₦airaland Forum

Kalulu44:
But your NEPO no ryhme nah. Numerous (good) Access when the letter there is E. So find our E for us o

Oya change the E to exposure.

Case is closed. Numerous exposure to privileges and opportunities

McCoy662:
that's the problem boss. I stay in the far away east. I can't afford to stay a week in Benin like this. The cost and cost will be too much on me

look for people like falz, daddy freeze, VDM, berekete radio to grant u 3 minutes of video interview and post it on their page. Na VC go call you.

But make sure u are completely faultless from all angles or else….. you will just go and buy jamb form again

[quote author= post=136128742]Nigerians have a long way to go, maybe religion and culture has removed logical common sense thinking ability. This is so simple scenario to analyze yet many nigerians out of emotion or lack of enlightenment cannot choose the correct way.

In a society where children are placed as financial providers for their parents will experience a disordered, corrupt, crime infested, retrogressive result BECAUSE it will breed more irresponsible parents (older generation) who are supposed to be the elders/leaders of the society.


Our Education in this country is indeed useless. (Taking care physically of an aged parent is different from providing financially for the same parent)[/quote]Family values bro. Pure and simple.

If u have and ur parents don’t have, then u have to give them. It is an obligation. If u don’t get this simple logic, then I am so sorry for you

Nnamdipapa:
They don't understand how obligations work. I have kids who don't owe me a dime. I owe them to be successful in life because I brought them into this. I wonder how this simple concept is hard for the average Nigerian to grasp.

That does not mean you don't help your parent but it is not a debt.

No good parent will expect you to help them financially if u can’t afford it or if they clearly don’t need the help. But if the reverse is the case, bros take care of your parent

Nnamdipapa:
They don't understand how obligations work. I have kids who don't owe me a dime. I owe them to be successful in life because I brought them into this. I wonder how this simple concept is hard for the average Nigerian to grasp.

That does not mean you don't help your parent but it is not a debt.

It is not a debt. But it is still an obligation, as long as you are able to help them and as long as u can see that they need your help.

This is not negotiable. If u have money, help your parents. If they had not raised you, u won’t be alive not to mention having this weird opinion

DenreleDave:
But you owe your wife and your wife family Abi

Men like you ignore your family and take care of Ur wife own

when situation becomes dire, that guy will even abandon wife and kids.

His statement comes from a heart filled with selfishness

[quote author= post=136118566]You are correct.
Nigerians are the most hypocritical creatures on earth I have seen. They want Nigeria to change but they don't want to change their retrogressive habits and culture.

The Wise and responsible parents don't expect anything from their kids because they know it is not their right. The kids can decide to support their parents out of goodwill. Many irresponsible parents bring out kids just to suffer them perpetually and people support this.
I have seen many parents with retirement plan and that is how it should be and not to depend on children. They didn't force the parents to be born.
Depending on kids and pushing them to crime is one of the ills of the society which is rampant in Nigeria. It's even written in the Bible that a good parent should leave inheritance down to the grandchildren.[/quote]Oga if u are broke and cannot help ur parents financially, everyone understands. But at least there are many other ways to help them.

But if u can afford it and u let ur parents suffer, my dear, something is very wrong with ur upbringing. Even Oyibo wey dem train well does not joke with their parents

ediko5:
You're definitely suffering from the trauma of lack of parental love in your life. It's obvious you've not really experience parental love.

Allow us that have been showered with sweet parental love to also reciprocate same with joy the same way a Yahoo boy dey see joy in throwing money in clubs and spending on his girls 😂😁

Well said.

No African who benefited from good parenting and parental love will ever say this nonsense that the OP said.

Hell!!!!, even non-African don’t joke with their parent welfare

I no blame the guy. His mind is twisted by some sort of trauma he faced

OKOATA:
Why don't you trick her and the kids to Nigeria then, just seize her passport and forget her or better still just tell her you lost your job and you will be staying at a friend's place for the mean time. That way you can know what to do by staying with a friend or whatever to observe the situation. Tell her you also lost all you had to a business or something like that. That will show you her true colours so prepare for the worse.

I like this plan. let the op tell her he lost his job and then temporarily move out to another location. let us see if she will not carry the expenses by force.

in abroad. Remaining married is a team work. I financed 90% of our relocation myself.
me and my wife does not have a defined contribution pattern. we just have an unspoken understanding.
I pay the rent and buy some little groceries. she buys the major groceries and pays insurance, power, internet etc.
But, aside from the rent, we managed to get a pretty good deal on all the other bills. we also shop for groceries in a way that minimises cost (we know where everything is sold cheaper).
That way, we both manage to keep some savings in our individual accounts. But because the rent is more than 2/3 of our monthly expense, she still gets to save more than I do from her total income. I also let her keep all the government cheques we get.

