₦airaland Forum

Raine80:
Nothing wrong with that picture,your attitude however is wrong on many levels!

Everything is wrong with the picture and everything is wrong with your brain.

The guy is carrying a baby while pounding yam. This is not safe for the baby. Even if you were not the mother of the child a real human being will try to help in carrying the child.

There is nothing bad in a man helping out with household chores but leaving everything to him while you cross your legs chatting online is wicked.

raylord:
Honestly. I just want to know whether to give up and stop praying about this particular job because its a multinational company. Its been 4weeks now. Pls let's know how long it took to get contacted after writting their interview

It depends on the employer.
My former company gave me my offer of appointment a month after the interview while my present employer gave me my offer of apointment 5 months after interview and we would not resume until another 4 months.
My younger brother works with a multinational company and it took about 6 or 7 months after interview.

My advice to you is to try and be prayerful and don't let your mind dwell on it so much. That should however not stop you from applying for other jobs while waiting.

Igbo girls and pot belly is like 5 & 6. Too much drinking of bear.

What is wrong with her legs na. Is she a cripple?

Tyviv:
Give her if you have it, if you don't, then tell her you can't help her.... Maybe she is not attracted to you

See the crapy mentality of most Nigerian girls. She's not attracted to him but attracted to his money.

When will Buhari send his dogs EFCC and DSS after the Indimi family?

These people have been spending so much money on the upcoming marriage. Is it because they have been spending the money on his daughter?

Some people in other parties did not spend so much but Buhari sent EFCC and DSS after them even without any avidence of corruption.

Good for nothing IPODs yoot.

bobogee007:
Who told you they schooled in Nigeria

Receive sense!

NYSC is compulsory for every Nigerian graduate irrespective of where they schooled. There are so many NYSC members now who schooled abroad, some with masters sef.
During my time as an NYSC member, We had one guy, his name is Tunde. He has both Nigerian and British Nationality. We later learnt it was his father that insisted he comes back to Nigeria and do the compulsory Youth Service before returning back to the UK.

CACAWA:
ok

[size=18pt]When will Zahra, Yusuf and Halimat Buhari do their NYSC?
Or are they above the law?[/size]

https://d19lga30codh7.cloudfront.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Buhari-Daughter-graduation.jpg

The same way their father refused to appear before the justice Oputa panel in the year 2000. Those people are above the law. and there is no reasoning with them.

Even though NYSC is compulsory for every young Nigerian graduate, the Buhari children will never go for NYSC because it is beneath their status. This they learnt from their father who thought himself too good to complete his secondary school education. They would rather get liar Muhammad and their league of zombies to insult you than for them to go for NYSC.

crazymommy:
Are u saying a lady cannot request help from a guy because she is not ready to date him or interested in a relationship??can't they be friends??can't you help your friends whether male or female??assuming she was rude to you when you were asking her out then that is when I can say you should not answer her...but if she was not then give her If you have and if you do not have then just tell her straight..

If the guy is not good enough for her, his money should also not be good for her.

Why ask him for help when she has a boyfriend or other admirers. The guy is neither her father nor her mother. She should go and meet her father who's responsibility is to take care of her.
Does she not have female friends? She should go and meet them for help na. The girl is a very wicked person. You deny someone a relationship and you still want to be chopping the guy 's money. Habba! Na only she waka come?

I would strongly advise the guy not to give her a penny for the following reasons :
1) He should use the money on himself to look good for the next girl that will accept his proposal.

2) Girls are notorious for not returning back borrowed money. Infact she can insult the living daylight out of you the day you request for your money back.

When will EFCC and DSS going to go after the young Indimi, because I know if the young man was a PDP person, those silly EFCC and DSS would have arrested him for corruption by now. They do that just to embarrass you.

kingDELE:
am sure all d idiots insulting davido will knell just to snap with him (davido)

No mind them jare. Some people who have never stopped out of their bush village sef are also talking. All those talking crap are just envious of Davido's success in life.

emeijeh:
Who is this beast?
You must be that much talked about ldiot

See the way this Stoopeed cow is rolling on the floor with serious stomach pain because young Davido is having fun.

You say he's squatting abi, why don't you go to Chelsea club and snap your own picture standing.

You are just a village boy who have never steped out of his bush and primitive village.

I still maintain that hating and black belle will not get you anywhere in life.

F00lish cow wey you be.



Gerrarahia men!!!

Linda_Ikeji the smelly puna sure needs some advice

Congrats to her.
More grease to her elbow and more cucumber to her puna.

Tiny23:
A Muslim bride can wear any colour of wedding gown that pleases her,be it white,blue,cream, any colour(except black)so far she's well covered I.e. not exposing her private organs...
Moreover,the white wedding gown thing is not a Christian thing but,Western culture that was adopted.

