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agabaI23: Ebe a na-aso okwu anya ka o ba-ebi.

Translate. I dont understand it

Odunnu: Thank you, thank you every one of you.
After letting it all out here, I no dey vex again.
I feel a lot better just because of your presence and advice.
Thank you so very much.
Some people just throw their commonn sense away when relating with others.

Am I expected to teach a married woman how to behave in another married woman's house? If i'd come to her house and behaved the way she is doing to me, would she be happy? Why would she be pushing me to do or say something that may upset her?
I dont just get how some people think jor

Thank you, thank you every one of you.
After letting it all out here, I no dey vex again.
I feel a lot better just because of your presence and advice.
Thank you so very much.
Some people just throw their commonn sense away when relating with others.

Make dem just do go tomorrow!
I will try and prevent them from coming next time

debrief08: If you feel this way why are you not speaking to her? I am sure you act as if "its okay" when she is doing all this, when she took your laptop you should have demanded it back, or any time since yesterday. If you dont like it, speak up, its really simple, set boundaries, not being wicked but firm, set boundaries, how will she know it is not okay if you dont say so?:

Its not as easy as you say it.
How would I say it? This woman is much older than me. I'm enduring it because I know its a short term visit.
What you should help me do is direct me on how to stop this particular family from coming next time without hurting them.

Sagamite: Oh, tomorrow.

Make sure it is the last time they set foot in your house. Simples!

If they text you or call you again to stay over, tell them to speak to me.

The way it is now, if they give me notice of their coming next time, I wont agree but this woman takes me by surprise.
I dont know why some people act this way.
You are going on a family trip without proper preparation.
No towels, no soap, not enough clothes (I mean why would she wear my camisoles), no food. . .wth is in their luggage?
Yesterday, I was watching a movie on my laptop, my neigbour needed me to re-park so he could move his own car, the time I spent downstairs was less than 20mts only for me to come back and my system was missing.
Next I saw was my 'son' helping/teaching her how to play a movie. I havent set my eyes on my laptop again till now. She told me she bought some kiddies movies she's watching and would prefer watching it inside their room.
Na wa o.

God help me. Cant wait for tomorrow when they'll leave!

My anger with this couple is numerous.
1. They only told me they were coming few hours before they arrived. I bet she was already in the bus when she sent the text. What stopped her from giving me a few days notice since she's coming with her battalion?

2. She didnt tell me she was coming with a crowd for God's sake

3. Okay, she is here, saturday, she wore my camisole without my permission. When I saw it, I pretended I didnt.

4. Today she wore my cloth again and up until I started this thread, my home has been taken over by their friends. Choi!
I dey vex!

Sagamite: I don't get it.

Did you get a text that she is coming over again?

coming over, yes! With the the husband and 3 year old son this time around!!

acidosis™:
abi, are you the "husband" of that lady?

@Odunnu, such things happens.. just see it like you're helping them. Hope they provide money for food sha?

Lol @ money for food. I've never even thought of that and now that i'm thinking of it, 'my vex done increase'.

Darling, why you dey reply am?

I am really very angry this evening even though i'm trying so hard to control it.
I just pray I dont burst a nerve before I calm down.
Some people can make the Pope swear, really some can.

*Calm down Cutie* breath in, out* fine!

I was at work on thursday when a text came in, it was from a distant relative's friend. (now, thats really annoying)

This 'distant relative' is from the same village as my mom, not the same family o. She comes to my state of residence occassionally for church things and when she does, I house her for the 3 to 4 days stay. I sincerely dont mind. In one of her visits last year, she came with this woman, introduced her as wife to one of their pastors, ok. We all stayed together until their programme ended. Early this year, the pastor's wife showed up on my 'dormot' with this man she introduced as her husband. Told me they came for a day 'whateva' but that it ended late and they cant go back that evening. The story was they wanted to spend the night. Fine. Fair enough. A night couldnt hurt. I quickly fixed my 'son's' room and relocated him to my room and played. Next morning, they were gone and everybody happy.
Fast forward to thursday last week.
*too much background story jor, its getting too long and i'm getting angrier*

If I miss worship, I didnt go to church!

Smuthx: OP, Are you a male or female.

This should be the very first question we should have asked. Choi. This thread is making 'water to comot for my eye'

Isaac: Pls help me i inluv wit a God fearing guy, he love and care of me in phycial an spiritual, giv out all to me but he is OND holder why me is Bsc. now he want me to giv him #15,000 4 his laptop to be repair. am confuse to giv or not giv i only have #20,000 and i done want lose him. I need money 4 myself

wtf is phycial?

The person who did this to you, is he still alive? I wont mind joining the group of family and friends going to beg on your behalf for deliverance.
Choi! LWKMD

You are beautiful beyond description. Too marvellous for words to describe.
Who can fathom the depths of your love?
I stand in awe of you.
Yes Lord, I stand in awe of you!

Here we go again!

ccchris: i guez dat omobolaji shuld be omololaparis

Exactly! Thank you.

exalt2009: Good day, please where do register your mum and I need information on this please. Any information will be welcome. Thanks

I helped register her with United healthcare. Its a HMO under NHIS. They came to my office complex advertising this package and I felt it was worth it.
By the way, I stay in Enugu.

Farayolas: A good initiative but
why are retirees not covered by this scheme?

My big mommie is a retired 72year old woman and she is enjoying it already

teekrackz: @odunn wat course did u put in 4?

Electricity Engineering

Lovren, Terye, Collozus and omobolaji (hope I spelt them rightly) have all been temporarily suspended from this thread and the section.
Same thing i'll do to any other person who has no respect for nairaland laws.

As far back as May this year, I aleady registered my big mommy into this scheme. Why are they saying its still going to start and in Lagos?
I think the idea is kool

There's something I just learnt here Egbon.
I've been taking 7.5 on total gross of our staff for pension. Nobody must know else i'j be stoned to death by angry 'mob'.
Thanx.

stillwater: ^^^Because many Nigerian men wear one pair of boxers for a year. So how won't they know when he buys a new one.

una no go kill persin wit laff

Sisi_Kill: Errr. . .what. . .what are y'all doing that he can see your boxers, let alone know when it is new?!

Hahahaha

This is the day the Lord Almighty has made. Glory be to God!

Go and see a proper doctor

Thank you.
Incidentally, today is the b'day of the first man in my life , my mentor, my human shield, my father!
Happy b'day Baaba. I love you to pieces

Joeadamu86: They are thinking alike why won't he support him,bigots.....

. . . and both are so annoying in addition.
Sanusi that is 'vibrating' for coins ATM has brain? What a joke!

Congrats to us all!
finally, we are all winners. Abi no be so?