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Your write up is so biased. Why should it be only the lady that will guard her marriage? So the men should misbehave while the lady should forgive all in the name of remain Mrs.? You have an archaic way of thinking. It takes two to tango. Stop making men feel too important and misbehave just because they feel they have more advantage if the marriage leads to divorce. I have seen women who are exceedingly successful and very much okay after divorce. I even know some that are still very selective of men coming from their hand in marriage even after having kids in their previous marriage. I know some who refused to get married because they feel they are better off without a man. A woman's life does not revolve around man, stop making it look so. |
safarigirl:Yours too. You used to be my best romance writer and still one my best, your stories are super interesting and awesome. There are so many talented/fantastic writer on nairaland. Giannaaaaaa/Inkvodkapaper - Lies from pretty, Lethal matrimony, wilting matrimony, Burned (Superb/absolutely beautiful) Colors of my heart (still in progress) - I love the writing style. Giannaaaaaa is one of my best writer, I don't know who I like more between her and safarigirl. Glowing Scene - Her chocolate and Sushi blew me away. It was super interesting and inspiring. I total loved it. Switched was also a good one. Safarigirl - She can write for Africa. Tormented was very fantastic/awesome. It was a great read. In memory only was another good one. Unwanted was cool. Yet to complete Caleb and Mending fences are both beautiful stories. LarrySun- A brand of Cain and Paradox of Abel were mind blowing. The suspense/intrigues was something else. The guy is a born writer. I was super impressed with these stories. Royver : "The cross, the tail and cross" and "I see things other do not see" were very fantastic stories Frank 3.16 - Tenth generation was a very unique and wonderful story. Quite interesting. Cyber lover was fantastic Lost key was cool too AudreyTimms: Letting go and unfulfilled promises were super good. She's one of my best romance writer. Repogirl: The one who awaits was the first romance story I read on nairaland. I didn't really fancy romance stories before then. I was very impressed after reading it. That was how I came to love romance stories. False pretenses - very interesting and lovely First night - very nice Forever and for always (still in progress) - super interesting PrettySpices - Take me as I am, for better for worse and co are all very lovely and interesting story Chumzypinky - Tradition. I also love that story. Chumzy, try and finish it. RoseMary - Kiss me one more night ( very fantastic and interesting story) Souloho - The devil wears okrika. It was super interesting and a great read. Worthy mention Jail bird - One of most interesting if not the most interesting story I read this year. "Jail bird" and "Burned" are my official best stories for this year. |
Fantastic. Thanks for the update. I pray Oye embraces salvation. Nice one. Thanks for the update. |
Nice one. I like the divine encounter. Thanks for the update. |
princeade86:And who told you women don't do more than that? Some women carry all the expenses in the family from paying children sch fee to house rent, feeding and other things. I feel men who have issues with equality have low self esteem. All of you saying both sexes are not equal, are you trying to say you're greater than Chimamanda because you're a man? Some of you are even trying to compare strength as a reason a man is greater, wasn't it on this platform that the news of a wife beating her husband was put on front page? Are you saying the wife in this case is greater because she has more strength? Men and women are equal but in the family setting, a man is the head, the women is the neck, a man needs his wife and vice versa. |
Very inspiring and interesting story. I'm loving every bit of it. |
alBHAGDADI:The verse I quoted explains what love really is, that's why I said you should read and understand the meaning of love. And o yes, love is the greatest, love conquereth all. I'm not advocating that women shouldn't submit, I'm only saying that why most men rant and dwell so much on women submitting, they themselves don't show love and most men bank on submission to subdue their wives and see them as inferior. I don't know why many of you are attacking Chimamanda, I guess many didn't read what she wrote. She made a very good point but most of you failed to see it. |
Temmy54546:I wonder why people fail to see this. |
alBHAGDADI:Love is greater than submission. That's what most of you don't know. Read 1st Corinthians chapter 13 vs 4 - 8a to understand what love is. How many men love their wives yet they keep blabing about submission. How many men can give up their lives for their wives? When people begin to understand what love is, there will no problems in marriages. I don't see how a man will claim to love his wife yet oppress her and make her feel worthless. Love conquereth all. If a man loves his wife properly, I tell you, his wife will totally submit to him except of course he married a Jezebel. |
Success in your exams. I wish you all the best. |