting a couple of cases. this is not a competition. yall are the ones egging me on when all i was tryna do was show the guy he was full of crap. i proved my case. i dont need to post all the cases to prove my point cuz thats over-kill

So because a fktard said something dumb you also had to generalise and make fuckt..ard statements of a whole population. Alright

sukkot:
[b]ok, but you know this is not a thread to denigrate the igbo man so posting all 98 cases in this thread will be overkill. let me post three cases for your perusing


Mr Kelechi Charles Emeruwa:- A Nigerian Mr. Kelechi Charles Emeruwa, (pictured here right) 41 of Old Umuahia, Abia State was charged and convicted with first degree murder of his estranged wife, 36 year old Registered Nurse, Chidiebere Omenihu Ochulo. Kelechi finally lost it and stabbed his wife, with her own kitchen knife

In Garland, Texas on Saturday, March 25, 2007 Mr.Theophilus Ojukwu, pictured right in his orange prison jumpsuit 46, of Enugwu-Agu, Ihe in Awgu LGA, Enugu State used a mattock (hammer) to bludgeon his deeply asleep RN wife, Melvina Ojukwu, 36, of Umuanebe, also of Ihe, Awgu LGA, Enugu State to a very painful agonizing death.

According to people with knowledge of the incident, the poor lady escaped with her life from her husband's maniacal rage with very severe cuts in her arms which she received while fending off her husband's killer-rage. Her husband, Benjamin Unachukwu from Nnewi, Anambra State, was taken to jail to face two criminal charges with the kitchen- knife weapon of choice as evidence exhibit![/b]

THATS 3 CASES YOU CAN START WITH. YOU CAN GOOGLE THE NAMES SO AS TO SEE THE FACES OF THE MEN IF YOU SO WISH

come on mate. Surely you can do better than that. I can post 3 and more of such cases so what is the point in all this?

LoJ:
Ok publish it in a brand new thread. No problem.

If you have not realised by now that guy has been speaking from his anus and has no such case study so don't waste your time. People are so quick to talk but cant back up their claims. Rubbish

sukkot:
these cases are documented in america. this is not nigeria where you can just lie on people. and i dont hate igbo. my best friend is igbo. he is the funniest nigga you ever met. everybody needs an igbo friend cuz yall come with the jokes all the time.

lol @ this is not nigeria where you can just lie on people. Fyi I am not in Nigeria. Secondly let me entertain you. Please share your 'case studies' 2 out of 95 you say am waiting....

I am so speechless right now. Smdh

Sagamite:
Something is wrong with him.

wow we finally agree on something. Why would a straight normal guy want to wear a wig unless he is gay..

sukkot:
if you want all the cases let me know i will post them here. i went through a phase where i was collecting data on nigerian men who kill their wives in america. this is usually the story. the igbo man goes to village to bring wife. he is a cab driver in america. he sends her to school in america to become a nurse. she becomes a nurse and starts earning heavy money and her yanga starts. igbo man vex and knife am to death or shoot her to death. its an epidemic in texas.

what a bunch of moronic hogwash. Your posts are filled with generalisations and bias.

Please don't let your hatred for igbos prevent you from being objective and reasoning like a normal human being. It really annoys me when people speak from their anus.

I hope you didn't boil the tortoise alive

I am speechless...

Sagamite:
Look, I am known for talking intelligently and making sense. I am immensely blunt, incisive, objective and always demonstrate sagacity.

So when I say the following, please take it as God's own truth:

You have an unrivalled and impeccable taste in men.

ABSOLUTELY IMPECCABLE!

You come cute as well.

You are surely a blessed babe.






Notyourb1tch

EnlightenedSoul, if I hook up with this babe, is it also sexism?

Mr you keep spamming my mentions!

I get it loud and clear that you have fans and admirers...okay good for you

Now stop because I am starting to think that you just want my attention....

BlaqCoffee109:
now I understand fully why IBO's are discriminated upon...their bigotry

What exactly is the point of this thread? To bash Igbo's? You wanted answers and they gave you answers but yet you are upset because it is not what you wanted to hear.

The truth is most people prefer to be with their own. There is nothing wrong with it and I doubt things will change. You don't need to stress yourself about what Igbo's do or don't do. If you are afraid to date one because they may marry one of their own then rather avoid such relationships. I just find it annoying when everyone wants to pick on Igbo's and find fault in everything they do.

When whites want to be with whites are they racist? Even Indians themselves to want to be within their own cast. I have nothing against inter-cultural relationships or marriages after all my parents are from different countries however people should feel free to marry who they choose too. If Igbos want to marry within its their right to do so. People need to do what works best for them period. This has nothing to do with bigotry

@ martyns303 honestly if he is lying who cares he won't be the first or last on this site to do that but perhaps he may not be lying too.

I don't understand why people need to be so mean and nasty. As long as he is not killing anybody I don't see the purpose of this to be honest.

Youngsage:
hello! mind sharing what tha bolded means? thank you

Shaking my damn head

I don't understand how a 13 year old girl should be a maid. It's ridiculous.

People should stop using young kids as maids as majority of the times these kids get abused and used as slaves.

This is child abuse!

@ TheSuperNerd nice post

@ Lezz the romance section is even worse

iamord:
so true. It's a shame that nairaland mods run the place like it's a shanty and not an international forum. Never have I seen such gross stupidity in individuals as compared to what I have seen on here. It's pathetic.

