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Thank you.

CADA:
OP I'd suggest you shouldn't sell your car solely to pursue that case. Rather you may sell it and think of a business whether little to set up. People do fall and rise again.

I and my dad were once into solid mineral. My dad was hardcore while after so many challenges (loosing loads of millions of naira. Loosing 34 20ft cntr disguised to be lead and zinc ore which were later used in sand filling lily pond terminal in apapa)in the business, I suggested to him to quit. Thankfully, he heeded.

Take it easy. Think about it this way, you may also have lost the money if you had shipped it and those buyers lie to you about the final test analysis result.

I would suggest you calm down, you will bounce back but only when you focus. Irony of life is, the said guy may not still be more successful than you in life but these things makes your remember you need to be smarter, ask questions and become stronger. It's better it happened then than now.

Be strong.
I dont know your location but you may explore local production like what I do.

I produce ice blocks now and it's been a calm, challenging but ascending experience since for me.

Dont be too scared.

Thanks. I just sent email to you. Kindly reply.

Charlief:
Write me a direct message ....

Thank you. You are kind.

Mariangeles:
You have to try, as that is the best solution .

Good luck .

Thank you so much. I quite appreciate your advise.
As if you know. I have since contacted One or two individuals that requested I contact them while some are really out to help sincerely, others are asking for money stylishly. But God leads.

tunde233:
I suggest you combine efforts to blow it big on the media with prayer and still write to EFCC as someone suggested earlier. Media first so that when it is all out in the media, Govt agencies will ask less of mobilisation fund. Be discreet about sending your numbers...

Thanks a bunch dear. God can use anyone as a tool to unravel situations. You came at the right time. Blessings in no small measure.

fergieboy:
Na me you go thank.. Mod for no look your face had it been I didn't cc three super mod

All the best

Thank you for this. I will call him and update.

yanabasee:
He gave you the best solution to what prompted you to open this thread in the first place.....


Browse about Brekete family, check YouTube videos and see how he assist people.....

Try and call/text him via this number.... 08033221149

Best of luck

I just did.

ayoolar011:
Send me a Direct Message. I can help

First of all, I appreciate all those who have made one or two suggestions here and those to come. Equally,
I appreciate the moderators who deemed it fit to bring my case to the front page after much plea.

DavidEsq, (moniker) I am not looking for financial assistance as you suggested rather, I needed to gather opinions from experienced individuals who might have encountered a similar situation. If you care to know, this is one of the benefits of social media. You may not know the calibre of people here on nairaland. There are lawyers here, human right activists, bloggers as well as law enforcement personnel. As a matter of principle, I don't feel comfortable begging for money. Read my post very well, I stated that I was working with a reputable organisation but had to resign in order not be sacked because I have loans that went bad. However, I understand where you are coming from but I mentioned that I can explain in detail to anyone willing to assist with evidence. In order not to bore the readers with plenty write-ups, I decided to summarise it. I would have preferred to contact you to narrate and tender the evidence in my possession pertaining the transaction. I don't think you have visited the SFU before. It's not a place you access with quasi or cook up stories. The only issue here is the financial involvement which informed my decision to dispose my car to raise fund to pursue this case but not sure if the debt will be recovered afterwards hence my towing this path. That said, it's a free world and your are entitled to your opinion.

Secondly, majority of the inputs suggested so far pointed at Human Right radio, Abuja which I see viable and would take a stand point at the end.

Furthermore, there are a lot of suggestions here which I cannot respond to individually but I will certainly contact those that requested I reach out to them via whatsapp or direct message.

All in all, I promise to give an update at the end of the day, visa vis the final step and resolutions.

I am still hopeful!

Best regards.

DavidEsq:
I have the impression that OP doesn't need the kinda help suggested to him. This is because every option suggested to him is rejected by him. I doubt if he would reject the option of fund raising for him. This should make one wary of him. Wat exactly is he asking? Just FP or something implied?

This life is somehow. So this thread (https://www.nairaland.com/5214095/wife-keeping-malice#78821245) made front page even when the OP said he never wanted it on the front page? Whereas, I have sent retinue of posts begging for my issues be taken to the front page for more suggestions and possible solutions.

Anyway such is life. Help locates people differently. I have accepted my situation.

Peace!

Good morning all, trust we're doing great in our area of endeavours.

I am here again not to bother us with my "issues" but rather to plead further for assistance.

Firstly, I want to appreciate all those who have sympathised with me and others for their advise. Special thanks to Zuluhead(moniker) for reaching out though the option he proffered had been applied last year with no result.

I appeal to the MODERATORS to help move this thread to the front page so that more options can be explored, who knows maybe the assistance I need might come from there.

Please help a brother. I have never felt the way I feel right now in my entire life. It's so bad that I depend on my brother financially for certain family expenditures. He is getting agitated because he has his own family too and our elderly parents to carter for since I am not working anymore.

Please I am optimistic that there are still people here who can help with practical solution towards recovering my money. Anyone close to the the moderators should help me talk to them.

