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PoliticsRe: Any Job For This Guy? by OBVIOUS(m): 9:19pm On Feb 02, 2009
I suggest that he works at a McDonalds in a predominantly black neighborhood!!
PoliticsI Don't Know Where This Belongs! by OBVIOUS(op): 9:18pm On Feb 02, 2009
I don't know where this topic belongs but


I have a question and I hope that it is clear, what happens if you have a friend, whose parent has stolen a mass amount of Nigeria's wealth, will you share or spend the money with them if they are offering you items such as cars, rides on private jets, trips all over the world?

Theres a gal, that I go to school with, she's always offering all these things to me, but I feel extremely guilty and will not accept any of her offers because I know the type of family she comes from and I know as a Nigerian that its stolen wealth.

What do you guys think ?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do People Divorce? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:45pm On Jan 31, 2009
WHY DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED ?
RomanceRe: Are There Still Singles Out There? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:43pm On Jan 31, 2009
there are many single women around.  ure just being unrealistic about ur choice.



Ben20001:
@poster,

you did not catch them young.

when your mates were busy looking for their future life partners.
you were busy going to brothels. tongue

now all the girls are engaged. pele

REAL TALK!!!
RomanceRe: Spend More On Wedding Or Honeymoon? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:40pm On Jan 31, 2009
OMO IBO:
really? really? like really?
you guys need to go back to naija.
u re right. weddings r notoriously expensive, (both friends and foes attend)
RomanceRe: Schew: I Hate All This Valentines Day Threads! by OBVIOUS(m): 7:26pm On Jan 31, 2009
im not single and i don't fancy them either
RomanceRe: How To Ask A Girl Out by OBVIOUS(m): 7:25pm On Jan 31, 2009
ask her out to lunch or dinner. you don't have to be too direct.



latent intentions r normally more romantic. grin
RomanceRe: Do Girls Also See A Guy As A Cheap Guy? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:23pm On Jan 31, 2009
as long as both parties r consenting individuals, then the notion of cheap is not valid.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee And My Friend: Are They Cheating On Me? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:21pm On Jan 31, 2009
bringing issues such as these to nairaland is not a good idea
RomanceRe: Between True Love And Fake Love by OBVIOUS(m): 7:20pm On Jan 31, 2009
Can fake love turn real?
RomanceRe: Spend More On Wedding Or Honeymoon? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:14pm On Jan 31, 2009
Spend more on honeymoon, this is where the real action takes place.

Not everyone wishes one well at the wedding.
Christianity EtcRe: Is Fornication Really A Sin? by OBVIOUS(m): 5:27pm On Jan 26, 2009
Yes, fornication is a sin.

Get married at an early age if you really want to have sex.
Christianity EtcRe: Hiv Positive Girl Refuses Medication by OBVIOUS(m): 5:24pm On Jan 26, 2009
well then, ask her pastor to beg her to use the medications.

I think its more the issue that she cannot deal with the fact or reality that she has this disease.
RomanceRe: Valentine Day by OBVIOUS(m): 5:00pm On Jan 26, 2009
hahahahaha, at these responses!! tongue tongue tongue
Christianity EtcRe: Hiv Positive Girl Refuses Medication by OBVIOUS(m): 4:54pm On Jan 26, 2009
ogb5:
Do you think her condition will be worse in a years time?
She has been infected for 2 yrs. No symptoms yet.

My worry also. I think this is a case of bad things happening to good people.

But how do I convince her to take drugs.
HIV/AIDS is preventable unless you were born with it and honestly, I don't understand how this is a case of bad things happening to good people, my god everyone wants to claim that they're good especially when sh it happens.
RomanceRe: What Do You Think about online dating? by OBVIOUS(m): 4:38pm On Jan 26, 2009

It depends on luck. You might find someone, you might not.
RomanceRe: Should I Still Go On With The Marriage Plan Or End It? by OBVIOUS(m): 4:36pm On Jan 26, 2009
I will say this, the fact that she is not having sex with YOU, doesn't mean she is not having sex. grin


Aside from that, give her more time maybe she is not in the right frame of mind and as many have stated already, sit her down and talk to her, then use ur brain to do some real thinking and figure out ur next steps.
RomanceRe: Women Are Sometimes Stupid by OBVIOUS(m): 11:54am On Jan 25, 2009
[quote author=yinka-re link=topic=53168.msg1110340#msg1110340 date=1178929222]Why do women continue to stay with men who cheat on them?[/quote]No one talks bout the other side. Why do men continue to stay with women who cheat on them ?


