₦airaland Forum

iammo:
Hell Rufai should quit this games, why not pay the fvcking ransome like other Governors do... Our security agencies surely can't track them in the thick forest

I hate to say this. But I really don't think paying of Ransome to bandits is the best approach here. I agree with elrufai
If the govt refuse to pay Ransome, banditry will no longer look so attractive.

I know that if it is my relatives that is kidnapped, I won't be saying this.........but then, the truth remains the truth. We live in desperate times and it requires desperate measures

Harrynight:
TRUTH be told this guy is also damn greedy!

When you work in an organization where you are paid, you are expected to contribute by hard work and idea to move the organization to greater heights and be profitable!

As a staff, He contributed an impressive idea to the company, he was appreciated with a whooping R47 million (About ₦1.2Billion)

Greed push him to demand for more!
Is he expecting the company to hand him all the profits realized from his idea?

I smell corruption in that court ruling. Some pple had been bribed.

RightToReject:
In your small-mindedness, I have time to enter into a needless exchange of words with bumpkins. What a mistake! Try harder because my submission is concise and not for bumpkins.

with due respect sir..........YOU ARE AN IDIOT. YOU ARE SUBHUMAN AND SHOULD NOT LIVE AMONG SANE PEOPLE

Even when someone tried to talk sense into you, u are still forming smart

RightToReject:
In your small-mindedness, I have time to enter into a needless exchange of words with bumpkins. What a mistake! Try harder because my submission is concise and not for bumpkins.

with due respect sir..........YOU ARE AN IDIOT. YOU ARE SUBHUMAN AND SHOULD NOT LIVE AMONG SANE PEOPLE

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

just dimp your boyfriend and date a deeper life member. But just know that it is courtship that will lead to marriage within 3 months

Swerve4me:
It's amazing how a February post makes the front page in April. Hmmm.

To the main issue at hand now, I have the following submission:

Oga, you seem to be a wealthy person. Wehdone. In this country, most people are poor and hungry, so when they hear this kind of your testimony, they are likely to agree with you; maybe something will drop for the boys. But looking at your story in its entirety, I don't believe you were targeted by kidnappers.

I will also advise you to seek medical care due to your inability to account for events between Dec 28 to 30. Make e no come be say na stroke u been get that time. Stroke can cause sudden death, and some victims will still attribute it to village people (I mean no harm here pls).

In addition, if you don't have more factual evidence that implicates your late relative, ie the one who lost his life in the fatal road mishap; then it's grossly unfair to jubilate over his demise. He may have just been checking on you- maybe something will drop for him.

I don't expect you to agree with everything I've said but I felt I needed to state my stance.

U are a wise man sir.
Kidnap kor.......parentnap ni

mbahdi:
You didn't tell us the post you heed,you Keep saying political adviser.PA. if you are a politician that means you are one of Nigeria problems.if your ways are good before God and man.thank God for you.but if you are among those suffering the masses.am sorry to say.you wunt be lucky next time

exactly what I want to say. OP is a politician. If he has ever looted our money or falsified contracts or accepted kickback and brown envelope, then He is better off dead. That will be one less problem for Naija.

dominique:
Let's try and push emotions aside before passing judgement on some cases. Is the account his personal account? Why does he need a next of kin to withdraw from his account? There are a lot of sketchy details here but it pretty obvious that the account does not belong to the man. Perhaps a late spouse or sibling. In that kind of situation, you need to follow due procedure. No bank in the world will ever grant to access to funds from someone else's account because you're sick or hungry or whatnot. If it's his personal bank account, once his BVN data and signature checks, he would have withdrawn his money without issuesm

his NOK came for the money because he was too sick to come. His NOK was asked to bring the sick man. He did so. Then there appears to be a slight issue with the name (I don't know how that came about sha). But if the above is right, then I feel this issue would have been handled differently. Moreover 60k is a small risk.

