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FamilyRe: Would You Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Obelomo: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2011
God forbid!
CultureRe: Respect For Elders: Who Does It More/better? by Obelomo: 8:51am On Oct 24, 2011
Yorubas
TV/MoviesRe: I Don’t Know What Is Worse – Nigerian Actors Or Nigerian Movies by Obelomo: 10:06am On Oct 15, 2011
I cannot answer ur question, because it depends! The old films are a lot better than most of these new films. Nollywood needs to reduce the four parts cycle, and stop dragging simple storylines. Also, we need these real Nollywood stars back in the films like Kate Henshaw, Clarion Chukuwura, Zach Orji, RMD and many more! The English films, also need more diversity of stories that has meaning.
TV/MoviesRe: Yoruba Movies Are Destroying Peoples Name With Their Senseless Titles by Obelomo: 5:15am On Aug 21, 2011
They do this attract people's attention!
TV/MoviesRe: Will A Nollywood Movie Sell Without A Popular Face? by Obelomo: 8:48am On Aug 20, 2011
It might sell, but not that much! I remember a movie vendor recommended a
film for me, but I passed because there were no familiar faces. Later, I read reviews on the net, that the movie was really good.
CultureRe: Why Do Edo People Speak Yoruba? by Obelomo: 8:21am On Aug 11, 2011
Many tribes in Nigeria speak Yoruba fluently! If both parents are Edo, Delta, etc. their child's first name should not be Yoruba(in my opinion)!
FashionRe: If You Were Told To Use Only One Item Of Makeup What Will It Be? by Obelomo: 9:10am On Aug 02, 2011
Powder/Foundation
CultureRe: Nigerian Names You Love So Much. by Obelomo: 11:16am On Jul 20, 2011
Olaide! I will try to stop(lol)
CultureRe: Nigerian Names You Love So Much. by Obelomo: 10:54am On Jul 20, 2011
I like too many Naija names, especially the Yoruba ones!

Tega(don't know the meaning)
Shade
OluwaToyin(love the meaning)
OluwaTosin
TV/MoviesRe: Wich Do You Prefer: Nigerian Or American Movies? by Obelomo: 9:48am On Jul 20, 2011
I am used to watching Naija films anyways! I am open to any "wood", if the story is instresting and has good actors and actresses. The English genre needs to get their act together! There are too many parts in almost all their films, with simple one storyline. Like somebody said, most of are films are "homemade", and not necessary for theater. Yoruba films need to reduce the Juju crap, Gollywood cut the porn crap! American films need to make more films with meanings. My point is, all of these genres has issues!
FamilyRe: At What Age Will U Like To Get Married? by Obelomo: 6:48am On Jul 14, 2011
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FamilyRe: Is It True That Ladies From Broken Homes Are Not A Good Wife Material? by Obelomo: 10:38am On Jul 02, 2011
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In fact on the contrary, ladies from broken homes have a better tendency to make better wives especially in Nigeria. Just like children from poor homes have a better tendency to be good financial managers.

They have suffered the pains of not being with both their parents. They have seen their friends from stable homes. They lived their lives wishing to have stable homes. They learnt the hard way what stable homes can provide to the psyche of children. They swore that they would do everything possible not to repeat the mistakes of their parents.

Children from stable homes are more likely to take too many things for granted. They are more likely to grow up not understanding the amount of sacrifice needed to keep a home together. Most people commenting so far are only doing so because in Nigeria, we have been conditioned to believe in the superstitions of ancient times. In Europe, America and other developed countries where divorce is very common, ask this same question and you will see a different class of opinions from respondents.

At the end of the day, it boils down to the individual and not the background of the individual per se! Too many things will come to play.

Arsenal is better than Man U!

Does this argument hold any sense? Depending on what your bias is, you can always make a case either for or against the above statement.

Eba is sweeter than amala! Depending on what you prefer, you can argue for or against.

Children whose parents did not beat them can never make good fathers! What nonsense! My parents never, ever, beat me, I am 34 presently with 4 kids, and I can boast of being one of the best Nigerian dads ever to pass through this world.

Some of my uncles and aunts once told me that Edo girls are all LovePeddlers and never make good wives! I married from Edo state, and she is from a double broken home, she did not even know her father until she was 21 years old, yet she remains a blessing and an angel to me. I am from not from Edo state.

I read some posts above and people were saying, "the girl is likely to follow her mother's footsteps and break her own home". For your information, men cause 85% of broken homes, either directly or indirectly. The girl's mother might have been an angel which her father never appreciated due to, say, drunkenness, womanising, gambling and all what not. Does it mean that her mother, having divorced the father for such irresponsible behaviours after enduring it for many years, will not be able to bring her children up properly to be good, godly and fit for marriage? No!

Guys, read my earlier post on this issue, there are things you look out for in a lady you intend to marry, and her coming from a broken home or not is certainly not one of them.

Yoruba girls are dirty, so don't marry them.
Ibo girls will finish your money, so don't marry them.
Calabar and Edo girls are promiscous, so don't marry them.
Ebira and igala girls will use juju on you so don't marry them.
Hausa girls will train their children to be bokoharamists so don't marry them.
Port harcourt girls will kill you to inherit your property, so don't marry them.
etc etc etc!!

Absolute nonsense, all these statements. Whatever characteristics you see in any lady from one tribe, you will get thousands from another tribe with such habits as well.

For as many girls who come from broken homes that make bad wives, you will see just as many from stable homes who are bad too!

End of discussion!

