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Nice one Op, totally concur wiv all u wrote

...n I nid a dinner in Aso rock, buh dat aint gonna hapun...at least not like dis

zeb04:
Divorce is an option

Hmm-hmm-hmmm
Wat r u tryin to do?

Nursy:
Ok... Thank you.

Uwc

Teespice:
however, you seem to forget that in this part of the world, a woman is expected to forgive and if she as much as files for divorce on grounds of adultery, she is blamed for not realising that a man has the wandering eye.

Dats a big fat lie, dat myt hav been true in d past buh definitely nt nowadays

Teespice:
personally, I can't forgive a cheating partner be it in a relationship or marriage and the man should do same for me as well.

people make mistakes. BTW, adultery is not always as it seems. #just_saying
For me, I can neva 4give anybody who cheats on me even yl we r yet 2 tie d knot buh once marriage is sealed, well, I stick to my earlier post

A christian is one who believes in the 'sonship' n teachings of Jesus Christ and also keeps His statutes

Cutehector4u:
A christain is one who sees his neighbour as his brother or sister...

Bro, dat wud b a gud Samaritan...dnt get it twisted.

Issues like this have no unanimous answer. The reason is simply, it's rightness or 'wrongness' is fully dependent on surrounding conditions. What I mean is this, if denrele keeps long nails, its no big deal but when your pastor or doctor does it, omo, water don pass garri b dat o

Nursy:
Bros na wetin I do you?.. U don't know me for you to make such statement..
Sigh! Nairalanders sha!

Sorry if I poked a soft spot. But I still maintain that you check the attitude. I don't need to know you in person to make meaning out of what you posted

dein77:
Easier said!

I can imagine y u wud say dat buh den again, ask ursef, if d reverse was d case, won't I lyk my wife 2 4give me?

Op I want 2 counsel you frm an introverts vantage point. I'm sure ur partner wants some, if nt all of doz tins u want but I can tell u dat he's probably 'scared' of wat ur reaction myt b. So his, natural instinct is 2 play safe. My advice is, wateva u want, initiate it or at least tell him dats wat u want. Now d catch is in doin dis witout hurtin ur self esteem. Gud luck!

dis claim is unfounded, I knw tonnes of married ppl(mostly ladies) who still use dia lines even 4yrs into dia marriages

Fish bone
Slow dogg

I'm nt married but I stil want 2 believ dat I'm already d kind of man I'd b in marriage. As a husband, I'd totally 4give my wife who confessed adultery to me provided she is remorseful and developin strategies to avert such occurrences in d future. Cos dats wat I'd want her 2 do 4 me, even tho I'm yet to figure out wat wud push me in2 adultery

Nursy:
When I get to the bridge I will cross over..... I just don't want unnecessary stress from a man who calls himself my husband.

With this kind of attitude, you might just get burned. Sorry to say.

Both, but fine face first
"Seek ye first a fine face and killer curves shall be added unto thee" that's d rule

I'd say charity n my reason is quite simple...u can use ur tithe 4 charity but can't avoid lending a helping hand to anyone who needs it just cos u wanna pay tithe, dats just pure inhumanity

austine4real:
U don giv ur sis belle abi?
Inbreedin is inbreedin

Lol, u r a 'weirdly' funny dude

THE LEARNED DOGS
There was a rich man who lived with his nephew(Akpos) in a very dangerous neighbourhood. Occasionally, thieves burgled their house and stole from them. This happened for a while until one day, Akpos suggested the idea of buying foreign breed dogs to his uncle. Eagerly, the uncle accepted the idea and ordered for 3 different breeds of foreign dogs(rotweiller, german shepherd and dobberman). It wasn't long and the dogs were delivered and the man employed a dog trainer to train the dogs. One day, Akpos was coming back from the warehouse where he went to sell some goods, on entering his uncles compound, he saw Mark(the dog trainer) commanding the dogs in different Languages while his uncle was by the side nodding in pleasure and full satisfaction. Disappointed, Akpos approached his uncle and a dialogue ensued...
Uncle: Akpos, are you back? How was the sales?
Akpos: bros e! Market gel wella...ehen, bros, na wetin una dey do so? *frowning*
Uncle: Mark is teaching the dogs english and other languages...
Akpos: choi, bros u don fall hand, dis tin wey u dey do get side effect o
Uncle: how do you mean, boy?
Akpos: abeggi o, grammar na 4 pesin no b dog, no b so Onoriode dem papa take...
Uncle: my friend go inside! You neva stop with this your warri stories.
3 months later, on a faithful night, thieves broke into their home again, 'EVERYBODY LIE DOWN!' They barked
The uncle laid first, hoping that the dogs would attack the robbers, Akpos joined and the dogs follwed suit...and akpos turned to the uncle and said "bros e, no b u dey follow wit dogs dey blow big big grammar? Now, c yawa don gaas!'

