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FamilyRe: See The Message I Sent To My Uncle In America And He Sent Me N30,000 by obstead200(m): 2:01pm On May 24, 2022
Amalekki:
No matter the background or justification, this is the height of entitlement and poor communication. I really pity your uncle knowing how your letter would make him feel.

What is your business with how much he sent others?
Do you know the justification behind his decisions & he actually owes you no explanation?
What of other people he probably couldn't even send a dime?
Or you think you know everything about him?
You think the 30k he sent you is money he doesn't need for himself no matter how small?

Your uncle lives in a system where accountability is key. He prioritized you by sending you something. Learn in life that help is not always on our terms. The person might have a huge role to play in your life but your attitude may be your obstacle.

Bottom line, no matter what you are going through, your relationship with people must not be about them solving your personal problems or what you can get from them. Relate with your uncle as your uncle, not your cash cow.
let's free the young man. At 19years, he is still a baby. We understand and pardon his foolishness.

He will grow up eventually and eyes go clear
FamilyRe: See The Message I Sent To My Uncle In America And He Sent Me N30,000 by obstead200(m): 1:59pm On May 24, 2022
VictorUSA:
If your uncle lives in the US and send you 30K, and you are satisfied with that you can quote me with this trash again.
na wa for u oooo. I no even get strength to talk for Ur matter.
But I understand you sha. U are a child (19yrs old)....so u have not yet realised that ultimately, no one owes u jack.

Soon bro, very soon, u will grow up and reality will set in. I just hope the reality won't make u commit suicide out of depression.
RomanceRe: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by obstead200(m): 7:02am On May 23, 2022
Animegirl:
Ermm... I don't think my comment as gotten to this level of you mentioning my father. But if this is your best response, well suit yourself. I won't say anything.
Baby, u mentioned mother's love, he replied with father's love.....I think it is almost fair...except for the part where he said Ur father was stupid....that's wrong.

Meanwhile, if u are the one on Ur profile picture, u fine ooo. U sure say I no go DM you so?
CareerRe: Biochemistry Graduate Under Pressure To Study Nursing; Please Advise by obstead200(m): 6:59am On May 19, 2022
Moneyyman:
I think that's a harsh thing to say about someone you've never met. Do you know if he's struggling abroad too? UK nursing schools aren't cheap. It is easier to get it done here in 3 years and move.
let her uncle just be kind enough to get her an admission in a cheap school in uk and pay her first tuition. As long as she is not lazy, trust me, she will be ok. She can even gradually repay him for the first year tuition.
My younger sister is an example. She is a computer science graduate. My brother was kind enough to advance her a loan for her first tuition into a UK school for nursing. She is in Uk paying her way through nursing school right now

I repeat, abroad has a way of twisting the brotherhood spirit of most Nigerians.
CareerRe: Biochemistry Graduate Under Pressure To Study Nursing; Please Advise by obstead200(m): 6:55am On May 19, 2022
kumbhuru:
You are not using your brain. Please use it more. What rubbish did you just type?
You think money grow on trees abroad and its easy to fund education over therehuh?
I won't return Ur insults, I forgive u. My personal opinion here is that if u can leave naija today, why wait for 2mrw?

the fact is, once she can cross over and maybe get her first year fees paid, she can easily fund the rest by herself. My sister is in UK, studying nursing and doing 2 jobs. She is paying her own way through school.
Care giver jobs are in high demand. Student nurses can easily do that and raise good money
FamilyRe: My 19yr Old Wife Dumped My Daughter And Fled With Her Boyfriend Since On Sunday by obstead200(m): 4:28pm On May 18, 2022
Peter532:
You think everyone is like your father who gave birth to multitudes before finally paying your mother's dowry at 65years old?.

Sorry boy, have already done all necessary things so keep your silly assumptions to yourselves.
u even get mouth to abuse pple.

Oga u impregnated a 16yr old girl and took away her options. Lucky for her, after Bearing Ur child, she rediscovered herself and chose to enjoy her life.
U shud be happy for her. She would have become so frustrated in your house that she will murder u.
Go and take care of Ur child.....and find a woman more mature.
CareerRe: Biochemistry Graduate Under Pressure To Study Nursing; Please Advise by obstead200(m):
[quote author=NaughtyBrainiac post=112878749]Hello All,

A friend studied Biochemistry in one of Nigeria's Federal Universities, she has completed NYSC but she does not have a job yet.

