This is looking more and more like a porn thread

Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pftttt.

PS: A man knows who his heart belongs to, if you like do monkey flips on his d!ck and fry his chicken on diamond oil, if it's not you then it's not you. Ce que sera sera.

Took the words right outa my mouth

Horsesmouth:


Lol,
Look to be honest, I dont know much about nobody on here.
I was just fooling around cos i thought d other lady was being unnecessarily mean.
Now I know better, the other chick probably had it coming. I know nothing about her.

Lol it's cool

he is clearly a gold digger and using you for ur money. You are his atm machime

T3Amo:


Lol you are such a slowpoke. So in your mind telling me she is prettier than me is for what purpose exactly ? That gal is always spewing garbage and today I decided to call her out, then you come out from no where and make a dumb ass stupid sense less comment. To make matters worse ur a man. Stop being a pssy ass nigga. PM her already and stop quoting me rubbish.

If I am not referring to you directly next time mind ur business. I know she can definitely reply on her own!

Lol so it's not just me who has noticed this. I always find her to be so uncouth and empty headed

I hope a certain someone won't attack me and call me ugly for stating my opinion

Anyways as difficult as it may be not every comment deserves a response...

I don't know why people are surprised about the heading. Nairaland thrives on e-wars and traffic. If its not Igbo vs yoruba, its naija versus ghana, sa etc etc.

People should take this with a grain of salt otherwise you will be very frustrated

Onegai:


Ignore him. Where is your lawyer? Get a good one (everyone in the family should donate to get one if need be) and let the lawyer henceforth be the only one having any contact with him. Let your father inform your family that under no circumstances should anyone in the family engage him in any sort of dialogue. No-one beg, no-one insult, no-one from familiarity with him, no-one say anything other than "please speak to the lawyers concerning this matter. Good day" and drop the phone. If he wants his bride price back, it was paid to your family by him and his family, so let his family come and collect it after doing the necessary traditional requirement for the return (you don't just return the money). Keep your child away from any of his family unsupervised. They may only visit when you and several family members are present.

So after pregnating her and leaving her to take care of herself and hospital bills he still wants bride price back.Since he is not paying any maintenance costs for his child which cost way more in the end than bride price. Then she better not pay him a dime. What kind of useless man is that!

JiggamanGh:


It's been years since we had one of these. We were due for one. How do you feel when you see both your countries going against each other.

Years? Feels more like everyday. To be honest i am sick of this. If it's not ghana/naija its igbo/yoruba so i cant get a break.

I general tend to ignore and avoid such threads but sometimes i can't help to comment. Unfortunately there will always be bigots from both sides.

TheInkredible:


The transgendered two-beat hustling prøstitute whose parentage is still under controversy throw a shade?

Worthless dïck-tonguing whøre!!! This is how your mother shows lack of respect for her clientele and She never gets full payment after anal-fisting and dick-gagging!!!

Worthless frump!!!

Am i supposed to care or give a fk. Stop wasting your insults on me. Save it for someone who gives a fk. It's no news that your empty pea brain has nothing to offer ans respond to but saying insults on an anonymous forum when truth is most ppl don't give a fk. Pathethic

@ abssx stop wasting your time with that fktard. Dont expect an answer from a retard who is empty headed upstairs. We all know the reason he cant reply..

JiggamanGh:


22 billionaires and 120 million that can't afford common tomato. Once again you folks will brag about the top .1% while the the bottom 95% remain poor.

Jiggy jiggy lol i see you peeps are still on the naija/ghana ish

There is nothing wrong sleeping in same bed as your brother/sister however this position is too intimate. I would not be comfortable and the older you get there is certain things that one should not do.

Silly stupid women. What stops the man from replacing those two fools. Instead of facing the cheating man they are displaying their agbero behaviour. Mtchew

Arijude:
Then marry your dad.

She doesn't need to marry her dad. There are a lot of open minded men out there who have no issues with this. People should just date who they have common ground with

Some women do it as its a part of their identity, sometimes for career as you may be well known by your surname, famous or popular family etc etc.

