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... Just wondering, you must have been calm enough to handle this situation of urs, very obvious from your post. Taking time to reply every suggestion, every opinion...

I think your parent has some faults too, they both need to sit down.. And have an imaginary replay of how they've been handling you

Have you ever call their attention, possibly sit them down and express how you feel..

Cos you're gradually losing yourself, psychological, emotionally, mentally.. All these as result of the negative input by them...

No parent would want see lose their biological child to any ill-situation.

Seems you have cool relationship with your bro..

Sit him down too and express all this,,

He might have a way to your parent


I pray you get heal and out of this trauma.

Lastly,, no matter how disturbing parent are,, we do need their prayers at one time or the other.

Clear of the thought of disowning them...
It worth asking for forgiveness...

Still wondering how Op thinks someone wil buy this to drive as described...

Even farmer can't use it carry firewood!!!

Aadeyinka:
The car is still working but parked for some time not used .

location is gas line b/s,ijoko rd, Sango/Ogun

call/whatsapp 08068316947

AC still chilling?

Shanid:
QUALITY MALE AND FEMALE FOORTWEARS AND LEATHER BELTS FOR RETAIL AND WHOLSALES @SIGNATURE...

A pics of what you've got.. No pictures on any of your post...

Juliearth:
Your head has oil. Good observation!

For days now, he's no where to be found...

After we all called him out for proof of his accusations..

Guess he's with his real moniker viewing...

Simplesoul05:
https://www.megaplaza.ng/products/maxi-electrical-generator-6-0kva-ek65

This is the proof of how much you bought it?

corona Don shake everywhere including reading

asapeola:
The OP has not said if he can afford to forego the said amount if his friend ends up defaulting. Just because he tried saying its just abt 10% of his "savings" does not make it intangible. But uv rightly said, he needs to consider some things before he acedes to such request cos when money issue sets in a friendship, it becomes embarrasing and totally surprising sometimes. For the OP to ask indicates his doubts and if he isnt sure, then i suggest he dashes his friend a percentage of the amount requested. With that, he expects no refund and the friendship is still kind of intact!

The Op is skeptical of loaning..

He made it clear, the friend is dere need,

He should loan what he knows he can overlook incase the friend couldn't refund..

My point is... He should render the help base on his capacity to forgo.

seborrhic:
It's obvious there is something fishy about his/her claims.
It's so heartwarming seeing nairalanders trying to find out the truth about an accusation by asking relevant questions,and not just swallow every claim hook,line and sinker.
In these days of internet and easy flow of information,it becomes painful seeing some people just believe everything without using all the tools of the internet, easily available,to verify stories.

He's under cover.. Has other moniker.. Maybe he's the James clothing or what..

Why referring someone to the person he's accusing when he has James Clothings who he portrays has better designers at cheaper rate...?

frozen70:
You did not mention the amount involve

You didn't tell us how good and reliable he is

You don't know if he lives a modest or dirty life

One tenth of your salary is enough to use as sacrifice for the sake of your relationship

I will say give him, since it's just one tenth

But bear the following in mind, if he gets himself and give you back, good for you

If he doesn't give it back to you and is nit making any effort or feeling remorse about it, good for you too, do you know why ❓

He won't come again and if he does, don't ever give him another chance, even if it means using it to buy the last ventilator

As you are giving him, consider it a 50/50

Exactly!!!

But @bold you mean oo

PuZZyNegro:
Wow, people can be so good on the internet.

So, you mean if the poster has 1 million naira and lend 100k to his friend, he should not bother if the friend doesn't pay up, or should tell his friend to pay 50k as the other person suggested, how nice can humanity be.


90% of advices here are unrealistic and pretentious.


Be sincere, how much have you given to charity since this year?

Op, lend your friend the money but let him understand that the continuation of your friendship lies on if he pays back the money. A friend that will borrow money without paying back does not value your friendship and feelings

Those advice I've seen up there are not pretentious or unrealistic as said..

