Happy new month

1. What does marriage mean to you as an individual.

2. What would make you leave your marriage if you get married?

Leezah:
Your friend or you?

my friend

Bitcoinomy:
Life is Priceless and Money is not everything.

Good

ukay2:
Hope this will help NTB rate to go upwards

Rates MIGHT go up if the "men" at the top want to help

Otherwise, excess liquidity may dilute possible rate increase

Thisnut:
times like this is when we push our boat to real estate. January 2017 when we were in times like this. Dollar was 480-500. I bought a land measured at 100ft by 100ft for 4.8m naira and one side of the land has an incomplete 2flats of 3 bedrooms each at a roofing level.

Fast forward in 2019, the same street someone sold 100 ft by 100ft for 7m naira with nothing inside the land with plenty abeg. This shows if i was to buy the land now, I'd have paid 10m naira or more.

By the special grace of God, I'm currently building a 6flat of 2 bedrooms each on the other side, hoping to complete it in 2 to 3 months time. 120days is my estimated time frame for it.

Real estate is one of the oldest businesses and in times of inflation, it has a way of standing out.

My mom built 2 houses of face me, i face you in 1968, up till today with little renovation she is still getting money from those houses. She said she has gotten the money of those houses back like a million times.

If you don't know what to do with your money, build a house for tenants in habitable environment , you will never run at loss. If dollar self go up, house rent go increase. You might think the rent is low, but a time will come when you will make the money used in building that house in rent for just a year. House my mom built less than 1000 naira, she makes 5000 naira now from a single room in a month times 26rooms, that is 130k naira in a month and over 1.5m a year. #Fact!

Commercial buildings give rental income better than residential buildings

What have you learnt so far, during this lockdown?

meobizy:
If it happened in 2019 abeg tell me the resolution of the tale.

solution first.

U1:
The wify wasn't hungry. She should just not starve the children for nothing.

It's not like the husband has done anything with the woman or showed intention of doing so na.

Abi na

This happened sometime around 2019

I had a friend, David was his name, he's an addict, a drug addict he smokes and drinks a lot too big time. We weren't that close tho but we talk once in a while.

There's this girl David likes (Vanessa) he's been asking her out severally but her answer was always no, she can't date an addict. So David decided to try and get himself clean, he started seeing a counselor and a doctor, fast forward to a month time he got clean. Then he went back to Vanessa and told her everything he did so he could get clean and all, then she decided to date him and promised to help make sure he stayed clean. It was really hard for David but he did it cause he loved Vanessa a lot,they dated for months and David remained clean 6 months straight he doesn't smoke, nor drink or do drugs again.

Then this happened, David got invited to a house Christmas party by his friend organized by another friend,Vanessa earlier told him she wouldn't be in town that she was going over to her Parent's in Lagos for Christmas and she never left but David didn't know. David got to the party he asked for a few drinks he took them and wanted to use the restroom upstairs, he told his friend he was coming that he had to use the restroom upstairs. When he got upstairs he heard some people playing music loudly and there were noises in a room. He decided to check and see who they were, as he opened the door the first person he saw was Vanessa with a blunt in her hand, He also saw drugs on the table, he said they were so drunk that they didn't even notice someone opened the door, he got heartbroken instantly he didn't say anything, he couldn't even use the restroom again he rushed downstairs took his car keys and drove off

Now before I continue the story and tell you how it ended I have some questions to ask.

1. Is there any justification for what Vanessa did, making the guy stop smoking and drinking when she was an addict herself?

2. Do you think it was right for David to change for Vanessa?

3. What do you think David should do?
should he break up or just continue with the relationship

*A SERIOUS MATTER THAT NEEDS YOUR ATTENTION AND COMMENT*

There was nothing at home, no money in account and the children were hungry. He started thinking of way out. Who can I reach out to in this lockdown period?
It's serious a issue. He felt embarrassed that his family could not eat properly.

As he was scrolling on his phone then he found his Ex- Lover's Number. Old memory came and he decided to send a funny message as thus, "My wife that run away with another rich man. Tell your husband to send #2k because he snatched my wife".

After a minute the lady replied as thus, "Tell me you don't have money, old husband". Then he replied, " Yes, I don't have money, just send something". In a nutshell, the lady send 20k into his account instantly.

He jumped up, took his Master Card to the nearest ATM and withdraw. He gave his wife 10k and keep the remaining. He lied to her that a friend sent the money. She buys food stuff and prepare food. He was eating and left his phone on the TV when a message came from his EX asking if he had seen the money.

His wife saw the message, she took time to read the previous message.

Now, his wife suspend everything. She decided to be starved than to eat from that food. He tried to explain but all in vain. Worst part of it is that she instructed the children not to taste or touch the food.

