₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
This should be a walk in the park for us.

us being Nottingham Forest

iwaeda:
Nottingham Forest vs Manchester United 30 Dec, 2023 6:30pm.

Nottingham Forest should do the needful so the world can be a better place

Best in Jersey but make them win tournament na problem

the boy na premium mumu..the fact he still wanted to go ahead his family members and loved ones should go and carry sacrifice on his head, make e for get sense

that your egusi is ugly sha....and why are u disrespecting gbegiri and ewedu, why for goodness sake

alaye forget romance. Finance and Purpose

loooool...they know the hammer is coming. These are the people that were against the then Deputy governor, now Governor. He say he resign because of conscience...ode

spiSeyi:
That Alozie girl too hot, Igbo babes are always sweet and once they love you you are the luckiest man to live because they will give you their all. one love from me an Ibadan boy

Imo girls no dey dis whatsapp group sha

He dey chase clout. The person that appointed you is dead, u still dey resign. Nature dun retrench you already

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

By the time you finish considering, she go dun finish you patapata. Keep simping. Your story should read "I dumped a girl that wants to ruin me" NOT "my girlfriend demands money blablabla"

Chelsea won but Poch and his boys are largely mediocre.

EmperorCaesar:
Do u know why people even grieve when their loved ones die?

The grieving isnt about the dead, as he/she has transited and shifted to a diff realm, the grieve is for those he left behind as they would miss him and will never get to see him again


Again, death isnt a negative occurence, the dead even prefer death as that is the only time they experience eternal peace in their nothingness

How do you know what the dead prefer, you and I have not died before, so we can not know. And if we want to assume when people die, they transit into a state of nothingness, does that not mean that the dead have no capacity to have feelings?

this fight dey favour rivers people o....one bring 100k, the other one bring rice, small time, another one go bring maggi...food dun done

MemoriesAndMe:
Where are his kids currently located? In Nigeria or abroad?

his probably after using stolen wealth to pay for their fees abroad, will come back home and start one shady bureau d change or become some kind of overnight construction contractor ...boooom contract go begin roll.

According to him, insecurity calls for a collective effort and all Nigerians should put hands together to address the challenge.

“We cannot do it alone. We need the support of everyone. When you see something, say something, report as quickly as possible so that measures can be put in place adequately.

you cannot do it alone, but when they apply for jobs or to join the the army, u dont select them, u only pick ur cronies. They should stay and not go and look for how their own lives will be better, they should stay so they can be reporting to you quickly when they see something while u use backdoor to pick the juiciest of positions and opportunities for ur children and friends ...Weyrey people

xmas wey we suppose dey use dey feed d poor...

Some talk about children of rich people n politicians living in Nigeria. Just dey whine yourselves. Dey dere dey use analogy wey no even tally with ur situation at all

1. Talks about Nigerians abroad not making it to Forbes list are very unintelligent. People want to be happy and have a chance of living a good life. People don't want to be dragging generator, struggling to get to work, wake up 4am for a work that will start at 8am to get 350k per month where they can hardly save 100k. People want to live a decent life, People want to position their kids to compete at the global level, not competing for zenith bank cbn nnpc jobs with governors daughters, u are there talking about Forbes List.

2. Far right people abroad are the ticking timebomb to you, the boko Haram, thugs that ur politicians are raising putting guns in their hands during election, that those ones will use the guns to start earning a living after election, those ones are not ticking bomb to you

3. No racism, but there's discrimination along ethnic lines. We are so alike, yet we find any little opportunity to attack one another igbo this, yoruba that, fulani that, parents telling their children not to marry from another tribe, but u think racism is the only monster.

4. So if someone is a caregiver, she should not take the job to care for gay couple because she is religious. U do logic test at all before u typed all these things?

5. Cost of living is cheaper yenyenyen. Standard of living nko. Income standard nko. Why u dey celebrate low cost of living, I thought Nigerians living in Nigeria are on Forbes list mission. People abroad earn enough to support their living oga.

