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Romance › Re: Why Do People Hate Introverts So Much by olagold79: 8:26pm On Jul 29, 2016

Zceesneh:
I don't want to open this thread, buh i couldn't bear it anymore am too emotional for this, is not by force to be friends with everyone, i choose the people i want to make friends with, buh the people i ignore, will feel hurt, from that moment, they will convince everybody that am a cultist or that i have a spreadable disease,, i came out today, and people even my close friends were avoiding me, i just don't know, is not my fault, my happiness comes first before any other thing else, am trying my best to let it go, buh the more i keep, thinking about it, is the more i keep on getting hurt, my close friends should have known me better by now, am not a cultist, am 100% fine, if am not comfortable with you, i can't be friends with you, thats what makes me an introvert, i won't change for anybody, people keep on giving me unnecessary attention, i don't like it, please what can i do about it?

If you are truly an introvert, what people feel about you will be the last thing on your mind. I used to be an extreme introvert, but now I can say I am an ambivert, regardless I careless about anybody's opinion about me. Your happiness comes first. I find happiness in the solitude of my thought, if you still crave acceptance then work on been an extrovert.

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Family › Re: Olachi Manndarin Emmanuel Dies After Husband Allegedly Abandoned Her by olagold79: 8:03pm On Jul 29, 2016

VolTOxic:
[color=maroon]So from where you hailed from, it's a trend for two unhappy folks to get married together right?[/color]

Ok, they are very happy together , that's exactly the reason they treated themselves like that after 1years. Very happy indeed. From time immemorial marriage has not always been about happy couples, people have married due to pressure, greed, obligations etc.

So to answer your question , from where I come from n from everywhere rational humans have lived , there have been numerous cases of unhappy couples.

And also you totally missed my point. Which is : you can't judge happiness from a picture. Even from outside appearances. Pastor Chris n his wife (just the popular example that comes to mind) were far from happy together for sometimes, yet they wrote books together n put up smiles in public appearances before everything publicly collapsed. And besides the picture presented here was that of their wedding day, it's not plausible to gauge their happiness after 1 year and after the injury to that lady based on that pics.

Hope you get my point Sir?

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Family › Re: Olachi Manndarin Emmanuel Dies After Husband Allegedly Abandoned Her by olagold79: 6:24pm On Jul 29, 2016

MadCow1:
I will not go as far as saying no one deserves such treatment, but judging from the writers tale, there seems to be no plausible reason for the Husband to switch up the way he did.

If you're judging from the writers tale you are implying she deserves this kind of treatment because of a broken hips?

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Family › Re: Olachi Manndarin Emmanuel Dies After Husband Allegedly Abandoned Her by olagold79: 6:17pm On Jul 29, 2016

VolT0xic:
[color=maroon]So sad.
But they look happy. Together.

I strongly believe there's more to it.
May be she was having an affair. And he disown her.

Anyway, She's dead now. May she rest in Peace.
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People sha....."they look happy together".....all that deduced from a mere picture they properly posed for!!!

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Romance › Re: Can You Operate A Joint Account With Your Spouse? by olagold79: 7:52am On Jul 28, 2016

Personally, I think joint account is overrated. The main purpose would be for transperency and also to have funds readily available for the home. However, if you trust your spouse enough you can still be confident she'll spend the money rightly irrespective of where the cash is domiciled. My spouse ahs all my account details n can spend n transfer any money as she wishes. I also have hers. When she collect her salary she'd ask me how much of it she's allowed to spend based on the current need.

I trust her judgements not because of love, n I think that's where a lot get it wrong. Just like you can trust your dog with your life...but it's sheer stupidty to trust it with your meal.I trust her because I have seen that she's financially prudent, she's a genius...and because she makes a lot of money herself n work a lot she doesn't spend like an average Nigerian girl who confidently leeches on their spouse as a form of hobby or sport. Despite the fact that she loves shopping a looot, I can be rest assured she's not buying anything that she doesn't need or just buying to show off or just to follow a trend. She's that intelligent. I trust her more than I even trust myself with my own money. I am generally a risk taker n I usually care less about losing....but she does n she keeps everything balanced.

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Romance › Re: Can You Operate A Joint Account With Your Spouse? by olagold79: 7:39am On Jul 28, 2016

axzon:
Are you talking of my company Acct or your salary Acct, because my company Acct dont bear my name how much more my wife name.
.... rules for the poor.

You just skidded off the point in your bid to sound intelligent. Does your comapny account bear your name?, how can you then operate it jointly with another person. And who told you it's d rule for the poor....another fail. It was never a "rule", and their are millions of couples who are far richer than you'll ever be that have joint accounts.

