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Now, a whole family is thrown into pain, trauma and confusion....all because of an unreasonable decision. Although, it might have been a pre-planned abduction. If our police gets tired of investigations....who then should take up the responsibility? I think these officers needs training abroad but corruption won't let it happen.

NwaAmaikpe:




What do you hope to achieve?
To get the lost information back or to extort the school?

Now, nowhere in your story did you mention that your wife saw someone operating her device thereby breaching her privacy, technically that puts you on a lower ground legally because it's all assumptions.

Phones can factory reset themselves when the limit of wrong password input has been reached.
It could be this.

But,

You have evidence of messages that didn't originate from her to her contacts. But that is no proof either.
A good lawyer could pin those messages on your wife, claiming they were sent by her with a malicious intent to blackmail the school or that she has a dissociative indentity disorder which would further cast aspersions on her sanity as well as her credibility.

So,

As long as your wife does not have nudes of you or herself on the phone or any other incriminating file, you should not be bothered.

If she does have nudes or other vital information she wants back, I could help you retrieve those lost information.

But,

By default, I do not trust women.
I'd advice you not to.
Do not excavate a graveyard except you are hunting for skeletons.

Apparently, your wife is a threat to the HM who does not want her taking advantage of connections she garnered in the course of working for her.

Just let sleeping dogs lie.
So you do not go and find out that the preek of a rich parent is the reason behind your wife and her HMs' squabbles.

I'm not saying that teachers are as wayward as nurses, I'm just saying I know someone who is a big benefactor in his kids' school; the story of his goodwill and philanthropy brought the Proprietress and most of his kids' teachers to his bed.

The proprietress found out she was was sharing his preek with the same people she was paying salaries and it brought about squabbles amongst the teachers and most of them just like your wife, tendered resignation letters but never told their husbands the true reason behind their leaving.

Those husbands till today see their wives as victims of unjust treatment in the school they served in not knowing that they, the husbands, are the actual victims.

After giving a sound advice, you just spoilt show.... Na waa for you ooo. Please OP, don't even put your mind on his story, just take his advice. Nwamaikpe can be a weirdo sometimes

Jennyclay:
Is the Okada man also a cultist? If you don't have anything to say, can't you just ignore?

Will you die if you don't comment?

When there's cult clash, innocent citizens sometimes become victims

TenQ:
It not too late even if his father was now dead. At least he can trace his roots to a certain place and know his distant relations or even his step brothers and sisters

I mean he should have done that earlier....at least to meet this man. But I wish him well

I think the search was way too late.... But I hope even if the dad is late, he would get to meet a good family not golddiggers or "bad-charactered" family. I really felt his story.

Greed everywhere

Tinyemeka:
He got to Lagos and spoke with several people including his brother and parents, up until the morning that his line stopped going through.

Jesus!!
Did he lodge in a hotel or friend's?

Commendable Sir

So the other person doesn't matter.... that's why we have the picture of the Officer on display. He caused the other victim's death.

Jesus Christ!!!!!!
What is all these..... Jeeeeezzzzz.
You took down people's breadwinners because you are mad?

kayperry:
so now women have urges tew, now women need sex tew as against sex is for men,and women are just doing men favour.
maybe when ladies start admitting both m & female are sexual beings, just maybe threads like these won't be a fuss.

Everyone has their own beliefs.... can't be held responsible for what another believes in.

May they rot and smell in jail. This is pure wickedness.... A woman and Husband. Devil resides in their hearts

Oh goodness......is it that most of us don't read or just find it difficult to comprehend
She's married
Away from home for a long time
She's got urges.... she's married
But not close to home cz of work....
So she uses that to help herself or would she rather sleep with colleagues??


That's a hilarious post there though.
Nairaland guys should be taking a chill pill most times.

How someone carried a dead body that is believed to be heavier than the living weight unto a tree surprises me....... talk more of a woman doing that.... this one's mind is hardened oo.

kingthreat:
Please if same happens to you, try and do the same thing. This one na because Timaya na celeb, person wey no get joy go use you do another thing.

Hisses!!!
I believe you go around killing people with your vehicle because your comments are filled with some kind of justification mentality.

JustforMen:
Yes, some people are that foolish holding onto a moving vehicle because they bash your car.

There was one that died in Port Harcourt about 3yrs ago.
Someone scratched his car and he came out trying to grab the man's shirt through the car window.
That one kuku wind up his window and trapped the man's hand inside.
He drove away dragging the man on the road. Head nack road surface. Na so the man die and the driver drove away safely.
So I see the woman's fault and foolishness for holding unto a side mirror of a moving vehicle just because someone scratched or bashed your car.
What if she had died now? No be just grammar Dem go talk and Timaya go just settle small money. Case over.

This is a poor judgement from you. So Timaya and team are justified to move their vehicle whilst the woman held on to their vehicle? Including the devil you used as an example for me?

iamdapsyj:
The woman was just being real!! This is Lagos where you have to be smart. Not everyone knows Timaya o, no matter how popular he might seem to be. So just asking for her account number might seem he wanted to play a fast one on her.


