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Foreign Affairs / Re: US President Biden And Ukraine's Zelensky To Meet At White House On Wednesday by olahero(m): 5:39am On Dec 21, 2022
judetov2:
Please � God let the war end, we have a future to protect.
Werey, but you no pray for prosperity and blessing for your own country.

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Politics / Re: Atiku, Okowa Visit Yar’Adua’s Mother In Katsina (Photos) by olahero(m): 5:37am On Dec 21, 2022
Lol
Politics / Re: We’ll Do Better Than Men – Female Gubernatorial Candidates by olahero(m): 8:21am On Dec 20, 2022
Mtchew... Keep deceiving una self.

Women as leader is not always promising.
Politics / Re: Tinubu To Organised Labour: I’m One Of You In Fight For Good Governance by olahero(m): 6:42am On Dec 20, 2022
Good

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Family / Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by olahero(m): 8:57am On Dec 18, 2022
piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up
hearing from the second person will be helpful and taking good side.

But if all what you have said here is true, you have tried enough than for you to just leave him like that.

Please be patience and prayerful, if the divorce would be the best and last option for you, God will surely guide you, but is like you don't belive in God ooo, I read something spiritual in this your writeup, you have partner something else with your Lord which God dislike most.

God will guide you alright.
Politics / Re: Obi Chased Non-Indigenes Out Of Anambra – SDP Spokesman by olahero(m): 7:27pm On Dec 17, 2022
Alpharey:


Be ready to cry when he becomes the President
may be your family house president not Nigeria president.
Politics / Re: G5 Governors: Okowa Leads Fresh Reconciliation Moves by olahero(m): 6:52pm On Dec 17, 2022
OK nah..
Crime / Re: NAF Special Forces Rescue 7 Abducted Chinese In Kaduna by olahero(m): 6:51pm On Dec 17, 2022
Good
Politics / Re: Obi Chased Non-Indigenes Out Of Anambra – SDP Spokesman by olahero(m): 6:51pm On Dec 17, 2022
The man was a bad governor at that time. He will be the third runner sha

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TV/Movies / Re: Review And Rating: Netflix Far From Home by olahero(m): 12:28pm On Dec 17, 2022
Is really a good movie.

Politics / Re: Buhari's Second Niger Bridge Parting Gift To Ndigbo By Farooq Kperogi by olahero(m): 7:09am On Dec 17, 2022
Buhari Bridge...

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Business / Re: International Remittances To Nigeria By State/Household - Statisense by olahero(m): 7:05am On Dec 17, 2022
International Ashawo remittance plenty grin

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Politics / Re: Fuel Marketers Pay In Dollars To Transport Products Within Nigeria: Sergius Ogun by olahero(m): 2:47pm On Dec 16, 2022
Huh
Politics / Re: Osun Debt: Publish Loan Details, Procurement Dates – Omipidan Challenges Adeleke by olahero(m): 6:50am On Dec 16, 2022
Truth be told, the loan is fucking too much for a state like Osun, the infrastructures in place does it match with the debt on ground.

He should investigate what those billions was used for.

I wish Adeleke well, he should face the music as the government is continuum.

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Participates At US-Africa Business Summit (Photos) by olahero(m): 6:49am On Dec 16, 2022
Antimarraige:
Werey sha do quick pack your aboki bag with your cow sorry wife go Katsina, make we breathe well again for the country when President Peter Obi gets inaugurated next year.

Somebody shout Hallelujah
can you talk to your papa that way? You stink mehn
Politics / Re: 2023: I Am Igbo’s Route To Presidency — Atiku by olahero(m): 6:43am On Dec 16, 2022
Igbokwenu
Politics / Re: Buhari Approves Refund Of Money Spent On Projects In Imo Airport by olahero(m): 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2022
Thank You PMB

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Politics / Re: Sheikh Abduljabar Nasiru Kabara Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Blasphemy by olahero(m): 3:05pm On Dec 15, 2022
Good one, we also have one sick fake shiekh here in South Western.

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Politics / Re: We Have Recovered ₦‎30bn From Suspended AGF - EFCC by olahero(m): 3:03pm On Dec 15, 2022
Wow
Travel / Re: Sunday Emem Becomes The First Driver To Cross The Second Niger Bridge by olahero(m): 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2022
BUHARI BRIDGE

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Politics / Re: Sanwo-olu, Ibori Mourn Demola Seriki, Nigeria's Ambassador To Spain by olahero(m): 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2022
Eyah
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu Commissions Campaign Office In Minna After Rally (Pictures) by olahero(m): 6:24am On Dec 15, 2022
Hue
Crime / Re: Raped UNILORIN Student: Two Undergraduates Sentenced To Death by olahero(m): 6:13am On Dec 14, 2022
Subuhanallah...

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Politics / Re: Norway Prime Minister Described As ‘Nigeria Government Official’ By Twitter by olahero(m): 7:18pm On Dec 13, 2022
BreconHills:


Read stories not headlines
leave him nah, the person wey don madt
Politics / Re: Norway Prime Minister Described As ‘Nigeria Government Official’ By Twitter by olahero(m): 7:17pm On Dec 13, 2022
grin be like say Elon Musk don dey ment. �
Politics / Re: 2023: Olubadan Denies Endorsing Peter Obi by olahero(m): 4:01pm On Dec 13, 2022
Awon werey grin
Religion / Re: Nigerians In The US Reject Bishop Ross Because He Believes In Homosexuality by olahero(m): 1:13pm On Dec 13, 2022
Igbokwenu grin I love that

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Investment / Re: FTX Founder, Bankman-Fried Arrested In Bahamas, To Be Extradited To The US by olahero(m): 8:14am On Dec 13, 2022
Scam
Politics / Re: Sowore’s AAC, PRP Form Alliance Ahead Presidential Election by olahero(m): 8:04am On Dec 13, 2022
Failed project grin
Politics / Re: NASS Says Constitution Amendments May Fail, Blames States by olahero(m): 8:03am On Dec 13, 2022
State Governors are the real enemy in this stage and it's very unfortunate for them.

Local Government must be freed from Governors at all cost if truly we want growths at the grassroots level.

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Politics / Re: Jamilu PDP Chieftain Over 50,000 PDP Members Joins APC In Gombe State by olahero(m): 6:44am On Dec 13, 2022
Jagaban Lokan

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Politics / Re: Kano: Return My Nomination Fee, Ex-Labour Party Rep Aspirant by olahero(m): 6:40am On Dec 13, 2022
Labour Party people are day dreamers, Peter Obi won't win Anambra.

ASIWAJU BOLA AHMED TINUBU 2023-2027

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