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Fashion › Re: Lady Steps Out In The Name Of Fashion Almost Unclad [PHOTOS] by Obiomon: 2:15pm On Jul 14, 2016

curvysola:
its sexy jor

lol I know right!!! So sexy.... But those boobs though grin

love em!!!!

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 2:03pm On Jul 14, 2016

NLjona:
boss harddon. one of my girls just asked me one of the questions I dunno how to answer.. I've been using dese tips wella on her ever since .. and now I'm creating a lil drama btwn us so it wont gt boring cos we've not quareled before.. we havnt talked since and I don't chat her up wen I see her only or reply her mesgs.. (she's been d one doin 90% of the calling and texting )..

so after not talking for days now she has asked this dreaded question and I don't wanna fùck up with a woozy answer.. she said.. "what really am I to you?".. please help me answer it and possibly futher advice me on it.. thanks

whenevr you see her again or whenever she calls or bring up that same question ask her like this "what really do you think you are to" she might say am asking you or something else demanding your reply.. Just smile and her and tell her that you were trying to find out same thing by consulting the oracles then she called a particular day (just mentioned a day she called and be precise, if you want though) that she den interupted the flow (please smile when saying these and make sure you say it in a funny way so you won't look stupid or insane lol) and tell her you con go consult the oracle if she brings 3 big yellow elephant and a chicken with beards ( call any of them that comes to your mind and make sure they don't exist that way just as I gave you those examples) saying all these she going to laugh or smile or what ever but if she doesn't she's not human though lol

funny enough this is going to trigger her attraction/connection with u and make her come closer to you...

Actually this is what I wot would do if I was in your shoes , I hopoe its aii though, since harddon isn't replying any of us , that's why I had to share what I think would fix should diff situations ... I hope I made sense though HARDDON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Were are you ooooooooo

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Fashion › Re: Best Waist Trainer? by Obiomon: 1:10pm On Jul 14, 2016

byvan03:
Are you OK? You opened this thread asking a vague question which I asked you to give more details on. I just hope everything is OK up there. What could be more attention seeking than adding curvy to ones user name ?.

shet!!

Fashion › Re: Best Waist Trainer? by Obiomon: 1:10pm On Jul 14, 2016

byvan03:
Obviously a curvy body doesn't guarantee a functional brain, have a nice day kid .

brutal

Romance › Re: Blackandwhite Picture Challenge! by Obiomon: 11:21am On Jul 14, 2016

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Fashion › Re: Best Waist Trainer? by Obiomon: 11:00am On Jul 14, 2016

byvan03:
There is nothing like best waist trainer, you should be talking of quality. Your question is very vague, can you give more details to make it more comprehensible?

the a$$ isn't curve the way she wan it so she needs a waist trainer

Romance › Re: 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 10:37am On Jul 14, 2016

CheedyJ:
The article pretty much sums me up... Nice write up

thanchu thanchu

Phones › What Device You Using And What Made You Loved it by Obiomon(op): 10:25am On Jul 14, 2016*

Heyyyy how yall I just created this thread not for anything but for the fun of it!!! So what device you using and spec actually made you fall in love with it

Currently am using the camon c9 obviously its cos of its camera quality and its serving me well in multi tasking and alll daahh shhii grin

Modified

I be wan forget my nokia torch light... Heheh every body no dat one work na cheesy

cc seun lalasticlala make na move this ministry to the promise land cheesy

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Romance › Re: 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 10:08am On Jul 14, 2016

Presh900:
Nyz one..

yoo mehn

Romance › Re: 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 9:47am On Jul 14, 2016

datyrone:
thanks for this post

your welcome man

Romance › Re: 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 9:45am On Jul 14, 2016

sophiadfirst:
Beautiful post OP. Am happy u learned from Ur life experience and using it to teach those that care to listen.

ppreciate dah kiss

Romance › Re: 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 9:41am On Jul 14, 2016

Vincent41:
Thanks

Romance › 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 3:17am On Jul 14, 2016*