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Travel › Re: Studying In Finland (free Tuition) by olagold79: 7:08am On Jul 28, 2016

anniekoko:
Also heard that palm oil is no more allowed. abeg which Nigerian food stuff is most advisable to carry?

Carry enough egusi, ogbono,pepper,crayfish....dried vegetables

Romance › Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by olagold79: 6:58am On Jul 28, 2016

Benita27:
Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.

To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.

Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.

We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.

He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.

Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.

Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.

We're not in India where women marry men.

It's really terrible the kind of mentality that's been entrenched on nairaland. Now I understand why peeps seems to complain when some stuffs makes front page. So many childish and stereotypical thinking. It's becoming annoying, or just that some of you just like attention cry

So ,what if you're the richer?,you still must keep collecting instead of spending. I hope you remember the case of Cynthia Osikogwu ( hope I get the spelling correctly), that's how she fashioned her own death. She decided to still collect money from guys she is even rich enough to buy.

I remember this op's response on a particular post. It quite obvious you have a deep seated archaic view, we already have many of your kind n you're unfortunately infecting your ilk. No 2 relationships are the same, so your point is if you spend less on a guy n he leaves you...you'll feel less pain.So childish n Myopic,goes to show how much money means to you. I have lost over 3k euro on investments in just the last 6months, why don't I go n kill my investors or kill myself because of some wrong choices.Many of you shouting will spend less than half on that on your boyfriend in his whole life.

It's really annoying how a lot of Nigerian youth think these days. And the stuffs I see in here scares me. Of all d problems we can solve with our thinking ...we have someone wake up n start giving this kind of advice. Op even said she has a family that works in shell n still pays the wife , "that's a man"....so every1 that can't work in shell n be that rich is half a man?.

My gal can spend anything on me, I have never asked n I am not more broke than she is , I am generally richer.But we both came from a poor background, and we have helped each other thus far. Even when she was doing IT, she'd spend at least 2k of her 10k salary on me every month.I have said it severally , I probably have spent far more on her....but in comparison it's just because I had more.We compete to see who spends more n can suprise the other with d best gifts. I partly sponsored her to Europe and I don't even see myself saying it in a way to brag...I can't just imagine.She in every way worth more than that. And if any1 of us leaves the relationship; which has almost happened a few times it won't be totally d others fault. She has done things for me that I wll never forget even in my grave. And if by any means we part way....walahi the last thing on my mind will be how much money I lost on her, I am sure that's true for her also. Money is totally inconsequential, can't we just reason past this nonesense.

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Romance › Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by olagold79: 6:55am On Jul 28, 2016

JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand, so because he asked you out you should just be collecting? You won't surprise him with gifts or pay for dinner once in a while? This is why guys keep shading ladies on this forum, you present yourselves as leeches.

You're making sense jaare . it's really terrible the kind of mentality that's been entrenched on nairaland. Now I understand why peeps seems to complain when some stuffs makes front page. So many childish and stereotypical thinking. It's becoming annoying, or just that some of you just like attention cry

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Career › Re: Sosu Patrick, Corn Seller In Suit, Tie & Hat by olagold79: 6:06pm On Jul 27, 2016

oshinadekunle:
change cause our future bank manager to b a corn roaster. sai buhari

Are you naturally retarded?, or just trying hard to sound stupid undecided

. Perhaps you're just genuinely gullible. Wetin concern Buhari with Ghana, even if you failed comprehension ins school are you also colour blind?,the man is wearing a Ghanaian flag tie n somewhere in the write up...it clearly states Acrra. And some folks like you ready liked your vomit.

PS: This is probably the first time I am bashing someone for bashing Buhari.This level of stupidiy was just quite shocking

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Family › Re: Twin Sisters Who Died In Ghana Buried Same Day - See Photos by olagold79: 2:11pm On Jul 27, 2016

NwaNimo1:
Sounds like murder to me....RIP

Do you even know d meaning of murder? .Nairaland and tragicomical comments.

Literature › Re: Ultimate Guide: How To Earn More As A Freelance Writer by olagold79: 7:14am On Jul 27, 2016

Any Nigeria who wants to make it big in freelance writing should checkout Bamidele Onibalusi....as at 2011 the guy makes upto $50000 in a year. He started a challenge on how to make a $1000 per month recently. Just Google d name

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Crime › Re: Housewife To Die For Stabbing And Setting Husband Ablaze by olagold79: 7:51pm On Jul 26, 2016

FvckeDyoBiTch:
Hanging is inhumane, what happened to injections or firing squad?

