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Exprofressor:
In three months time I will be 28

Bubblewitch:
no, he is a sperm donor who is only looking for his son because he has been unfortunate not to have another one.

Exprofressor:
I will try to be brief as I can. Pls read on

I was born in a broken home from two different tribes in the country.
My late mom was a lecturer in one of the state polytechnics though she resigned her job when she couldn't cope with her mental illness. Me and my siblings were only in primary school then

My dad showed no concern for her health and came back to his hometown engaging himself in politics that have benefitted him nothing.

Me and my elder bro grew up with our dad while my two little sisters stayed with my mom, though we lost our last born the year 2005

I grew up with asthma and lacked mother's care. My dad and extended family even my grannies disliked me because they taught I was slow and couldn't cope with my mates

The truth is that my asthma was severe. I couldn't move an itch without my inhaler. The abuse got worse when in my early youth I couldn't do basic work to earn like my mates by working on building sites.

I was called lazy and the day I tried to prove I wasn't lazy, I nearly died of cement dust

My mom died last year April
She died poor and in pains due to liver disease.

I didn't remember giving my mom anything substantial before her demise, though i didn't have, but I feel I wasted my early youth by not making use of the best opportunity that presented itself after I left secondary which would have bettered me

Few years before her death she pleaded I move to stay with her. I couldn't because she lives in Northern Nigeria and there's no job in the area. I am in deep pains!

My mum mental health resulted to her adding hypo in her food and water claiming it's a cure for BP.(she also have BP)
I feel I am responsible for her death and hate myself for not reaching for my mom when she needs me. If I was around she wouldn't have drank hypo occasionally thereby destroying her liver


Now I feel I am becoming a demon. I hate helping people, infact when I see people in need I withhold any kind of help because God didn't give me chance to offer help to the woman I love most. I think because I couldn't do for my late mom no one is worth it.

My lack of empathy is growing by the day.
My girlfriend left, saying she couldn't cope, she says I have to start forgiving myself.
Do you believe I refused rendering help to my dad when he had accident? This was even before my mom died

I have taught about suicide but I can't just imagine how my bro will feel. Despite causing him pains too, he have always tolerated me and I know the damage my death will cause him. I wish I was never his brother


Pls I am tired of being angry and depressed
Is there a remedy for me? Sometime I think I behave abnormal, I really don't know if I am mentally insufficient too

blackpanda:
ESN!

Jeon:
WHY DO YOU WANT TO CLAIM THE BOY AFTER 24YEARS?

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

lugado:
Igbos can't eat their cake and have it.
A region that is divided amongst itself can never achieve anything
A region that want's to secede also wants the presidency.
Asking for a political solution for Nnamdi kanu that has not shown any remorse or has not denounced ipob is just a waste of time

Ebubu4:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/ohanaeze-sets-up-political-action-committee-says-president-from-south-east-is-panacea-to-national-malaise/

fergie001:
SOURCE

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to discuss how we could keep the house clean and I went on to tell her that she puts things where they shouldn't be. She got upset and called her mum, she was crying while speaking with her mum over the phone.

Her mom called and we both made peace I discovered that she was recording our argument but I chose not to confront her there and then.

A day later, I asked why she was recording me and she lied but I gave her facts and she agreed. She said if I've nothing to fear why am I being upset about it. She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.

We both live overseas and she is the only person I've here.

I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://salemgists.com/boko-haram-terrorists-eliminates-jtf-commander-maliya-ibrahim-in-borno-photos/

Islie:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/02/02/passengers-abandoned-bush-monday-morning-kano-lagos-train-breaks-down

sage:
Oga speak for yourself.

When did the average Igbo man appoint IPOB their spokesperson or elect a “supreme leader”?

sage:
Who are you fooling?

Violence is the only tool of coercion these morons have

Destroying Igbo land in the name of “the struggle”

Esseite:
https://gazettengr.com/seun-onigbinde-leads-campaign-to-crowdfund-n10-billion-for-peter-obis-presidential-ambition/?utm_source=ReviveOldPost&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=ReviveOldPost

treesun:
https://punchng.com/bandits-kill-ex-lg-administrator-kidnap-scores-in-kaduna-villages/

powerfulguy:
As shared by @bulamabukarti



https://twitter.com/bulamabukarti/status/1488813666929676288?t=kqMNZSfmUr5iyAHyU_JVeQ&s=19[/quote]IPOB why?!

Lovenorth:
How are they going to do the referendum while they are a dot in a circle?

Kellzzyy:
Ewu
Stop talking rubbish. Nnamdi Kanu and many of his minions like yourself are the worst thing that have happened to the South East since independence.
You read the news and the full interview of the man and all you could come up with was that asinine statement?
Lowlife, jobless, bloodthirsty animal.

Lovenorth:
That's why Igbo can never be president of Nigeria

Coldie:
Where is the link to this your dss story I would like to see it

Golan007:
Seems your name is Uche.

Lovenorth:
Then the reasonable Igbo must all distance themselves from the ipob terrorists so we take them serious

Angelfrost:
Trust me.... Over 70% of Igbos are tired of them and their foolish or senseless bloodlust.

Ipob doesn't speak for Igbos!!! That's why they keep using force and violence to coerce people to toe their line.

My sole issue is the cowardice of the majority to speak out against these imbeciles.

Lovenorth:
Then the reasonable Igbo must all distance themselves from the ipob terrorists so we take them serious

Golan007:
E no go better fir Ipob and its supporters including you Uche.

ManirBK:
https://dailytrust.com/exclusive-how-ipob-killed-herder-shot-igbo-mans-30-cows

Coldie:
True and I bet most easterners in the east know the people coming out to destroy peoples businesses during seat at home but nobody wants to talk out of fear.

Almost a year since the every Monday seat at home what has been achieved nothing, who is suffering you, which area is price of things going up your area, continue Buhari will suffer it.

In fact it’s time to make it 2 days west at home

dre11:
FOOTAGE: How Airstrikes Hit Gwaska’s Camps, Eliminated 43 Bandit-Terrorists in Katsina


https://prnigeria.com/2022/02/01/footage-airstrikes-katsina/


Lalasticlala

DamnnNiggarr:


A guy in his Early 20s, who lives just a stone-throw from my doormouth here in Awka fought his father because his father compared him with one notorious yahoo boy in the area.

His father was like "look at ragzzy( not the Yahoo boy's real name), he is super rich, he has exotic cars and houses, all you do everyday is stay here and eat my food and keep roaming round the city"

The boy on his own part was like "Yes, I'm as poor as church rat, the poverty I inherited from you as a result of your laziness and roaming around the city when your mates like Peter Obi, Ifeanyi Uba, Arthur Eze, Dangote, Otedola were busy building foundation for their unborn children"

The angered father couldn't hold himself and angrily rushed towards his son which resulted in serious exchange of blows between the father and his son.