Jeantmik:
Opened her messanger and saw a chart with a guy telling her he misses those kisses and everything, that kisses no pain me oo na that everything burst everything

Biglittlelois:



You should try and check, it will save you from marrying the wrong person, that is you want to get married.

Biglittlelois:



When I saw her comment I was like

IamGreen1:


Abi o.

AfricanKingkong:
of course you are right but you know what? [b]For a girl I love and wish to spend the rest of my life with, there is absolutely no limit to how far I can go to know everything about her. And I expect a girl to do likewise. I will respect your privacy if I don't have any business with you. I don't just trust someone because he says he loves me. He must pass a lot of trials and scrutiny. I hate that phrase "had I know"[/b]

Queenserah26:
Wooow, so sad

femmoy:

your Papa and Mama na dem be oloribu, foolish he-goat.

femmoy:

your Papa and Mama na dem be oloribu, foolish he-goat.

Kondomatic:
There will be no room for that because I don't think I will "date" who I will marry.



You know, people make the mistake of thinking that dating will help one to know who they are going to marry better. This rarely works but we keep trying.

When you start dating someone who likes you very much and you like the person a little, you will pay attention to things they say to know the type of partner they want.

You will then pretend to be that person.


If I want to date a woman who is difficult to date, I will plant the seed of friendship first and nurture it well.


Being her friend will help me to find out why she's difficult to get. I will pass if she's in a relationship.

But if she's not in a relationship then I will find out the kinda man she wants and gradually she will start seeing that guy in me.


It usually ends in "How did we get here".
It has high success rate.


That's what people do while dating a person they want to marry. You will hint them your intention unknowingly and they will hide their ugly part until you're married.


I will study whoever I will marry from a distance, as a friend of course.

If she's the right one tor, if she's the wrong one tor.


To say "I no do again" no dey hard me.

People cheated when there was no internet.

oyalunasamuel:
Mine was a very terrible experience...OK this is how it happened I noticed she had a frequent whatsapp phone call with someone so I asked who the person was and she said that he was just a friend. I checked her message with the guy and everything had been deleted. It was then I suspected a fowl play.
I begged her to tell me the truth so I don’t get to find out myself and she kept denying. Well I took the phone with her consent and retrieved all her deleted WhatsApp messages for a year through the database of the phone and restored the message she could believe this was possible and that I could do it... damn It was one of the most painful memory I hold in my entire life. I found out at some point that she was pregnant for this same guy, who was even a married man with kids and she even took 40k from him to abort the baby. Same time she told me she was pregnant and I was responsible. I found out series of sex chat messages nude exchange with different guys I couldn’t believe my eyes, like this is the girl I was gonna make my wife...

I often hear different opinions and perspectives on privacy of a partners phone. But take for a second and imagine I never found out those messages I would have married a wolf thinking it was a sheep.

Well I forgave her after that and wanted us to continue our relationship because I thought it was easier to fix a leaking roof than demolish and entire building all because of a leaking roof. But I was wrong. She never changed. Well it’s all in the past now.

In retrospect I fear women they hold secrets you can never imagine.

paulolee:
last time I did such, I found out dt she gat anoda serious nigge bt wat saved her was dt the gee was a popular rich guy, i saw alerts of more than 200k n had even promised to rise a new 300k for her to startup her own makeup business...
I jus code like I saw nothing even if it broke me BT i removed feelings n love from d relationship n stated coming up with fresh formats to join chop dt free moni..
she leta broke up with me when she discovered dt am all abt d madt sex n dt free moni which she was always borrowimg me whenever I asked..
I ended up with gains like a selfish bitch in dt relationship n even with better moni in my aza than i started with but my only regret was dt i planned collecting even more than dt 300k for my numerous "ghost projects" but stopped at around 230k b4 she code.....
Ruth ur fada abeegi, even if u try by adding small change 4 my aza...

Biglittlelois:


Insightful
I have to ask, are you Yoruba?

Kondomatic:
Lols, nope.



Omo Igbo

HotPoundedYam:


unfortunately, no woman is worth spending a life time with

DisLifeSha:
Then you'll always have problems in any relationship you find yourself

Professorcplus:
Always no that nobody holy forget those innocenti. There's this church girl that always act holy both reality and social media, always posting Bible quote. So she is fund of asking me to on hotspot for her, she sometimes ask me if I have gospel song or video. Me kuku tell her is either Davido or Wizkid. Each time we are watching film together on my phone, she just skip anywhere scene there is nudity. I follow bb9ja here and I asked her about it only to say she hate the show. Well I just respected her holiness and grove on.