Wow, clap for yourself!!!!....and what she has done is the most humane thing in the world.

Fashion › Re: Nigerian Transgender, Noni Salma Lawal Formerly Known As Habeeb Babatunde Lawal by olagold79: 7:41pm On Jul 26, 2016

Kosy79:
It's absolute nonsense as long as they cannot replace dìck with pvssy, as long as they still tie their díck from showing off their traffic sign ability i will always call it stupidity. Sometimes i wonder how human beings have mosquito brain.

Actually they replace dick with a fuckable pussy, the reverse is what I have no idea.

Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Slept With Another Man For Just N15,000,heartbroken Man Openup by olagold79: 11:45am On Jul 26, 2016

[quote author=tushbobo post=47896370]The problem I see is that most men are emotionally and not logical. Many girls will sleep with a total stranger for 15k not to talk of her ex especially if she's broke.

But if she confessed,I think you should forgive.[/quotep]

I will really like to get your point. Are you insinuating he should accept it as logic ;the possibility of his girl banging her ex?

Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Slept With Another Man For Just N15,000,heartbroken Man Openup by olagold79: 11:41am On Jul 26, 2016

charlsecy:
Hey, love cannot be unconditional. Love, at all times, has a set of conditions.

I get your point, but I think what I was pointing out was also quite obvious. Even in the grace of christ there are conditions to be met by you.....despite the fact that it's called grace n it's considered the greatest gift of love. It it is still not void of conditions.

In this context, money was the issue. As long as d "love" was not based on his pocket,his looks, etc .it isnto some extent unconditional. Some girls will dump you if you go broke than they knew you in 2days.Some might be because you could not satisfy her sexually, in a matter of time..she's gone.Some guys will drop the girl if she probably grow fatter, you know stuffs like that.

Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Slept With Another Man For Just N15,000,heartbroken Man Openup by olagold79: 1:18am On Jul 26, 2016

Benita27:
Some of you are confused being. No offence.

If i decide to spend on you as a lady, it shld be a gift, maybe on ur birthday or anniversary, it shldn't be mandatory and my bf's appreciate that.

Its your sole responsibility to take care of the woman you're dating, although it shldn't be forced on you.

You are the man, and you earn respect by doing so, nt putting ur problems on a lady.

Stop saying people are confused. Everyone is expressing their opinions. I thank God for the kind of girls I have dated n even friends. I have never had to spend on any girl as if it was ny responsibility. And don't get it twisted,I am not even a "fine boy"...but I am principled.

I took my gal to a six nation European tour just this January. This is just a fraction of what I do for her mostly as a supirise.The reason is simple, she has never had d mentality of my man must do everything for me.Fot God's sake I am not your Dad. .so stop saying it's d man responsibility, n stop quoting the bible. It reffered to "husbands" which means married people. And in every society you only marry when you are financially capable. It annoys me when an average naija gal expect a guy who is probably from the same poor background as her to spend on her. Where in earth do you want him to get it from. Imagine that guy spending his savings of 300k on a medical student.

Well,I thank God for the kind of girls that have come my way. I use to have a female friend who by mere looking at my face knows I'm broke as an undergraduate. She will run from pillar to post just to make sure I am ok....we never even dated.She was just a bit more comfortable n she will go to that length for me.90% of girls won't even do that for their men. She even just borrowed me about 500k to do some stuffs in naija because I couldn't send money home due to d fluctuating naiara.This is a girl I saw last in 2010, n she still trust me up till dis point without even seeing me.....how many of u girls can trust your guy with 5k.

When I started dating my girl 8years ago ,even if I send credit to her she will send it back. What I eventually did was to use credit transfer cos i knew she doesn't know her transfer code. Up until this moment she rarely asks anything but I can spend my whole life on her. Maybe she's just a rare breed I don't know, but I nnow she's definitely not the only gal like that n I respect her for that. Maybe that's why I find this archaic mentality of its the man's responsibility really offensive. And leaving amongst d white for a while definitely helps.

I remember in her undergraduate days when one young lecturer was disturbing her. I told her, girl I won't eveb start preaching to you that I wilk get rich. But tou yourself I promise you that if you wirk on yourself U will earn more than him in just 5years..he probably earns around 300k. I can confidently say that as come to pass already n she's still studying. But we have girls who see men as a poverty alleviatiion program. It's just bothers me.And the amount of stereotype on nairaland just makes me lose hope. Young generations reading all this will have a hard time establishing blissful relationships.