Her brother who currently resides in the UK wants her to enrol in a school of Nursing in Nigeria and she is not happy with what her brother wants.

I asked her if her brother's reason is because Nursing is profitable in the UK and she said YES, that's his reason. The goal is that she'd eventually relocate to the the UK.

My concerns are:

1. Why study a course like Biochemistry and go back to a school of Nursing? Aren't there better alternatives?
2. Most of the people I know that attended school of Nursing always go back to the Univeristy for BSc. Nursing.
3. School of Nursing in Nigeria will take her about 3 years and I am sure she will still need to write some exams before she will be able to work as a Registered Nurse in the UK.

Are there possibilities of moving to the UK to study that version of Nigerian School of Nursing? If yes, how expensive is it?

On the other hand, if she's able to go to the UK for her masters, masters in what course can she apply for (please bear in my that she is a Biochemistry graduate) that would give her chances of securing a good job in the UK ( At least, a kind of job that would still make her earn something close to what Nurses earn)?

Pleas
PoliticsRe: On The Willful Denial Of The Gruesome Murder Of Gloria Matthew & AM Linus by obstead200(m): 4:57am On May 10, 2022
LocalStandard1:
I used to support the Igbos and their "struggle", I was so enraged about what I thought was done to them that I considered going to the East to help them fight, even contribute monetary. Since those pictures and video came out I have been angry and heavily disappointed in what the Igbos are doing and even supporting, now just seeing an Igbo man or woman make me assume them to be cannibals and savages.

Igbos should know that this was how the Civil War started. Those who fail to learn from history are bound to repeat it. Making an enemy of everybody doesn't make you courageous or wise but the direct opposite. Those images has opened the eyes of a lot of people, it has turned away the support many people have for you and most importantly many people's hearts are becoming filled with hate for the Igbos. You can't win this war, you definitely won't get your Biafra like this.
I agree with u. But......I am Igbo...and I can tell u for free that most of us ..... especially the enlightened ones are actually feeling trapped. We can't openly voice out condemnation to these barbaric acts because of fear of assassination. It has gotten so bad that ...if u live in an ESN dominated area and Ur neighbor points u out as a dessident voice, Ur life may be forfeit.

So please do not take the silence of most of us as a proof that we support this savagery. The average Igbo man is a sane, religious and compassionate human who holds human blood and human life as most sacred.

I can't rule out the fact that some Igbo urchins actually cheer on these demons.......I have seen it first hand....but they are actually in the minority.
Foreign AffairsRe: An Abomination’: Pelosi Leads Outcry On Supreme Court Draft Abortion Ruling by obstead200(m):
efficiencie:
So in your convoluted mind, preventing a thing from happening is the same as a allowing it happen and then erasing its occurrence? Preventing conception does not involve killing but conceiving and then killing the foetus does involve killing even though both choices prevent birth. There is a fundamental difference here. If you have any brain cells left just do a little thought experiment. Is it better not to build a house and have all your money safe in a bank than to build a house and then demolish it. Yes in the end both choices results in the absence of a house but one choice results in the loss of time, effort, money and expertise but the other doesn't.

Please check the water you are drinking, it must contain something that is doing you serious damage!
Foreign AffairsRe: An Abomination’: Pelosi Leads Outcry On Supreme Court Draft Abortion Ruling by obstead200(m): 4:16pm On May 04, 2022
KaluwisxPRO:
You have a choice to have sex or not, a choice to use protection, why are you surprised you got pregnant and want to aborthuh??
if abortion is evil, then using protection is also evil. U are preventing a life from being formed. It is the same thing as killing a formed life.

Nonsense
Foreign AffairsRe: An Abomination’: Pelosi Leads Outcry On Supreme Court Draft Abortion Ruling by obstead200(m): 4:11pm On May 04, 2022
Righteousness2:
Woe to those who call evil good and good evil.



The Bible teaches that at Conception, an unborn child is a Human being that GOD is Forming.

A Mother who decides to abort her child is making a decision to End another's person Life and that is and always has been the Definition of Murder.

Abortion is Evil and the height of Wickedness.
Repent if u have engaged in it and stop it if you are having such thoughts.
It is Wickedness and would Destroy your soul in Hell.
Stupid talk.