But one day, she came as usual for small data. I saw her unlock pin, so she left her phone beside me and left. I can't explain the demon that took over me. I unlock her phone, enter Whatsapp, the screen page hit me off guard sex group and porn video. Just go to galary and screenshot, my brother and sister, what I say made me collapsed.
... Horney maid with houseboy 1. ...10.... downloading... 65%

HotPoundedYam:
respect people privacy

seanwilliam:
abeg brother I don’t understand that pic

JoeEeL:


Look at the bottom right bro.

IamGreen1:


me I am phone checking machine and I do reply hubby chats with em babes sef, na me dey even unblock those ones wey e don block sef just for me to be current. I really wish that I'm like you.

SILENTandSMART2:



i saw her sextape with a guy plus chat history of money sent and sex they have had with another guy again


lastly i saw wedding invitation card on her gallery with her name and another guy's name written boldly on it


omo i don suffer oo

i jussss drop her phone and coutinue with my life i don't quit those app she saw it and she didn't call from dat day i wasn't expecting her call also


shey you guys see how girls are

oliviacute:
my own was so somehow
I started dating this guy and he claimed he loved me
his actions said it all,his attitude and behavior
but then as time went on he had this quick calls,always chatting 24/7
I always called him chatter, he would laugh over it and say it's buisness
so I decided to chill even though I knew it wasn't just buisness
took me months to get his password...I got it and I accessed his WhatsApp
what I saw almost knocked me down
he was dating another girl, acting all romantic to her,texted her more,even sent her money
and I saw other girls that he chatted with too..those ones didn't pain me like this particular girl
when I asked him about it, he gave me cock and bull stories that just didn't add up
I just come dey look am, the next three days I acted like I was buying into his stories...I was like if this guy knew what was in mind, he would just come out clean instead,and when he was telling me those stories I noticed his composure(that of a liar)
some guys sha

seanwilliam:


I did couple of times.. didn’t get it

Fvckhypocrite:
ekun

mousano:
I was going to say something about this until I went through your profile and saw some intelligent comments you made about Barcelona and Juve Match last night.

TheControversy:

Paulolee!!!

oyalunasamuel:
Mine was a very terrible experience...OK this is how it happened I noticed she had a frequent whatsapp phone call with someone so I asked who the person was and she said that he was just a friend. I checked her message with the guy and everything had been deleted. It was then I suspected a fowl play.
I begged her to tell me the truth so I don’t get to find out myself and she kept denying. Well I took the phone with her consent and retrieved all her deleted WhatsApp messages for a year through the database of the phone and restored the message she could believe this was possible and that I could do it... damn It was one of the most painful memory I hold in my entire life. I found out at some point that she was pregnant for this same guy, who was even a married man with kids and she even took 40k from him to abort the baby. Same time she told me she was pregnant and I was responsible. I found out series of sex chat messages nude exchange with different guys I couldn’t believe my eyes, like this is the girl I was gonna make my wife...

I often hear different opinions and perspectives on privacy of a partners phone. But take for a second and imagine I never found out those messages I would have married a wolf thinking it was a sheep.

Well I forgave her after that and wanted us to continue our relationship because I thought it was easier to fix a leaking roof than demolish and entire building all because of a leaking roof. But I was wrong. She never changed. Well it’s all in the past now.

In retrospect I fear women they hold secrets you can never imagine.

benratigan3:
you're the MVP, write a beat seller book for simps to read

SILENTandSMART2:


Lol

Don't take dat story serious at all oo
.nah cocck and bull story

What i said is not true at all .. God nogo allow me jam such girl in my life

IamGreen1:


Abi o.

Poshriel:



exactly what i found out two weeks ago when i had some tech guy help me monitor his phone.. his whatsapp chats were practically dropping on my own phone. i saw terrible things

pls guys and babes try to monitor your spouses phones.. these days it could be done remotely even without being inthe same location.

the guys are here on nairaland, they are the best in the biz. you can save your self that late hour regrets like i did

Fvckhypocrite:
amen bossman
Lmfao
95% of nairaland story na lie but we just dey use am catch cruise like that.