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Family / Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by okgerald(m): 12:41am On Jan 24, 2018
I believe you should marry someone you love. I married someone I don't love. She doesn't even have the qualities I want. Big tummy bug laps. Everything she does never make sense to me. I am losing my mind. I cannot stand it anymore. Worst of, it's in America where women are too powerful. I am looking for a way out. I always find fault in whatever she does.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by okgerald(m): 5:55am On Oct 06, 2016
Hello guys. I need an admission letter for usa university to apply for sturdy leave from my job. Even if its just temporary.
Properties / Re: Doors - Discussions About Doors - Qualities, Sizes, Types, Installations Etc. by okgerald(m): 5:13am On Oct 06, 2016
Hello. I need six wooden cheap good looking doors with good looking frames. 2 for rooms. 2 for toilet and one for kitchen. Delivery at idafa Maya ikorodu. Urgent response please.
Travel / Re: Ask Me Any Questions About America,straight Talk from a Nigerian in America by okgerald(m): 5:50pm On Sep 12, 2016
OP please I need advice. My fiance is an American citizen. She earns about 60k. She has finalized our k1 visa process. All I need to do is go to the embassy and face the interview. I am scared of starting a new life in America.

It's like I will be starting all over again. For someone like me what can I do immediately I get there so as to make it big so I can be able to support my family once the kids starts rolling in.
Travel / Re: How To Make It As A Nigerian In America In 2014 by okgerald(m): 9:26am On Sep 12, 2016
Hummm. My head of operations in the bank was always talking down on travelling abroad. She is always saying things like ' she can only travel to enjoy herself, cannot live in America or abroad...etc'

She has never travelled before Mind you. An opportunity presented itself and she travelled. By the crime she came back story has changed o. Now she is looking for ways to migrate to canada. Though she went to USA for a function. I am now wondering what made her change her mind. Even though she is earning good pay in a Bank.

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Family / Re: I Dont Love Who Igot Married To-she Is An American Citizen by okgerald(m): 7:52pm On Jun 18, 2016
crackhaus:

You don't have something doing that brings you enough money, that's the only reason you're even contemplating this crap.

I earn a decent income. I am able to buy myself a decent car, rent a decent apartment, I have investment in treasury bill that also brings something to the table. It's not as if I am wretched. I know it's not enough money but not doing badly. This marriage is like a torture to me even though she has done nothing bad. No matter how she try to impress me with gifts I just don't feel that fire, that spark. Nothing at all.

I don't know what kind of trauma it will cause her if I end it right now cos she is crazy in love. She isn't just my type.
Family / I Dont Love Who Igot Married To-she Is An American Citizen by okgerald(m): 7:54am On Jun 15, 2016
Hello,

I am getting married to an American citizen of Nigerian parent. I have a lot to benefit like becoming a citizen myself, leaving Nigeria for good, papers . The thing is i don't feel a thing for her. We were introduced to each other and am not feeling a thing. Is it a good idea to go into this and feign happiness for the rest of my life.

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Family / Re: Advice-leaving My Banking Job To USA With My Fiancee. by okgerald(m): 4:15pm On Jun 01, 2016
It seems I have everything working in my favour.
It's a k1 visa that we are processing.
We are also working on starting my masters programme as soon as possible once I relocate .
I have no choice than to be faithful and good.
Seems the pros far outshine the cons. Thanks for all the wonderful advice my people.
Family / Re: Advice-leaving My Banking Job To USA With My Fiancee. by okgerald(m): 6:10am On Jun 01, 2016
Really appreciate all the input. She is ready to stand by me until I get my papers and green p. She is working and earning a decent wage.

veraponpo:

My friend, it depends on your broad plan with her.
Remember Poor Planning Prevents Poor Performance as they always say.
Discuss critically with her the likely challenges like looking for job if you resign here to migrate to the US
Discuss the tendency of her taking care of your until you settle down.
Remember you might need to do one or two certificate programmes there to enable you secure good jobs.
When are you planning to marry, where, accommodation challenge, etc.
While I think you are better off if you travel, women can change when they are the ones providing for the house and men too are usually unfaithful.
The tow of you should weigh your options, what is your self-discipline level? How smart are you? Level of education? Will you be faithful to her?
etc.
It is an opportunity that you may not get easily if lost but think of the pros and cons before taking step.
You fiancée seems to be a good person, don't disappoint her.

My fiance is a very good person. She will remain good as long as I remain faithful. Being faithful has always been a problem for me .

She can take care of things at least until I get my feet and my papers as she earns a fairly good wage.

