ucee64: i'm not here for ASUU or buhari, my major concern is the rate of tribalism in this forum. is the owner blind or what? can't he see the rubbish people are spewing in his site if nothing is done i will leave this site for good...nonsense
Only if you know the number of government paid urchins in this forum. Them reach 50, which 3 to 4 monikers. That's what you are dealing with .
So my mom and I haven’t been on best of terms when I was staying with them, my mom is a kind of person that if it doesn’t go her way or if you don’t do what she wants you are her enemy.
I left owerri march last year to come stay with my parents and since then it’s been hell, my moms urge to control everything that happens in your life is too much if you don’t do it she removes you from the circle of her children,
What do I mean by that let’s assume they don’t have food in the house n you have 5h with you, you go to buy something to eat cause you didn’t eat since morning after coming back from work n my mom sees you she I’ll pick offense won’t talk to you for a week, saying why during you bring the money let her cook for her children, and mind you we are seven boys in the house.
Now to the main part, her younger sister that died 2018 and the husband got married to another lady that ended up maltreating the kids The elder sister which is my cousin was always in battle with her step mom spiritual n physical, she says she wanted to leave the house n come to my moms place in Abuja which the dad was happy s was bout cause he was tired of her.
Her dad called my mom she picked her up n brought her to Abuja to start a new life, fast forward to recently the dad chased her younger brother too out of the house he had to sleep on the street and in the morning we boarded a bus to Abuja for him he came with no cloth or bag just how he was, then after that he and my mom started having issues. Mind you me n my cousin and mom have already started having issues but let’s skip that for now.
The boy is 15 years old, he said he saw my brother peeing on the ground in the toilet which is my younger brother who is also 13 they are age mates, so he said he told him to stop peeing on the ground and pee in the wc that what if another person comes now the toilet wil be smelling then that he (my younger brother started shouting at him), saying it’s his toilet he I’ll pee where he wants to.
So they had an argument and my cousins brother went to report to my mom, my mom started shouting at him that why would he tell him not to pee on the floor that is he mad like that like that, The boy was shocked at he response n said he wants to go back to his house in Lagos where they just chased him out from mind you this was just 3 weeks after he came,
Then my mom started ranting and saying that it’s my cousins that’s eating all of my money in this house mind you I was at work I was ent home,
My cousin didn’t utter a word too she was avoid the trouble that was brewing the, Dad came back the boy told my dad I was crying saying that he wants to go back to his house the next day he boarded the next bus and left till the date of typing this my mom hasent called him a 15yr old boy that lost his mom n took you as his mum,
So back to me from there you could see the trouble at home it got to a point my mom was saying I was sleeping with my cousin which came as a shook to me cause I’m never home anything to just stain my name or get me angry so she planned with my dad and they started telling my cousin to pack her things and leave the house someone that came to you for shelter cause they said her stepmom wanted to kill her my mom got a revelation that was if she goes back she’d die.
My mom played deaf to that one and kept on insisting she should go back and leave her house and being I was already planning to get an apartment for myself December my cousin called her dad her dad sent her half of the rent and we paid n moved in together since we left the house my mom has been calling all my uncles and aunties telling them that I’m sleeping with my sister which is absolutely wrong on all levels spoiling my name here and there, honestly I really couldn’t care much bebut I’m just disappointed is this how a mum should behave, it was from me not going to church on Sunday to her having issues with my dog saying we were too close or I was to close to my dog then to this now pls someone should just analyze this story and render your advice,
Now they are calling me threatening me that they I’ll use police to arrest me n my cousin n send her back to her fathers house not knowing that her dad was the one that sent her part of the payment, I’m not scared of anyone really cause the useless uncles I have haven’t sent me a kobo since my lifetime then they all want to come n start spilling trash now.
Sorry for the epistle if you made it this far I love you.
Update: guys she my mom came to my house this morning just this morning and saw my cousin I didn’t even know why I let her in in the first place, she saw my cousin and started dragging her cloths almost tearing them and making her naked in front of my younger brothers she brought to my house and was shouting chewing a nuisance even went to all my neighbors knocked on their doors and was shouting to them that I’m sleeping with my cousin tho she spoke Igbo or was speaking Igbo and there are calabar people guys pls what kind of life is this I have left their house still they don’t want me to rest, went to report to my dad and all he could say was and so,
I’m thinking of reporting the case to a police station first then next time they come here to cause a nuisance in my apartment they’d be arrested.
Bro...get your mom arrested if you can!!! But in all you do, don't let the gbas gbos overwhelm you. But if you can afford it, arrest, then sue her. Let those uncle understand your pain too. Let them know that you won't release her until she tells you where and when she saw you sleeping with your sister.