6. According to you Thousands of Americans and EU citizens are retiring to those places to live like king, you dont even need to be too analytical and deep to realize that Nigerians that are working now too in the US and EU have a chance of retiring back to Nigeria to live like kings too. And that's the reason they are doing what they are doing now.

7. Why are those Americans and EU citizens waiting till retirement before relocating to Indonesia, Mexico amd the rest u talked about. Why not relocate to those places in their active years, why wait till retirement

Rivers people made this monster, una vote a certain way for presidency, e carry d vote give another man for him own selfish gains, una no complain, una no protest, una no do anything. Ofcourse he sees you all as his possession, and that's why he thinks the Governor's main responsibility is to listen to him. Nothing concern am with good governance, he wants the governor to keep his structure so that he can continue to be the one that will give orders to the thugs and community leaders that will rig Rivers for Bola Tinubu for second term.

There's no one-size-fits-all solution in matters of relationship and human interaction generally.
You know when can't take it no more, na only u know weytin u dey feel, na u know why u dey there, na u know weytin u fit trade off for what u intend to get out of it. So analyze for yourself and decide. If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then u should be analytical enough to know what's good for you and what u can tolerate

eazzzy1:
It is your duty to make your partner secure. If she doesn’t want you to go out, insist on her coming with you. When you receive calls from female clients put your phone on speaker and keep the call short and straight to business.

Give her access to your phone and the right to go through it whenever she wants. Let her be able to answer your calls if you aren’t willing or available to answer. She is suspecting you because you have given her a reason to and only you can give her a reason to trust you.

In my opinion, getting angry over a partner’s insecurity is usually proof of guilt. If you were innocent her insecurity will be cute to you.

you never jam insecure partner. You will be able to tell that this woman wants all your happiness and living to revolve around her. If you become somewhat happy in scenarios where she's not a major player, it becomes a problem, she becomes moody.
It is not practical and always possible that you can involve your partner in everything you do(especially work), na wife u marry, not business partner, except u two are truly running the business together professionally.
A partner needs to be understanding, you never catch am cheat, give him the benefit of the doubt, keep warning him in a cheerful mood, not keeping malice and forming rubbish mood swings because a femal client is calling me. See whether u like it or not, if who u married is a premium man, other women will desire him, some women will want to do business with him because of that. Will you advice your husband not to do business because female clients like him. Keep your man or woman emotionally focused on you through other means, not by keeping malice or giving him or her cold shoulders because u think some other people like him or her.
Everyone has a role to play in our lives, ur friends will be ur friends and its even healthy to catch up on old memories. doesnt mean they are more important than ur wife/husband. U share and plan how to spend ur earnings with her, u plan ur future with her, she is a stakeholder in everything. U are raising ur kids(who are the most important gifts of life) with her....he has never caught him cheating(according to him) ....... i think she's just insecure..Ask her what is her problem with the guy going to the gym now, she fit say who is the guy doing fit body for, that she is not complaining.

Wakatumbit:
My wife is very insecure and it's making me tired.
She's always suspicious of everything, I can't go out, I can't answer calls.
The worst part is that she will be keeping malice with me cus she's suspecting me, she won't even say anything to me.

If a someone who I don't want to talk to calls me on my phone, and I decline the call, she will take offense. There was a day my mum was calling me and I didn't answer the call on time, she became mad that it was a woman calling and I don't want to answer the call.

If I tell her I'm going to the gym in the evening she will become suspicious. I can't even talk to my clients who are females in her presence because she Will be always jealous.

As I write this, she isn't talking to me cus I went to the gym yesterday evening.