I agree so much with these statements.
RomanceRe: Can You Date A Lady/guy With A Very Poor Command Of The English Language? by Obelomo: 8:40am On Jun 13, 2011
Just try to correct his grammar! He is cute and has a good job, which is hard to find nowadays!
FamilyRe: What Will U Name Ur Child/children? by Obelomo: 7:23am On May 27, 2011
Thank you ma pipo for your h-understanding.

Oh yes!
Please, nothing like:

Bonaventure. . . Misaventure. . .Paraventure.

All those 'adventure' names are not to be used.

Grandma names like "Gertrude". . . "Hazel". . ."Jemima". . . "Beaaaaaaaaaatric". . . ."Ed-ina". . . ."Doroti"

World without end names. . ."Perpertual". . .

Heavens forbid!

I can't stand English names. I was baptized in a Catholic church with that name called Helena. . . I have since gotten rid of it. Thanks to lost birth certificate. The useless name has gone on exile for ever. Thank you lord!

St Helen of Troy my arzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!

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I agree with u on this one my sista! Naijas tend to name Old school English names! My legal first name is English and old school! I been try to change or switch it with one of my others names, since I was little. Another thing I cant stand is if both of your parents are Edo, Delta, ebira,etc. your first name should not be Yoruba.
FamilyRe: What Will U Name Ur Child/children? by Obelomo: 7:15am On May 27, 2011
No English names please!

I nor dey for 'colonio-religious' mentality abeg!

Most-def nothing with 'Olu'. . .'Chi'. . .'Osa'. . . and all that 'God this' and 'God-that' rubbish in them.

Sooooooooooooo archaic and trite!

All those LOCAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL names of 'virtuous' standings DID not appear on the birth certificates either.

Such annoying names like 'Faith'. . .'Hope'. . . 'Endurance'. . . 'Courage'. . . 'Chastity'. . . .'Joy'. . .'Peace'. . .'Fortitude'. . .

Not to mention those houseboy and housegirl names of perpertual sufferings and long-suffering and endless 'maltreament' from step fathers and mothers or indentured servitude like . . . 'Boniface'. . . 'Donatooose'. . . 'Ignatoose'. . . 'Aloyshoose'. . . .

Oh! Days of the week and months of the year. . . .buuuuuuuuuuush names!


Soinday. . .
Moinday. . .

NO "TARDED" BIBLICAL NAMES EITHER. . . Samuel. . .Moses. . . Joshua. . .Peter. . . Sarah. . . Deborah. . . RUBBBBBBBBBBBISH!!!!

Hey Blazay there is nothing wrong with God names, he gave us the kids and all glory should belong to him. I agree with u on the rest except, some Bibilcal names and English names are okay.
CultureRe: Don't Have Anything To Do With A Badagry Guy, They Are Not Yorubas by Obelomo: 7:57am On Apr 27, 2011
Look them up O! Lagos is considered a Yoruba and Egun state!
CultureRe: Do Nigerian Tribes Have Unique Looks? by Obelomo: 7:36am On Apr 26, 2011
Most of the time yes! There are some people who they can go for any tribe or ethnicity like me. Even if someone speaks Yoruba fluently, sometimes I can tell. Some of my people can't tell, if the person speaks Yoruba fluently!
Christianity EtcRe: I Call Him The 'ancient Of Days' by Obelomo: 7:00am On Apr 25, 2011
God has many names!

Alpha and Omega!
FamilyRe: How Many Kids Do You Want To Have by Obelomo: 6:22am On Apr 25, 2011
2or3
FamilyRe: What Will U Name Ur Child/children? by Obelomo: 6:19am On Apr 25, 2011
Name matters! I have many names, but my main one is my favorite(although it is too common)! My English one is alright, but it is so old school! My close friend, who is naija still calls me by my English name, and I told her that I prefer my Yoruba one better.
FamilyRe: What Will U Name Ur Child/children? by Obelomo: 6:14am On Apr 25, 2011
Hotie gave the best solution, also pray about it!
FamilyRe: Why Do People Bearing The Same Name Always Have The Same Behaviour? by Obelomo: 5:10am On Apr 25, 2011
I wonder why myself! Sometimes it is coincidence, and I know the meaning of name matters!
FamilyRe: What Are The Things You Have In Place Before Marriage ? by Obelomo: 7:41am On Apr 21, 2011
Love of God(Good Christian)
Financially stable
Intelligent, having goals and a right mind set
FoodRe: Food Without Meat Or Fish by Obelomo: 7:56am On Apr 16, 2011
No! Only if I had no choice!
TV/MoviesRe: The Best Yoruba Film Ever? by Obelomo: 7:11am On Apr 14, 2011
Ade go to nigeriafilms.com, it is true about Alasari being late. Sindodo is alive O!
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike's Husband Revealed by Obelomo: 6:37am On Mar 31, 2011
Na wa o!
CelebritiesRe: Bukky Wright's New Pictures,hot Or Not? by Obelomo: 7:04pm On Mar 27, 2011
The first pic looks good! The other pics are just okay, well the third is so so! Bukky does look good for her age though!
FamilyRe: What Makes A Good Spouse Material? by Obelomo(op): 8:22am On Feb 17, 2011
Naijalyn thanks! Ikamefa I bored sue me!
FamilyRe: What Makes A Good Spouse Material? by Obelomo(op): 8:20am On Feb 17, 2011
Chaircover that part was a joke! Although I would not mind lol!
FamilyWhat Makes A Good Spouse Material? by Obelomo(op): 10:02am On Feb 15, 2011
Here is my list!

God-Fearing Christian
Caring
Handsome,Clean, Sense of Fashion,etc.
Hard-working

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