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Politics › Re: Hnd/bsc Dichotomy Removed by olagold79: 6:17pm On Jul 25, 2016

OrlandoOwoh:
His analogy is right. Most of you jubilitating don't really understand what you read. The only thing in this piece of news is that (though not yet approved) the limitation in the level a HND will get in the civil service has been removed. Have you asked yourself if it means not making PGD compulsory for HND holders wanting to study for their masters? Can holders of HND now be in the same level with Bsc holders? Ask yourself pertinent questions that affect young people, not celebrating what only men and women already in the civil service would enjoy.

Thank you bro. That's the only question I want answered. My babe just called me n was jubilanting, I told her d only way this will be of any interest to you is if it allows you to go for MsC straight.

But trust our youth, we'll turn everything n everything to unnecessary argument of superiority. I was hoping to get enlightened discussion here...all I can gain is bickering and unnecessary verbal assaults. What's my business if Bsc is better than HND...your degree is practically useless even in Ghana or Serriea leone.Oir only leeway is to do Msc n excel or gain a valuable global skill.

Politics › Re: Hnd/bsc Dichotomy Removed by olagold79: 6:00pm On Jul 25, 2016

idupaul:
Good news but it never really existed it just existed in the mind of those who believed that University cert had more value than a poly cert but they have always been equivalent

You seriously think it never existed?....ask people who are paid 2/3rd of what their University graduate counterpart earn on the same job.

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Crime › Re: "They Electrocuted My Genitals In Indonesia"- Nigerian Death-row Prisoner by olagold79: 12:30pm On Jul 25, 2016

Bolustic:
Michael Titus Igweh

Cloth Importer- telling us how his genitals were electrocuted but didn't say how 5.8kg of Heroin was found on him.

I don't pity those who smuggle drugs to Indonesia or Asian countries at all.

Anyways, I'm checking names too.

No where in this report was it written that the drugs were found on him

Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Slept With Another Man For Just N15,000,heartbroken Man Openup by olagold79: 5:21am On Jul 24, 2016

I really don't understand why guys feel its their responsibility to spend on a a girl. Its a choice, do it freely , you are not obliged to. I don't know who have spent more on each other between me n my gal, anyone who has spent more probably had more at that point.If you like spend all your money and even your future join, it doesn't change anything.If the love is unconditional you are just wasting your time. NA why I like oyinbo, if you take dem out on a date, every1 pays for what he/she orders. It is foolhardy when U feel whatever peanut you are earning can keep a girl.

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Romance › Re: How To Make Nigerian Men Believe You're Wife Material (even When U're Not by olagold79: 2:25am On Jul 24, 2016

Thankfully my bae does all this, and not on phone. Infact she works too much, a great cook. I find it hard to believe any man will marry you because of whatever u feed him on calls. This should have ended as a joke, But I am surprised people actually believe this can work. It shows how dumb we have become as a people.

I repeat!!!!, any man that marrys based on phone conversations should not even be allowed to breed, he would save d world a couple of dullards. Na so we see one guy here , that said he proposed to a girl only to find out the way she was treating her father, how can you propose without finding out obvious details. You cant even buy a car without verifying everything verifiable, but U see people getting married based on assumptions n hearsay....who has bewitched people self!!!

Romance › Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by olagold79: 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2016

halfricanadian:
It hurts i just move on somethings u dont av to fix them or dey get damaged d more just leave it nd move on

I really tried to understand what you have written. Its quite incoherent...are you typing under the influence grin

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Celebrities › Re: 6 Nigerian Actresses Who Have Converted To Islam And Their Reason For Switching by olagold79: 10:45am On Jul 22, 2016

It's amazing how they all converted because of one thing. ....I mean all without even an exception;Marital failure. They now married the money bags who already have other wives, it's kinda funny. The first one attempted to give a valid reason which actually made her sound stupid. She was like in christianity u need a pastor to get close to God,I be like shocked

......this one get sense at all?.You have been a pastor worhsipper of that's what your christianity teaches you. CHRIST in Christianity has a specific meaning n purpose.

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Politics › Re: I Used N10m Out Of Dasuki’s N100m To Furnish My Apartment~Doyin Okupe by olagold79: 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2016

idupaul:
I used about 5 million times furnish my house and the house is still not what I expected .. what is 10 million naira that you are shouting sef ..even Zara[color=#990000][/color] Buhari spend it on ice cream in a year

What is 5million times?

Romance › Re: Hilarious Photo: Ladies Be Sincere, What Would You Do In This Situation??? by olagold79: 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2016

optional1:
shuoooo
sorry ooooo
it was a question which I answer for myself and you are preaching for me as if I'm blind and cant see or cant think.....