I cannot commit suicide but I now see reason people commits it. Depression is one of the worst sicknesses. Atimes I feel like the next day shouldn't come. Sleeping is now an uphill task. I rarely sleep because I am always obsessed.

Although I started learning a trade from my friend but it has not been easy since there is no income. I don't know what to do again.

Help is all I need. Not financial help but the best way to go about recovering my money from a fraudulent individual.

I am hopeful...

Have a lovely weekend.

OK. Thanks I will try my best. Thanks for everything.
God bless.

bluediesel03:
...if you know the option I just gave you,you won't hesitate to look for money and embark on the journey..The place is the last hope for a common man.just ask about the place then decide.If you cannot get justice their I'm afraid you can't get it anywhere.

OK thank Sir. I have sent my phone number to you Sir.

Zuluhead:
i just replied you, check your email.

Sir, for security reasons, could you please drop your number so that I can contact you directly. I don't think the email I sent to you went through. quote author=Zuluhead post=78609545]send me your number[/quote]

I really appreciate the suggestions made so far by concerned persons. However, I am open to further opinion and ideas on how best to approach this matter without incurring much cost.

It's a lengthy story but I choose to summarise in order not to bore concerned readers.

I will narrate the whole incident to anyone willing to assist.

Please help.

Thanks bro but expenses to Abuja won't be easy for now.

bluediesel03:
This is your only option when others failed,..come to Abuja,Locate human right Radio,make sure you see Ordinary Ahmed Isa.My brother just thank me in advance....I'm waiting

Thank you bro. God bless.

cassidy1996:
i feel your pain brother, wake up at night as from 12am naked and pray. talk to GOD.

I can relate. You are right but this guy packaged the lies nicely. Note, I sent someone to visit his house and stay put before I made the transfer. He was able to manipulate things. The Dad said he gave the guy 5,000,000 naira sometime ago but he mismanaged it.
Also that he married first wife, sacked her, marry second one, sacked and when he wanted to marry the third wife, the dad refused but he went on with the marriage. So from findings, he is not in terms with the dad. Bro, a lot of stories. I am dieying silently. Some times I begin to ask the essence of living.

stanley000:
this ain't an issue of scamming, it's just a transaction gone bad, I'm sure they must already have told him that and that's why the officers even want to milk more money from him. Know who u are dealing with, I always get anoyed when even my blood brothers mention "trust" or words like " don't but trust me" ... Trust has nothing to do with my friendship or business dealings with anyone, never let anyone fool u into dealing with someone fraudulent.

Even I now paid an AC service man to come and work for me and it's 3days now without coming to do what he was paid for. Well I was wise enough to pay him only 2k out of the amount upon all I still feel bad. Humans are seldom what the appear to be.

OP I WILL BE HONEST WITH YOU THAT MONEY MIGHT JUST BE WATER OVER THE DAM!!

Nigeria police go fustrate you, even Efcc is the worse, don't be fooled by those media stunt, they will do nothing but milk u of your remaining car.

Good suggestions but doubt my ability to put things together at the moment. Plenty issues to handle.
I have been involved in an accident twice on my way to the debtor's residence but God prevailed.

dominique:
Take to Twitter and Instagram. Lay out all the data you have on the transaction and how the fraudster failed to deliver. Include how the police charged you to discharge their duties. Tag policeng, officialefcc, Dolapo Badmus, Instablog and as many authorities and influencers as possible. It's only if the village king dad and his charge and bail lawyer don't care about the embarrassment that will come from such an open accusation that they won't contact you for some kind of resolution.

I will do that. Thank you. I just sent it via email to you.

Zuluhead:
send me your number

Thanks I really appreciate.

cassidy1996:
i feel your pain brother, wake up at night as from 12am naked and pray. talk to GOD.

Thank you.

donbachi:
First...keep your hope alive and lastly...there is always a light at the end of the tunnel...the lord is your strenght.

Kindly, help a soul before late.

My Story:

I paid a guy 3.2million since 2017 to supply me Zinc Ore but he defaulted . I have since reported the matter to his father, village king, and town union president, yet no result. I visited his house sometime last year and after much noise, he signed an agreement before his lawyer and my own lawyer to pay effective April last year, but reneged again.

His village king as well as his lawyer have since lost interest in the matter. They advised that having exhausted all peaceful means of recovering the fund; I am at liberty to explore other options since the guy refused to oblige.

I don't want to arrest him with the police in his state of residence because I know he can easily riddle his way out. Considering our judicial system, I think going to court would prolong the case.

A friend suggested that since I live in Lagos and him at the East, the best option will be using EFCC, Special Fraud Unit or Force CID to arrest him (debtor) after obtaining approval from IG's office which seems to be expensive. I visited SFU Ikoyi and was told that the petition to IG will cost me 60,000 to 100,000 while mobilization for the officers that will go for his arrest amounts to 250,000.

The above fund put together is almost 400,000 naira or more, which I don't have at the moment. I have since put my car for sale to pursue this case.

I have lost a lot in the course of traveling for this debt. I lost my job last year because I couldn't continue servicing the loan I took from First Bank and my place of work as well.