Abortion is evil but bringing an innocent child into the world to suffer untold hardship and undeserved hate that will finally twist his mind and make him a demon is good abi?

Thunder fire that Ur mouth.

To all ladies, if u make mistake and get pregnant, don't be deceived by all this pastors, it's Ur decision whether to keep the baby or not. U alone knows where the shoe pinches u
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Gives Men My Number, I'm Tired!!! by obstead200(m): 8:24pm On May 03, 2022
Nonexisting:
It means she doesn't have NO for an answer. She gives your number to those she is no longer interested in, the ones she is still interested in, you know the answer to that. This is an old format, don't fall for it.
to be more specific, she is a cheap LovePeddler who thinks she is smart.

She takes gifts from all men who show interest in her. Then in exchange, she gives the OP number to those she does not fancy, and keeps the number of those she fancies to herself
EntertainmentRe: Girl Continues Dancing Like Nothing Happened After She Was Hit By A Fan by obstead200(m):
Hmmm
EntertainmentRe: Video: Lady Pours Pot Of Soup On Her Body To Trend With Black Sheriff Song Of by obstead200(m): 3:50am On May 02, 2022
Of course she bleeped up.

She cook soup, and it turned out to be a pot of disaster (just a look at the colour of the soup will tell u say she no Sabi cook)

So rather than poison somebody's son with her ineptitude, she decided to trend with her incompetence.

Good choice.
CrimeRe: How A Friend Frame His Friend As A Yahoo Boy. by obstead200(m): 3:10am On May 02, 2022
Pidginwhisper:
it’s nothing new, e don tey wey e don dey happen. That’s why I don’t keep friends, not even one.. Just few acquaintances i put on “How far ”level and occasionally drop change for beer and Peppersoup.. Everything from afar.
I thought am the only one
FamilyRe: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by obstead200(m):
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BusinessRe: Easter: APCON To Sanction Sterling Bank For ‘Provocative’ Agege Bread Advert by obstead200(m): 8:39pm On Apr 19, 2022
monikulapo:
You my friend are stupid. Have a blessed day.
Pray to God to improve your logic, while you’re at it get better education today.
I will not bring myself low enough to give u a response to this insult the way u are expecting. That makes me smarter than you.
FamilyRe: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by obstead200(m):
emeogbo:
If its the other way round, by now the whole world will be seeking the head of the man. lipsrsealed

I watched the chrisland school video, all I saw was a girl on top of a guy riding a cock, there was no iota of rape in that video, but because of the image of the girl I has to be termed rape. Don't be surprised if it was the little girl that taught the boys how to have sex because she was riding like a pro, but the boys always take the blame. God help the males.
why do I keep hearing that the girl is 10 years old?

Poor up bringing is the cause
BusinessRe: Easter: APCON To Sanction Sterling Bank For ‘Provocative’ Agege Bread Advert by obstead200(m): 8:07am On Apr 19, 2022
monikulapo:
Honestly the Grammar is not necessary.
APCON is useless and Nigerians for the most part are stupid, taxpayers money is spent on this rubbish and naive gullible people are bringing up irrelevant conjectures.
Would you have the same opinion if a Bakery posted this ?
Read about Charlie Hebdo or other actual cases of humor done in bad taste before flexing irrelevant English and inciting unneeded hate.(FWIW it’s Islamophobia for assuming Islam would spill blood for it)

Mehn we at war with our minds, too many misdirected rage in this country. A flyer you should ordinarily just laugh and forget the bad joke.
At the bolded, yes I will. That anology remains a mockery of the foundation of the Christian doctrine....
BusinessRe: Easter: APCON To Sanction Sterling Bank For ‘Provocative’ Agege Bread Advert by obstead200(m): 8:04am On Apr 19, 2022
ClipHog:
what deregatory about Agege bread fella? when did you add am
Jesus resurrected.......he did not swell up like agege bread.
Swelling up due to the presence of yeast can hardly be Akin to resurrecting from the dead.

Hence using that anology can be perceived as an attempt to downplay, satirise and ridicule the resurrection doctrine.

