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wetin Lampard and mason mount get bikonu

So Lampard changed both kovacic and kante in this match but left mount and Abraham. Chai!!!! what a coach

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Because of the rate of abnormalities in our society, when someone now do what is expected of him/her, it's being viewed as an achievement.

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WoundedLamb:
Hhmm... I had my first phone when I was 14. Thinking about it now, it only served to communicate with my family and to call my friends to know in whose house we were meeting next, lol. It made life easier and helped me stay 'connected'. My parents got it for me cause they felt I needed it for some reasons.

I understand the reasons you'd want to deny your kids that privilege but if their friends have phones, they'd still be exposed nevertheless. Besides, will you also deny a teen access to computers? I'm asking cause in this present age, denying kids access to computers is like sending them to school without pencils. A kid doesn't have to go for special 'computer lessons', a kid should grow up using computers. They can use the time for computer lessons to learn something more advanced. This is because everything is self service now and life has gone electronic. If you really want to make things any easier for your kid, computer shouldn't be one of those things they have to specially learn but just a tool they use to learn other things. I don't know about Nigeria but I believe it's pretty much the same thing over there.

So instead of trying to cover their eyes, why not leave them open and navigate the waters with them as closely as possible? If you hide the world from them now that you still have the ability to mould thier mindset, is it then when they become adults in the university that you'd suddenly expose them to the world? I'm afraid you'd have lost the opportunity to handhold them at that point cause you don't handhold an adult. If your kid isn't doing something bad just cause he doesn't about it, then he's not necessarily a good kid but just a positively ignorant one, and you can't really tell how he'd fare when he's eventually exposed. A good kid is one who knows why they shouldn't do certain things. You need to able to tell how your kid will use a phone knowing that the device can be used for good and for bad. The earlier you have this knowledge, the higher the chances of correcting any vice before they become an adult. When your kid understands the negative implication of doing something, you wouldn't have to worry about what they do in your absence. And to achieve this, you'd have to start early to mould their mindset, watch them, take note of thier progress and re-strategize when necessary. I'm afraid you can't do all these by keeping them ignorant even if it's for good.

My summary is, if you feel they need a phone, don't let the fear of corruption stop you from getting one for them.

They have access to computers both at home and in school which is necessary, but my intention is centered on phone which i don't see as important requirement for their development at that stage.
Nevertheless I learnt some things from your comment

With the rate of moral decadence in our society today and the fact that children live what they see and hear. Should a child in the secondary school level be allowed to own a phone?
Social media being order of the day and having a phone being probably the factor why children succeed in engaging in relationships. Is it fine to allow them own a phone or deny them access to it at that stage.
For me I think denying them access to phone at that stage, will help inculcate a reading habit in them and shut them out of the social media world too, to allow them focus more.

Let's hear from you guys and learn

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Reading through your story is disheartening, though we haven't heard your wife's side of it.

Brother from what you have written, I will start by saying that you didn't see the signs early enough that she's not supposed to be your wife(she sneaking out to club while you're asleep). This should be a lesson to some of us here "follow your heart but take your brain with you"
You have to totally cut yourself off from that woman and her family. Come back to your sense oo, cos if you die today, life continues. You have suffered enough and good a thing you know the root of your problem, why not refrain from them and get your sanity back. You have being surviving many of this challenges from her and her family and this things are warning for you to flee, take it or leave it, the next one that might hit you from them, you may not survive it.
Take care of the children from where you are and how you can(if at all they are truly your children even).

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One day we will know that covenant that lampard has with Mount. #LampardOut

At least e go help them to qualify for Europa league early this season

Righteousness89:
No Matter How Established you are, the Family Altar of a man and wife should not be apart..

What Holds a Home is the Altar.. That place where a Man and Wife come together to Pray..
That Togetherness is what the devil fights..

The Moment your Altar Start being apart, you open a way for the Enemy to Creep in..

Marriage is more Spiritual than Physical..

The Institution of Marriage is Created by God Almighty. For the Home to stay together, you must Recourse to God Almighty..

Sometimes the devil is not the problem but disobedience and lack of knowledge. A man doesn't need prayer to know he shouldn't stay away from the wife for too long(nature avoids vacuum), he doesn't need prayer to care and have time for his wife. Most times we substitute the place of thinking with prayer. Prayer is powerful but we ought to know what to do per time

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One day, the masses will be saturated with the lies of our leaders and will take laws into their own hands to demand justice and equity

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your biggest mistake is to believe that she loves you in the first place. In today's world there's nothing like love. She have gotten all she needs, I advise you not to continue the chat because you might realise more intriguing facts. Just move on without letting her know your reasons now, make it look as if she doesn't exist

Big thumbs up to Gypsy king, he kept his knockout promise. Fury is the real deal in heavyweight boxing