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Jay home24:
I said f u c k off is that too hard for you?

Jayhome24:
Will you get lost

Jayhome24:
So now World Bank, IMF, KK, TTU etc have no job again than focusing on Nigeria and be predicting doom upon Nigeria ba?

World Bank God punish you and God punish all those Nigerians using you to heat up our polity and making public scared, may amadioha kill you all. Amen.

Somalia, Sudan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Palestinia, Mali etc are not even receiving all these bad prophesy from IMF, World shit Bank and so on but only Nigeria may Ogun kill you all for not seeking peace of my country. And for you ipobidients bitch and Atiiku goats if you like run your propaganda till thy kingdom comes Tinubu I voted for will rule Nigeria for 8 years and I bet you Gringory bitch and that outcast Cameronian called Atiku will never rule Nigeria.

EmperorCaesar:


I have always maintained that death isnt a negative occurence and so no need to pity the dead

We only grieve cause the dead person is a big loss to his people and they will sure miss him, since he's been in one way or the other, involved in their everyday life

The dead dont even know they are dead, and what they experience is total shift in consciousness and eternal peace like we all felt in the year 1800 when we all arent aware of whats happening around us

What if the other side is actually lively and great, then our mourning is useless and a disservice to the dead person

Felix6:
Exactly. All I read is a woman whose husband is currently facing challenges, must have lost his job or business is bad for a while.
She didn't tell us how things were, when she was busy opening legs for the man to produce the boys, and how things were growing to the stage they are now. Suddenly he has become irresponsible, because he now eats from what she provides.

The man didn't run to nairaland.com to narrate how she was eating what he provides when the going was good for him.
Woman you are only looking for the final nail in the coffin for him, which you have deceptively come to seek through public opinion on a faceless forum.
What ever backing you get from here will never stop your conscience from pricking you.
Because you have done him dirty already with these rubbish you spewed here.

Felix6:
Hm, you are probably a simp. I pray you don't meet manipulative woman as a wife.
Have you ask her when she changed her name to Endurance.
Over 11 years atleast there was no noise because the "now irresponsible man" was providing for the home, apparently things have taken a down turn for him now, names calling have started, soon she would add alcohol and finally womanising.
Woman, May God have mercy on you, if you like take your children to the moon, what will be will be.

naija4life247:
Okay nah. Let the analysis begin. Billions of men all over the world are providing for their lazy wives and their parents, yet no noise from the men

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

sakanifemi123:
Boss drop your WhatsApp number, let chat if you are ready for the deal

FreeStuffsNG:
Is this not a former President of the same country that some ignorant ,negative-minded, hate-filled, cyberbullies, unpatriotic elements with low self esteem call 'saner clime'?

Only inferiority complex will make anyone, especially a black person, raised to hate Nigeria, Nigerians and others not from their tribe, regard that some white people are better than him, especially when the people he believes that are better than him are made up of men who believe that his own black race blood/DNA is toxic and should never mix with the blood of white folks.

Since the day I watched President Trump say that his American people should be injected with disinfectants into their blood to kill covid 19 virus, nothing else he says bothers me. US got the kind of leader they deserve. A former
President of clime USA o. So much for US education. Smh

God bless Nigeria my fatherland! Check my signature for free stuffs!

Abid2020:
Are you trying to say he is lying or what I have like four friends who started trading within half a year they are millionaires, one is close to being a billionaire but that one has been trading for like 6 years before we leave secondary

Smartguyboy:
Fake news !!!
Rice is 12k in Lagos and 14k in Ogun state.
In North is even cheaper 9k in Borno State and 5k in Kano .

Only ipob will suffer for It .

ajebuter:
Walking along the same Shipeolu street in Onipanu is the APC Somolu headquarters

Na so Dem paste obituary of one of their Ward's chairman and staunch APC man , Adebomojo

That guy eh! You go think say him and Tinubu dey discuss every minute for phone the way the man carry Tinubu and APC for head..

I saw his obituary in front of APC office in Onipanu and l wonder wether na disappointment or hard state of the country kill am

So sad my bro

Johnycastro18:
Like, how can any man treat his wife in such a humiliating and embarrassing manner....

