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Lazy bloggers.

Oil is the reason why Nigeria is still united.

Oliviaxx:
Singing 'Nigeria jaga-jaga, everything scatter-scatter' at the top of my voice

Hmmm. DSS is eavesdropping.

Is it not the same Delta state that welcomed James Ibori like a king when he was released from UK prison?

cuteoly:
I have met the woman who trained him on several occasion about the to me and asked me to endure and that she doesn't want me to involve anybody. she gave me 'War room' movie to watch and pray.
And told me that it's not neccessary for her to call my hubby and advice him. But this time around that he raised his hand on me, I didn't tell anyone

I think you have to tell people now that things have gone from bad to worse. Let the woman know that he has 'graduated' to a wife-beater. Tell your pastor/Imam or whoever you know he listens to. Do not bottle up your feelings. Marriage is a pact between two persons of different backgrounds and social orientations. There is a reason witnesses are always involved during wedding. Be wise.

Sharming95:
who'll patronize em lyk d westerners.....


Na only lagos and Abj dem fit succeed....bcuz of d hatred ndigbo av 4 eachother wen one is succeeding dan d other.....

Go to Nnewi and see how successful they are.

cuteoly:
I have been a member of this forum for long but hardly comments on posts but I do read to learn from people. Please I need your advice as to know what to do.
I got married in 2013, my hubby is a civil servant. We didn't date. It happens that I finished my NYSC and worked in Lagos for about 6 months before coming down to Enugu because my Dad was ill and I came to take care of him. He later died 11th September 2012. My hubby after coming to see my Dad at home(that's before his death) took interest in me and asked for my hand in marriage which I refused but he kept insisting, my mom wanting me to stay close to our home town insisted I must marry him. She cried to me that she knows the guy and his family since he was little and that he is trustworthy.
When my Dad died my hubby participated in his burial very well that the whole family started saying he will make a good inlaw.
Sept 2013, we wedded and I gave birth in 2014.
My problem started in 2015 when I saw a text message in my hubby's phone by a lady telling him they won't be seeing each other again because her circulation started that night. I woke him up that night and showed him the text, he pleaded that he was sorry which I forgave him.
Few weeks later, I got another text by another lady on a sunday telling him that if he doesn't come to see her now, that she will leave the house. I kind of chatted the lady as if it was my hubby and was saying stuff like she didn't cook anything that she was waiting for him to come. I still wiped the whole text and pretended I didn't read anything.
Most times he comes back with hotel receipts and when I ask him, he says he just hanged out with his male friends.
On wednesday this week, I saw 2 condoms in his pocket and when I asked him, he said I don't have any right to ask him that I should know that "ofu anya ikpu n'egbu amu" it's an Igbo adage which means that sleeping with one woman kills the penis. That if I don't like it I should pack out of his house.
Meanwhile, I didn't say I learnt sewing after our wedding and am very good in it. This man doesn't give me money, he started building his house in the village last year and I asked him to just channel whatever he gets to the house so that we can move in there soon and stop paying rent, since I get little money from sewing and his work place is close to his village.
But since I discovered he can't do with women I begged him to buy me an industrial sewing and weaving machine so that it will make my work faster. He refused that I should wait till he finish his house. On thursday I waited for him to apologise for the condom I saw in his pocket, he said it's not possible. So when he left for work, I took his car keys and the land property and hide it in the house. And when he asked for them, I told him that he should buy me those machines and then continue whatever he has with women since I have seen that he is not willing to change. I must confess that this is the first time I raised my voice so hard on him. The next I heard was slaps on my face and am 7 months pregnant and my mom was in my house that day and all she could do was to go into her room and started crying. He later got dressed and left for work. He saw me wiping my nose with his singlet because blood was gushing out from my nose and yet he left.
In the evening he came back and locket my and my daughter out. I later called one of my aunties who called him and he opened the door and said he was leaving the house for me that night. But my aunt asked me to hold onto him and plead with him not to go out that night which I did. When I tried to beg him, he said he ll make sure he beats my baby out of my womb if I touch him. I just took the bag he packed and hide it. That's why he stayed back that night.
I went for scan yesterday and I was told my baby is breech that I need to see a Doctor. I haven't registered in any hospital aside a maternity home run by a woman. I have been begging him to give me money to register and that if he says I should leave his house that he should buy my the sewing machines so that I can atleast be using the money to take care of his kids but he refused.
He is doing all this because he knows I have nobody to fight for m and I don't want to involve my kinsmen because they will mock my family and my mom is hypertensive.
Pls do not mind the long post
I didn't add that I later give hhim the documents after the beating because he swore he will kill me and go to jail if I dont

