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RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 5:02am On Apr 23, 2015
More updates from her SMS and Facebook message Sunny please i beg you in the name of God forgive me, am not asking you to come back to me all i need is your forgiveness please my heart is not at rest. I cause everything but just find a place in your heart to forgive and forget, please my love remeber no body is above mistake.
What will i tell my mother if she ask me about
you? I really wish i could have time with you
again but no way you are gone for good. How is
service? Sunny please comeback to me and your
word wil be my command for the rest of my life.
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 4:58am On Apr 23, 2015
ailehwise:
I wish I had a gf dat wil ask me 4 4giveness. All d girls av dated ar full of pride. So 4give her.
I had forgiven her long time ago, the question here is taking her back, should I?
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 7:43pm On Apr 22, 2015
This girl has no conscience she's Still bothering me here are some of her SMS When I look into your eyes I know I have found the mirror of my own soul. I luv u hv a lovely night, my BABY pls forgive me my hrt is not at rest jst do it pls.
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 10:44pm On Apr 05, 2015
GentleToks:
Listen young man, life is all about disappointment and ability to deal with it via wisdom; your father, mother, elder,younger ones must have disappointed you at a point in time but because of your undying love for these people, it becomes difficult for you not to forgive them. Naturally, you forgive them and move on with the same level of love you have always had for them. And of course your own children would disappoint you at a point on time and the same undying love would kick in which will eventually lead to your forgiveness.

At this point, it's not all about the relationship u had with her but about your fear for God, Life itself and what the future holds for you. Who knows why God put you in the position of helping her? However, you seems to have failed or failing the test of life. Guess what, if God does not need your assistance at that point when she was going through that pain, He has His way of doing His own things(Bible says: His way is not always our ways). Trust me, your journey from where you were might not have been possible if God does need you there or she might have had a clean and hitch-free abortion but I believe that God wants you there

The same girl might turn out to be part of your destiny in the future, not necessarily as a wife or girlfriend. Life is not all about today but tomorrow.

Here is story of a man who betrayed me....

I remember an extremely wealthy man who did everything to frustrate my life during my service year. I was used for their wealth; I mean my account was used to embezzle as much money as my Account could take without getting paid for it. My friends asked me to disappear with this money but I said No. Why, I knew right from day one that I would be wealthy in life; it's a natural feeling that comes to you and I refused to touch their money until the man relocated abroad. He tendered his resignation letter and left Nigeria for US and this was done so as to avoid EFCC during the famous Soludo' bank consolidation/mergers. Lest before I forget, their house in Maitama was supervised from foundation till completion by me and I ensure those foreign dogs were well fed with Tantalizer or Mr Biggs left over which was usually sold in Kg then.

He got to US and transfer all his money from my Account to his own Account; fair enough but my problem started after that. He wanted to get rid of me and he did everything to achieve this. I was eventually persuaded and begged by our church's pastor and parents to leave Abuja for south west with a promise to sponsor my trip to US. I left my newly found Job and made my way to south west.

To cut the long story short, after 3 years in US, I met the same man through his wife who remain my friend. She never stopped apologising on behalf of her husband though. This man was in US and needed someone to stand in for him as a guarantor but couldn't find. His wife suggested my name and was shocked to find out I live in US. I eventually stood in for him and what he needed was later approved and we are both living in UK today. However, guilty conscience has never allowed him to be free around me....
what a lesson to learn from
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 10:32pm On Apr 05, 2015
obstead200:
seconded!
Save her life first if u can afford it. The whole story is screaming out that her actions is a result of poverty and some ignorance too.
But please, do not date her afterwards. Some one who cud get pregnant due to carelessness cud also contact HIV due to stupidity
thanks Bro
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 7:54pm On Apr 05, 2015
phlio:
shut what do u know about confused state of emotional pains
thanks, that is exactly what happened
RomanceRe: Should I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op):
iyobs7:
My father my father, the English iyaff keeee meeee ooo and you are serving?! Meaning you finished university... This is serious.
if you are in my shoe you couldn't have written better ok, but hope I communicated
RomanceShould I Take Her Back After All? (cheating Girl Friend) by ojeka1(op): 8:26am On Apr 05, 2015
Should I take her back after all? (cheating girl friend)
It sounds like a personal questions but I can't help it out again, am so pissed up and need advice.