You need to get your wife to contribute. If she refuses, u should intentionally leave out some bills ....like grocery bills for her to pay. lets see what she will do.

but just make sure it is fair.

TallNigerian:
Many of the people here are not informed. Wike can do nothing to elected area council chairmen, he doesn't have such powers. Some weeks ago, Wike mentioned withholding the IGR meant for the area councils, so they he can pay primary school teachers directly, as the first amount disbursed was withheld by the council chairmen. I wonder how all of you missed that news that was on Nairaland front page some weeks ago.

post link na….so we can all stop speculating and be informed

Maxymilliano:
NUT treasury should endeavor to reach out to the minister for clarification on the the alleged signature allowance Wike that I know won't release such amount to clear backlog of unpaid wages and be quiet in the face of a provocative strike action

I agree with this. First question is “was there a signature allowance in the approved budget?”

I think someone is trying to manage information here. Nyesom Wike that I know will kill and destroy if the money he released for one purpose was utilized for something else.

Oloki:
LoL!

Old men marrying young ladies are wising up. How can a woman not up to 50yrs not think of remarrying? Even 50+ still marry.

Anyway, the condition is for her to marry from the late husband's kinsman.... She should work towards that

why would she need to remarry?
She can always have boyfriends to take care of her sexual needs while she maintains her freedom and keeps the money

SINisSIN:
😁😁Ned Nwoko calling his lawyer right away😀 see format.

Well, if she is smart, she will get all the properties and still remarry if she wants. Smart lawyers will help her.

make una try to Dey hide una ignorance small small.
We are talking about a will, written by a man in his right mental health, how can the lawyers change it?

Jerkbaba:
They're so useless! I hate them with passion!

No need to hate them. They are just being their age…..and also being influenced by the kind of society and environment they find themselves in

Rapmoney:
My candid advice for men who are 35+ is to avoid Genz girls by all means. These category of girls do not actually think the way you think, neither do they see what you see. Their mentality and yours is so wide apart like Africa and Australia. Your plans and vision don't matter to these people. They are only concerned about the present; what they can collect and move ahead with alacrity.

Make you no go use your 7 months salary take sponsor holiday trip for one girl wey go leave you within a twinkling of an eye.

Where is the lie?

People of that age has no business falling in love with a Gen Z.

festacman:
Congratulations to my Naija Brother.

As far as I am concerned the he has clearly passed the message to that Briton and indeed other Britons.

I am sure the Briton would be stunned and will be thanking his God that he won by those 4 points.

By the way, why didn't the Briton score 98 or even 100 as per NATIVE English speaker. Naija guy gave him a run for his money, jooor!

My dear, I owe u a carton of beer for this wisdom.

The guy try . But it is foolish to challenge someone in his own language though. As far as I am concerned, we are better than them. We can speak there language, Oya let them try speaking ours.


One of my trainers…..an Oyibo man, told me not to let anyone demean me because of my accent. He told me to challenge anyone who talks down on me to try learning my own language not to mention actively communicating and working with it to earn a living

ElSudani:
Nonsense, the white folks didn't speak any African language before they divided Africa up like a birthday cake.

it is foolish to challenge someone in his own language.

Anyway, my job entails speaking with Oyibo all day long…..and I often encounter those who would not let me attend to them…..because I have an accent. Unfortunately, due to my good upbringing I can’t tell them my mind. If I were allowed to tell them my mind, I would remind them that I am better than them by far. I conquered my own language (which they would never conquer) now I am speaking and interacting with them in their own language. If they feel so great, let them try learning my language let me see if they will learn it…..talk more of speaking it with an accent

GOFRONT:
Hmmm........ Truly, the Greatest Trophy/Laurel of a woman is a HUSBAND....NwaAmaikpe (2019).

There is nothing anybody can tell me.

Frankly speakng, Madam Maami igbagbo there is hope of husband for you............If men with good looking features and heavy pocket can hunt down a dirty smelly roadside mad woman and impregnate her, then who are you with those round figure eight shape that will lack husband to marry??.........Naija men can marry anything

Just relax!!

where is nwamaikpe? I miss his twisted sarcasms

CaveAdullam:
The ironic part is that they are fraudsters.

Ask them how they make their wealth and you'll start hearing different incoherent blabbing.

Shallipopi posted some days ago that since he has been making/counting money, he hasn't come across algebra in his daily life. Dumb talk. Meanwhile, mathematics is everywhere. From the iPhone, he uses to the safety of his bank accounts.