There was a rich man who lived with his nephew(Akpos) in a very dangerous neighbourhood. Occasionally, thieves burgled their house and stole from them. This happened for a while until one day, Akpos suggested the idea of buying foreign breed dogs to his uncle. Eagerly, the uncle accepted the idea and ordered for 3 different breeds of foreign dogs(rotweiller, german shepherd and dobberman).
It wasn't long and the dogs were delivered and the man employed a dog trainer to train the dogs. One day, Akpos was coming back from the warehouse where he went to sell some goods, on entering his uncles compound, he saw Mark(the dog trainer) commanding the dogs in different Languages while his uncle was by the side nodding in pleasure and full satisfaction. Disappointed, Akpos approached his uncle and a dialogue ensued...
Uncle: Akpos, are you back? How was the sales?
Akpos: bros e! Market gel wella...ehen, bros, na wetin una dey do so? *frowning*
Uncle: Mark is teaching the dogs english and other languages...
Akpos: choi, bros u don fall hand, dis tin wey u dey do get side effect o
Uncle: how do you mean, boy?
Akpos: abeggi o, grammar na 4 pesin no b dog, no b so Onoriode dem papa take...
Uncle: my friend go inside! You neva stop with this your warri stories.
3 months later, on a faithful night, thieves broke into their home again, 'EVERYBODY LIE DOWN!' They barked
The uncle laid first, hoping that the dogs would attack the robbers, Akpos joined and the dogs follwed suit...everybody was shocked and akpos turned to the uncle and said "bros e, no b u dey follow wit dogs dey blow big big grammar? Now, c yawa don gaas!'

olojaoke1:
Your knowledge of the bible is sadly lacking,did you read the biblical account of Lot and his daughters?.

I tink d bible was talkin abt incest in dat part of d scripture, so technically, swagwu is right

surrogatesng:
If everyone decided to have his brother donate sperm there will be no sperm bank.It is wrong and unethical as your brother might in the future have an emotional bond with the child and where does that place you?I will advice you look for a sperm donor

Tank u plenty but 1st of all, this isn't me, it's HYPOTHETICAL, remember?
2nd of all, u knw hw much wey 1 sperm cell dey cost?
n lastly, in case of emotional bonding, he can easily refer 2 d kid as 'my child', at least dat is commonly practiced in our culture...or d kid can call him brother-daddy or daddy squared *lol, just kidding*

Abeg o, Ishilove n Kunbee, any of una dey medical or health line at all? Cos ah no undastand dat 1 wey una dey yarn.
Wch 1 b imb.ecile and genetic problem again?

nanauju:
Every man likes to feel in charge. So when they see a she-male doing better, they'll definitely feel intimidated. And sometimes, it drives some men to work harder

Are you sure you know who a she-male is?

I wouldn't call it that, it's not much of intimidation as it is sheer caution...I really believe men generally avoid successful women because of their attitudes.
Anyways, me I love successful independent women! Anyday, anytime!

nobilis:
Elect
Coin
Loin
Eel
Tie
Nile
Not
Cot
Lent
Ton
Tin
Ten
Net
Cent
Tile
Line
Lit
Lot
Let
Nice
Lice
Toe
Toil

n she was looking for 3, lol

Op, you have only told us why you want to settle down come 2016, you haven't mentioned anything about why your fiance is adamant on wedding ASAP...and like my Pops would always say, no wise man judges a case with only one view. So, until you feed us that information, you might not get the appropriate aid you need