Since they want craze, give them one, since they have also refused to be reasonable.
saphiere: Take away 'rich' from your list. If she wanted a rich guy, she would have gone for Anthony Joshua, Kidyawa or Davido. These three men have been giving her green light but she turned all of them down.
She is looking for an intelligent responsible young man. But unfortunately no Nigerian man possesses such attributes.
DAVIDO: A very irresponsible fellow. Imagine impregnating someone's child, went to see her parents then later dumped her.
KIDWAYA: A kid indeed. Very unwise kid I must say. He had sex with someone's daughter on national TV. Promising the girl heaven and earth only for him to leave the BBA house and acted as Erica does not exist.
ANTHONY JOSHUA: A bona fide misogynist. Check out how he treats his niece then compare it to how he treats his nephew.
Is that what you think? See, those men you mentioned don't even give a Bleep about her. Na she dey even give them green light sef.
WBworldwide: I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.
I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.
So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.
I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.
I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.
I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.
I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.
I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too
Since you are now doing well, call her back, Bleep her like the bitch that she is, reward her handsomely, them dump her ashawo ass.
KingOfBoyz1: I get your point... But not really as u look at it..money is comes with alot of stuffs.. Imagine you have a brother like that who goes to serve someone that doesn't have any car or his own house. But after Years of serving and that same boss is now a chief with his own house and cars, helping other people but can't settle his own FAM.. I know you will find a bigger name than a fool for such person. That's why igbos can't and will never have a strong head.
KingOfBoyz1: My uncle actually settled my kid bro with 300k after 11yrs of motor parts apprenticeship.. I nearly booked a flight back to fight that fool. But I remember what my dad once told me. He should Use the money and start something.. Thank God for today, we all supported him and now this same uncle can't even talk when my kid bro money is talking.. So when I see people angry that they were not settled well,I jus tell them to move on. God is always watching. Use that 100k and start something. Don't spoil anything.. Don't waste time. It will surely be fine
I don't know your uncle and his antecedents, but calling him a fool cos he settled your brother with 300k is very wrong. It is a good thing that your father understands how it works: you should learn from his wisdom.
And saying that very wrong to compare your brother's current situation with his former boss. Even if he is Dangote today, it is the same that made him what he is today. Should your brother try anything arrogant, the odds will be against him spiritually and otherwise.
Most times, some of these Ogas become very unfortunate when settling their boys that they will barely even have something to settle them with. Like I said, I don't know your uncle or the circumstances surrounding his decision. But from your story, I don't think he did anything wrong to deserve the title of a fool.
Believe all these so called academia to your peril. I wish I can just visit one and prove one or two to him. Their too much trust in academic paper prints is just too funny. They know nothing, nothing!
ViperAda: It was an ibo coup and your lies would not change the facts. Lt. col. Arthur Unegbe was shot by Anuforo because he was known to be close to brig. Maimalari and had to be silenced. He was not killed for opposing the coup but for his closeness to Maimalari who was eventually killed by Ifeajuna.
-Viper
Lies... where did you read your own history from? Lt. col. Arthur Unegbe was in charge of the Armory, he was shot because he refused to had over the keys. So the Coup plotters assumed him to be against them, and in support of the present government whom they accused of being excessively corrupt.
Most of you read the history of the war from the white man prospective, and ignoring what the key players in the even has to say.
betcliq: Today one Elderly Man that's in late 80s came to my shop in the morning to patronize me . He was happy with me he bought a bottle of Hot drink and I offered a small bottle of dry Gin in appreciation and a New year gift. He uttered some words of prayer for me , lastly he told me I'll be great in my business that I will grow in heights . He advised me to be very careful in choosing a girl to marry that I shouldn't pregnant a girl before going to see the parents and pay for bride price that I shouldn't even have sex with her , that a woman I marry will determine if I'll be more successful or encounter challenges in Life . I just dey reason the talk since morning.
This is spiritual I'm From Igbo and I strongly believe in Tradition this got to do with tradition think deep.
What do you guys think about it
Bro... what the man said would have been the fact if it was in the 80s and 90s. But considering the kind of gals we see today, guy, I no sure majority even hey womb again sef.
Others we get din use "Postnor 2" damage the thing soteee it becomes too fragile to carry a baby. That warrants complications during birth, and complications means more expenses on your head.
Igbos use to say, "when the drummer changed the tone of the music, the dancers change their pattern." Our gals don wide, as guy, u gaz be smart or pay darely for it.
There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..
We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..
I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.
During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..
Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..
I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand. I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing.. It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.
I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?
Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..
I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .
@ maxwelltony
Sorry about that my dear, but better go block your bank account oo, cos it will be their target, cos they have your phone now.
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