Even as a former Staff of FCMB (finbank side) I had a very nasty recent experience with the bank when I came to reactivate my old salary account and use it for online transactions, instead of going through the hassles of opening a new account. Even after doing all the needful, they refused me access to the money I directly and immediately transferred into the reactivated account, citing arrangement of name as the issue. Asking me to go get another birth certificate and all that.

I am too busy for such bullshit. I just left my 10k for them.

bolex4ril:
Omo, we ned to calm down small o.

I know nigerian banks do give preference to the old, definitely there must be an issue either documentation or something.

And this story don dey get two version.
Shebi they said the son got the money and took his father to the hospital, before returning again

according to the narrative, the issue with documentation is a slight difference in the name. But as long as other things check out, facial ID and signature, I think 60k is a small risk

BennyDGreat:
Some bankers are non-challant.

They ought to have sent someone to check on the man outside and hasten the process of withdrawal. It's human life here

Many people just lack Emotional Intelligence.

exactly.

That is how situations like this is handled. You send a teller to go outside and transact with the sick man.

Moreover 60k is a very little risk. Whatever loss that crystallises out of the transaction (assuming it is fraudulent) can be quickly and silently borne by the bank. It is a small price to pay for showing empathy.

This is what a risk based management is all about. U don't HV to apply the whole rule book where the cost and time spent in applying the rules to the letter Supercedes the intended benefits

But FCMB and access bank are notorious for this act of being too careful, without empathy for customers.

FYI, I used to be a control officer in FCMB and this is what I always recommend in situations like this

Explorers:
Thinking they should design escape rooms(one at the front, middle and at the rear) depending in the location of crew at thebmoment of the accident.

Survivors can make their way to the escape rooms and launch to surface.

I think the problem is the depth at which they operate. Most "escape vehicles" cannot survive at that depth

FarahAideed:
It's time we place a ban on ransom payment in this country and place death sentence on any one found guilty of paying Ransom or asking for it ....Brutal but it's the only thing that works against kidnapping..the more you pay the more the kidnap ...

I really want to agree with you.

But we all know that if u were kidnapped, u will know life is precious. U will pray that your family pays the Ransome at all cost

blinking001:
These guys are always trying their best to give our government a bad name, let's give them their Biafra so we can all rest abeg. RIP to the dead.

I have exited this thread but I kept thinking about this your comment. I had to come back just to ask u a question.

Are u simply a bigoted dumb fool or are u genuinely ignorant?
Do you not realise that the government is making life difficult for everyone... including your dumb Hausa brothers and your Yoruba cousins (I don't know which one u belong to)

Did u not realise that what that guy did is probably the best he could try........without going into crime, terrorism and bandit and hurting his fellow countrymen?

Do u not realise that the Hausa Fulani who have gone into banditry and terrorism as a result of economic hardship are the worst of the demons, are those actually giving your Nigeria a bigger bad name?

How dare you talk ill of a tribe just because it's pple like to take their future in Thier hands rather than parasite on fellow countrymen?

Are you plain stup.id or just mad?

officialmario:
7 wrap is not much nw,at least i will give him money.

oga use that money to enter restaurant and eat joor. Stop falling hand because of food

officialmario:
the most painful part of it is that i left my food at home, but i insisted on eating when i get to the party.

bros go and hustle.....to the extent that when u get to occasions, the celebrant will be waiting at the gate to greet u....he will detail his wife to stand behind you and attend to all your needs. He will chase away people just to make a seat for you.���.

Personally, I can remember the last time I graced an occasion (wedding, birthday or burial) and actually eat. I just come, ensure the inviter saw me, drop my token and then take my leave. Maximum time I spend is 1hr. Na dem go dey beg me to take a drink or wait to be served some food. I no get that time.
I find it ridiculous that people go to occasions and the most important thing to them is to eat and drink as much as possible.

Na poverty dey cause am abeg.

Most times, if u invite me, I will not even come. I just ask for your aza and credit ur account. Make I rest and put my time to more profitable use joor

Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.

The ugly side of this ur post is that we all rushed to view your profile picture only to discover you did not upload any

omonnakoda:
You can say it till you die if you like.