That cannot be acceptable.
PoliticsRe: 2023: A Look At The APC's 7,800 Delegates And Tinubu's Support by obstead200(m): 7:59am On Apr 19, 2022
oikirodah:
2023: A Look At The APC's 7,800 Delegates And Tinubu's Unanimous Support By Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah


https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/2023-a-look-at-the-apcs-7800-delegates-and-tinubus-unanimous-support-by-osigwe-omo-ikirodah/
do not bet on those northern states. They hold a lot of surprises that will make tinubu cry.
Just bear in mind that the northern oligarchy hates tinubu
BusinessRe: Easter: APCON To Sanction Sterling Bank For ‘Provocative’ Agege Bread Advert by obstead200(m): 9:02pm On Apr 18, 2022
Oluwapresley:
Na this news carry me come Nairaland.

Let me now calm down and read.

Modified:
Now I have read. It might be distasteful to some quite alright. But APCON should pumpi jare. It's not as bad as how I had expected it to be before reading. It's more or less a situation of a missed attempt at being funny rather than it being blasphemous.
I am not a deeply religious person.

But this is definitely blasphemy and an insensitive derogation of the very foundation of the Christian faith. Islam would have spilled blood for this
PoliticsRe: Simon Ekpa Declares Monday Sit At Home Protest Day by obstead200(m): 6:53am On Apr 11, 2022
Sergio104:
At the detriment of the businessmen/women.

They have cried enough. it's time to hear thier voice.

If the sit-at-home is meant for MNK court days only.....it would been better and of more respect.

This every Monday one is a hell of bullshit.

Death to all miscreants out to add to our entropy!!!!!
I agree with you. What is the point of sitting at home on Monday and then going to work every other day? It makes mockery of the whole thing.

Me thinks this sit at home is being enforced by miscreants trying desperately to show power as a way to prove their relevance.and get invited for negotiation...... especially with the elections approaching. It has nothing to do with trying to secure the release of MNK
Christianity EtcRe: Leke Adeboye Apologises For Calling RCCG Pastors Goats by obstead200(m): 6:10pm On Apr 07, 2022
Ayo8:
Medicine after death… RCCG pastors remain goats!
This is not the first time he will come open to trash talk people… he once trashed talk poor RCCG members for running to the church for help; forgetting that the same brain washed members are are the source of their rising funds.
seriouslyhuh??
He did thishuh?

The church need to bench him for like 5years.......just to teach him a good lesson
Christianity EtcRe: Sister Kate: I Wear The Hijab Because My Backside Can Make Men Miss Heaven by obstead200(m): 7:22pm On Apr 03, 2022
ogoloray:
This old cargo is doing low-key marketing...

Women will never sieze to amaze me, wether 10 years old, or 60 years old, they are all the same!
I believe u joor.
She is trying to draw attention to her yansh.
Christianity EtcRe: Sister Kate: I Wear The Hijab Because My Backside Can Make Men Miss Heaven by obstead200(m):
kingot:
(shey nah dat body i dy see for pics abi e get anoda 1) lol
aunty ur backside go make me put more effort in my heavenly race
Lolz
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by obstead200(m):
Philip94:
I work in a private fim and I'm okay in my own little way. I am the one providing the essentials at home coz wifey gat no job 4 now.
the problem is simple.
You no get money!
Ur wife married for money but she does not like what she is seeing. Am sure she is very pretty and has a man somewhere who she wants.
My advice, separate from her before she gives u poison. Just leave the house with Ur properties and rent elsewhere. Tell her to inform u when she wants to remarry so that u can come claim your child
FamilyRe: How Can I Set A Boundary Between Me And My Neighbor? by obstead200(m): 11:49am On Mar 23, 2022
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



I don't see the need for wanting to set boundaries with him; he is just concerned about your obsession with your car's neatness.

I know your type. I once had a tenant who'd wash his car at 5am, sometimes very late at night and even under the scorching sun.
It is obviously queer.

I think you should ignore him but if you really want to address it, next time he askes why you always wash your car,

Tell him that ever since you fvcked his wife inside the car, you've had to wash it daily to get rid of the smell of her kpekus from it.

This should either help you out or put you in more trouble.
I like u bro.
Always
FamilyRe: How Can I Set A Boundary Between Me And My Neighbor? by obstead200(m): 11:47am On Mar 23, 2022
POSmecrhant:
I have this new neighbor that packed in last three months, that talk to people anyhow. But he feels it's a normal conversation.

Over the weekend I was cleaning my house and my car, only for him to tell me I clean my car too much. And was saying other nasty things and was laughing thinking is a normal thing.

There's no single day that i will wash my car that this guy will not say this to me, how I valued my car more than my life.