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith
in yourself, do not go out and look for a
successful personality and duplicate it.” ~Bruce
Lee

I have always been timid when it comes to
expressing myself, speaking my mind, and standing
up for something. This stems from being raised in a
culture where showing emotions is frowned upon.
Nothing I ever did seemed good enough. There was
constant criticism that I could do better, and be
better. I was raised to never to talk back to my
seniors and not to say anything when I had nothing
nice to say.
So, I’ve always played it safe and stood by the
sideline, and I never wanted to rock the boat. And
sometimes, when I’ve felt like saying something, I’ve
wondered if people would even care.
Because, frankly, sometimes people talk just for the
sake of talking or because they want attention, and
that bothered me. However, I also envied those who
could just say what they think and speak their truth,
even though I may or may not have agreed with
them.
Nonetheless, as years passed, the more I stayed
mummed, the more horrible my body and mind felt.

Eventually, I became depressed. I felt like no one
cared, I didn’t know who I should be, and I felt lost.
Not wanting to blame the past anymore, I knew I
needed to find something to take me away from this
darkness.

Along the way, I found Bodytalk and yoga, and these
were the things that helped me get out of my
depression and helped shift my mindset. As I became
more engaged with these activities, my inner voice
grew stronger and stronger, and it wanted to come
out and express itself.

I began to accept myself for who I am, and soon,
much like Katy Perry, I was ready for the world to
hear me “Roar.”

The Problem

It took me forever to express myself in both writing
and speaking because I felt like I had to craft the
perfect message to sound smart, funny, and
diplomatic. By the time I was ready to share my
thoughts, the conversation topic had gone, and the
moment had passed.
Yes, it’s great to be thoughtful but Come on! I would
tell myself. Stop bottling up your thoughts and start
expressing yourself without care.
I’ve learned to nurture my voice and not spend so
much time crafting my message and worrying about
what others think.
These are the three philosophies that have helped
me get out of my head, let go, and start expressing
myself.

1. The only person you need to impress is yourself.
Yes, it’s scary to put yourself out there to have people
judge you. But if you know who you are and what you
stand for, does it matter what others think, when you
know your truth and what it means to you?
The truth is, if you are comfortable in your own skin,
what others think of you probably won’t bother you
that much. After all, you will always have people who
will be for you or against you, so why not stand for
something and just be you? What’s the worst thing
that could happen?

“In the end people will judge you anyway, don’t live
your life impressing others. Live your life impressing
yourself.” ~from Raw for Beauty

2. Stand for something.
This is important. It allows you to let your personality
shine. It is also the foundation of your values, which
help shape your identity, allowing people to connect
with you, enabling you to surround yourself with like-
minded people for support.
Remember, no man is an island, as John Donne
wrote. We, as human beings, need to interact with
another and need each other to find fulfillment in our
lives. So stand for something to build your world of
lovers and ‘haters,’ instead of having no supporters
or challengers to help you grow.

3. Let go of the outcome.
Sometimes we say things or do things because we
want to get a certain reaction or action out of people.
However, keeping in mind we have no control over
anything in life (except for our actions and our
responses), why not speak your truth?
Your body and mind will be grateful because you are
being honest with yourself. In the end, whatever
happens, you’ve got nothing to lose because you have
honored your truth. No regrets.

“Say what you wanna say, and let the words fall out. I wanna see you be brave.” ~Sara Bareilles, Brave

cc : lalasticlala seun bros make na epp me cry

Lol

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Education › 3 Tips To Get Out Of Your Head And Start Expressing Yourself by Obiomon(op): 3:11am On Jul 14, 2016

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith
in yourself, do not go out and look for a
successful personality and duplicate it.” ~Bruce
Lee

I have always been timid when it comes to
expressing myself, speaking my mind, and standing
up for something. This stems from being raised in a
culture where showing emotions is frowned upon.
Nothing I ever did seemed good enough. There was
constant criticism that I could do better, and be
better. I was raised to never to talk back to my
seniors and not to say anything when I had nothing
nice to say.
So, I’ve always played it safe and stood by the
sideline, and I never wanted to rock the boat. And
sometimes, when I’ve felt like saying something, I’ve
wondered if people would even care.
Because, frankly, sometimes people talk just for the
sake of talking or because they want attention, and
that bothered me. However, I also envied those who
could just say what they think and speak their truth,
even though I may or may not have agreed with
them.
Nonetheless, as years passed, the more I stayed
mummed, the more horrible my body and mind felt.