Ever heard of "never lend any amount you can't over look to someone if he/she don't pay"


Friendship comes with responsibility...
Of what importance is my friendship with someone if that person can't be of help to me when I'm in need..


Those advice up there are just mere common sense.. Reasoning

Oktane:
There is a serious problem Madam. And you cannot wish it away.

Pls set the records straight. If someone has started building his business online and has made some headway, it would be very sad of another tries to bring him and his business down without proper evidence of a fraudulent transaction.

I have a few observations.

You claimed that the transaction occurred based on your referral. Why not identify yourself with the original moniker you are known with of this effort is actually genuine and made in the interest of other Nairaland members.

Do you have any WhatsApp or indeed any other exchanges you can screen-grab and share with us doubting Thomases?

You just showed us pictures of trousers. They could be pictures of any random trouser?

One of the benefits of pay on delivery is that you get to inspects Nd approve the shipped items before you part with your cash. Why would your associate pay for substandard goods even if he were working in an office as big as Ask Rock?

Pls get serious and let is deal with this matter once and for all. The dots don't align.

You just said it all..

Nnekai2:
I gave some1 your contact to buy from you,and what you sell is purely first grade Okrika,the pictures of the trouser you post is not what you sell.Which European brand Those very low quality trousers that remove hair and thread after first wash?.
Even the shirts of 2k are still grade 1 Okrika.
worst part is your delivery and package service,you can't even iron or fold them well to make it look good,not even a good nylon bag.

Words can't describe my disappointment, please remove those nonsense designer brand names and simply write first grade Okrika or stock as you call it,none of the transparent trousers even have brand name attached to it.

Guys please if you want to buy clothes,use your leg and enter market or send a trusted person,the only male clothing seller I trust on nairaland is JAME CLOTHING,his prices are good and original
The clothings I got from him last year are still very good and all my referrals to him were happy( I am not advertising for him).

Clothingonline9 it's not by force to sell cheap wares,stop deceiving people,better still state it clearly its not new but grade1 Okrika or STOCK OR focus on only brand new with good quality.

My referral was and still very angry,he only paid for those things because of embarrassment from office people,how can you send items in that state to an office a big company for that matter!! If he wanted bend down select won't he enter where they sell and buy?

Bros.. Its more like you're upto something..

Your only post is last year August,

every other posts you made were on this your accusations

You gave someone his contact,,, from all your post.. The transaction occurred in January..

But this is April...

Post the details of the payment, or the account details showing his name..

Or give details of his number..

Give a proof of your accusation..


Why didn't you follow him up since that Jan.. Or did he just deliver the clothing this month?

Hello Prof.. Good day.. Spoke with you few weeks backs



Couldn't see Sumec 3000, full copper in my location, was fortunate to meet someone who was sincere, told me no full copper, except I do get aluminum but he introduce me to tigmax with full copper...


What you think about Tigmax6800?

Sometimes I wonder how people think, reason.. Before giving anyone advice.. One needs to imagine being in that shoe and think reasonable what best decision can one take..

That kids can just he the only consolation he gat to have around to be strong...

No matter how good the orphanage is taking care of a child.. A sincere parent won't have their mind at rest.

If soliciting for help will get him helper.. He will definitely get helper from God!!

How I wish he has a twitter handle...
I'm definitely sure, within weeks, his story will be in appreciation...


May help locate you IJN.. AMEN

PureGoldh:
Still selling

What's the prices in size, and your location?

Tjohnnay:
bro give me d log in for free


Thanks

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Asound:
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Chat me up on WhatsApp:08134669445 to get started.

So if they whatsap you, you then charge for the app...

App that is free... OK na.. Keep making money

vickydankal:
Exactly what I have been waiting for, I don’t have 15k for plus waybill to copy movies now.