According to the post this incident between them have been going on for the past four years.....

If the woman is a nagging and disrespectful woman to him, instead of the beating and all that above, it would have been better if he ( the husband) sent her packing to her father's house, than all that drama above



That man need to be arrested ASAP

malali:
A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE SHOUTING AND PREACHING THE JAPA PHENOMENON

1-Average cost of rent $2500

2-Phone, electricity, gas, water $500

3-Food Cooking and not eating out 1 person $700

4-Healthcare/Dental, medications,(if not yours budget for your children) $500

5-Transportation (whether you own a car or public transport to work, Car inspections, car registration, fuel, sudden repairs,) $1000

6-Childcare (If you have young children) it can cost up to $1500. Sometimes its cheaper for one spouse to stay at home and tend the kids.

Approx. 10k is needed for 1 grown adult. Thats 15k gross salary. That amounts to $180k/year(before tax is removed)....Some USA doctors do not make this much e.g Pediatricians in university hospitals

These are basics, anyone JAPA-ING without a desirable degree in America e.g, Tech certifications, Nursing, Medical. Will need an American degree to make over 50k a year.
50K a year means 30k after taxes, social security, insurance and retirement. To be able to just live alone, you will need 2 jobs. American jobs are designed to be hectic enough for 1 person/ 1 job in 24hours. If you work 2 jobs a day......Its at the expense of your health/social relationships/family time etc...There is a cost !!!
Even the Tech, nurses, medical will have to pass exams, these exams and preparations could cost $20k with no guarantee of passing.

So the hard part is how can you survive with $40-50k/ year with a basic living cost requiring at least $180k/ year. If you go to school hear, the loans are crippling at 7-8% interests for government loans and even up to 20% for private loans.
Even if you work 2 jobs, which means you leave your house (8am-4pm) (4pm-12am)....This will be at the expense of your health, lifespan, social health. Its not really humanely possible.

Even if you come with a spouse, one of you has to work 2 jobs at the very least, if not both of you. If you work through winter months doing double shifts, you can actually go 4 months without seeing the sun, which results in a lot of mental health issues in Africans, because we were not built for that, and the awareness is not emphasized.

Dont get me wrong its hard in Nigeria, but dont forget, you are coming to a place where their ancestors use to come and kidnap people in Africa for free Labour in the USA as slaves. These mentality has only being finessed over time. However it still exists. Do not be fooled by the few successful JAPA stories. I guarantee you for every one successful JAPA, there are a thousand living from Hand to mouth, paying only bills and taxes around the clock.

I have attached snippets of a reddit column of Americans complaining about the cost of living. Mind you these people went to schools here, so they are better treated and paid in the Labour market. You being a JAPA will be systematically paid less than them most times.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/18gg48z/hows_it_possible_people_in_the_us_are_making/

Yankiss:
While the government has zero plans for the youths, yahoo yahoo and other fraud ventures are a matter of choice. It's propelled by get-rich0quick syndrome and greed. We should not hide under Government failure to justice the unacceptable. Some youths still make it out there without fraud.

The government is not bothered about development of the country or about the youths. The youths are good enough as thugs and nothing more. So I fail to capture how their japa affects an insensitive idoncare govt. The elite get to power to share our commonwealth, not to develop anybody or anything.

Righteousness2:
Every corner, Every nation, Every continent! The Signs of the End are Everywhere!!

Everything JESUS CHRIST gave to us as signs to His coming have happened and continues to happen.

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Baba God na The Almighty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Any other 'god' na yeye!!!



There is no More Time.
Take your relationship with GOD very serious.
Run to JESUS CHRIST and Make HIM the LORD and SAVIOUR of your soul...

Now is the ACCEPTABLE TIME. The next moment could be too late.

Dennisochampa:
.... Even if Russia wins today, It would still be a shame.... 5 years ago, the world was scared of Russia.... Now??
They are just big bullies who can be taken down anytime

Mrfeel:
You are shifting the goal post, tell me what you know, when did he say that and what is his aim ?

Mrfeel:
I asked you a simple question, when did he say that and what is his aim ?