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Culture / Re: Why Do Africans Spend Large Amounts Of Money Having European Weddings? by ojotobiloba1: 9:07am On Nov 15, 2022
Jestin:
Africans are getting smarter this days. I will only spend 200k on my weeding regardless of the trillions in my account. Any babe that is not comfortable with this should sponsor the weeding herself
Easier said than done unless you wanna only invite just 20 well wishers and round up every every bf 8am on wedding day
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by ojotobiloba1: 11:16am On Nov 13, 2022
From Babe to Bro

Lol

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Romance / Re: Religion and relationship wahala by ojotobiloba1: 12:24pm On Sep 28, 2022
1TripleC:
I have dated this Yoruba girl for about 5 years now.The mum is an Igbo Christian from Anambra and so am I.The Dad is a Muslim based in Anambra.The mum is late.Both the maternal and paternal Uncles are wealthy.She is a Christian but hides it for fear of the family.we have been there for ourselves in all ramifications but the challenge is that the family doesn't want to even hear about me coming to marry their daughter due to differences in tribe and religion.i tried going through the maternal side but they feel they do not have much say and that am not wealthy enough.i have been there for her ensuring she achieves her dream including her becoming a graduate.Now she is about to serve and I attempted going to pay her bride price but the Dad is threatening to kill her is she dares mention my name.Out of fear of losing me we opted for secret court marriage cos we really love ourselves.The family have been threatening us with everything since I asked her to let them know I want my people to come and meet them. I have not been myself for days now ,bad thoughts upon thought.Religion, tribalism and poverty, I don't even know which is worse
Yoruba people Wil say. Bad wife is easy to marry but bad in law is just too difficult
For your peace of mind, sanity and Happy Home. Just let go of her.
Phones / Re: Guys, His Much Can I Get As The Value Of This UK Used Iphones? by ojotobiloba1: 12:41pm On Sep 22, 2022
Kshogz:


Private Message me and I will send you the picture. I am in Osogbo, Osun State
I am in osogbo.. Pls what's the price value of i phone x and xr
Someone close to me wanna get next Monday
Family / Re: My Mother Is An Ashawo. No Wonder My Grandparents Banned Her From Visiting Us. by ojotobiloba1: 4:45pm On Sep 21, 2022
NemoDatQuod:
Do you think that maybe you have a minor problem with comprehension?

Go read a second time and you will see where I clearly stated that what the mother does is not excused, nut is understood. But even if I did not say that, if what you got from my write up was that prostitution is the only way of resolving difficulties, then you need to go and spend sometime to learn to read and comprehend and then understand.



What is bad is bad. Leave too much grammar
Family / Re: My Mother Is An Ashawo. No Wonder My Grandparents Banned Her From Visiting Us. by ojotobiloba1: 3:04pm On Sep 21, 2022
NemoDatQuod:
What exactly is your mother to be forgiven for?
Do you think she woke up one morning and decided to give her body to men in exchange for money?

It is not surprising you are feeling this way. When you grow up a bit more, you will come to understand a number of things about life. The life of a woman is hard, very hard. Sometimes, they don't have a choice but to give up their children( like she did you), marry men they don't like, open their legs for men they detest and do things they hate for money. It does not excuse what they do. But it explains it.

There is a reason why an ancestress of Jesus Christ, the son of God, was a prostitute named Rehab. God allowed his son to have a prostitute as an ancestress, while he was here on earth.

Your mother must really love you for her to be crying, because she realised she has been belittled in your eyes. You should be kind to her, very kind.

Next year, you will become an adult under the law. I suggest you strikeout on your own and go find work and rent a room and pay your own way through university. You will immediately begin to understand what your mother has been and is going through.

If Nigeria were a country of civilized beings, your mum would not have been left bereft by your Dad. She would have gotten enough off him to continue to take care of you and have a decent accommodation for you both. She is the victim here.

I am equally sure that you have exaggerated what you saw. She could not have been going to bed with every man who comes to her bar for drinks.

As you start your journey toward adulthood, start by developing empathy for everyone around you. Put yourself in the other person's shoes, ALWAYS. You will grown up well adjusted and be a better man or woman for it.


Someone is talking nonsense with audacity.
Is giving one's body freely to all men the answer to all the problem on ground?

