timojerry:
What the op has said is very true and correct. God hates divorce. It is sickening that many people turn the word of God to suit them and claim that we are in the modern times. I'm not judging but God has said that He is the same yesterday today and forever. He changeth not, modern or old times.
For those asking if separation is biblical, it is people. You can separate from each other with consent pending when either party cones to believe God. If he does not, the Bible says you should report him to the church to see if the leaders can solve the problem. If after that he or she does not come to believe God, it says leave him or her to him or her self but do NOT remarry. Instead after separation, you can begin to care more for the things of God as Paul said in the Bible.

Remarrying means continuous living in sin. How can we say God forgive us for our sons yet we are in it, there's no grace for that. God will not answer the prayers because the prayers of sinners is an abomination to Him. People may say if domestic violence had existed during the times of Jesus, he might have added that as one of the reasons for divorce after adultery but people, God sees the end from the beginning, He must have known about domestic violence yet He chose to talk about only adultery.

Divorce isn't good. Do not remarry because of adultery and do not commit fornication while seeking God's face. After all Paul was single, cared for God and after everything he was able to say that he has fought the good fight and there was a crown waiting for him. He knew where he was going, how many of us can say that after our life on Earth.

I know it's easier to talk than to do. I'm not judging anyone because I know it's not easy but that's why God's grace is sufficient for us. Sex ain't food. Two minutes pleasure or for some who take enhancement two hours pleasure after that what else? Satisfaction? There are other things Paramount in life than that.

For the person that said can you forgive if your wife is slept with 70*7, well the scripture is clear about forgiveness. Forgive always. We do cruel things yet God forgives us then why is it hard to forgive. If he can forgive the woman who committed adultery ( we don't know how many men she slept with) why can't we forgive.

It has been said in Philippians 4 v 8

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

I'm not a judge,neither a pastor. I'm not righteous than anyone, yet the truth must be told. The Bible is clear. No means No. Divorce isn't good do as well as those using artificial insemination of other people's sperm to get children while still married.

Romans 1 v 21

Because, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish hearts were darkened.

Let us think on these things.

God bless you and have a nice week ahead

How about after a year separation and the woman goes back and things gets worse?

newsynews:
A thing will always kill you.

If the partner kills you, as long as you were obedient to the commands of your Lord and Saviour, you will be saved from eternal damnation.

But the moment you flee, you definitely show your Saviour that you don't need him and that you can save yourself by yourself. That's the moment you stop being a Christian just because of a trying time.

See what he said about those who love to save their own life by disobeying him.

Mathew 16:25

For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.

And what happens to the children left behind?

Yes, if u are very serious

merciful God

congratulations.... e no easy

The Nigerian court should pls check well before granting some men custody of their daughters cos many more are suffering in silence.

Gotv just sent message saying gotv max is NGN3800, Gotv plus NGN1900, Gotv value NGN1300. what really happened to tstv?

Heavy duty

askseunoladele:
WHY YOU CAN'T ENJOY SEX....

One in every five girls has been touched, tampered with, caressed, fondled, molested or raped before the age of 20. This makes marriage so complicated for many women as they find it difficult enjoying sex in marriage or joyfully release their bodies for sex to their husbands.

If your wife is having serious sexual issues: not showing interest in sex, becoming frigid, not reaching orgasm no matter how hard you try, gets angry or mad at you when you ask for sex, fights you during sex, experiences unnecessary pain during intercourse, cries herself to sleep after sex or give all manner of excuses from having sex, 7 days a week or 30 days a month and she is neither sick nor tired, it's time to sit your darling down and talk heart to heart with her. She's having serious issues with her sexuality. It's not about you really, it's about her and she needs help not abuse, not screaming, not yelling, not threatening to have an affair, none of those! She may have gone through the trauma of abuse, rape or molestation in her childhood.

Flash back of that horrible incident keep flashing through her mind each time you ask for sex. When she remembers, she gets terrified, afraid, angry, mad, and fights for survival, yes fighting you off to fight the pain. It's not about you, she doesn't hate you or rejecting you, it's about that past. You may say "why can't she forget it once and for all? It's not easy to get over a trauma, no matter how long it has happened, she needs help and she needs healing.

Ask your fiancee about her past even if she is a virgin to know how to help her heal in marriage incase she has gone through any trauma.

Millions of Nigerian women have gone through abuse. We just don't talk about it to avoid rejection, shame and condemnation! Many virgins likewise have been touched, fondled, semi penetrated, forcefully kissed and almost raped! The only proof of their virginity is their hymen which by God's mercies alone have not been torn! These set of women also need healing or may have serious sexual issues in marriage.

Healing will take God and will take time. Don't force your wife if she is so terrified of sex, you are compounding her problem with another rape! Instead, put your arms around her and comfort her. Let her know you understand her struggles, withhold sex till she's ready. She strongly need your support, understanding and unconditional love till she gets healed.

You can't starve your husband forever though. You need to get over the trauma. You must keep telling yourself it is in the past and the past is gone forever. Always picture the good qualities of your husband and tell yourself he's not like those men who molested you.
Tell yourself you have a great, loving, tender, caring, husband. Thinking about his qualities will help you grow fond of him and desire to be physically intimate with him. Focus on his features that attracts you a lot, they will pull you to him. If some sex styles makes you remember the rape/molestation, like the missionary, you may try another style that put you in control and not reminds of the past molestation.

Go for counselling or therapy if the situation is getting out of hand and it's seriously affecting your marriage.

Pray to God daily, ask Him to heal you and He will. Do not judge, hate or condemn yourself. The rape is not your fault.

May the healing balm of Gilead heal you of every pain, shame and hurt in Jesus' name. I love you so very dearly. Take my sisterly hug... God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

So true.

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12. Always give her money.

location? ?

Lobatan!!!!

obinna58:

Some drivers

As if you have seen one

Yes I have and I meant public transport drivers

some drivers use that teleportation juju incase of accidents.

Lord, av mercy

abeg oooh

mentol kwa??

Dis op sef.....

traveling theatre

the problem is not from the breweries, na d distributors dey keep d drinks outside wia rain dey beat am after few days e don rust.

ayungmony15:
POL 121 TODAY WAS TMA ALL THROUGH

Lucky you

fresh fish pepper soup

please if Sept 1st is sallah, are we going to write exams on the 2nd of Sept?

Ohcanada:


Is there any provision of checking your scores?

Yes, once u submit ur answers, the next page that would show is ur marks

Todays exam was tough, no questions from the TMA all the questions were from the last 20 pages of the course material. May God help us .

YOUNGrapha:
I hope jah change it asap...buh this time around u will looking at ur account balance and surely u will be seeing something

Amen and me too

[quote author=fabour8312 post=59586419]Please could anyone suggest what could be read for the forth coming e exam or are they likely to repeat questions[/quot
Read ur course materials n bear it in mind that the questions would be tougher cos of the last incidence

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