Words have different meanings to educated people

Did Obaseki tell you that governors drove back from Abuja with bullion vans?

"print money" is a term that is used interchangeably with "quantitative easing" by experts . Google is your friend

All this mouthing off just exposes you as ignorant
Stop abusing people and get a proper education

please stop disgracing ur lineage with this ignorance.

Obaseki goofed. Plain and simple.

Mind you, I dislike the finance minister and the APC govt generally. But I am an academic. I love knowledge and hate blind and misleading ignorance.

Fahdiga:
We are not expecting this devilish regime to admit the truth. even the name of the government's minister of information is Lie Muhammed. we aren't suprised

if u ever believed the nonsense obaseki was saying, then I must salute your ignorance with utmost respect. Simple knowledge of basic economics and finance wouy have shown u that things do not work that way.
In saner climes, obaseki would have really disgraced his generation with that statement.
But this is Nigeria...where everyone wears their ignorance proudly

MenGoingThereWay:
And most guys commenting here, when they come of age and have the money they will still sleep with small girls, cheat on their wife's with same kind of girls they are condemning now and the circle continues....

- MenGoingThereWay

true talk oooo.
No need to judge anyone. Let everyone do what makes him happy. That's my own take. Dating married men is not even close to the greatest sin in the world.

I don't even know why some people make it sound so abominable. Stealing, lying, scamming, back stabbing are all bigger sins as far as I am concerned. They eventually cause much more harm to the victims than ordinary sex.........I am not implying that dating married men is good. I am only trying to place it in the proper scale and perspective

Mrlcredible:
you that slept with a married lecturer, got pregnant for him and still aborted and murdered the innocent baby.
God will judge you

actually I am inclined to believe this. The way the topic carry pain the babe is suggestive of something.

KingZaddy:
...

Hahaha
This Man Is Mad, see As He Confuse Them.

This Is Not meant To Be Funny But I'm Laughing Hard.


Make Them Check The Car Tire, the Tank Is There


The nigga is just a show off type


Driving A Tesla Is Nigeria Where We Struggle With Light, that Ironical

the guy is a big useless idiot.

What he did was totally unnecessary. I hate guys that show off to the extent of belittling others

sisisioge:
But what was Doyen hospital staff doing when the guy took off her oxygen?

Surely, they must have been informed that she was beaten to her then state so why leave her alone to her beater bikonu?

the very question I want to ask ooooo.

How can someone just walk into the hospital.....ICU for that matter...and disconnect the oxygen? Where were the nurses and doctors ball that while?

Moneyboyz:
Any money I see from now on I will just leave this shit hole Country for good.

There are no signboard of government acquisition, not everyone knows where to go about these things, this is my second land investment going down the drain ��

at the bolded.....I think u are destined to be a tenant all your life. Na joke ooo

mamaafrik:
Biased Government,muslims are hypocrites ,they all foolishly look away now when issues like this happens same thing happened during ese oruru time where she was detained within Kano palace andsome muslim men are aid to marry a Christian lady.they engage in paedophiling but will bring in their energy over trivial matter of alcohol drink,hijab.
I hope christains can start kidnapping Muslims too and impregnating them and malhandling them for being a Muslims,if Islam encourages muslim to marry non Muslims ladies in order to convert them but forbids a muslim lady from freely marrying a non Muslims ,is that a true religion??,a religion that encourages paedophiling and Jihad.
Is that a religion??

I .might be wrong. But how exactly do we know that Leah Sharibu is still alive? As far as I can see, this looks like propaganda to me. Have anyone seen a video of this girl since the abduction?

unamamatoto:
you've been spamming the whole place with this... your message has been passed or are you trying to paint yourself A SAINT and draw more gullible followers cause you too are a scammer with fake visa issuing.. shioor

E choke

Arrewa:
God bless their union!!

A jallo to a jallo!!

Even oyibos are now tropping down Nigeria to marry the most beautiful people in Africa!

Everybody want the combination of fulani blood for Dominant Administrative Gene!