People go with their feelings and forget their brains. One can give many reasons for this question (good sex, money, etc) . But I think its also the fear of starting all over again after investing soo much time and effort into one particular person/relationship.
RomanceRe: Women Are Sometimes Stupid by OBVIOUS(m): 11:50am On Jan 25, 2009
SeanT21:
What the Zap i wanna know is why woman have kids for man that will not propose to them.

EX,The rapper TI is dating some girl call Tiny.They have over 3 kids together and he will not ask her hand in marriage.WTF!!~~If U dont put a ring on my finger,I damn sure will not be popping kids out 4 U!!
Actually thats here in America. In Nigeria sha i think it'd be a different story, the man and the woman would be forced to marry each other whether they like it or not.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Most Of The Time, Bad Things Happen To Good People And Vice Versa by OBVIOUS(m): 11:40am On Jan 25, 2009
I wish such evil upon you too now say Amen. grin



Point of my post is this, people think they're good, doesn't mean they are. The notion of goodness and badness is relative. You're not god to see what evil so called "good"people are doing in secret or rather thinking in their hearts.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Most Of The Time, Bad Things Happen To Good People And Vice Versa by OBVIOUS(m): 4:12am On Jan 25, 2009
Ok then, why is this a topic ? what exactly are you trying to figure out.
Christianity EtcRe: How Nigerian Women Prison Turnedn To Pregnant Zone by OBVIOUS(m): 4:07am On Jan 25, 2009
Who is getting the women pregnant ?

   Maybe the women are being raped in prison,  this must be treacherous.


I can't imagine such sight of childbirth in a Nigerian prison.
Christianity EtcRe: Hiv Positive Girl Refuses Medication by OBVIOUS(m): 3:58am On Jan 25, 2009
at least she knows she has AIDS, many people roaming around Nigeria not knowing they're positive.

But tell ur friend that god gave someone the wisdom to create the HIV medications and she should appreciate god's blessings, wisdom, and knowledge by taking her medications,


I think its more of the underlying fact, that she still cannot deal with the reality that she has AIDS, rather using religion to "cover face." If she refuses to take it, shove it down her throat or better yet, convince her pastor to illusion her into taking them. grin
Christianity EtcRe: Why Most Of The Time, Bad Things Happen To Good People And Vice Versa by OBVIOUS(m): 3:53am On Jan 25, 2009
meaning: whats wrong in having ugly babies, autistic children, or a fat and ugly wife, nothing makes anyone more special than the other.


your friend looking for a wife, may he's a boring guy or thinks he's "holier than thou" most so called born again men have this trait. Let him keep searching, there's nothing wrong in finding what u're specifically looking for.
Christianity EtcRe: Worshipping In Our Churches by OBVIOUS(m): 3:50am On Jan 25, 2009
hahahahahahahahahaha, funny question.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Most Of The Time, Bad Things Happen To Good People And Vice Versa by OBVIOUS(m): 3:21am On Jan 25, 2009
hahahahahha, life happens.

I don't know the reason why people illusion themselves to think that they're special than everyone else,


HA! Nigerians and false feelings of superiority,
RomanceRe: What Is Virginity Worth Today? by OBVIOUS(m): 3:17am On Jan 25, 2009
Virginity is worth nothing at least not that much. But to men sha, its worth a lot, I mean, its among the reason why people go to younger and younger women, theý are obsessed with tight vaginas.



what happens when a woman marries a virgin and ends up getting divorced (a sexpert) . Does this mean that she is now worthless ? what happens when a woman goes to the doctor to have the hymen replaced and sewn back up ? hahahha, what we do for sex?
RomanceRe: How Can I Tell If My Man Is Serious? by OBVIOUS(m): 1:02am On Jan 25, 2009
Its a great movie. u'll really enjoy it.
RomanceRe: How Can I Tell If My Man Is Serious? by OBVIOUS(m): 12:58am On Jan 25, 2009
After 4 years, I think that you should move on.


For those that listen to friends, I recommend watching Modupe Temi, a wonderful movie by Saheed Balogun. Its Hilarious.
RomanceRe: Is Honesty Always The Best Policy? by OBVIOUS(m): 1:50am On Jan 23, 2009
Honesty is not always the best policy. One also has to be wise.

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