Eventually, I became depressed. I felt like no one
cared, I didn’t know who I should be, and I felt lost.
Not wanting to blame the past anymore, I knew I
needed to find something to take me away from this
darkness.

Along the way, I found Bodytalk and yoga, and these
were the things that helped me get out of my
depression and helped shift my mindset. As I became
more engaged with these activities, my inner voice
grew stronger and stronger, and it wanted to come
out and express itself.

I began to accept myself for who I am, and soon,
much like Katy Perry, I was ready for the world to
hear me “Roar.”

The Problem
It took me forever to express myself in both writing
and speaking because I felt like I had to craft the
perfect message to sound smart, funny, and
diplomatic. By the time I was ready to share my
thoughts, the conversation topic had gone, and the
moment had passed.
Yes, it’s great to be thoughtful but Come on! I would
tell myself. Stop bottling up your thoughts and start
expressing yourself without care.
I’ve learned to nurture my voice and not spend so
much time crafting my message and worrying about
what others think.
These are the three philosophies that have helped
me get out of my head, let go, and start expressing
myself.

1. The only person you need to impress is yourself.
Yes, it’s scary to put yourself out there to have people
judge you. But if you know who you are and what you
stand for, does it matter what others think, when you
know your truth and what it means to you?
The truth is, if you are comfortable in your own skin,
what others think of you probably won’t bother you
that much. After all, you will always have people who
will be for you or against you, so why not stand for
something and just be you? What’s the worst thing
that could happen?

“In the end people will judge you anyway, don’t live
your life impressing others. Live your life impressing
yourself.” ~from Raw for Beauty

2. Stand for something.
This is important. It allows you to let your personality
shine. It is also the foundation of your values, which
help shape your identity, allowing people to connect
with you, enabling you to surround yourself with like-
minded people for support.
Remember, no man is an island, as John Donne
wrote. We, as human beings, need to interact with
another and need each other to find fulfillment in our
lives. So stand for something to build your world of
lovers and ‘haters,’ instead of having no supporters
or challengers to help you grow.

3. Let go of the outcome.
Sometimes we say things or do things because we
want to get a certain reaction or action out of people.
However, keeping in mind we have no control over
anything in life (except for our actions and our
responses), why not speak your truth?
Your body and mind will be grateful because you are
being honest with yourself. In the end, whatever
happens, you’ve got nothing to lose because you have
honored your truth. No regrets.

“Say what you wanna say, and let the words fall out. I
wanna see you be brave.” ~Sara Bareilles, Brave

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 7:47pm On Jul 13, 2016

Obiomon:
After we haven't talked for about 2 to 3 months after I have discovered that whenever I call her so we should meet in school or so ever she would be acting weird making me wanna loose my balls by begging her like other guys do(you no na I can't fall for that, not anymore!!! When have gat HARDDON ?? Nah ! Not gon work) nyways back to it.. So I sense what she was trying to to play so ever since then I didn't Call her nor text her (just wanted to clear her thinking that ain't that kinda guy) she didn't call nor text eIther so , I didn't give a fucck either. Well fast forward to today I just felt like braking the cold ice I sent her this. Me: I just had bryson tiller's self righteous(that's cos she told me she loved song very much) and remembered you and was like wtf!!! Really!!! But You try sha, keep the game going gurl!!!! So long you eat well and belle fu. And she texted me few minutes later asking where I was . Knowing you said we shouldn't ans boring questions with boring anwers I gave some time and replied. Me: Right now am in space n watching u . Funny enough she called me just once and I didn't pick (still remembered what you stressed) and she didn't call again, I just laughed . Well I know she was thinking I was gon rush to call her ASAP but nahh I didn't . Am to call her maybe tomorrow or next... So my nigga what do you have to ssay about my poerformance... Is theere any flaws or anything I missed that was suppposed to be done .... Juust tel me your mind. And thanks for the level you made me inprove when it comes to the ladies

