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190:
[color=deeppink]OP: Who sound matured why not sit her down and tell her,

why do things just cos someone pushed you to doing it,

Sit her down and tell her you have no feelings for you and she would go, [/color]

@190, do you thats going to work? Some people are not with good listening ears.
Besides, that could pose a big threat to my life, she can harm me you know,

We actually finished from the same primary schools back in the 90's and to her theory which I cannot recollect is that we felt something for one another but unfortunately, we lost contacts after scu. As faith could perform its mirracle we came accross when we were in senior secondary level to be precise SS2 and we got along. After our final year in secondary scu, sometin came up nd we lost contacts again and left for diff higher institutions. Arround September 2009 we came accross again and she's started paying me a visit which I neva rejected. Up to dis moment she's right there in my life but I dont feel a dime for her.
I used to show her my worse by lying to her, bringing another lady home, not picking her calls, frown my face, giving her alot of excusses that; you are bcoming more fatter for my liking; I have long to way to go wit my education and not ready to put any woman at home for now,  but she won't just get it, she couldn't read between the lines.
But my family wants me to make her happy all the time so that she cud have something to say about me even we later go our separate ways. But for me, as long as she's in my life, I dont fell comfortable. I dont know how to tell her or what to do because I'm afraid that she culd go to any length to have me simply because she said I was the guy who took her pride which I dont concur.
Pls, help me out. Its not something to laugh.

No mind dem ma broda. All bla bla talk wey d man write for d leta na tory especialy wen baba OBJ don make d business do or die affair.

Olusola Saraki opts for
ACPN •Mops up PDP cards in Kwara | Monday, 03 January 2011 POLITICS in Kwara State has started assuming a new dimension, as the chairman of the Northern Union (NU), Dr Olusola Saraki, led his loyalists to dump the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) to embrace the Allied Congress Party of Nigeria (ACPN), on Sunday.
Saraki ’s defection followed a rally he organised in Ilorin, Kwara State capital on Sunday
and which was attended by thousands of his supporters, including former local government council chairmen, former senators and House of Representatives members.
Saraki ’s new party has the squirrel as its logo, with “Loyalty, Service and Unity ” as its slogan.
The defection of Saraki into ACPN is, therefore, an indication of a crack in the hegemony of the family, as the first son, Bukola, currently
the governor of the state, held on to the PDP in Kwara.
The choice of ACPN by Saraki, according to findings, was strategic, since the All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP) and the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC) had made efforts to have him join them.
Saraki is to use ACPN to reach out to all the existing political parties in Kwara to forge a coalition, with sufficient strength to dislodge PDP in the state.
The political differences between Saraki and his son had been the crux of the resolve by the NU chairman to leave PDP.
Before defecting from the PDP,
Saraki had vowed to neutralise the party to zero level, as he had set machinery in motion to mop up the registration cards of the PDP in Kwara.
In the past few days, loyalists, friends and supporters of the PDP chieftain
had been submitting their PDP membership cards to identify with his new political cause, and, at the last count, about 25
Ghana-must-go bags, filled with PDP membership cards, were said to have been stocked for destruction.
Investigations revealed that the resolve by the senior Saraki to enthrone Senator Gbemisola as the next governor of Kwara in the governorship election was the reason he decided to dump PDP, since the party was said not be disposed to allowing her to obtain the ticket.
Both the current governor and Senator Gbemi-sola had not been aligning politically, a development that had been impacting negatively on the governorship aspiration of the
senator, as findings revealed that the state governor had already aligned with one of the aspirants.
Saraki, who once attempted to be president in the aborted Third Republic, according to reports, had told his supporters to prepare to prove a point at the next governorship poll, scheduled for April.
With the latest development in the state, the fate of the PDP is hanging in the balance, since more PDP members are said to have defected along with Saraki.
Also, it was revealed that Senator Gbemisola is the governorship candidate of the party for general election.
Addressing his supporters at the Ile-Arugbo, Iloffa, GRA, Ilorin, Saraki said some forces in the state PDP had started to cause confusion and disunity among its members for selfish reasons.
He added that he had no problem with his son, Bukola, who is the governor of the state, adding that he had said it long time ago that Gbemisola would take over from him after his eight-year tenure, to which he agreed.
Saraki said both Bukola and Gbemisola were of the same mother.
The Kwara political icon said he was never a card-carrying member of PDP but had since 2003 remained the major pillar behind the party in the state.
“We now have a PDP that lacks cohesion, focus, direction and bereft of ideas on how to carry supporters along and win elections, ” he said. He added that the situation was so bad to the extent that most decisions of the party were based on sentiments, instead of having recourse to party guidelines and democratic norms.
The ceremony was witnessed by eminent people from and outside the state, including Gbemisola, the governorship candidate of ACPN.