Am with this girl for tow years now, she's my girlfriend, I left my state for service this year 5th, we had no quarrel nothing we still chat and communicate find, never do I know she being keeping secret LOVER in my absence, we had planned after general election she will come to see me in my place of service.
Unfortunately for her she got pregnant for her
secret LOVER, and took drugs, I was not aware
until I return, call my girlfriend as usual that we
may pass night together before I go to where my
family are staying, she told me she is on her
menstruation so I relaxed. Never do I know she
did abortion and she is having serous stomach
pains I arrived late but I call that I just arrived, all
I was hearing was crying of her in pains that I
should come or she will die, innocently I freshen
up and reach the place, she was there helplessly
crying and rolling on the floor all her neighbours
were all watching her in her agony. I reached her
place and ask her and the people there what
is going they said she being having pain since
morning (this was around 7pm-9pm) in the night,
I took her to the nearest clinic after much
struggling on the bike to reach there, I paid the
fare with the little money on me and the
remaining balance could not afford here clinic
card for examination / consultation fee I was left
with 900 hundred naira while the fee was 1000
before the doctor will attend to her and you know
the hospital regulations they refused to take the
little I had on me, I had to call aside a nurse
explain things to her that I just needed 100 naira
to complete my card fee no body was ready to
hear my stories I HAD TO SUBMIT MY NYSC ID
CARD with plea I will go and get more money so
she could be examined before am back for full
treatment, I was with money I had to trek home
and borrow 200 naira for bike and I when and
withdrew 15000 think I could come back and pay to
redeem my NYSC ID CARD, reaching I was told
to deposit 20000 for part payment and I screened
"for what!! Ogbeni!!! " and the doctor said if am
not ready he is retiring for the day, I quietly ask
him how severe is the case he told me THAT MY
GIRLFRIEND DID ABORTION AND HER SYSTEM
NEED EVACUATION, beg him to give one minute let
me ask her something, reaching her on the
examination bed she was begging I should help
her out she will pay me, I asked she aborted she
agreed and I asked again who is the person
responsible SHE KEPT QUIET my phone was on
RECORD already just to put things straight for
myself if she happen not to survive the situation
but she refused to tell me the person responsible.
I was angered I went back to the doctor said tell
him it's beyond my help, I explained my ordeal,
and tell him I am not the one responsible for the
PREGNANCY and the ABORTION involved and he
asked me to take her away I took her home and try to reach people around
to tell them what happened she asked me to go, I
followed the bike man that drop her, I couldn't eat
I couldn't sleep till now. Will she make it? I love
her we had no problems, now her phone was
down when we were in the clinic, am confused, I
ASK MYSELF DID I REALLY DESERVE THIS? IF
SHE DIES NOW CAN HER PEOPLE REALLY
LOCATE HER AND GIVE HER A BEFITTING
BURIAL? with all this thoughts running through
my head I can't just do anything reasonable I felt
pity for her, her mother is late, her father second
wife troubles her and her father send her home to
the village but she returned on her own back to
town, now she is dying in an unknown place If go
back and if there is any misfortune I will be held
responsible because am the known boyfriend.
Please you hear my story? I wish things like this
never come across me. I wish I find a woman settled down am tired of girl friend's night mares. Thanks.
Christianity EtcRe: Dangers In Lying About The "Will Of God" by ojeka1(m): 12:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
Vstuffs:
Question

How is it your problemhuh

Not long for you,but long and boring to me

Remember one man food na another man poison
u cant read n take caution, u will hear until it happrns to u
HealthRe: How Can Vagina Odor Be Fought? by ojeka1(m): 12:34pm On Nov 18, 2014
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 8:13pm On Aug 08, 2014
Lagusta: Vaginal odor is usually due to infection.... From candidiasis to bacterial vaginosis....

