₦airaland Forum

powalez:
I wanted to get married before Stupid Access Bank sacked us,my pay then was 91k,was that not enough for me to get married?

TushiPree:
Well, I won't bore you with too much of details.

I met my gf a couple of years ago. We used to have sex on a regular basis until this year when she travelled to another state.

She's not a religious type. She's a fashionista to the core.

When she travelled, she told me her phone had a fault. That she won't be receiving my calls.

I believed the story for a while until one day I called her second line with a strange line. To my surprise, she picked the call. I spoke to her. I faked my voice, and she replied me. I later called her with my main line that day. She acted like she didn't hear me. Meaning, she had been lying about her faulty phone.


Few weeks ago, she came to my state. I was even the one that paid for her tfare and some other bills, because according to her she had nothing. I encouraged her to come home to his family. Since she still has one.

Ever since she came back, she had been demanding for money. This was unlike her.

I showed her my account balance for her to know how broke I am at the moment, but girl won't listen. Always demanding.

Few days ago, she came to my place to charge her phone. After gisting about life and all, I attempted to touch her, and her response shocked me.

She told me she's practicing celibacy. That having sex with me would distort her goal.

She further told me she read one book when she travelled and that was what changed her life.

Also, that since when she had left for another state, she had been keeping herself to prove to her family that she's not a bad girl.

That she's has grown now and her hormones are sensitive to easily pick up pregnancy at a slight mistake.

All of these she tabled down as reasons for why she wants to deny me of having sex with her. I won't lie. I enjoy having sex with her. Lol

I didn't act like I was worried. I simply told her everything is fine. But deep down of me, I knew something is fishy.


For about three days now, have been inviting her to come see me, she won't come.

I plan to ask her to tell me the truth. So, I won't have to keep wasting my time with her.

I can move on easily, but my problem is: she might not want to open up. I need a trick to know what's going on, so we can negotiate and finalise on what next to do.

I notice she had gotten bigger, and she gets tired easily. To me, those are signs of probably pregnancy.

I wouldn't want to assume. Last time she came to my place, she took some of my things, even despite telling her not to.

I'm just tired. And that day she came, she was accusing me that I invited a lady over to my house the day before.

Why would she not want to have sex with me and still want to tie me to herself?

The lady in question is 24 yrs.

Side note: she won't allow me to touch her phone. She has a number of someone on her phone she saved as indispensable. I wonder who that might be.

In fact, there are lots of questions running through my mind about the loyalty of the lady.

I'm totally confused right now...

Elders in the building, please help me see to this matter.

Brandstudio01:
Is he the Uche Ogbuagu the funny comedian we know?

rockstarB:
A married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intent of lying to her is different from a married man that comes to a YOUNG girl with the intention of marriage, already making it clear he is married and looking for a new wife. It is up to the YOUNG girl to accept the proposal or not.
It's two different scenarios please dont mix them up.
And ladies going after married men deliberately is off topic. You can create your own thread and talk about that.
This thread is for ladies to share their experiences with married men that pretended so well to be single.

rockstarB:
These ones came with the intention of marrying these ladies. Not deceive them into a relationship and leave them half way. That is what married men do, they would leave as soon as they get tired of the mind games and all.
Imagine you're dating a guy that calls you 24/7 before then suddenly he doesnt call anymore, the reason is because is wife is now around or he couldn't keep up.
Ned nwoko and the other men you mentioned are real African men, tradition permits men to marry more than one wife (these men didnt have to lie about their status), It didnt say you should go about deceiving unsuspecting ladies about your marital status.

johnrix:
So you can stay with the same woman for 50 years even if you don't respect her that much?

soulstalker:
I went for an interview somewhere at Ikeja. On getting to the venue, I met some ladies at the front of the gate, there wasn't any security guard. the ladies escorted me in, asked of how I got the interview information which I showed them on my phone, then they gave me a seat outside the premises where other invitee were seated. I was 4th on the attendance list but I already met over 10 people on seat while some were inside the building having lectures or training (who knows).