Are you the only child of your parents? This is a serious issue that should not be swept under the carpet. Doesn't he have someone he listens to whom you could run to for support?

freeze001:
I think that if Mr Ali was convinced of the propriety of the suspended policy to impound vehicles with insufficient duty payment, he ought not to have cancelled or suspended it at least until he had addressed the Senate who summoned him to explain the policy. I also don't think that appearing in the uniform of the CG of Customs as required by the Senate should be too much for one who supposedly has d interest of Nigeria at heart.

Why did he hurriedly suspend d policy if it was well thought out? Why are we hearing this news now? This happened on January, why was it hushed? Is it some kind of smear campaign? Ali's pride stands larger than his diminutive self and that is what d Senate has sniffed out n latched upon if this story is anything to go by. If he'd published this incident of importation of a car with false documents by the Senate president and calmly worn his uniform when summoned, he'd be like d stuff heroes are made of. Unfortunately, they're all freaking dirty and Naija remains the worst for it.

He should wear his uniform and be serious please!

You are a mind-reader. You mirrored my thoughts.

sirhot:
Okay boss. I'm still researching on that.

May God's grace be upon you.

sirhot:
She's the only child between her Dad and her mum, she has a step sister who isn't married and another step brother.

She doesn't exhibit any unstable behaviour and she puts in her best to resolve any issues.

These are points you will present before your parents. You didn't answer questions on divorce history in her family.

sirhot:
There's this girl I love and we've been very good friends for sometime now. I consider her to be a nice, sweet loving girl. She loves me so much! But the problem is that she is from a broken home and I'm sure my family members might not accept her based on the popular belief of children from broken homes.

There's always this belief about children from broken homes. We are very good together and I know it will be difficult convincing my family members about her.

Should I hope that they might even like her like that?

Does she have other married siblings who stayed married? Does her family have a history of divorce? Does she exhibit unstable behaviour in your relationship with her? As in when you have misunderstanding, does she quickly tend to withdraw or she earnestly tries to have issue resolved?

lawbabs:
Nigerians wake up. The Senate is using diversionary tactics... what has uniform got to do with appearing before them. Their is something fishy. Obviously he has stepped on toe of one or more sinators, who wanted waiver for import of ostentatious goods...

Trust me they aren't reppping us. We should stand and unite against these thieves...

Please what is the negative impact of Ali wearing uniform to the senate on his performance thereafter as the CGC.

DaniDani:
Stop peddling blatant lies. Old express - ariaria rd is still under construction and have never been abandoned. Old umuahia rd is 80% completed and not abandoned. Okezie Ikpeazu never started mountzion nwala by btc rd, not even Thief A Orji, that rd was started by Orji uzo Kalu and abandoned due to pending suit by a certain man who owns a mansion that supposed to be demolished for that rd to be completed. Orji uzo Kalu was the one that abandoned that rd. Under your falsehood lists of abandoned rd under Okezie Ikpeazu, your no.2, 8, and 10 is d same old umuahua rd that's 80% completed. Each time I tell my friends and cousins about Nairaland, it is either they reply me why they dislike this great forum because of falsehood or ethnicity or political bigotry. Seun has got to be tough on politics section of Nairaland, else, these demons will destroy this site with their "pull him down" media war

God bless you for this clarification. I wonder how someone in his right senses will claim that a road project where the contractors are still on site working daily has been abandoned. Imagine accusing Okezie Ikpeazu of abandoning Abia airport project which T.A Orji did not as much as complete the land acquisition.
As at yesterday, work is still ongoing on the Aba-Owerri road drainage. Too many lies.

thuggCheetah:
its very difficult for us to stand alone and mind our biznesses
If we don't involve ipob in our problems, our cone shaped skulls will not sleep well
One of my brothers tried not to involve IPOB in his problems, he couldn't sleep well in d nyt, see wat he looked like in d morning

I don laugh tire over here. Please try and sleep well o. Honestly your head will definitely give me a nightmare tonight. You should have added 'graphic picture'.

thuggCheetah:
we Yoruba Muslims can never abandon our Fulani masters
Secondly, how will we survive here in Oshogbo without Biafra's oil?..is it human skulls we will b exporting from Abeokuta human part market?
We are going nowhere

Why can't you yorubas stand alone and ask for your own nation? Must you people involve Massob, IPOB and ND avengers?