Don't mind all those dummbb, seelly and illliterrate Christians. A Muslim man or woman can were any colour of their choice and Stoopeed Christian that doesn't like it can go and jump in the river for all we care.

Noblethony:
Was fun, though I lost my dog during the walk, was very painful but all thanks to God.

Sorry about your dog bro.

emeijeh:
Why is he squatting like a ball boy in the first pix?
"Davido the ball boy" ain't a bad name afterall

Ode. Oloriburuku wey you be

Hating and bad belle will not get you anywhere in life.

If you know you are not Hating, why don't you go to Chelsea and snap your own picture standing.

F00lish maggot

NaLaugh:
Davido squats humbly - Complaint! Why is he acting like a ball boy?

Davido stands - Complaint! Why is he so proud?


Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

You have said it all.

Haters will always hate. The most surprising thing is that those who hate the most are those who have never gone out of their village.

EMMYB0Y:
I just like this guy..... but I fear wetin go do you after you finish your tenure. .. hope your own no go worse pass dasuki own.... cos dullardduara is very good in terms of revenge

Revenge and hatred. That is all the evil and dull #TyrantBuhari knows.

Fayose will always be a thorn in the neck of the evil Tyrant even after leaving office as governor.

Fayose is a hero of democracy.

Lol..

Fayose the slayer of TyrantBuhari..

Lol..

Fayose the slayer of TyrantBuhari

I go first tear her better slap.

Then I will proceed to beat her like they way computer village boys beat Seun Egbegbe.

This man became governor in Nigeria when he was bearly 33 years old. He went to become Minister of petroleum (oil minister) still in his early thirties. He then went on to become Head of State when he was in his early forties. He never contributed any meaningful development to the nation. That was when he was young, smart and full of energy. Is it now that he's already a senile old man that Nigerians want him to perform wonders. I laugh at Nigerians.

mechanics:
B.Eng holders are placed a step ahead of B.Sc holders in the civil service, and after 2yrs of employment, one wil write promotion exam instead of 3yrs for B.Sc graduates, but that's a new circular and it has started working, al d best.

Very correct. B. Eng is wider in theory and practical than B. Sc. This is because B. Eng guys are more in depth in other fields of engineering than a B. Sc.

morbeta:
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You are an I M B E C I LE Didn't read the part he said the police officer has many lands.....anuofia. the said area I have properties too. And has been sponsoring survey for communities. So calling me names will only lead to you have epilepsy of the tongue. Anu mpama.

See how this one is barking like a rabid dog. Did the pastor prove it that the Police officer has thousands of plots? Ode f00lish cow. Is that why the pastor should start scaming him? It's called breach of trust and the pastor can go to jail for that.

Why was the pastor scaming the Police officer now. Its called breach of trust under the law.

morbeta:
Did you declare the property while filling asset declaration form. The Pastor wants to expose him with style.

You are so dumb. How could he have declared an asset he just bought and still developing. What is there to expose, how much is N1.2million that an ACP cannot raise. You are just too poverty striken. The pastor is a scam and has been duping the Police officer and had to play such a dirty trick when he found out that his game is up.

There is a lot of difference between a Yoruba beauty Queen and an Igbo queen.


One is a registered nurse and a pilot while the Igbo girl is busy with cucumbers and lesbia.nism.

busomma:
There must be some poison u were taken and when u stopped, ur body started repairing itself. Kidney don't just repairing itself brother. Be very truthful. Naira landers are too experienced & educated to be fooled just like that.

It could be that the guy was always taking hard drugs and other band substances and he had to stop because doctors will advise you to stop all those crap before any surgery is performed. And the kidneys had an opportunity to repair themselves.

The guy never talk true. There is more to this story.

This Seun Egbegbe just fall him hands with 9 iPhones the same way wey Chidimma fall her hands with cucumber. I trust Nigerians. They will make his life hell for him same way they made Chidimma's life hell for her.

Silly, dumb caricature of a president don't know that you cannot achieve economic stability by raiding forex with force. Who even does that.

As for the CBN, they will always praise him, after all he's their pay master.

Smoke2015:
Questions to Ask Him:

1) Was this a one-time thing or an ongoing affair?
If he’s in a new, deep relationship, there may be no future worth pursuing for the two of you. If it was a One-time offense then you need to decide if you can forgive him.

2) Are you in love with the other person?
This is the most important question to ask and the hardest to get an honest answer to, partly because he may not be sure of the answer himself. But if his answer is “yes,” it’s time to move on.

3) Are you still seeing the other person?
If they work together it might be a little hard for him to avoid her all together. But, “If he chooses to see the other person when he’s not obliged to, you should not forgive him because he is continuing to betray you.

4) What actions will you take to assure me this won’t happen again?
Verbal apologies are nice, but is he willing to take any concrete steps toward changing? If he just brushes this suggestion off with pleas for you to just trust him -that it won’t happen again the it isn’t enough.