Our blood is expensive!!

in our DNA we have

Power,luck,wealth,Administrative acumen,intellectual capacity,Talent and beauty

At the bolded.......
U forgot to add terrorism, banditry, bloodletting, violence as elements of your blood too

Powerfly:
bro[b]! Na long story. Let an idiot give me a gift on a 'no string attached' condition and then later try to manipulate and threaten me.. I'll show him that 'NO SHIT WILL HAPPEN'. I Did it before.. And i'll do it again!.[/b]
once again.. Your response has justified The self entitled mentality of Nigerian girls who believe once they give s£x, money should follow.. As there is nothing like free sex. Afterall.. Like you stated earlier.. 'NOTHING GOES FOR NOTHING'.

at the bolded......I don't believe in charms, but some people are very dangerous. Most times, it is not really about the money but about the bursted ego. Men don't like being played for a fool. It is not good for their ego. And in an effort to regain Thier lost pride, they can do horrible things to you.
The fact that u escaped the first time is no guarantee that u will be lucky next time

brainmax2000:
this complete blackmail, pls report the matter to the police and let your madame be aware

even the police will advice her to return the phone. If he harms her by charm, the police can't do shit about it

husseinaaa:
I met this guy 2018 in my Madam's tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

He usually comes around, he talks and jokes with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us.

To cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone I am not working yet, I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. Then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

So few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciated it.

So we communicate normally but just as a friend.

Last month he started asking me out, I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lose interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to him or I should accept him. He is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life, either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

don't be stupid.
If u don't have the money to give him, simply remove ur SIM card from the phone and give him the phone. You girls like bringing problem to urself. U are willing to collect 50k from someone who had probably not given his mum 20k, and u expect him not to ask for something in return?
Abeg just give him the phone....in the presence of witnesses and have ur peace

Doubloo:
I was really touched by your case, hence the following advise:
You're not in the position to be giving people money, your situation needs help. Your family should be helping you for now not the other way round or else your financial status will never improve.
Drop your ego, ask anyone that has child/children the stress they go through in raising them, needless to talk about raising 3 kids all at once. Before going to work in the morning, take part in caring for the triplet, help around the house, lift a little bit of the house chores from your wife.
Spend time to play with your children, baby sit them let your wife rest and see if there will be a change or not.
Your cannot claim to love the children if you don't love their mother.
This is my 2 naira advise, you asked for it.
Wish you wisdom to understand.
Shalom

u are a wise man.
Let him stop giving anyone money and concentrate on his family. At least he should give them more love and attention. With time, the kids will grow up a bit and start attending school. He can now consider starting a trade for the wife or getting her a job.
I understand how the woman feels. Caring for 3 babies with a limited income can be very frustrating. E no easy

Righteousness2:
My Brother, what you are Facing right now are the Consequences we get when we decide to leave GOD'S way and go our way.
The Bible says ,
if thou will hearken.. you Expect this.
Likewise there are things we expect when we don't hearken.

Having Said that, you are Married right now so you are Husband and wife.
The Missing link I see in your Home is JESUS. You both need to Genuiely Surrender to JESUS.

You as the Head of the Home could be the link to bring JESUS into your Home.
Personally Surrender to JESUS, do away with all worldly stuff and let her see JESUS in you.

I Tell you she will have no other choice than to Join you and in no time you will see a whole new Home enjoying Peace from above.

u are so annoying.
U troll every post talking about religion. That is really disgusting. U can't offer any real advice. U can't even offer sympathy. U just start talking nonsense. Who does not believe in God? Do u think u are holier than others?

If we check well now, we go see u for one olosho joint every day.

Hypocrite

iruocious:
They are! King Zamani and Halita. Na wa oh. So they knew each other before the TV series Halita? Alright.

Oh no! This is a false report. Found out it's a scene from the TV series. Too bad people don't find out the truth before posting info.

really bad. Anyone who followed the series will know that the story here is false.

Halita in real life was not a village girl. She lived in Owerri and attended FGGC Owerri same time with my wife