Perhaps, the way he requested for her bank details reeks of rudeness or arrogance. Their is a way you bash someone's car and feel remorseful about it immediately and apologies.


What he is doing now is what he should have done initially. Lives really matter, that he is rushing to some place doesn't mean that he should just dash off like that. What if the woman had died in the incident, would he still dash to that "important" meeting?

My dear.... You talk sense

Owowoo!!!
Rubbish!!!.
She held on to the side mirror and you moved, dragging her, I guess? Story for the gods.
This is wrong and I wouldn't support your actions Chullo

Madafakas

The English dey give headache sef.... Not my mate.


I understand better from the video... So many of our celebrities behave as if they are above the law.... Actually they might be.
But that's very ungentlemanly.

Tribal war unleashed

Anybody that frees this guy would pay for it ooo, including lawyers.

jyz200:
Ok
So must you post it

YES

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onlinestaff2020:
You gawk badly.

You are not sharp.

Do you know that those bankers rip off customers a lot?

They are even the ones that gives out data to their Yahoo boyfriends to scam innocent people.

Now, you have the chance to eat out of the national cake, then you chickened off.

You no get mind , abeg.

You be Jew man.

Do you know that if you even ask the lady to give you small thing, she would be the one to snub you?

Don't do favours for women except your fellow men.

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Very sick mentality that has ever kept this country 30 years behind

pacespot:
Are you one of those Nigerian ladies showing off themselves as sex objects on Twitter and Instagram

Shame no dey una eyes anyone. Later, you would be complaining about how people are objectifying black women... Tufiak

I laugh at how stupid you sound... but it's ok, here's a social media and anyone can actually talk to anybody. So enjoy

You know you are s*x starved for real and this girl has come, not just to "help" you out but giving it to you in a way you have *never* had it.......Hmmmm, Bro, redemption is far because she has beclouded your senses.

I hope you can be able to look back, remember what you and your wife have been through to be at the stage you are.
And I hope you would be able to look into the future and know what you want it be like.
That's the only thing that can help you come out of this body pleasure you are currently in.

TheFacelessMan:
Lol. You have been watching too much Hollywood.

I can quite easily get you more than 5 Nairaland articles of couples dying in similar fashion.

The most likely reason is an accumulation of carbon monoxide in the car from putting on the AC because of faulty wiring.

Nigerians has no fingerprint database, so why would a killer waste precious time that would get him caught while staging a scene?

Bola Ige, Kudirat Abiola and Funsho Williams are prominent VIPs who got brutally murdered when it would have even benefited the killers to stage their deaths as accidents.

It's morbidly amusing when a cobbler with 8 kids hangs himself and you see people here spewing conspiracy theories about killers staging the scene.

Carbon monoxide is odourless and colourless by the way... you drift off into a sleep of no return. Happened in incidents where generator was switched on in poorly ventilated areas.

You think all of these couples were killed by master assassins ?

https://www.nairaland.com/5013256/man-woman-found-dead-inside

https://www.nairaland.com/6867804/married-man-bride-to-be-found-dead

That's the main need for investigations to be carried out. You can't tell if their car was even steaming or not.

Loewe:
The way Nigerians conclude on certain things without reasoning baffle me a lot.

What if they were assassinated and their naked bodies were dumped in the car to mask the murder?

How 2 people can be having sex and both would die at the same time is what people should ask themselves.

It's simply illogical and highly suspicious. Were they both poisoned? Where were they coming from...

Was it suffocation? If so, they would have been able to roll down the windows and get some air wouldn't they?

A lot of Nigerians won't even question the possibility of other things, they'll just jump into conclusion.

I doff my gele...
This is the kind of reasoning I expect to be seeing from Nairaland guys.

Congratulations to you Korra

pacespot:
This lady lifestyle reeks of inferiority complex, i believe her whole world will come crashing down on her if the social media is shut out of internet space for just a week. Most black ladies don't have anything that is private about them anymore these days. See their role model Rihanna showing off her baby bump all over the internet as if it is some kind of public property.

See someone's wish against another when her public display does not affect your well-being... Tuah

shomutuski:
She's an attention LovePeddler, clout dooney demon, she's lucky to have bagged that dude cus he literally changed her life

Only you?
Hope you are ok

Daniel058:
there is this woman in my neighborhood, she gave birth 5 and still looking so Young,she knw how to take care of herself . I watches her go to fetch water almost every day, anytime I see her I always say to myself and my God, this is the kind of woman I want ... OMG I have so much respect for her

You really don't understand what women go through in bringing forth lives. Hormone changes a lot of things in them. Some are still lucky enough to engage in workouts and dieting that shapes them back, others can't dare such because of health issues. Some have a body system that keeps them in good shape with or without dieting.... So, just pray for your best friend as a wife and be ready to help out in shaping her.

RIP to them.

I don't want to laugh....... but which one is;
Subject: death
Topic: gun shot by kidnappers......