Normally, this guy can not look me with straight face and be telling me this kind of nonsense if I didn't create this kind of familiarity with him in the first place.

How can i avoid this guy in a matured manner so that he won't even decode I'm avoiding him?
u are too sensitive. Just chill
It is plain banter. But if u can live with urself after it, just go and tell him u don't appreciate the banter.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Takes Delivery Of His N275M Lamborghini Aventador by obstead200(m): 2:08am On Mar 20, 2022
allwell51:
Davido takes delivery of his Lamborghini

He bought the luxury car for himself as Christmas present last December.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CbR_hQJgeI3/?utm_medium=copy_link

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rtoqu0Y7m5Y
I don talk am before. If I were the controller of customs, I will make sure Davido paid 300% custom duty on that car....else I will confiscate it and auction it.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Pays Huge Amount To Clear His Lamborghini, Says 'Pray For Nigeria' by obstead200(m): 4:17pm On Mar 16, 2022
MrCover:
Singer Davido has taken to his Twitter handle to ask Nigerians to pray for Nigeria.

While lamenting about the huge amount he paid to clear his Lamborghini, Davido wrote;



https://mobile.twitter.com/davido/status/1503897929714737153 no

Davido bought the luxury ride as a Christmas present for himself last December.
@ Davido, who careshuh
Trust me, if I were in charge of customs, u will pay 300% of the cost price to clear that unneccesary piece of luxury u chose to spend Ur money on
Foreign AffairsRe: Rob O'Neill Mocks America's "Weak" Response To Putin by obstead200(m): 4:23pm On Mar 15, 2022
ogbiwa:
A Navy SEAL who killed Osama Bin Laden says there's no way the US could do to Putin what he did to Bin Laden as he mocks his country's response to Russia's invasion.

Rob O'Neill, from Montana, was a part of the SEAL Team Six that took out the 9/11 organiser in Abbottabad in 2010.

He has completed 400 combat missions over 16 years and believes that Vladimir Putin has "lost his marbles" by launching the full-scale invasion against Ukraine.

But he has also been taken aback by his country's reaction and says America has responded to the deadly attack with weakness.

The veteran, who was decorated 52 times, slammed President Biden's administration after they cancelled a nuclear missile test last weekend while Russian troops attacked innocent citizens.

O'Neill believes the Pentagon is more worried about their climate change agenda instead of trying to put a stop to Putin, reports Daily Mail.

He said: "You don't defeat a crazy man with nuclear weapons, with weakness. It's like trying to stop a schoolyard bully by appeasing him, it's nonsense.

"When I was in the service, the main concern was whether you could perform the task at hand.

"Now they (the Pentagon) are wasting time and resources making warships green.

"The unfortunate truth is Russia and China are laughing at us when we talk about climate change in the military."

O'Neill confessed that he didn't believe Russia would invade Ukraine because he "made the mistake of trying to make sense of an insane man’s decision."

He thought Putin planned to manipulate the West into paying out extra money on defences by stationing hundreds of thousands of soldiers on the border but didn't believe they would send anyone in.

The veteran fears that the Russian leader will move to heavy, long-range artillery after watching the Ukrainian resistance take down helicopters and jets.

He hopes Russia will reach a point where their troops are "getting their butts kicked so badly" that the West and Ukraine will discuss a deal with Moscow as a way out.

"Most people in the world can agree. There's one person that can stop this. All he needs to do is stop it," O'Neil added.

He says he has found it unsettling to see footage of Russian helicopters getting attacked and being shared across social media.

"There are Russians on those planes and I've had friends dying in helicopter crashes, and there's nothing cool about it.

"Most of the soldiers don’t want to be there. It’s all because one guy in the Kremlin has lost his mind."

O'Neill claims that most Americans are getting their ideas of war from TV and social media.

"We'd have to know where he is and hit him with an airstrike. You would have to figure out how we get into Russia, how they don't see us and what we do when we land," he added.

"Leave your video game tactics at home, because they don't work."

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/navy-seal-who-killed-bin-26454619
war don damage that guy head. He is not thinking straight anymore. He thinks Russia is Afghanistan. Let US do any how and watch the whole world collect big time. We are talking about massive nuclear weapons on both sides.

US would rather let Ukraine fall than risk a nuclear warfare that will end badly for the entire Europe and North America

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