HARDDON oooooo see my post na . I need to act fast

Romance › Re: by Obiomon: 10:08am On Jul 13, 2016

iLegend:
My mind? You're cool bro; I love it. Make sure you fúck her fast and make it a memorable sex and she'll be the one disturbing your life. Keep your 'not being' needy and desperate attitude on as you've been doing. Advance and close the deal. Use humor and touch bodi to knack her akpako fast. There's no time to waste. If she wan form; ignore the formings, it's natural to them. Don't go back to your nice boy and don't give a fúck it ain't working out.

Women want things that are hard to get and especially bad boys who act like they're not truly interested. It's a game and you got it nailed.

Great sex make women fall in love like mad; they can't help it, but don't break her heart o! Hmm! I'm watching you with one eye like illuminati

lol thanks man . Appreciate . Gon work on it more n am following you like nokia follow come charger grin

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Romance › Re: by Obiomon: 9:10am On Jul 13, 2016

iLegend:
Sow Obiomon, I'm so occupied lately, and I have been focused on my books too. I have lots of msgs on NL and Whatsapp, but haven't replied either. I have replied a lot and more kept coming. I wish I have some free time.

the time you used typing this is very enough to say what I want to hear undecided

Romance › Re: by Obiomon: 8:05am On Jul 13, 2016

Obiomon:
After we haven't talked for about 2 to 3 months after I have discovered that whenever I call her so we should meet in school or so ever she would be acting weird making me wanna loose my balls by begging her like other guys do(you no na I can't fall for that, not anymore!!! When have gat Ilegend ?? Nah ! Not gon work) nyways back to it.. So I sense what she was trying to to play so ever since then I didn't Call her nor text her (just wanted to clear her thinking that ain't that kinda guy) she didn't call nor text eIther so , I didn't give a fucck either. Well fast forward to today I just felt like braking the cold ice I sent her this. Me: I just had bryson tiller's self righteous(that's cos she told me she loved song very much) and remembered you and was like wtf!!! Really!!! But You try sha, keep the game going gurl!!!! So long you eat well and belle fu. And she texted me few minutes later asking where I was . Knowing you said we shouldn't ans boring questions with boring anwers I gave some time and replied. Me: Right now am in space n watching u . Funny enough she called me just once and I didn't pick and she didn't call again, I just laughed . Well I know she was thinking I was gon rush to call her ASAP but nahh I didn't . Am to call her maybe tomorrow or next... So my nigga what do you have to ssay about my poerformance... Is theere any flaws or anything I missed that was suppposed to be done .... Juust tel me your mind. And thanks for the level you made me inprove when it comes to the ladies

ilegend oooo see my post na , I need to act fast

Romance › Re: by Obiomon: 12:28am On Jul 13, 2016

After we haven't talked for about 2 to 3 months after I have discovered that whenever I call her so we should meet in school or so ever she would be acting weird making me wanna loose my balls by begging her like other guys do(you no na I can't fall for that, not anymore!!! When have gat Ilegend ?? Nah ! Not gon work) nyways back to it.. So I sense what she was trying to to play so ever since then I didn't Call her nor text her (just wanted to clear her thinking that ain't that kinda guy) she didn't call nor text eIther so , I didn't give a fucck either. Well fast forward to today I just felt like braking the cold ice I sent her this. Me: I just had bryson tiller's self righteous(that's cos she told me she loved song very much) and remembered you and was like wtf!!! Really!!! But You try sha, keep the game going gurl!!!! So long you eat well and belle fu. And she texted me few minutes later asking where I was . Knowing you said we shouldn't ans boring questions with boring anwers I gave some time and replied. Me: Right now am in space n watching u . Funny enough she called me just once and I didn't pick and she didn't call again, I just laughed . Well I know she was thinking I was gon rush to call her ASAP but nahh I didn't . Am to call her maybe tomorrow or next... So my nigga what do you have to ssay about my poerformance... Is theere any flaws or anything I missed that was suppposed to be done .... Juust tel me your mind. And thanks for the level you made me inprove when it comes to the ladies

Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 11:53pm On Jul 12, 2016

After we haven't talked for about 2 to 3 months after I have discovered that whenever I call her so we should meet in school or so ever she would be acting weird making me wanna loose my balls by begging her like other guys do(you no na I can't fall for that, not anymore!!! When have gat HARDDON ?? Nah ! Not gon work) nyways back to it.. So I sense what she was trying to to play so ever since then I didn't Call her nor text her (just wanted to clear her thinking that ain't that kinda guy) she didn't call nor text eIther so , I didn't give a fucck either. Well fast forward to today I just felt like braking the cold ice I sent her this. Me: I just had bryson tiller's self righteous(that's cos she told me she loved song very much) and remembered you and was like wtf!!! Really!!! But You try sha, keep the game going gurl!!!! So long you eat well and belle fu. And she texted me few minutes later asking where I was . Knowing you said we shouldn't ans boring questions with boring anwers I gave some time and replied. Me: Right now am in space n watching u . Funny enough she called me just once and I didn't pick (still remembered what you stressed) and she didn't call again, I just laughed . Well I know she was thinking I was gon rush to call her ASAP but nahh I didn't . Am to call her maybe tomorrow or next... So my nigga what do you have to ssay about my poerformance... Is theere any flaws or anything I missed that was suppposed to be done .... Juust tel me your mind. And thanks for the level you made me inprove when it comes to the ladies

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Sports › Re: Nigeria's D'tigers Defeats China 74-64 In Stankovic Cup by Obiomon: 10:00pm On Jul 09, 2016

Am gon get there very soon by Grace!! Amen!!! Like if you believe me

Phones › Re: Gt5 For Andriod by Obiomon: 6:58am On Jul 07, 2016

Lol smh front page my a$$

Car Talk › Re: I Intend To Take My Car Mileage To 500,000km by Obiomon: 6:54am On Jul 07, 2016

Like !! If you believe we gon get a car this year

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Obiomon: 9:57pm On Jun 23, 2016

HARDDON:
She demand to see the gyal's pix? Oh just perfect cos she just played into ur plot!

Nah, You wudnt want her to go pouring acid on d fyn thing or go fighting her and thereby spoiling ur fun b4 it even began! Tell her that you know she can kill for u n how jelos she can be over u

2)or tell her: " oh you wano compare and contrast? Nah, I dont wano spoil your sweet morning . "

Btw, hope u don't use this font in chatting with ladies ? If u do, change it right away

and I can't see a damn thing he wrote

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Romance › Re: Side Chick Gets Pregnant, Wants To Report To Main Chick But WRONG NUMBER by Obiomon: 9:06pm On Jun 21, 2016

Like if you think am cute

Career › Re: PSC Approves Promotion Of 4,542 Police Officers by Obiomon: 6:53am On Jun 21, 2016

Like my post for a reason I don't know tongue

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Romance › Re: Who Else Has Experienced This? why do some ladies act this way? by Obiomon: 10:13pm On Jun 20, 2016

iLegend:
Just came here to learn...

I prayy ooooo..... Don't think I don't know your sTory

Gaming › Re: I Want To Get A Psp Console!!! by Obiomon(op): 4:39pm On Jun 19, 2016

pcguru1:
Lol just intsall ppsspp on PC and enjoy

its not as intresting as it is on the normal psp.. The gameplay sound lagging and all that

Romance › Re: by Obiomon: 11:46pm On Jun 18, 2016

Send me the ESCOF buttons too need to press em on this gurl I got yesterday mehn.. my email eobiomon@gmail.com

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