After 20-30 minutes, I started hearing some noise outside the gate, when I went out to check what was going on, I saw a guy holding one of the ladies that escorted me, he was shouting on top of his voice that he knew the lady from a previous interview he went to from another location exactly a year ago. He said they were ritualist, that they change locations so as not to get caught. He mentioned losing a friend who also came to the last interview but died few weeks later, that he also fell very sick but was taken to his village for spiritual help. That it was in his village he was told that they have been used for rituals along with his friend.

He said alot of atrocities they committed, he told us how they operate which I also noticed, the lady was pleading to him not to shout.
I couldn't believe it, I took to my heels, but I later heard the police have gone there to take them away, because I couldn't wait to watch the film to the end.

I wish this can get to the front page so alot of people can also learn from my experience.

Please who else has this kinda experience?

IAMBlesssed:
Read! Read!Pls Read! And stop talking off point.
What is the topic again?
The topic is saying a different thing, u re saying a different thing.

We re discussing YOUNG married men who denied their married status and lied to single ladies to date them. I made my point clear.The OP also made the topic very clear.What has Regina Daniels who chose to be a 6th wife to Ned has to do with the topic of discussion. Nawaoo

SirMichael1:
Lol. It's a sad thing that this community made great persons. Sadder that they think Chief emeka nwogu owes them a dime. That wasn't his job to do as the one time minister of labour, although he could have done it out of goodwill, but that wasn't his job. It would have been better if it was a minister of works.

Grandmeister:
Lol that money na off limit to naija politicians...na NEWMAP project, world bank funds, supervises and pays contractors directly....but the contractors can still give small egunje to the politicians AFTER they have worked out the money and has been paid by NEWMAP..not before.

IAMBlesssed:
What do you mean?

Innocent ladies were deceived by irresponsible family men and you turn around to blame the victim?
What can a married man give to a lady that a single guy can't give??

There's serious rot in the society. I'm scared for this generation..

Whiteangel1234:
The real and true Arewa boys

amanda2013:
Mtchwwwwww IPOB youths.

hizikin:



How can a sample be negative, only to test positive within 2 days!


This Corona issue seems unpredictable or is it the test kit or lab attendant?


Not funny at all.

fof1:
Lazy Lots. Is that what u read? Why are some Nigerians and Nairalanders so Lazy to Read up common few Sentences. ..? Copy and Paste Education has suffered in ur Hands. Bros. U are Out of Point,Pls.

MajorOvakporaye:
Another paid post.
we know dem

Joycekkh:
This Cubans chief priest talks too much.

Sterope:
This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

Ifeoluwaleyi:
Hi Famz, I need your advice, I have been in this relationship since 2016, I met this girl in my church, I have been very popular in my church and this girl was always smiling and winking at me from her seat admist the congregation, one Sunday after the service, I summoned the courage to talk to her, she was so beautiful and intelligent, we started the relationship but few months later, I noticed she was too gifted and knew about several things without being told, she even did some extraordinary things I can't talk about now, I approached her one day and asked her to tell supernatural powers but she laughed it off and said she is just gifted, some days ago, I asked her again vehemently with all seriousness, she couldn't hide anywhere again, she told me she is afraid that I may not be able to sleep in the night if she open up, I decided to man up asking her to tell me, she said she's been in the Marine coven since childhood, I asked her what they do, she said they kill people, initiate babies, cause road accidents, she told me she wasn't sent to destroy me but that she loved me dearly and would give me all I need and protect me with everything she has, I have been confused and I don't know what to do, please advise me,

KingAzubuike:
When Commissioned officers are getting killed like chickens in a military structure every now and then, then you know the country's military itself is an eyesore. In the Nigerian army for example there is zero Intelligence, an almost non-functional airforce to provide aerial support, obsolete weapons , zero welfare for soldiers . Very pathetic.

If you go to ojo barracks , Lower ranked soldiers are used to clear farmlands of superior officers. They serve as their body guards and are sent to mount road blocks just to keep them busy. The whole system is bad, it needs overhaul.

ValCon888:
I knew it would get like this.
We like to politicize everything.