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Letter To Mr. President:
Act Now Or Resign January 1, 2011 - 22:35 — siteadmin By Ehimai Ohiozebau Dear Mr. President: Happy
New Year. How time flies.
I remember this time last
year; we played a
different music, a
different song. Our dance as a country was to a
different rhyme. We kept
vigil for Nigeria because
we didn ’t know where the then President Musa
Yar ’adua was. Mr. Umar Farouk
Abdulmutallab repainted
our lovely green white
green with colour red. The
paint stuck and stunk in
our emblem but with the water of patriotism, we
erased every spatter and
splatter. This time last
year Mr. President, our
very dear feminine justice
that gave the common man hope was raped to
stupor in the glaring eyes
of all Nigerians by the
very custodians of it. He
even declared President
Yar ’adua fit to rule from “anywhere ”. We rallied round to support you. We
fought your adversaries.
We matched and with
holy inspiration, we
prayed. We bombarded
the air and cyber space with the call for your
upgrade. It was an
amazing phenomenon, for
once; Nigerians had a
symbolic leader beloved
by the people, highly popular, sovereign and
highly enameled with
grace and humility. This
was personified in you. Nigeria’s dirge ululating moment ironically became
the time of its sonority,
exhilaration and jubilation
when the divine
arbitrator decided to step
in and settle the discourse - of who was the actual
President of Nigeria- in
favour of the common
man. You emerged with
hope and promises of a
better tomorrow, a better power supply, better
security, better economy,
a free and fair election and
host of other salivating
promises. For once, the
hopes of all Nigerians were rekindled and in
that moment and time,
you became one of the
most popular leaders of
Africa and possibly,
second only to few like Nelson Mandela of South
Africa and Kwame
Nkrumah of Ghana. Mr. President, it is almost a
year now. Can we as a
people say you have done
well? Can we shout here is
the man with whom
there is no blemish? Can you look into our eyes
first and vow you ’ve not dance naked in the
Parthenon of dangerous
compromise? I heard you
are a gentle man with a
kind heart but what good
is kindness and gentility when your people are
dying? Since you are a
Christian, I will love to
share a story with you
from the bible. It is from
the book of 1Samuel 17: 34-37. David was tending
his father ’s sheep in a dangerous terrain and at
different times, a lion and
a bear attacked his sheep.
These wilds didn ’t attack him but one from his lots.
It may interest you to
know that David had
large flocks at his
possession. He could have
easily compromised one for many but you know
what David did? He went
after the Lion and the bear
and killed them for
trespassing his domain.
Little would one wonder why David was called a
man after God ’s heart for he valued life and
understood
accountability. I heard kidnap increased
greatly this past year.
What is mostly surprising
is how these cycles of
kidnap, ransom and
released were done with impunity. I would have
loved to congratulate you
because most of those
who were kidnapped last
year were released but
Mr. President, are we going to keep celebrating
indulgence. Who is
investigating these
corporate crimes? Have
we looked inwards to fish
out collaborators? If as a nation, we don ’t do a proper job in
investigating this money
milking machine and nip it
at the bud, this will grow
into a monstrous entity
and degenerate Nigeria to a banana republic where
anybody including you
can be kidnap someday. Mr. President, you promise
you will fight corruption
and give us a free and fair
election. I still believe you
on the latter seeing that
you have appointed an INEC chairman whom
many believe to be of
high integrity and
character in terms of
precedence. However Mr. President, in
terms of the former, how
can we trust you? You
and I know that the
corruption that is pillaging
Nigeria today is a high level corruption. Is there
any “big name” that was at least charged to court in
your dispensation? I hope
Mr. President you
wouldn ’t start telling me of the charged and
convicted bank moguls?
With all respect Mr.
President, those were not
your spoils. Let ’s give that credit to mallam Joseph
Sanusi and this all started
before you came into
office sir. Chief James
Ibori is not your spoil
either. I give you credence that you chased him out
of Nigeria but how about
his unweaned son Dr.
Emmanuel Uduaghan
whom you have
personally decided to breast-feed? Did you
inoculate his corruption-
laden mouth through the
judicial process before you
placed your nipple of
compromise in him? I leant you are on an
endorsement spree in
your party the PDP-
Almost all the PDP
governors, the senators,
house of Reps and the “big boys ” of your party have endorsed you-If this
is the case, how do you
want to fight corruption
Mr. President. Please spare
me a moment and let ’s engage in some logic
reasoning. If the PDP has
been ruling the nation for
about 12years now and
we have witness such
monumental corruption in this period who is the
culprit? Your party has
the most corrupt
governors in the country
who then appoints
corrupt heads of agencies and parastatals. Also, you
party has over two third
representatives to the
national assembly and
these “representatives ” are so corrupt that they
yank home over 25% of
the entire nation ’s overhead budget. Now,
since all these have come
together to support you
for 2011 presidency, how
do you want to “fight corruption ”. Well, you will find it difficult to convince
us that your end will
justify your means but
we will watch and see.
With Jotrick, anything can
happen right? Now Mr. President, there
is an issue that is most
disturbing. I heard and
read that some eminent
and prominent Nigerians
have been threatening your legitimacy as
president. What are you
doing about that? Some
have even threatened to
make the nation
ungovernable for you and others talk of making
violent change inevitable.
Hope you are not taking
this as a PDP “family affair ”? It seems you are taking this personal and
handling it in your usual
gentleman way. Mr.
President that is
treasonable felony in your
part you see. May I remind you that you are
no longer your own. You
are now the property of
Nigeria. Let me give you
an analogy, if for instance
as an average citizen, you and your wife engaged in
domestic dispute, now
that you are the
president, she is not
allowed to engage in such
frivolity with you. If she does, she poses a security
threat to the nation and
thus must be arrested. I
leant you are engaging in
clandestine compromise
meetings with those who have vowed to make the
nation ungovernable. If
this is true Mr. President,
that would be a bridge of
trust and thus, you should
resign your position as the President of Nigeria. By
your inactions on such
conspicuous and obvious
security threats, you are
placing the lives of an
average Nigerian at risk and thus, you should
resign from your position
sir. I will love to state a little
history before I end this
letter sir. In the early
sixties in this country
(Nigeria), Chief Obafemi
Awolowo engaged in a supremacy battle with
the then Prime Minister
Tafa Balewa. This was
condole by the later as a
mere political intrigue but
when Awolowo and his Action Group (AG) crew
crossed the line and
started engaging in certain
clandestine meeting that
posed security concern to
the country, they were arrested and tried. When
found guilty, he and
others were sentenced to
life imprisonment. Yes,
there are many school of
thoughts that claim Awolowo and his AG
were innocent and I being
his distant protégé am
from such school of
thoughts but the lesson
from this example is that you do not sacrifice
national security on the
alter of party
compromise. In Nigeria
today, the line has been
crossed, the Rubicon has been broken and the soul
of Nigeria is threatened. Mr. President, I know you
are a busy man and seem
to have lots to do but
perhaps if your relative
were killed on the Abuja
New Year ’s Eve bomb blast, you would act fast.
If your wife ’s hands were amongst those amputated
on the Jos Christmas eve
bomb blast, you would
ambulate with eagerness
and if your son had died in
the October 1st Abuja bomb blast, you would
have declared wanted
those overtly and
covertly responsible for
this heinous crime. Bomb
in gorilla warfare is anathema to Nigerian
culture and must be
nipped in its bud. Before you sleep Mr
President, please
remember that: Those
dead boys in the
Independence Day blast
are children of fathers; those maimed women in
Christmas blast in Jos are
wives husbands. Mr.
President, those dead men
from 31st December 2010
bomb blast at Abuja are husbands of wives who
are now widows and
fathers of children who
are now orphans. Mr
President, act now or
resign. Sincerely,
Ehimai Ohiozebau
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I concur wit Chaircover nd oda reasonable posters on dis trend.
@posta, a word is enof for d wise kid (dey say). I sincerely blev dat u wud do dsame ting wen u fully grown up.