I wouldn't want to marry a man anyways who would have a problem with something small like me keeping my maiden name. This is a clear indication that he is very backwards in thinking and most likely than not we would have a lot of issues and fights about other stuff.

phantom:
OP ..you mean sagamite the person??

The one and only

keypad1:
You have missed his prick abi?

What happened to him? He was such an entertaining character, I actually kinda miss him.

sukkot:
that woman was on the way out. I doubt any herculean effort on his part would have made her stay. but hey, we agree to disagree. the only thing constant in life is change and she has upgraded to another man. but karma is real. dont be surprised if this her new man turns out to be a violent dude lol. then next year she will come on NL begging her former guy to take her back. if i have seen it once i have seen it a million times.

gosh you are such a clown..

Openmine thank goodness there are still some reasonable men out there

sukkot:
yeah well I guess they are both to blame. In his defense though he told the judge he still loves her but she is the one who stopped loving him. and she stopped loving him because of all her side men. i put the blame more on her side. but hey ? life is what it is, what dont kill you can only make you stronger.

Well i blame the man more. If he made more effort than i doubt they would have been in this situation. When a woman is fed up she is fed up. Your last sentence is so true.

sukkot:
you must have missed the part where the guy said she has several boyfriends on the side texting her at all ungodly hours of the night. listen, this is a simple diagnosis --- she is tired of sleeping with the guy and several opportunities have opened up with other men so she is going for the other men. dats all there is to it

Lol I saw that part. That marriage is over. She should have divorced him first before seeing other men but I guess she was tired after everything. I am not condoning her behaviour at all but what led to those actions after 9years? She is not the only one to blame for the fail of her marriage

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And who said she had not done that? Who knows all the methods and options she has tried?

Anyways I know you the type of guy to Blake the woman irrespective of what she does so let's just agree to disagree.

openmine:

True!

sukkot:
why she marry him in the first place though ? she didnt know she was not happy with him sexu-ally ? yall coming up with many lame excuses for this woman. everything she has mentioned are easy fixes. she has not mentioned anything drastic that would make me opine in her favor

I am not coming up with excuses. I believe unless she was a virgin, that she had sex with him and should have known that they were not compatible. But if they did not have sex before marriage then she would not have know about the incompatibility. My issue is the child thing. He has not been putting any effort with regards to it and for that reason I don't blame her for divorcing him. It takes two and if he won't do his part then she should go and find someone who can give her what she wants.

Just a side note sex is also important to women and both parties should make equal effort

EVILFOREST:

With Deformed BRAINS.

LADIES are just objects of mere satisfaction.
This is why I take them serious only in this regard

Clearly those are the kind of girls you attract and can get. Try improving on yourself and perhaps you will be able to get a girl with a brain

sukkot:
or buy a di-ldo and please herself ? so your children can have daddy and mummy around ?

Can a Love Machine give her kids? Did you read the article? Cos he has low sperm count and they went to the dr and he was given pills to help but he refused to take it. Clearly he doesn't care and not bothered to try and she is not happy with him sexually too.

Kids are a deal breaker for some people and so I don't blame her.

Pandorabox:
This is not a beauty contest. I'm sorry to say this..
seun & co take note.

Lol it has always been and will always be about popularity. I know better now then to waste my time next time.

I vote for Refiner
Cc NLJega

Some girls really have time. Why go through all that effort instead of saying no better yet blocking the perv

MsGlobalwonder:
ok.. your inference is based on what u categorise as "main" issue or not? *sigh. She summarised and asked for legal help. She didn't state all that because that's not the bone of contention. See u gloating on your assumption? Smh!! Should a responsible man be told before he supports his child and family especially when he can? Should a responsible man attempt to kill his wife? Should a responsible man denounce and deny his wife publicly and to her parents? The woman should keep the mirage "war room" abi? I don't have strength again dakun.

My dear you have energy to still respond to rubbish. Even a 1 year old can see that so called husband of hers is useless trash. In her other thread she mebtsions he hardly sent her money throughout her pregnancy and the one time he sent her N10 000 naira he wanted detailed account of the money spent for that.

jazzybaby ignore Mr Brownjay,Taryur and the other demented people on this thread.

You are a great mother and as long as you do what's best for you, you do not owe anyone any explanations.