Abeg no vex......

I take the car and leave the marriage anything bad with it.

My life your life.....

Peace......

I'm hoping you're joking or just trolling. Leave marriage, marry car?.....I find that really cool.

Romance › Re: Hilarious Photo: Ladies Be Sincere, What Would You Do In This Situation??? by olagold79: 1:55pm On Jul 18, 2016

ubcandid:
This is very DANGEROUS AND INIMICAL TO THE RELATIONSHIP.. WHY

1) if you as a man accepts the gift, your wife may likely feel comfortable with the guy and have the assurance that you dont see him as a threat. In a situation where things starts going rough for you, she would want you to look up to him for succor or may even go behind your back and meet him for assistance with out your approval and trust me, a wise man doesnt demand for sex immediately in exchange for help, all he just does is create an ambience of comfort and security and your wife would willingly give him the honey pot for free and loose utmost respect for you. she would then feel you are holding her back in life when the largess from her sugar benefactor gets into her head.

2) a certain point would come in life and your wife may just have low regard for you due to perceived weakness as a man on her part. what man would accept a gift from an ex and i bet you her former friends who knew about the relationship would know about the gift. your esteem in the eye of these people and her family would be low and in the futuristic case of altercation between you two she would hit you with it when you least expect.

I agree with you. The ideal thing would be not to collect the gift at all. But if you look at the economic situation I don't think it's wise for one to reject almost 20million just because you're scared of what might be. The truth is that a woman may end up doing what she will do even if she didnt collect that gift. What if d guy presented d gift as a wedding gift......it will be wrong for you to ask her to reject it.If she left the ex or the ex left her despite the riches there must be a reason.

And d point of maybe the man creating an ambience just to have sex seems inocrrect.This is d ex he already had enough of her. There could be a lot of things attached tp d gift, as a man and if my wife is open enough we can figure it out. Maybe he was supposed to marry her n just bleeped n see it as a way of repaying her. I can't imagine myself not marrying my fiancé after all she had invested in me. I will feel heartless if I don't even try n reciprocate in a way...maybe as I travelled out I see 1 oyinbo wey go set me up for life n I dumped her.I will still owe her for life...n sex or whatever will not even be in the picture.

Romance › Re: Hilarious Photo: Ladies Be Sincere, What Would You Do In This Situation??? by olagold79: 10:29am On Jul 18, 2016

This should be pretty straighforward. If you are rich enough to maintain this kind of car, you're probably also rich enough to reject it (it wouldn't feeak you, cos you , your hubby or your family can afford to buy it for you). But on the other hand, which would be the common scenario...you can't even maintain the car, it may the reason you're dead the next month when robbers attempts to snatch it from you n U can't just afford to lose it. Infact you can't maintain it!!!!!.

If you n your new hubby have a ounce of functioning brain cells, just collect, sell n buy 2 beautiful new cars for you n him. You have achived a lot of things, you have put it to your ex's face that he can buy you expensive gift and you will not even be moved/tempted by it, and that you will even spend his money/gift on your new hubby.And you have shown your hubby loyalty n fidelity.

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Travel › Re: Please Help, He Is About To Be Deported From Uae by olagold79: 11:58pm On Jul 17, 2016

nzeobi:
Am also planning to come over to dubai but this story is discouraging.
The best solution I can give now is for your friend to pray and to look a powerful man of God here in nigeria that is if he is a believer.

What are you saying...

Christianity Etc › Re: Where Is The Correct Place To Pay Our Tithes by olagold79: 6:11pm On Jul 17, 2016

allanphash7:
No where else

Thighting is a scam !!!
Thighting is a day light robbery !!!
Thighting is only been paid by the gullibles !!!!

Who thighing epp seff?

Thighting ko loosen ni

At least learn to spell correctly before commenting. Or at least copy n paste the op...I can"t take the opinion of someone who surreptitiously misspelled a word right in front of him seriously. It probably means you don't pause to think before jumping into conclusions.....

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Christianity Etc › Re: Where Is The Correct Place To Pay Our Tithes by olagold79: 6:10pm On Jul 17, 2016

allanphash7:
No where else

Thighting is a scam !!!
Thighting is a day light robbery !!!
Thighting is only been paid by the gullibles !!!!

Who thighing epp seff?

Thighting ko loosen ni

At least learn to spell correctly before commenting. Or at least copy n paste the op...I can"t take the opinion of someone who surreptitiously misspelled a word right in front of him seriously.

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