I am totally inline wit you CC and 4eva shall u be my favourite poster.
@poster, pls take it calm and I pray dat d greatest creator wil make ur man d best creature u eva needed in ur life.
God Almighty will be d light in ur darkness, He shall be wit u and ur family, (amen)

No comment, JUST REVOLUTION. Chikenah

I'm proud of him.
What a shame to Nigerians living abroad, they know best on spoiling 9ja image.
@posta, pls dnt count 9ja amng Africas, 9ja na dumpin grnd 4 poo nd grave yard

I dnt knw y nigerians especialy xtians re stone hearted. Sme1 here jst told u dat dese pple re nt muslims bt evry1 of u sleeps nd faces one directn. Your no6 shud tell u dat dese pple did dis knowingfuly wel dat xtians re goin 2 blame it on muslims. Nevadless, i blive we re all one, i hve so mny xtians as my friends and i neva hurt any1 of dem.
Islam = Salam = Peace
Alaykun = Be upon you
You eida tke it or leave it

@ikwikwikwi, u a mad dog and God punishes ur dirty mouth for saying such. I never knew some1 like exists on dis planet earth. Omo ale, were, ala i lojuti, oponu ayerada.
Watch out for me,

Man, we guys are doomed. I guess we should just stay put and neva get involved in marriage or else it becomes mirage. I'm afraid of being in love let alone marriage. Who are we guys marrying, (woman or devil), ?