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Romance / Re: The Girl I Was Dating Was Dating Another Guy by ojotobiloba1: 8:48pm On Sep 19, 2022
Okechukwu720:
I have been dating my girlfriend for months now but Heard rumors that she is dating someone ��� she was everything to me ���� am heartbroken
The most painful aspect is that I have been there when ever she needed me, she even said a guy like me is rare.
SIMPle man

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Romance / Re: When You Fixed Date For Marriage, What Was The First Thing You Did? by ojotobiloba1: 8:59am On Sep 16, 2022
assamu1122:
I have fixed date for my TM/Wedding. Since I fixed it, I am confused of what to buy first or not. I have been thinking though as I am somehow confused.

Please house, after you had fixed a date for your marriage, what was the first thing you did or bought?
This is what I am facing right now, the thoughts is giving me sleepless night
Family / Re: Married Women Caught With Other Men In Their Husbands' Houses (Video) by ojotobiloba1: 7:23pm On Sep 15, 2022
Old video
Family / Re: I Married My Pastor's Daughter, And Now This Is Happening by ojotobiloba1: 9:12am On Sep 12, 2022
Imlost:
Good evening everyone, I had to create an account and put this out in order to get this out of my chest.

I got married to my pastor's daughter last 2 weeks ago and right now, all I think of is to divorce her as I can't lie to myself that I'll continue with the marriage.

Here's the issue:

All through my life, I've always been a virgin due to the fact that I'm a very religious person.

I finally got to wed the love of my life 2 weeks ago. We had met at a friend's wedding and it was like love at first sight for the both of us.

She is the perfect woman and has all the qualities I had always imagined In a woman.

After our wedding 2 weeks ago, I got to have our first time 4days after the wedding.

Even though it was my first time, it just didn't feel right to me (I've had people discuss about virgins having tight virgina, and the hymen being broken, etc.).

And so, I jokingly asked my wife who her first was (I wish I never did).

She got a little bit excited and told how she started having sex at 13 while she was in SS1 with one of her senior in SS3.

She also told me how she had 3 boyfriends in the university and also about her ex in her former place of work.

In all, she had 5 body counts. she asked me about my sexual experience too and which I told her that I'm a virgin, and she was my first.

She got silent and the environment was a bit quite. Well, we were like that until sleep drifted us both to sleep.

Ever since then, my love for her has dwindled.

I have always have respect for this girl and right now, I feel cheated.

Agreed, I never discussed anything about her being a virgin or not. I just assumed she was since she's my pastor's daughter.

Right now, I can't divorce her because I feel like it will seem like I'm disrespecting her dad, who is my pastor.

And also, I feel like I should cheat outside my marriage and have fun just like she did in her youthful years so that we can be even.

I am 29 while my wife in question will be 26 next month.

I'm I being childish? Or will I get over it?

Anytime I look at her, I always look at her with some disgusted look on my face.

I wish I never asked her about her past in the first place and I wish I could just erase the memory of her past in my head.
It is what it is, carry your cross

Go and watch this Mount zion movie (Magdalene) to quench the pains and trauma.. Good Luck BROS
Phones / Re: ***Tecno Official Discussion Thread*** by ojotobiloba1: 9:50pm On Sep 06, 2022
Good Evening, pls how much is Camon 15 TouchPad fixing
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please I Need a Job In Osun State by ojotobiloba1: 4:23pm On Sep 01, 2022
Princeadebayo11:

No o. But I can register, you want to drop information from there
Register. Follow @InsideOsogbo
Write or make any enquiry you wanna make and tag them. You might see the necessary info or someone who could help

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please I Need a Job In Osun State by ojotobiloba1: 3:08pm On Sep 01, 2022
Princeadebayo11:

Any idea about poultry business in Osogbo bro?
No bro... Shey u dey active on Twitter
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please I Need a Job In Osun State by ojotobiloba1: 2:48pm On Sep 01, 2022
Princeadebayo11:
I am tired
I swear u re not alone.. Na osogbo me too dey
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please I Need a Job In Osun State by ojotobiloba1: 2:47pm On Sep 01, 2022
Kaffytiamiyu:
Can you guys teach
I can plz..in osogbo or wia
Family / Re: Twitter Celebrity Account For Sell by ojotobiloba1: 11:39am On Aug 29, 2022
Bulletproofgt:
Let me pay 5k
Come and buy mine 1,380 followers
Education / Re: Some Basic Things You Can Teach Your Kids (photos) by ojotobiloba1: 8:11am On Aug 29, 2022
God bless u for this piece of information

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Romance / Re: She Says We're Just Friends But She Gets Jealous Over Me (Photos) by ojotobiloba1: 5:26pm On Aug 26, 2022
LawyerLomo:




Honestly, I met a girl and under 2days we are already copulating.
It's every where bro. Infact, it is what it is
Romance / Re: She Says We're Just Friends But She Gets Jealous Over Me (Photos) by ojotobiloba1: 10:52am On Aug 26, 2022
Akinfemmy:


Lol hypocrite. Please tell us how long should we wait before having sex that won't be termed lust/infatuation?