Honestly I am not impressed at all. I doubt I will be on here for long anyways. It's too negative and toxic. It's a double edged sword for me because it's either Igbo wars or Ghana wars not to mention the anti-woman/feminism ish that I have to read on a constant daily basis.

Where are the meaningful discussion threads/topics?

Anyways it is what it is I guess.

iamord:
it's a very silly thread indeed . And his motives are glaring..

Yeah I have noticed him on all the e-war threads. Him and Petrodolla/sambisa forest/oxygen are very annoying individuals. They deserve a lifetime ban

lezz:
I meant for this thread to show the strength and power of Nigeria. No matter the rigion or tribe it is coming from. The Nigerian flag is flying high.

Honestly I don't know why you created this thread or the purpose of this thread. I believe you created it to instigate a Ghana vs Nigeria e-war as per your usual comments on this forum but instead it became an igbo vs Yoruba e-war. There are better ways to show the strength and power of Nigeria then this senseless bragging. I would rather be interested in what Nigerians are doing for Nigerians as a whole to benefit our Country and economy and not whether Dangote has his company in 16 african countries. Does that affect or benefit the average Nigerian?
There is no doubt that there are some Nigerians doing well all over the world and the fact that they operate in other countries does not mean that Nigerians or the whole Nigerian population now controls the economy because trust me that is not the case. Just because there are lots of Lebanese companies in Nigeria or foreign nationals in top position must they beat their chest and say they now control our economy.

This is a very silly thread and we both know it.

Atmmachine:
There's nothing like racism again.
The blacks destroyed racism with rap music.
90% of the whites in America call other whites "NIGGA"
now tell me if it's still racist to call a black Nigga, when all the whites call other whites Nigga.

Tell that to people who haven't traveled out of Nigeria.
Racism died a long time ago

Another Uncle Tom . Smdh

I don't understand why the mods don't ban the usual troublemakers. It's like they enjoy this kind of rubbish

The amount of moronic comments I read day in and day out on this site is unbelievable! Its always the same idiots as expected.

I am sick and Tired of the Igbo Vs Yoruba debates and the Ghana versus Nigeria rubbish as well.

Don't you people get tired.... Dammit

agarawu23:
Just count yourself lucky because your son isnt a dullard, he just need some guide up and full concentration on his studies. I know of two guys that page can't help even if you bring the page from heaven. [/b]Some are born [b]DULLARD

Happy for your son tho

That's mean

Sagamite:
I never get this opportunity for intellectual debate on NL anymore.

Don't worry, I would soon find a platform to be a regular columnist soon so you can read more.

https://www.nairaland.com/2504462/advice-needed-please-selling-equity#36954512

Thanks to EfemenaXY for inviting me to discuss something sensible than "See the tattoo on Seyi Shay" on FP.











Notyourb1tch.

lol you this guy

Fulaman198:

Modified. Quoted you mistakenly

These are the kind of topics that should make front page

Sagamite:
Notyourb1tch.

I see you just can't get my name of your lips .

Neways should I clap for you? Well done Mr FukuFaka Fuka for giving this man such valuable advice.

On a serious note you and Jaybee gave some good advice. Yeah it needed a bit of tweaking here and there but you were mostly on point
Am impressed really. There is more to you then Bleep..tard

I guess you can be useful at times

tosyne2much:
Seriously, it has been a very long time ladies requested for recharge card from me during chat.. Lemme say it's up to 3years


I have been pondering over this

I have been wondering myself why any sane lady would ask a guy for recharge card. I mean how much Is recharge card? Smh

Sagamite:
Lol. I am not a member "Progressive, 21st Century, Politically Correct, Liberal" Police, so no need for the "Hands-up! I am not a bigot" explanation.

Actually those kind of people irritate me.

I am just surprised you quickly apologised to him for thinking wrongly he was a homosexual.

You were not quick to apologise to me when you were wrong. (Not like if I desire or is requesting one)

Are you saying thinking someone is a homosexual than an [indirect] insult on someone's mother?

Yep, not all black girls are bad, I just think majority have poor social skills expecially on first approach. If you can get past that stage, some are decent to date. I tend to focus my interaction to the few with good social skills if I meet them.

https://www.nairaland.com/1089625/worth-reading-white-womans-opinion/1#12827648

Lol firstly I never insulted your mother and hence that is why I never apologized to you because I felt like I did nothing wrong. It's like me saying all black man are lazy and don't provide for their kids. Now how did I get to that conclusion? It's either through my experiences(brothers, a father, boyfriend etc) or am talking from my anus which was the point I was trying to get you to see.

I was not explain but merely stating a fact which I wanted you to know. Honestly how you approach a black woman will determine how she will respond to you. I don't like being rude to guys who come up to me. I am not a snob but sometimes some of you men just don't get when a woman is not interested or not in the mood and from personal experience sometimes you just got to give it to them straight in order to be left alone because often times than not they believe we are playing 'hard to get'.


Anyways its not a must to be or date black girls. When the negative outweighs the positive then go for what you want. Not all black men are destined to be with black women and vice verse. I am just tired of all the constant bashing and pit downs. If we are honest with ourselves out of all the races, black men put down their women the most which is very sad because black people have a lot to deal with already.