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DrLee:
Maybe you buy stuffs for her and take care of her. That's what daddys do.

Yeah I buy her gifts

AnakinSkywalker:
She is just a child.

Perhaps her mum's boyfriend does not pay her enough attention like you do. Maybe he comes to see the mum and pays more attention to the mum ignoring the child.

The child has seen you as someone who is interested in her, possibly showers her with gifts and mindfully play with her. Hence she naturally thinks you are her daddy.

It could also be that she notices her mum possibly pays more attention to you than the said boyfriend. Perhaps you might not be aware but she might notice her mums demeanor when you are around. Perhaps her mum is happier.

Deductively she believes only her ''daddy'' can make these things happen. ''Brother'' comes to see mummy and focuses on mummy, but ''daddy'' likes her, plays with her, buys her gifts and perhaps she notices that mummy is happier with ''daddy'' around.

Kids are not as dumb as we take them to be.

Thanks very much for your contribution. I naturally like kids that is why I buy her gifts. But I have reduced the way I buy things for her just to make sure she stops but she continued. My main concern is that she literally want to be with me all the time.

I've been living in my little apartment for about 8 months now quietly until a new tenant moved into the selfCon beside mine,She is a single mother and her daughter is about 3years. She has a boyfriend and I am a a serious relationship as well, so we know and respect our boundaries. But the issue we have not been able to trash is that of the daughter calling me daddy, even after several attempt to stop her. She has become so attached to me that she doesn't even want to be with her mum. The mother's boyfriend is always around and the funny thing is that she calls him brother,even though they are close. Even at night she will wake up and start calling daddy, she will even cry and disturb everyone except I come to carry her to my room. I'm not comfortable with the trend, I love kids but this is going rather too far. I feel she may develop natural fatherly love for me if something is not done ASAP. Please advise

I've been living in my little apartment for about 8 months now quietly until a new tenant moved into the selfCon beside mine,She is a single mother and her daughter is about 3years. She has a boyfriend and I am a a serious relationship as well, so we know and respect our boundaries. But the issue we have not been able to trash is that of the daughter calling me daddy, even after several attempt to stop her. She has become so attached to me that she doesn't even want to be with her mum. The mother's boyfriend is always around and the funny thing is that she calls him brother,even though they are close. Even at night she will wake up and start calling daddy, she will even cry and disturb everyone except I come to carry her to my room. I'm not comfortable with the trend, I love kids but this is going rather too far. I feel she may develop natural fatherly love for me if something is not done ASAP. Please advise

Pineapp:

Oní gbese spotted

People need to understand that just picking a call can save someone's life. Just imagine someone in distress calling the only neighbor he remembers his number, just for the person not to pick.

Why You Should Always Pick Your Friends Call(moral
Lesson)

During the burial of this young man, another young man was
crying out his heart. He wept uncontrollably that many people
kept wondering what is wrong with him. The mc dropped the
microphone and went and took this weeping young
man to a corner, calmed him down and he started to explain. He
was with the guy that died the day he met his death. He drove
off first and on getting to a particular spot, he noticed that some
armed robbers were getting ready to block the road and resume
operation. He managed to escape. He started calling his friend to
tell him what he saw, that he should remain where he was. This
friend would not pick his call. To him: “why is he calling? He
should know that I am driving right behind him”. He refused to
pick the call as this guy kept calling and calling. Finally, he
drove into the now ready armed robbers and they pumped
countless bullets on him. He died on the spot and armed robbers
stole his car. This man was crying because he knew his friend
killed himself. Many of us are just like this. Are you the one
buying the credit for him or her? Pick your call when your
phone rings and know why you are been called. If the phone
rings twenty times in one minute, pick in all occasions. He was
saving credit for his friend because I am driving straight to
where he is, he met his death. You are in an occasion and you
are calling someone you are looking at because you want to pass
a crucial information, he ignores the call and is walking up to
you instead, even when you are making sign that he should pick
the call. It is possible that this caller didn’t want you to come
near him because he wanted to code something. Pick your call
and say hello. Some people will not pick calls from numbers
they don’t know and Iwonder: HOW MANY PEOPLE DO
YOU KNOW ON PLANET EARTH? DO YOU EVER
THINK THAT THOSE PEOPLE YOU KNOW ARE ALL
YOU NEED IN LIFE? Notesomething, there is no one
individual that knows up to 1% of the world population. Is it not
insanity for you to restrict your life to just 1% of global
population? What of the remaining 99%? Many people have
missed life saving opportunities because they refused to pick a
particular call. PICK YOUR PHONE WHEN IT RINGS AS
LONG AS YOU ARE AVAILABLE. ONE CALL CAN
CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER AND REFUSAL
TO PICK A PARTICULAR CALL CAN TAKE YOU TO
UNTIMELY DEATH.

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Someone will receive alert soon and this will be history. Most people we rely on to fight for the common man are just interested in their pockets. From NCC, POLICE, CUSTOM, IMMIGRATION ETC, so they quit deceiving us with media propaganda as if they are really doing their job. God bless Nigeria

To be honest, Buhari is supposed to be EFCC chairman not the president. I applaud his efforts but we need to work on our economy, like Mr Onovo said today, we should set our priorities right, power is no one

And some people will say abokis are only good as shoe maker,nail cutters and the likes.. .this guy is Making arewa and Nigeria proud.