Just 5mins is okk to have sex after the relationship is official since that's wat u wanna hear bro.

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Romance / Re: She Says We're Just Friends But She Gets Jealous Over Me (Photos) by ojotobiloba1: 7:41am On Aug 26, 2022
Baronthecelebri:
I'm telling you bro, that girl is very cheap.
People will see a pussy giver lady and they will be calling her my love. Some guys couldn't differentiate between Love, lust, Infatuation or fwends with Benefit. This life is now rotten, sex is now so cheap like pure water that one can get it without any stress at all. That's why keeping a relationship/Home is becoming so difficult now.

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Romance / Re: She Says We're Just Friends But She Gets Jealous Over Me (Photos) by ojotobiloba1: 6:59am On Aug 26, 2022
This life Sha, not up to a week or two weeks that you guys met and you have been screwing each other

This is purely lust/infatuation
I don't see pure love feelings here
Damn Nigga

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Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 5:03pm On Aug 25, 2022
Yewandequeen:
No, it's free since it's under warranty.

But without warranty is 4100 for fingerprint. Will advice you go tomorrow and get it changed. Book reservation on Carlcare app before going, you will get attended to faster.
Hey, Have you fixed your finger print issue now?
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 12:39pm On Aug 23, 2022
gfon:
just bought it February
Go Dre alongside the Pali and receipt it will be fixed free of charge
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 9:41am On Aug 23, 2022
gfon:
I haven't updated but my fingerprint isn't working again. I can't even see the options. What's the way forward
Is it under warranty, if it is, take it to carlcare (it's free of charge), if not, they will charge u 3-4k at worst
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 6:36am On Aug 23, 2022
Yewandequeen:
it's not that, I just don't like my phone having any comma. And the FP makes things easier for me when doing transactions coupled with it's not only the FP that's affected, the double tap to wake screen also isn't working. I Need to press power button to wake screen.

I think it's something peculiar to infinix notes:
My note 4 battery became horrible when it Ws 1yr old

My note 6 xpen stopped working after an update in less than 1yr.

Now my note 8 in less than one yr after an update done last week is giving me bad sign again

So I can conclude that infinix is best enjoy only in the first year lipsrsealed
OH i see, take it to carlcare this morning and get It fixed asap

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Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 11:06pm On Aug 22, 2022
Yewandequeen:
alright, I definitely won't update again after it's fixed. And will even plan to sell it self angry
LOL, u really fancy and adore finger print in a phone o
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 10:06pm On Aug 22, 2022
Yewandequeen:
i intend to go very early tomorrow. My warranty will expire 31st this month embarassed
Between Feb and July did you update? Just curious on wat and triggered it back.
Yes.. I did
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 8:32pm On Aug 22, 2022
Yewandequeen:
alright thanks.

And I won't have to drop my phone and come back later right?

If I knew this nonsense will occur I wouldn't have updated my phone. I have booked carlcare reservation for tomorrow. Once they fix it. I am definitely not updating again angry

But wait ooo, fixed it twice? How come? The previous fix they did for you didn't last long or u updated again that caused it?
Fixed the finger printing last Feb and last month July.. (under warranty tho). Lol

Ensure you take it Dre early morning, and it should be fixed in the evening or latest the following day
Phones / Re: Anyone Having This Issue On Infinix Note 10 And Above? by ojotobiloba1: 5:29pm On Aug 22, 2022
Yewandequeen:
did Carlcare tamper with your data(loss of data) or your data wasn't affected. My fingerprint too started misbehaving this afternoon. Infinix note 8
Nope.Nothing like dat with my note 8 den. Finger printing fixing doesn't have anything to do with loss of phone data at all, even fixed my infinix note 10 finger printing twice this year and no tampering of phone data

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