Thank you

15k keh,,,

Subscribing 10k for 40gb will get me watching more than 10 movies from netflix

Get the app
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vickydankal:
No more work and school has closed.
Please who can give me 2019 movies
Animation
Seasonal ( fiction, drama, action, comedy, soap opera etc )
Only 2018 - 2020 movies I have 500gb hdd.
Don’t charge me too much oooo

Get the free Netflix app and download movie or stream online!!

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Cuppycakes:
Good morning all, I just got a new Elepaq Constant Sv2500 three days ago, I used it first night for few hours no complaints and then yesterday been second night, after putting it on, I reduced it a little, it ran for like an hour plus and went off without any sign or anything.

I have checked the oil level, even removed the new oil and fill it again, but it won't start.. someone please help, we are on lockdown now and can't imagine staying without generator this period..

What could be wrong?
Thanks

Check the plug, clean it and tighten it back..


Then start

Slyjay1:
Please reply this man. Thanks

Good work you're doing here.

Pls, I bought maxmech Gen with 3kva output. Barely worked for 3 weeks. It stopped working all of a sudden, I then called the dealer immediately who asked me to bring the generator so that his engr could work on it which I of course did. The engr only changed the plug and put a new one. Then Gen started working immediately. I took it home and powered it, then work for about 2hrs and stopped working again.

Please what could be the problem...

Check the oil level, then possibly change the plug.. Try see if you can get a Belgium plug..

brownsugardr:
I paid my house rent for one full year on 18/04/2019.My rent is due to expire on 17/04/2020.But my Landlord is insisting it expired on 17/03/2020.Which is Eleven months. I have tried explaining to him but he wants to lock me out unless i pay immediately. Please how do I get redress.

Were you not given receipt?

It should be stated on your receipt?

How I wish I've not dispose my receipt of my previous apartment... I would have shown you

I rented an apartment, the landlady stated 15/10/18 - 14/09/19..... I called her attention to it immediately while still writing it..

She had to count and discover I was right

She not adjusted it to 14/10/19, saying so she has been doing mistake to others, and they never notice

The adjustment was obvious.

Politely call the landlord attention to it, if he refuse, get across a lawyer writing to him

Stating the year basis, and cautioning him to desist harassing you...

Note.. He might just make up his mind giving you quit notice after the whole drama.

Carshopper:
Do you want it?

Want what?

God forbid me wanting such...

Carshopper:
Have an old model tv(very old model)

Problem: IC is bad

Comes on for a while then goes blank..

7k

Pics uploading

Oga why not dash this thing out, despite being very old,, it's also faulty.

While not try make it 500k, you might like get a good Toyota Camry 2000\2001...

Good day prof.. I actually try buying gen.. Sumec fireman.. 3000, went to Electronic market in Onitsha,, to my surprise, I couldn't get anyone with copper and long amishore or what... But was ask to get Tigmax6800...,,, how is Tigmax performance..?

Engr Enoch,
.... Really good to have you back

what's you View about all these imported used gen..
not any of these elepaq or sumec either.,
some are Suzuki, Honda, phillips

someone advices one can get good strong gen....

Liftedhands:
What exactly is making everyone easily upset this week? If you don't like the amount offered on your item whether you stated firm or non negotiable why not ignore the person? Or simply just say no thanks.

Exactly what a sensible and mature fellow will do...

I'm just wondering why the show of highest typist for insult..

May they regain sanity in a short while..

Ykeyz:
. Prof abeg respond to my msg, it's been 3weeks now. Am about other haeir thermocool from jumia

He can't comment, has issue with his account..

Orubebe01:
Pls which bus stop. Is it before ijesha I mean if you are from oshodi

I think it's before ijesha,, before that Lord chosen bus stop.. Its trekable from ijesha... Just tell conductor or driver that... you will drop at odo olowu/Warehouse.... After you guys have passed cele... There is gate fee after buying ooo.. Don't know how much now.. Use to be #100