Where are the APC E RATS, your food is ready...

[quote author= post=42072003]Just saw this was online. That exam wasnt easy o.

Shop on our stores today .Ctytechnologies - Jumia konga Kaymu .......[/quote]Where you hide all these while.

MTN............corruption everywhere you go


They have been deducting my Airtime illegally, I called 180 and they played me now God Don punish dem

No sane government will do this to her citizens, how about people going on vacation, students studying abroad. Has Nigeria started manufacturing everything, to be honest our products needs to be upgraded to be attractive, we want value for money so manufacturers should wake up.

If only the probe and media trials is not for distraction purpose, I would have supported it fully. Apart from APC distracting Nigerians with it the war is one sided.

Inasmuch as I hate this corrupt politicians, I feel due process should be followed and government should not hide under the guess of anti corruption to hunt all visible opposition. All the allegations against Amechi and Fasola are still there and no one seems to care. Even the PDP thieves are just going through media trials and nothing more. We need to see someone behind bars.

Naijasinglegirl:
Twitter user, @habbizzelle shared the screen shot below yesterday. According to her, her friend applied for a job in Globacom and received this in her mailbox.

Outsmart the idiot jo, download one black lady clip and send to him, at least he doesn't know you in person so he can't spot the difference.

Islie:
www.punchng.com/woman-flees-nigeria-to-canada-to-escape-fgm/

SHE JUST NEEDED ASYLUM, NAIJA NA WA...

Oliviaarims:
If u can't agree on an issue such as this, then perhaps both of u aren't very compatible. It means u may also not agree on other very important issues after marriage.


Sb's got to compromise. If she doesn't want to give in, then perhaps u should. I favour same church, though. I feel it makes the family more united.

I attend Living Faith Church aka Winners' Chapel. Was born into a Winners family, as a matter of fact. But my bf is a Catholic.. and a staunch one at that. He's said it time and again that he's always going to be a Catholic. I've thought about how things would be in the long run should we get married, and I know already that should he still insist on remaining a Catholic, then I may just become one too. I want a happy and United family and having a singular place of worship is one thing I believe will enhance it.


Doesn't make much sense for a husband to be attending one church... and then the wife attends another... Then the kids will start choosing sides.

My exact reason, initially she agreed to the plan but just started this drama recently. I even had to compromise by telling her we can switch churches just to make things balance but she refused, her only point is for me to change to winners and seriously that I can not do. I m supposed to be the head of the family not the other way round.

dachaste:
If u really don't want ha to go. Den change church naw. After all its same God. Abi?

My dad is an evangelist in my church, how will that sound if you were my shoes

dachaste:
If u really don't want ha to go. Den change church naw. After all its same God. Abi?

Mt dad is an evangelist in my church, how will that sound if you were my shoes

EggovinMma:
I did oooooooooooooo.
It's the usual misconceptions and bad names people like you give religion.
Two educated folks from obviously good churches having this kind of issue is insane! Very very very flimsy excuse to begin with. Tell that ya gf say, make she go marry Jesus Christ!

Relationship of 5 years! ! You both are not serious!

Lol...Thanks though

VampireeM:
she made a mistake by dating you that long when she knew she cant convert to your church. there are some churches i cant convert to. for example 'your church of christ"...... your doctrine is kind of different from other pentecostal churches..... if its not working, you guys should call it quits or you can as well attend your different churches after marriage. its your OWN choice to make MR

Thanks

falconey:
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Thanks

Rone16:
21st century abeg.Agree that you'll alternate like this Sunday,you guys will attend yours and next Sunday,hers.Its a win-win

Thanks

Where are my able romancelanders

EggovinMma:
E be like say one of you dey worship Satan for una church? .
Bunch of confused couple!

I seriously doubt if you read my piece

falconey:
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Nothing special but Its my family church and my dad is an evangelist there.

Please I really need you to advise me sincerely.

My name is Kingsley, I ve been dating my girlfriend for about 5 years now, last year we got engaged hoping to tie the knot but things didn't go as planned. We attend different church and I have made it known to her ever since that after marriage she will be worshiping with me in my church. I'm a member of the church of christ while she attends winners chapel. We have been okay until recently I told her I want to start the marriage arrangements again and she started saying she can't go to my church after we marry,, that her mum adviced her to speak with me about it,,I kept my stand but she said if we can't reach an agreement on that then we should call it off. I want my family to be United in all fronts from religion to culture. Now I'm confused, should I allow her to attend her church after marriage knowing it might affect my children? Please your advice is needed.

It seems all the banks in warri have conspired to deprive Nigerians their freedom to make withdrawal through ATM, my findings yesterday revealed that all the machines around Effrun/Sapele road are not dispensing cash, the same goes for Enerhen area. This morning I got up very early so that I can at least look for a place to make withdrawal but all the area has the same story. Now I'm stranded in warri. Please is anyone having similar experience, this whole scenario started around 4pm yesterday when bankers were still in the office.

APC doesn't harbour corruption, they are corruption personified. I know baba will not pay attention to this facts