My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.
I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.
I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.
But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.
MY QUESTION IS
Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?
litigator: This is one area of our Biblical journey we often shy away from talking about.
I am certain I am not alone in this regard.
How does it feel if at 9. am on a Sunday morning, I come out for an altar call after a powerful heart-shattering and guilt-provoking sermon, give my life to Christ; I am prayed for and declare born again, but I unconsciously commit a sin on my way back home?
And with that guilt, I go back to sin full time like it was before the alter call?
I guess I am not alone in this regard. I have attended church services countless times and listened to sermons and teachings that I can't recollect, and at the end of such endeavour, I obey the alter call one minute, and the next minute, I am back to fornicating. This is one thing that has kept a lot of people out of this spiritual journey.
Even Pastors are not immune to sin, as some have found themselves committing sin at one point or the other. I guess Apostle Paul suffered same in the Bible. And this brings me to my question.
Does being again make you immune to sin, and is it a vaccine against sinning?
Is it that if I sin, it will no longer count against me because I have Grace?
Or is it a merry-go-round of sinning and asking for forgiveness shortly afterwards until we get better at not sinning anymore?
And if the latter is the case, why do churches hate and guilt-shame members when they sin but defend pastors when they do the same?
No sir/ ma for it is written " Shall we continue in sin sin while the grace may abound? God forbids, how can we who are dead to sin ,sin there after ?". 2 Cor. 5:17. Only said" If any man be in christ,he is a new creature, old things are passed away and behold all things are becomes new"
Remember that the said Adonija tried to overthrow King Solomon. Instead of him to look for a way to make peace with him for trying to steal his birthright, he was busy eyeing a maiden that belongs to the king. Also this lady in question happens to be the most beautiful maiden in the whole land of Israel. So he deserves a death sentence. He committed a treasonous offence.
Jennyclay: Hmmmmm . sales girls should also be vigilant, not all people who come to the shop are saints, but what's the purpose of CCTV camera when no one is there to stop an intruder from stealing
Adekunle became the victim once again of another Akpofure as Neo called him out severely for hoarding some drinks specifically the Gordons gin supplied for the house pool party.
Adekunle tried defending himself to other housemates but it all fell on deaf ears and had to back down as he was ushered to provide the drinks he was hiding.
Useless boys,others are fighting for senatorial and house of assembly seats but you guys are fighting for alcohol, is this not the lazy Nigerian youths syndrome?
My anus got torn a little bit. I'm finding it difficult to poo normally, because my anus hurts whenever I'm doing so. There's even blood whenever I poo.
Please, I need help on what I can drink or apply to heal my anus and also stop the blood. Please, I would really appreciate your input. Thanks.
Do you have pictures of it,so I could recommend the right drug for you.
Danisaint112: This is how it ought to be. I keep telling people Obidients don't tolerate nonsense.
- The only set of Nigeria that truly has the interest and growth of Nigeria at heart.
- The set of citizens that are truly worried about the sufferings of the ordinary Nigerian.
- The brilliant minds that knows that to choose a good leader character, proactiveness, interactiveness and a clean criminal and cash embezzlement records comes first.
But many are blind to see because of tribal and religious curse placed on them by mostly their parents and cleric.
Alex Otti must give us an explanation for this political error and a better on for that matter if not we go mark am as number first comma (we fault him for it).
The mission remains "A New Nigeria."
Bro, innoson hilux is too expensive for maintenance. Is not possible for police to maintain. Even companies finds difficult to run
Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do.
Auntie, your people extorted his really big. How many cows did your dad buy during his time?. You should've stood by him,bride list is not automatic, is negotiable anywhere. Your people really halt the young man and you are the one suffering it. That's why is good to stand by your intending husband no matter what.
I have experienced outbreaks of this kind the third time in the space of 5months. At first, it was like 3 appearing on my penis cap, the next day after a rough sex but i don't even know when it burst open and dried up because they were smaller in size compared to the outbreak in the picture and then later, a single one pops out twice which i burst open myself and they dried up leaving a tiny scar.
I thought it was all over until this recent outbreak. It doesn't itch or cause any pain and most times, I don't even remember it till i have to urinate.
I had unprotected sex 2 days before the last outbreak and noticed i urinated a reddish color urine and i used antibiotics and did not feel it again until the outbreak showed up.
NB: I haven't met the last person i had the unprotected sex with when i first experienced the first outbreak and both times were unprotected sex.
Could this be Herpes?
If this is Herpes, what are the medications I can start using?
I just got married and my Wife is pregnant.
When you were busy sleeping around, did you seek anyone's opinion. I think is HIV. Sorry
If you want to be healed forgive 🙏, but if you don't need healing don't. Moreover, accept Jesus Christ into your life as your Lord and personal service, there you will experience the inner peace and Joy. God bless you as you obey this counsel.
World football body FIFA has announced its plan to pay prize money directly into the players’ accounts of the winners of the ongoing women’s World Cup in Australia/New Zealand.
FIFA Secretary-General, Fatma Samoura, confirmed this in a viral video on social media saying the policy change is due to unpaid allowance issues involving Nigeria’s Super Falcons.
The Falcons head coach, Randy Waldrum, had earlier revealed that some players were owed “per diem and bonuses” from two years ago.
The development caused a stir and almost affected the preparation of the Super Falcon players with most of them insisting on missing the training to protest their unpaid bonuses.
However, in the video, Samoura acknowledged that “things have been tough” for the Falcons.
Waldrum not afraid of potential England clash She added that FIFA for the first time would monitor that match bonuses got to the players directly.
“I know that things have been tough. We have to face the realities of Nigeria. It pains me a lot. It is because of you (the Super Falcons) that, for the first time, the prize money has been ring-fenced in the history of FIFA to ensure that it goes to you,” the FIFA secretary-general said.
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. sales girls should also be vigilant, not all people who come to the shop are saints, but what's the purpose of CCTV camera when no one is there to stop an intruder from stealing 