I'm tired. She has never caught me cheating before because it's something I don't do

Projecting insecurity on our partner can drive them crazy, especially for those ones that wont talk and be keeping malice. You sound like a peace-lover, otherwise i for tell u make break the table and tell her you are not in for that kind of childish attitude, that u cannot be miserable in your house and u will rather live in peace alone than walk on egg shells around her. Its a dirty attitude. The more you tolerate her or keep begging her for doing nothing wrong, the more emboldened she will become to keep manipulating you with that repulsive attitude. Decide for yourself what is important for you and do it

Bliss52:



As a former Civil Servant he is giving his fellow former Government workers unmerited money

Politicians and Civil Servants do nothing at the Secetariate but allocate money to themselves

What of Ordinary people without anyone working for the Government
.

what exactly are you on about. The money paid to civil servants will be circulated in the markets to hardworking people in Rivers state through the sales they make and services they render. It may not get to everybody, but it will touch a lot of hardworking people.
Na who no get weytin to sell no go get chance

Righthussle:
Na court go settle the matter las las


If you're reading this, stop giving MIRACLE healers your hard earned money. MIRACLE healing is fake.

stop wasting ur energy...they will not hear. Even if they see their miracle Daddy admitted at the hospital for slight headache, they still won't listen to you.

Righthussle:
Na court go settle the matter las las


If you're reading this, stop giving MIRACLE healers your hard earned money. MIRACLE healing is fake.

Fubara dey lead for court already.....

Sermwell:
Wike will be a compound fool to make Sim loose at the supreme Court! That will make Tonye who is in Ameachi's camp governor!! This will now means the total end for Wike!!

When you abuse everyone , fight everyone na so e dey end. You will find yourself fighting an enemy and the only way out for you is in the arms of another enemy. He should forget it, Rivers is no longer under his control. Either Fubara or Tonye. Either as governor will checkmate him

Yankiss:
What I meant by too early is 1. He was Wike's beneficiary 2. He is yet to lean the ropes. He needs to have furtively studied the ground and how to react and which institutions to strengthen or weaken. Hasty climbers have sudden fall.

It's not too early, in naija politics, the earlier you start checkmating your enemy, the better for you. Almost 6 or 7 commissioners have resigned now(more to come) plus 27 lawmakers, ALL loyal to Wike and you still think the Governor has time to start learning and studying and moving slowly. ....Commissioner of FINANCE, JUSTICE, works, Transport all loyal to Wike...common man, weytin remain for government....impeachment moves already made, when do u want him to start acting, when he has been removed finally. don't be so sure he has not learned the ropes, Because he is quiet or not glamorous. His moves in the last 2 weeks show he knows how to use the instrument of power to his advantage. He may appear to be doing what is morally wrong, but he is doing what is right, legally speaking and that's all that matter. Besides that, the people u surround yourself with in times of political crisis really matter. So far he seems to have sound legal advice and guidance. Amaechi no do reach this before Wike carpet am. Don't underestimate any Governor of Rivers State. The money(that is not passing through the books) available to them to play with is hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. There's a reason the next thing on their mind after completing 2 terms is always to go and buy the whole delegate of 36 states and naija voters to become president..... From Odili to Amaehi to Wike. And of course political games in naija is just money, buy all d friends of ur enemy, pay someone to damage ur enemy.

Thisis2raw:
you think it's Sim that is getting rid of them? Those are wike loyalists, that's stepping out of Sim govt.
Please you people should beg Edison ehi to come outside the rivers state govt house for a minute.

So you think wikes loyalists will prefer to stay out of Sims govt. Doesn't work that way. They want to be where they can keep an eye on fubara. They were surely kicked out

izubext007:
Wike Tsunami is just too powerful for Sim network to withstand.

Dey play o...just dey play

Yankiss:
Hmmm, there is more than meets the eyes in the unfolding drama in Rivers state. Sim should be very careful. It's too early to have taken on Wike pointedly. Wike is more deadly than Amaechi. And he is backed by the coldly calculative Tinubu. Let's reserve sits and watch the unfolding drama over a cold bottle or origin.

I disagree with you @ boldened .... in naija politics, u don't fight little by little, once u identify an enemy crush them once and for all, flush ur enemy out and be brutal. Leave diplomacy out. Exercise your power fully let ur enemy know u are out for the kill. That is the only way to win in naija politics. Ambode dey calculate dey do am small small e chop am for leg, Ladoja dey use diplomacy play d game with adedibu e backfire.