Pidgin2:
I'm not talking about intelligence rather I am talking in terms of enlightenment and ease of communication. Whether you accept it or not you cannot compare the number of written materials that will be available to you as someone who has mastered English to an appreciable level than the volume of research materials at the disposal of someone proficient in Hausa language only

Like I said earlier, it helps in communicating with members of other tribes who don't speak or write in Hausa.

Have you heard of Wole Soyinka (Yoruba man) or Chinua Achebe (an Igbo man), these guys mastered the language, we still have many in this generation who have also mastered the it. You guys give up so easily, you believe in remaining in your comfort zone, smh

I like your style of writing. The simplicity of diction and correct usage of tenses. Did you study English Language?

omenkaLives:
With the number of arms possessed illegally in this country, one wonders how she still manages to remain as peaceful as she is.. Shit's beginning to look like Lebanon.

Majority of them are guns for hunting. I remember vividly my grandpa used to have one such gun. He would shoot it into the sky on the January 1 every year to celebrate the new year.

ElizaVeta:
What's wrong with that ?

Have you got a lawyer agree to handle the case pro bono? . Isi akpukpa n'eri kwa mmanu o.

Lincoln275:
tell me more, are u now saying my doctor is lying wen he told ne that red wine Is good for heart?

No, he didn't lie. Red wine is good for the heart I hope he told you how to spot the difference between genuine red wine and the imitations in the market. That's where my emphasis lies.

farous:
Truth be told. 60 percent of jobs in Nigeria is by CONNECTION(IM-Ima mmadu).So what's this OP is talking about?.Please let's not deceive ourselves.Even many of us reading this posts that got it through CONNECTION and know that its true

Get skills first, connections will seek you.

dyze:
I really think its a function of what you can do( hands-on experience).

Companys nowadays are more interested in what you can do.

Your grade is just a function that you are a graduate.

I advise young people to do professional courses to boost their chances.

Check my signature for online xtian site

You are quite correct. Skills and more skills is what is required to make it especially for people who lack connections.

femi4:
All cars are liabilities. You save more when you use your car less

I don't understand you. There are times you save more when you use your car often. It depends on purpose of usage, type of car and operational terrain.

IpobExposed:
GameGod e be like sey u prepare for them.

This people are full of lies and chest beating. Before they cheat beat that if Kanu can ever be arrested. And he was

Next they chest beat that if he will stay pass a week. And is over 2 years

Next they chest beat that if Kanu will be beaten and he was.

Now they're chest beating if Kanu will be killed if he is eventually killed they will start cheat beating if his body is not brought to Biafra land that they will be war. Lol kikiki.

Make sure your chest beating of committing suicide is carried out if he is finally released.

IpobExposed:
Pls give a source. Check very well is either PDP or IPOB members causing havoc abroad.

PDP are caused with stealing. The reason why we are suffering everyday is Jonathan.
The very day Jonathan is jailed like Kanu peace will reign.

Buhari is trying real hard. U can see that Etisalat and Airtel are now doing free Facebook...


Sai Baba

Have you been finally employed by the BMC? Congrats. Keep up the lies. Etisalat is doing well and yet cannot pay their subcontractor? Come let me take you to their base stations that have been grounded for failure to pay their rental to IHS.

Lincoln275:
hmmmm
so fanta and sprite are now safe for human consumption? for me oooo, I no take any minerals anymore, my wine is ok

Wine did you say? That one is worse. It's more prone to adulteration than any other beverage out there.

PaperLace:
7]Don't compromise on quality. Use the recommended oil. Go for the best parts, be it OEM from licensed dealership or Tokunbo_ let it be trusted; else you keep buying same thing every month and blaming your village people.

8]better still, don't buy a car . "Cars are liabilities not assets".
OP, put link to the 'sauce'... nice post.

Cars are liabilities? Not all cars my dear.

The people granting approval na wa for them. I do not doubt this. Many things are really wrong in Nigeria. I have seen worse. Maybe the author schooled in a Francophone country.