Have you guyz seen a doctor?? What drugs have you used??
Ok
RomanceRe: Relationship Advice From A Divorced Man After 16 Years Of Marriage. by ojeka1(m): 5:49am On Jul 28, 2014
Agony of a loser
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 5:21am On Jul 28, 2014
leverage12: Its infection. If you could come over to my office I will run a free test on both of you. Cheers.
Ok Sir
CareerWhat Is Wrong With Fidelity bank Sms System by ojeka1(op):
WHAT IS WRONG WITH FIDELITY BANK SMS SYSTEM


At the look of things, technology is trying to meet up with human standard. In first and second world countries visually everything is upgraded to their smart mode, here in Nigeria the little upgrading and innovation people are anchored to some set of people, management and organisation don't want to be part of it just because of their self service and selfishness. I am a business man transparency and accountability is my watch words and I don't joke with my money, I want to know how it flows in and out of my possession. I love flawless Ness in my transactions be it great or small.

FEDELITY SMS SYSTEM DOESN'T WORK ALL

Just like others banks, Fedelity as a new generation banks sms system doesn't work, could it be as a result of ;

1. Poor management
2. Poor Internet service provision (ISP)
3. Poor programmers
4. Faults with mobile communication service providers or
4. Lack of transparency in transactions

Using BENUE STATE, as point of concentration and BENUE STATE UNIVERSITY MARKUDI, BRANCH in particular, As a new customer, you don't receive any alert when you open an account with them, being an old customer your just don't get any changes when you apply for an SMS services. Now and Then money will deducted from your account without reasons being know you only get a surprise when go to customer service unit or use ATM, like to day I have been in the FEDELITY bank headquarter in MAKURDI, since 8. Am till 10. Am, the time I left no network, customers could do anything except those are depositing. They WILL just drop their money and go.

The truth is that many people are tired with their flawness in transactions, it may not mean any thing to other but as for me my mind on my money my money on my mind.
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 6:35am On Jul 20, 2014
ganewalter: It will be nice to advice her to see the Doctor so that the infections might be diagnose, it can also be a long urinary tract infections that refuse to go away.

pls ask her if the smell normally come with symptoms of wanting to urinate more often and urgently, burning pain or a ‘scalding’ sensation when urinating and that the bladder is still full after urinating, pain above the pubic bone, blood in the urine.
if so she as urinary infection diseases. please let her see a doctor.
she always said, she doesn't have infection, she is not feeling any symptoms at. Well I will force to see a doctor or not come near me, the smell always put off my sexual desires to that on more rounds. Thanks anyway.
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 6:34am On Jul 20, 2014
ganewalter: It will be nice to advice her to see the Doctor so that the infections might be diagnose, it can also be a long urinary tract infections that refuse to go away.

pls ask her if the smell normally come with symptoms of wanting to urinate more often and urgently, burning pain or a ‘scalding’ sensation when urinating and that the bladder is still full after urinating, pain above the pubic bone, blood in the urine.
if so she as urinary infection diseases. please let her see a doctor.
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 6:28am On Jul 20, 2014
xcelsia: Your best bet would be to have her see a gynecologist, she might need antibiotics if there's an infection present. I also recommend norform, Google it and see if online ordering is an option for you in your residential area, good luck smiley
thanks
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 11:59pm On Jul 16, 2014
bibinwaka: get her gyno daktarin and ensure She always wash her under morning, afternoon and night. without soap only water.
q
what is gyno daktarin?
HealthRe: What Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 7:03pm On Jul 16, 2014
Some words spelling changes after post even though they may have same meaning but my not connotes the actual meaning referred by me? E. G MouthAction - mouthAction & pre-intimacy - pre-intimacy etc take note.
HealthWhat Is The Cause And How Could It Be Cure? by ojeka1(op): 6:55pm On Jul 16, 2014
Please friends, I need some advice. Mature advice from experienced friends, I have been in a relationship for 6-7 years and this is my worrisome, disliked thing with my girlfriend. She is good, sexy, but she have private part ordour. One may not notice it on till you are close to her Jerusalem, it's stinky, chronic smell you still perceived before and after sex. We have tried to cure this, even though without the help of gynaecologist, I need help with this is killing my dear to have a pre-intimacy with her before and after sex. Because of this I don't think of MouthAction or spending time on pre-intimacy be sex, at initial I thought it's something that will go away as we grow up but it is becoming unbearable most especially when I meet with another girl that doesn't have little or no private part ordour. This ordour is some pronounced that it takes me weeks to have sex with her after any time we mate. The question here is WHAT IS THE CAUSE AND HOW COULD IT BE CURE? Please great friends help, help me to keep the relationship alive because I love her and no body have shown me true love like her. Thanks.
RomanceRe: The Best & Most Cool-headed Nairaland Females By My Rating by ojeka1(m): 4:45pm On Dec 24, 2013
the only chrismas goat with
swag. see brazilian hair

PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Is Working With APC - Daughter by ojeka1(m): 5:07am On Dec 18, 2013
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PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by ojeka1(m): 5:02am On Dec 18, 2013
atlwireles: I took my time to read this letter twice. Goodluck has to explain his luck to Nigerians in one form or another. How can this letter show up in such a moment. Without replying OBJ, OBJ's daughter sent a nuclear bomb directly into his political heart. This man is finished in this land forever. How lucky can one person be in life. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, I will never pick a fight with you. This is just surreal shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
I Seconded!!!
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Most Poplar Celebrity 2011-2014 by ojeka1(op):
olala32: This is com.
instructions given are part of exam you don't have to failed again boy
HealthRe: Her Bosom Secretes Milk But She's Not Pregnant by ojeka1(m): 3:18pm On Dec 17, 2013
Q: Lactation when not pregnant?
Answer
If a woman is lactating when not
pregnant, then she may have high
levels of a hormone called
prolactin. Prolactin is primarily
responsible for the lactation
response in women who are
pregnant. However, if the levels of
the hormone are abnormally high,
then a woman's breasts can emit
a milky substance.
One of the most common causes
of increased prolactin levels is a
tumor in a small area inside the
brain called the pituitary gland.
The pituitary gland is responsible
for the secretion of many
hormones, prolactin being one of
them.
There are some medications which
can cause increased prolactin
levels as well, specifically
psychiatric medications.
So if a woman is lactating when
not pregnant, a medical evaluation
is in order as soon as possible. More at http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Lactation_when_not_pregnant
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Most Poplar Celebrity 2011-2014 by ojeka1(op): 1:57pm On Dec 17, 2013
Ha ha ha ha ha are you saying it is GEJ? Straight answer please @king
CelebritiesNigerian Most Poplar Celebrity 2011-2014 by ojeka1(op):
I come across the picture of Nigerian Most Poplar Celebrity Online, every meaningful Nigerian both at home or in diaspora is feeling his positive and negative waves, he is the greatest celebrity Nigeria has and will ever have. He is not a musician/broadcaster but is heard all over the radio/television. who could this be, is he truly a Nigerian or Jamaican and WHAT IS HIS NAME ?
THE QUESTION HERE IS WHO IS THIS MAN IN THE PICTURE?

THE PERSON WITH THE RIGHT ANSWER WILL BE AWARDED AS FOLLOWED

1st free 2015 presidential ticket under the party P[color=#000000]D[/color]P
2nd free VISA to study in any country in the world that ASUU is not recognized
3rd free dinner with the following and the like of IBB, OBJ, BUHARI, AMECHI, TINUBU, Dr. Nasir Fagge, etc
Redemption center by Aso Rock Gate, Abuja Nigeria
picture www.facebook.com/wale.olayanju

Christianity EtcRe: Angel Appears At RCCG Ebute Metta by ojeka1(m): 5:24pm On Dec 15, 2013
Frowning

RomanceRe: I'm Dating My Friend's Sister But He Doesn't Know. by ojeka1(m): 5:17pm On Dec 15, 2013
Ok

EducationRe: Tuition Fees Of Public Universities In Nigeria by ojeka1(m): 7:15pm On Dec 14, 2013
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who get pin mouth charger?

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