The only way a dumb man can feel on top is:

A. To have a loud and (bad mouth).
B. Be narcissistic.
C. Flaunt wealth.
D. Be arrogant.
E. Bullying.

What they lack in virtues and values, they try to substitute by money and boasting. It is an ego issue. They are still hurt inside their hearts that they are still dumb despite their money.

They are still suffering from a strong inferiority complex.

Status and wealth are the only ways the average person can feel important. And that's why a culture of materialism is the order of the day worldwide. To catch people: flaunt luxury and wealth in their eyes. They are too dumb to decipher. They will fall for your antics.

The most infuriating observation is how truth and wisdom are weighed based on materialism. Even the Bible says that a poor wise man is not considered for his wisdom.

The only way to appeal to people is through:
A. Force.
B. Power.
C. Wealth.
D. Money.
E. Luxury.
F. Status.

Even if not a symptom of each, at least a sign will convince. Gotcha! You can have a herd of scapegoats and sleeper cells to help you play your dirty game.

It's good you left the group. Because staying there is like pearls among pigs. You'll start doubting yourself, and get filled with envy and regrets. Your exit is commendable.

Above all, this should motivate you to work harder. To improve productivity. To think. To research. To make money and climb the ladder.

Good, intelligent, and wise people can only rule when they are also the ones in charge. There must be no room for dumb men with stolen gold.

Thanks.

U have said it all.

Only immature kids and people with inferiority complex will want to flaunt their wealth on the face of others

ChizzyBuna:


Op is the real definition of
As e dey sweet us e go dey pain them..

Op if you like cry very very well
E dey sweet me as e dey pain u
You think Life ends in school??

When you were carrying first
Them go dey hail you they clap for you. The whole school will stand up and clap for you. E go dey enter your head you go dey buga


Meanwhile the dullards in school were being mocked by the teachers and the whole school.
They were publicly humiliated in front of their mates for poor grade.

So naturally who do you think will succeed more in life??

The one that the school keep hyping as the best student collecting 1st everytime will be more relaxed thinking his future is already made.

While the constant humiliation of the dullards gives them so much motivation to prove everybody wrong.
From the teachers to the principal that told them they won't be anything in Life!!!

So OP, stop crying like a bitvch
You had your own time to shine
Now it's their own turn to shine.

Life na turn by turn.. Shalom

Bros, u need to grow up and be more mature. It is childish to rub your success in the face of less fortunate peers. It is even more childish to taunt them for their shortcomings. I would be the first to exit such group.

I did well for myself in life.....at least among the top quarter of all my school peers I know (primary, secondary, university). We have group chats for each of these groups. We are all mature enough not to rub our success in the face of the less fortunate. I will be the first to leave a group if I notice such childish behaviour.

Once again, please grow up and don't condone such childishness

Fahvvy:
Why on earth will a broke man think of having a kid? ... To bring the child to suffer? Come on na, let's be real with ourselves here ...

No one should give birth to a child(ren) they can't afford to cater for, this isn't rocket science ...

I agree with this.

But not all relationships must result in pregnancy and childbirth. Saying that a broke man should not knack is very stupid and unrealistic. If that is the case, then broke girls should not date too. Infact they should not eat

dryakson:
Omo. I remember my brother built his house during early Buhari regime at ₦180

when I built my house, I bought 9" blocks for N110 each

joseph1832:
what's wrong with his attitude?

everything bro. Everything is wrong with his attitude.

The red flags in associating with someone of his nature is too much

Verydarkhearted:
Your father is ex military?? Bro even if your having issues with your family blood is thicker than water. They will turn up for u do matter what.. this look like a pr stunt to get sympathy from people to patronize your work.

I totally agree.
I smell a lot of lies here. It is either that the issues which sent him to jail is bigger than he wants us to know, or his father is not ex-military.

How can a 50k bail condition keep you in prison for 10months? U no get friends wey fit sell Ur property raise the money? U no fit call it people to rally round and raise ordinary 50k??

Are u such a bad person that every one abandoned you?

Roboto11:

True talk.

If u attend oyibo managed church and see the sincerity and transparency, u will never set foot on an African church again.

As for me, except I want to honour a family member invitation, u will never see me in a Nigerian church EVER in my life again

Prestar:
Babcock Student Whose Nude Video Was Leaked By Her Boyfriend Graduates With A First Class



Naija Flaying Doctor shared the update on social media platform while referencing an old post which outlined the progress the female student has been making.

why are we looking at matriculation banner instead of a convocation banner?
And she is wearing matriculation gown too.

Useless blogger story

Lanretoye:
I don’t understand o,just making people more apprehensive.how does revocation of one bank’s license destabilize the economy,as if the license was revoked without a reason.
He just wants 3points at all cost

did U read what he said?

Or is it that U just lack comprehension?