To everyone in da building who has contributed in one way or the other (jaybee, CC, uju, busybody, phoenix, and others), to cut the story short and all da bla bla talk. In just a sentence/a word, what do u advice, Abeg make una liv tory aside (no mre experience talk/quote, )

@CC, i thought u were goin 2 fold ur arms witout sayin notin. Do u tink those tins u said up there are goin 2 work, ? I doubt it. Rememba as i said earlier dat a married woman who's hving an affair outside marriage will definately kill her soul mate or herself, is dat a lie?

jaephoenix:
@blazay,u r simply daft

@olaeday,u r an idiotic tribalistic not-so-smart person.Am a proud Igbo man n I dont support d women,in fact,my view is dat d op should call of d marriage.Dont bring your myopic views here:this happens in any tribe. And being scared of Igbo people,better b cause i woulda whooped your backside if I had seen u in person

@jaephoenix, i'm not on this thread to trade words with anyone but nevertheless you have made a point by not supporting the women. As I said earlier in my post that it happens everywhere even in my area. As an igbo man so claimed, i bet you your own people will not allow such to happen to you thier son.
You wouldn't whoop ma ass when sees me i bet you, onii fe fi ata boju (you wouldn't wash face wit pepper)

@blazay, I guess u re a woman jst opposite ur online status and to be candid u must be an igbo type. Cos every single tin u hv said on dis thread is to suport d wife nd her wicked mother. If u re actualy a man as ur status claimed, wud u hv allowd such 2 hapen? Accordn 2 yoruba says: obirin to nyan ale tii oba pa oko apa ara e - meaning: a woman who introduces infidelity 2 dier marraige wil definately kill her hubby or herself in process. However, u made sme useful points dat d man shudnt hav allowed dat in d 1st place or he shud jst file 4 divorce.
@poster, I cud see dat u hv now kept mute 4 a while now so dat Nlandas can say wateva they wanna say but I mst tel u dat runnin away temporarily frm hme and ask ur wife to call u as soon as d woman's gone is nt d best option. Is either u re ready 4 divorce to stay separately wit ur wife 4eva or u go back there to have urself killed. Me I dey fear igbo pple ooo. It hapens everywhere even in yoruba land too but in igbo's case, u re OYO (on ur own). I rest ma case, neeeeeeext

irreplacable $ priceless

@CC i got ur points more dan dose dat are married. Telling his woman absolute truth is d sure way 2 move 4ward and d woman in question got 2 reason wit his hubby. Not every cases turn fight if truly she's matured nd reasonable (according 2 yoruba says: orisa je npemeji bii obirin ko denu). @paul, u hve acted wisely but I must tell you dat u re not a man enough if you cannot tell ur wife wat u feel inside you. What kind of man are u and wat kind of father do u wanna be when u cannot call blue is blue and white is white. Chikenaa

zionic:
Great idea ooo, i will be in charges of collecting funds from all nairalanders so we can boooze wella!,   , hic!

who asked you to be incharge of anything let alone fund or capital or money. As far as i'm concerned, u'll be among the security men to man the entrance. Lol,

RAVE is beta and it got to be this December probably Xmass-eve

How much is the PS2 and what about the working condition? Where exactly are u and cud u pls put sme pic online ASAP?

God Almighty approves marriage, we are the bricklayers, love is the foundation, understanding is the roofing and endeourance is the finishing & furnishing

God Almighty approves marriage, we are the bricklayers, love is the foundation, understanding is the roofing and endeourance is the finishing & furnishing

Why wont I believe. She's trully one of the kind just like Paul da Octopus. May she be guided and protected from bad belle people.

Why wont I believe. She's trully one of the kind just like Paul da Octopus. May she be guided and protected from bad belle people.

Hi Seun,
where exactly do u resides, ? I've read the little detail u posted on nairaland and I have so much interest on it. I hope the console is good working condition and if so I will need more than for my friend and myself.
I will give u a call perhaps mid-night call.
Thanks
Ola

Uhn thats terrible.
Someone who did this during courtship/dating can do worse after marriage. There is still remedy to what happened by leaving her for good, but what would you do if after marriage, ? So, am suggesting you let go off her. To hell with Love without satisfaction, she wasn't satisified that was the reason she went out with another guy pretending loving u. If u guys are later blessed with children after marriage, which of the children would u call yours, ? This is a question u must think twice on b4 proceeding.
Talk to u soon after u might have concluded and give us the feed back on nairaland.
Best of Luck!!!,
Ola

Uhn, U sure say nothing happen btw both of ulna, ?

When I read through "Gettolove" short note he replied on Niaraland, I couldn't control myself. Somethinf got inside of me and I started crying for all Nigerian masses especially the graduates amidst us.
Babba GOD shuld to our rescue (Amen)
Uhn!!!,