Here I feel like a free man that can do what I want. But also considering the future. Job security, security , state of our economy and so on.
Family / Advice-leaving My Banking Job To USA With My Fiancee. by okgerald(m): 10:39am On May 31, 2016
My fiancee is an American citizen . Born of Nigerian parents and grew up in America. I on the other hand a Nigerian guy who has a banking job with fairly decent pay . My fiancee wants me to move to USA with her and quit Nigeria . What should I do people.
Phones / Re: Recharge N200 To Get N1200 On Glo Twin Bash by okgerald(m): 6:38am On Nov 29, 2015
I cannot even check my main account balance. Please why is this so.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Beta Age Consult Interview by okgerald(m): 8:06pm On Jun 17, 2015
I just got the text now. They haven't given up.
Politics / Re: Buhari, A Gamble Not Worth Taking — Jonathan by okgerald(m): 7:43am On Mar 27, 2015
Jonathan is a big mistake. Change is the only constant thing in life...this step might be the brginning of a great Nigeria.

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Business / Re: Help On Renting A Car For Hire Purchase by okgerald(m): 8:18pm On Feb 11, 2015
Thank you. I have sent you a mail.
Autos / Re: Over Neat 2008 Toyota Highlander!!! Dont Miss It Please!!!! by okgerald(m): 3:06pm On Feb 09, 2015
How much please.
Business / Re: Help On Renting A Car For Hire Purchase by okgerald(m): 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2015
Anybody
Car Talk / Re: Lexus Jeep 2000 Vs EOD by okgerald(m): 8:37pm On Feb 05, 2015
Nigerian road, most tarred..some rough and ocassionally very rough roads. Fuel of about 4k per week.
Business / Re: Help On Renting A Car For Hire Purchase by okgerald(m): 2:52pm On Feb 04, 2015
who has experience in this field.
Business / Help On Renting A Car For Hire Purchase by okgerald(m): 11:05pm On Feb 03, 2015
I need a guide on steps to take in giving out a car for hire purchase. I will give out the car and start collecting weekly rental. The driver can then take possession of the car after complete payment. Please I don't want to loose out, what and what steps should be taken so that both parties smile.
Autos / Re: Lexus Jeep 2000 Vs EOD by okgerald(m): 10:16pm On Feb 03, 2015
EOD vs Lexus please. Somebody convince me.
Car Talk / Re: Lexus Jeep 2000 Vs EOD by okgerald(m): 10:11pm On Feb 03, 2015
Guys this has turned into a laughing session. OK back to the matter why are you laughing in Hispanic. Is it that EOD is better?
Car Talk / Lexus Jeep 2000 Vs EOD by okgerald(m): 8:07am On Jan 25, 2015
Hi guys, I am confused. I need to choose between Lexus Jeep. 2000 model and Honda 2003 model..EOD. please which one is better people.
Autos / Lexus Jeep 2000 Vs EOD by okgerald(m): 7:44am On Jan 25, 2015
Hi guys, I am confused. I need to choose between Lexus Jeep. 2000 model and Honda 2003 model..EOD. please which one is better people.
Autos / Re: ELEGANT SWET 09 HONDA Accord(SPIRIT)@1.35m(neg) In Ph City...call Now Now by okgerald(m): 7:31am On Jan 25, 2015
How many months used. Will 1.350 land it.
Phones / Re: Get Ready To Be Surprised Heavily By Airtel Nigeria by okgerald(m): 7:35am On Nov 03, 2014
I got just 11 sms from MTN. 700 mb from etisalat. Nothing from glo at the moment. The mb is just for 5 days tho.
Celebrities / Re: Chidinma Talks About Her Sex Scandal And Life As A Star by okgerald(m): 8:58pm On Dec 07, 2013
It sure look like her though. She just have to deal with it. That's what stardom bring S.
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part2 by okgerald(m): 10:18pm On Oct 28, 2013
ok.gerald:
I didn't get a suitable one
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part2 by okgerald(m): 10:07pm On Oct 27, 2013
I didn't get a suitable one
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part2 by okgerald(m): 8:23pm On Oct 27, 2013
ok.gerald:
Please i need a website where i can apply for cheap hotel with free cancellation in the UK. I am applying for uk visa and need to submit my document on Wednesday . Please this is needed urgently.
Somebody should be please help me with the above. I need to submit my documents on Wednesday.
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part2 by okgerald(m): 6:04pm On Oct 27, 2013
Please i need a website where i can apply for cheap hotel with free cancellation in the UK. I am applying for uk visa and need to submit my document on Wednesday . Please this is needed urgently.
Education / Re: Ibadan School Principal Found Dead In A Gutter by okgerald(m): 7:16am On Sep 08, 2013
This is so sad. Only God knows what is behind this. RIP.God will help the family left behind.
Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele's Surprise Birthday Party (Pictures) by okgerald(m): 4:01pm On Aug 25, 2013
not bad. funke looks old. happy birthday .

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