*Is the man justified?*
*Is the woman right with her action?*
*How can the situation be handled?*

*Please I need intelligent Answer*

It was my birthday so I had a few friends around.

So I used the opportunity to introduce my best friend (she was my padi to the bone marrow) to my fiancé (now ex). She was so happy to meet him and I felt good because she had always wanted to meet with him. The party ended well and we all went home.

But after few days, kept getting calls and messages from this friend asking if I really want to settle down with this man. I wondered why she was really concerned and asking. So I asked her what is it that she isn’t telling me.

She said to me “Nothing was wrong”, I said, "are you sure?" She replied yes, she wants the best for me and she was just looking out for me. I didn’t bother asking again.

One very hot afternoon, my man(now ex) were together and he decided to tell and show me everything my supposed "best friend” said/wrote to him.

Firstly I was surprised how she got his number and I was so devastated.She told him I was no good for him because my family had issues and he would want that for him self.

Well I was flabbergasted to say the least now though �

The worst kind of hurt is betrayal, because it means that someone will willing to hurt you just to make themselves feel better.

Ever been betrayed? Tell us what happened and let's learn.

Ladies never introduce your friends to your man either ex, present or future.

Lol! E Don set
They may likely extend the lockdown
The numbers are increasing
Business may suffer
Employees will be retrenched
Working at home has open more opportunities





*Finally, some sensible advice. From a GP Nurse in the UK.*

*To Avoid Covid-19*
What I have seen a lot of are recommendations for how to try to avoid getting coronavirus in the first place ,
• good hand washing
• personal hygiene
• social distancing
-- but what I have NOT seen a lot of is advice for what happens if you actually get it, which many of us will.
So as your friendly neighborhood Nurse let me make some suggestions:

*If you get Covid-19*
You basically just want to prepare as though you know you’re going to get a nasty respiratory bug, like bronchitis or pneumonia. You just have the foresight to know it might come your way!

*Things you should actually buy ahead of time* (not sure what the obsession with toilet paper is?):

• *Kleenex,*

• *Paracetamol*,

• whatever your generic, mucus thinning *cough medicine* of choice is (check the label and make sure you're not doubling up on Paracetamol)

• *Honey and lemon* can work just as well!

• *Vicks* vaporub for your chest is also a great suggestion.

• *a humidifier* would be a good thing to buy and use in your room when you go to bed overnight. (You can also just turn the shower on hot and sit in the bathroom breathing in the steam).

• *If you have a history of asthma* and you have a prescription inhaler, make sure the one you have isn’t expired and refill it/get a new one if necessary.

• *Meals* This is also a good time to meal prep: make a big batch of your favorite soup to freeze and have on hand.

• *Hydrate (drink!) hydrate, hydrate!* Stock up on whatever your favorite clear fluids are to drink - though tap water is fine you may appreciate some variety!

• *For symptom management* and a fever over 38°c, take Paracetamol rather than Ibuprofen.

• *Rest lots*. You should not be leaving your house! Even if you are feeling better you may will still be infectious for fourteen days and older people and those with existing health conditions should be avoided!

• *Wear gloves and a mask* to avoid contaminating others in your house

• *Isolate* in your bedroom if not living alone, ask friends and family to leave supplies outside to avoid contact.

• *Sanitize* your bed linen and clothes frequently by washing and clean your bathroom with recommended sanitizers.

*You DO NOT NEED TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL unless* you are having trouble breathing or your fever is very high (over 39°C) and unmanaged with meds.
90% of healthy adult cases thus far have been managed at home with basic rest/hydration/over-the-counter meds.

*If you are worried or in distress or feel your symptoms are getting worse*

*Preexisting risks* If you have a pre-existing lung condition (COPD, emphysema, lung cancer) or are on immunosuppressants, now is a great time to talk to your Doctor or specialist about what they would like you to do if you get sick.

*Children-* One major relief to you parents is that kids do VERY well with coronavirus— they usually bounce back in a few days (but they will still be infectious), Just use pediatric dosing .

*Be calm and prepare rationally* and everything will be fine.

This is to inform us all that the pH for corona virus varies from 5.5 to 8.5.

All we need to do, to beat corona virus, we need to take more of an alkaline foods that are above the above pH level of the Virus.

Some of which are:
*Lemon - 9.9pH*
*Lime - 8.2pH*
*Avocado - 15.6pH*
*Garlic - 13.2pH*
*Mango - 8.7pH*
*Tangerine - 8.5pH*
*Pineapple - 12.7pH*
*Dandelion - 22.7pH*
*Orange - 9.2pH*

How do you know you have coronavirus?
1. *Itching in the throat,*
2. *Dry throat,*
3. *Dry cough.*
4. High temperature
5. Shortness of breath

So where you notice these things quickly take warm water with lemon and drink.

Do not keep this information to yourself only. Pass it to all your family and friends. God bless you.