My wife is now the pillar of the family. The situation around me is so pathetic.

Please I need suggestions and anyone that can assist me pursue this case. I have print out of all the payment made to him(debtor), signed agreement by him and other documents.

Please help a brother.

I will appreciate if the moderators can help me push this post to front page. I am totally devastated with no hope at sight.

Thanks for your concern. I quite appreciate the idea of not selling the car but how do I recover the fund with interest? Any suggestions? Thanks once more. [ quote author=seyigiggle post=78592461]Sorry sorry about your situation.
Please do not sell your car to pursue this case. use the money to start up a business while you use other avaliable option to recover your money with interest.[/quote]

Serve him good.

Please, I have a similar case. I paid a guy 3.2million since 2017 to supply me Zinc Ore but he defaulted . I have since reported the matter to his father, village king, and town union president. I visited his house sometime last year and after much noise, he signed an agreement before his lawyer and my own lawyer to pay effective April last year, but reneged again.

His village king as well as his lawyer have since lost interest in the matter. They said that having exhausted all peaceful means of recovering the fund; I am at liberty to explore other options since the guy refuse to oblige.

I don't want to arrest him with the police in his state of residence because I know he can easily riddle his way out. Considering our judicial system, I think going to court would prolong the case.

A friend suggested that since I live in Lagos and him at the East, the best option will be using EFCC, Special Fraud Unit or Force CID to arrest him (debtor) after obtaining approval from IG's office which seems to be expensive. I visited SFU Ikoyi and was told that the petition to IG will cost me 60,000 to 100,000 while mobilization for the officers that will go for his arrest amounts to 250,000.

The above fund put together is almost 400,000 naira or more, which I don't have at the moment. I have since put my car for sale to pursue this case.

I have lost a lot in the course of traveling for this debt. I lost my job last year because I couldn't continue servicing the loan I took from First Bank and my place of work as well.

My wife is now the pillar of the family. The situation around me is so pathetic.



Please I need suggestions and anyone that can assist me pursue this case. I have print out of all the payment made to him(debtor), signed agreement by him and other documents.

Please help a brother.

Very poor write up. Every body must not believe in Nigeria and her elections. Set up your course and deceive people to follow you as Nnamdi Kanu. At least with that you can get more publicity which is your main intention of creating this thread. For your info, I am from Anambra State, based in Lagos but I won't vote for anybody. Not because Nnamdi say so but based on personal convictions. Go get life Jor...

Tufiakwa!! Why are these fools afraid of IPOB? They try to drag IPOB into issues thats doesn't concern them. Post like this goes a long way to prove. Nnamdi right. You hate a people but wont let them go.

Chibuzor11:
This is proof that our "beloved" IPOB is a brainless organization.
For the fact that IPOB and SHIITES fight for a somewhat similar cause you'll see some IPOB online terrorists insulting them. That's very sad.

IPOB terrorists are known for swimming and hiding inside mud whether the see anyone dressed in camouflage. Their leader just heard sirens then ran and ate sharwama in Ghana before running to Israel, and he's wailing like an injured dog over there.

Instead of IPOB to respect those men(Shiites) they rather ignorantly hurl insults at them.
Instead of IPOB to respect Palestine whom they have a lot in common with, they rather ass lick their Zionist masters and hope those Zionists will liberate them. You can't call a snake to rescue a rat.

We Igbos and Christians love and will vote Buhari no matter what!
Buhari has done a lot in the SE that our corrupt brethren and our popular "headless" party(PDP) now those satanic spawns want to come back to re-loot.
God forbid.

I will save this nonsense you posted here and revert in two weeks time. You like him and would like him to be disgraced locally and internationally. Double edged persons like you remains one of the reasons Nigeria is under developed.

teflonjake:
...mark these 1words

( in a few weeks from now Nnamdi kanu will be disgraced both internationally and locally)

I like the man, but that's what I see happening.

This is typical of Hausas. They align easily. I would have loved to see Fayose toe same path but what do I know.

Mr. this your advertisement for IPOB is becoming embarrassing and annoying. You move from thread to thread shouting IPOB like a widow. I am yet to understand why you are not banned with all the abusive and irrelevant words you post on nairaland.
Also, I have the feeling you re not gainfully employed outside the BMC salary. I have never seen any constructive post or analysis from you on nairaland rather you keep repeating one statement "ipob re criminal, ipob are terrorists etc. To you anyone who does not support apc or buhari is a terrorist or criminal.
Not minding we re in a democratic setting. I dont blame you though

sarrki:
Sharap

Ipobs are terrorist

I keep wondering this idiot has never been banned once by the moderators. Is it that Seun (the owner of nairaland) is as nepotic as their lifeless master in Aso Rock? Or is he on Zombists pay list? This Sacki or whatever he is called breaks the rules guiding users conduct on nairaland with reckless abandon and get away with it. Naiaraland sucks!!!

Sarkin:
He reminds me of the gallant men from the jobless lazy aggressive idiotic wicked pigs of biafr terrorist secret service.

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