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waleolaniyan:
Many people passing comments here don't know nothing. Many undefined variables that the separated spouses will have to grapple with. Blames, regrets, rejections, social stigma, inner pains, confusions, health issues, financial issues, loneliness, sexual depravity, induced addictions, etc.

My prime advice to the man is: Your health, life and well-being must be your unconditionally and absolutely taken care of. No compromise with this before your life gets cut short. Do gym, look nice.

Rule 2: Never jump into any relationship immediately. Take your time. Avoid hangouts that could lead into new wife and unwanted pregnancy from a hook. Preferably, stay alone or thread with utmost caution.

Rule 3. Decide what to do with the old relationship or draw conclusion. This will determine your next line of action. Don't follow cacophony of advice, follow your heart based on your experience in that matter.

Rule 4. Do what pleases you and will not harm your well-being on the issue of your children. Most women are selfish and will turn the children against their father by every means. This is the majority of instances. Do to your children as your pocket can afford and never regret it, or feel inadequate.

Rule 5. Get involved in meaningful social or spiritual activities that would make your connect with people.

Rule 6. Never keep your experience secret. Let people that matters in your circle, workplace, neighbourhood, colleagues know about it. It brings you relief.

Rule 7. Decide your future and let bygone begone.

Pray regularly over your situation.

abuhusna1:
Sometimes fathers do things coded without informing anyone but mothers. They will let you know who did what. If you check deep down you will discover your father was instrumental to your success. He gave you shelter, security and food, moreso he made you know how to be man by not giving you everything

Mercylike:
Sorry to say... When the time come, I won't treat my kids the way my father treated again

Mercylike:
Stop saying nonsense...

There is nobody manipulating...

My dad rather buy clothes for party while my mom will spend the money on us and rather wear rag.

Just shut up if you don't know what it is really

udemzyudex:
Rubbish post everything is not about being manipulative, kids have brains too, the mum was the one coming while they stayed with their father, so what's your point here?

Oga zukwanike jare.

Najyin:
Lagos is actually the benchmark. Lagos leads. All other states follow.

olisaEze:
Once a woman starts talking of mental abuse in a relationship, just know her guy's account has been dormant too long for her taste.

Blitzking:
Money don dey drop!!!! A girl follows u because you are successful and you think she likes you..she is there with her own motive everything is transactional. Only in very few cases

theamazonguru:
Very true.
In my 15 years of marriage another thing I will say attributes to issues/divorce in marriage is ego.
When couples are not ready to allow their personal ego to be bruised /trampled on it tends to lead to constant friction.

Well this is a lesson I learnt from my own marriage sha.
If no be say I dey form mumu most times, kasala for don burst oh.
That genda is ready to forment trouble everyday and will keep a straight face like nothing dey happen.

You will be surprised that most of these very religious goons are not excluded.
They fast , pray and attend church activities like they will die if they don't.
They pray, shouting at the top of their voice yet they are not ready to submit fully to the headship of the man.

Very religious but scarcely godly.

Alexlalax1:
I dey fear who no fear women. When money dey, kpekus go dey. when money no dey, kpekus go go.

Christiquana:
Omoo

MadamExcellency:
Is like I will have to enroll you in our business and management school.

Greed is the fundamental principle of capitalism. There are essential commodities like bread, sugar, electricity, water and such likes that require government interventions. The divide between the rich and poor shouldn't be allowed to increase astronomically without policies to mitigate the worse.

The discos are after the lumpsom from subsidy. They are making profit but marginal and will never agree.

nairalanda1:
Vanity and Pride...They are weeds of very sudden growth, and, getting once a start,
They choke the flowers that otherwise would beautify the heart.

M. Taylor.