5) What do you feel is missing in our relationship?
Find out what he’s looking for in others and if it’s even something you want to provide. Regardless of how he answers this, I can tell you that what’s missing is you’re not making him feel man enough. Bad girls know how to make their men feel like the biggest boy on the planet. When a man feels emasculated, by your wearing the trousers in the relationship or having more status than he does, he often cheats to try to feel like a big man again.

6) What actions can I take to make our relationship stronger?
Finding out exactly what he needs from you could be the key to salvaging the relationship (if you’re so inclined). Also, asking what you can do will help him be less defensive and pave the way for a more open conversation.
He may not have the guts to tell you what he really wants. Maybe what he really wants is for you to turn him on the way you did at the beginning of the relationship, when you paid more attention to how you looked and dressed, and were more playful and excited to have sex with him…Maybe. Not getting what he “wants” is no excuse for cheating but asking this question can help you get to the source of the problem.

7) Do you still want to be in a relationship with me? Some guys cheat to get caught and get out. Find out if he’s got an exit plan or if he wants to right what’s wrong. If you ask him this, you need to be prepared for a sour answer. Letting you discover his cheating was [maybe] his way to get you to break up with, or divorce, him.

Did you use protection?
Cheating can cause more than just emotional hurt. Make sure that there’s nothing else you need to be worried about.

9) Did you/do you feel guilt/remorse?
He knows he needs to say that he feels guilty and remorseful in order to get you to forgive him but this is something you need to feel beyond his words.



Questions to Ask Yourself:

1) Does he deserve my forgiveness?
Consider whether he came to you and confessed or if you had to learn about his indiscretion from a third party. Whether or not he was originally forthcoming says a lot about any moral guilt he felt about cheating. If you caught him (or he didn’t tell you), then it indicates that he’s not as ethical/moral of a person as you may have thought, and it can be a bit uncomfortable to stay with somebody like this. Who’s to say that he won’t do it again?”

2) Have I felt checked out of the relationship too or was I blindsided by this?
If you were both looking for an out, that’s one thing. But if you’re still into him, you have a lot to think about. You can beat yourself up forever over clues you might have missed, but the only thing you can do is figure out your role in the factors that led to your partner cheating. Note: this doesn’t mean you’re to blame!

3) Am I willing to start fresh with him or will I constantly be throwing this back up to him?
If “forgiving him” actually means “make his life with me a living hell,” neither of you will be happy. Not everybody has it in them to forgive, and that’s okay. You just need to be honest with yourself on this because if you can’t move on, then you’ll be torturing yourself and him for the rest of your days together.

4) Am I staying because I am afraid I won’t find someone else?
You need to make sure that you’re not settling simply because you’re afraid of your own company and of being self-reliant! Remembe, there are other fish in the sea.

5) Would I have cheated if given the opportunity?
If the answer is “yes,” your relationship was probably lacking the level of respect any relationship needs to survive. Time to move on. When people are committed, they can show restraint and regard for their partners, even if they were stuck in traffic on Lagos island in a car alone with Beyoncé.

6) Does it seem like he wants forgiveness or is looking for a way out of the relationship?
At this point you probably know him well enough to figure out where his head (and heart) is at.

7) In our relationship, does the good still outweigh the bad?
Making a pro and con list (to stay or to go) is a good idea when your relationship suffers this type of blow. Even if the good outweighs the bad, one bad thing (like cheating) can do a lot of damage. What you need to look at is whether the good make you happy or are you still going to be hurting and stressed over this for a while.

Has he done this (or other deceitful behaviors) before?
Think about whether this is a new behavior or a pattern that you’ve been trying your best to ignore. This can indicate just how much help he needs from a therapist or Jesus, and how much effort the two of you need to invest in making things right again.

9) Do we still have the same goals?
Are you both still on the same page or was the cheating just a symptom of a larger problem in the relationship? Affairs give people the chance to reevaluate unions, and it’s important to make sure that you still want the same things. The answers can really inform the investment you’re willing to make in sticking together.

10) Why do I still want to be with him?
When you’ve suffered the hurt and humiliation of being cheated on, you’d better have some solid reasons for staying. This is loaded and very individual. Many won’t agree with your reasons, which is why you need to be brutally honest in justifying them to yourself.

In some cases, like staying for the children, you may be doing more harm than good. In other cases, you may be needy, and that makes you vulnerable in moving forward. In still other cases, you may not want the major life changes that come with a split. Understanding what you want and why can help you focus on what matters the most which is you.

Cc: Lalasticlala seun

http://mojidelano.com/2016/11/questions-to-ask-before-you-forgive-someone-for-cheating/

This silly write up is one sided and reeks plane hatred for males. Because you used the masculine pronouns all through the write up. Are you saying that women are all saints and can never cheat?

Abeg park well joor.