₦airaland Forum

Your wife has issues respecting a human being, she feels cause she cloths, feeds and shelter the girl she is automatically her slave who has to serve her as a reward for her gesture to her.
You need to make your wife understand that all humans deserve to be treated with love and respect irrespective of their status and class.
My opinion thou....

Seems everyone want to be noticed on this issue. Let's leave the police to come out with their investigation.
BTW seems the girl is not telling us the full story, if not there wouldn't be a need to mute some section of the evidence, guess those seconds tells the true story.
My opinion thou....

The guy is just plainly irresponsible, from the wife statement he must have been doing it to other ladies.
Leaving the marriage is a tall order given the fact that kids are involved and also her investment, guess she has to get third parties involved. Maybe the guys parents or their religious leaders to talk sense into him, just maybe he could have a change of heart.
Also she shouldn't neglect the place of prayers.

For every issue the govt. set up panels, but the most unfortunate thing is nothing is going to come out of it, reports of the panels are always kept secret and recommendations never obeyed. I don't think this panel will be different from all others.
Common sense would be to bring the perpetrators of this evil acts to justice, it keeps escalating cause the herdsmen know they will always get away with it.

I don't really understand this feminist ideology, they claim they want equal rights as men but wouldn't want to take same responsibilities as men do. Even worse off is the use of the ideology to act irresponsibly as a wife.

Quite unfortunate for the family, the woman was obviously hypertensive. There is a need for the govt. t curtail the excesses of these SARS guys, going about picking up people without any evidence or warrant of arrest isn't right. That they even left the boy showed he was just arrested unlawfully.
Anyways, I forgot this is Nigeria where people in uniforms have the exclusive right to oppress civilians and also break the laws at will.

The day guys realise the fact that most posh and classy girls aren't as expensive as they appear to be then there will be less going overboard to impress a girl and further more wouldn't feel intimidated by some of their outfits.
And unfortunately some of these girls make mockery of struggling guys who earn legitimately , when approached for friendship or relationship

Living comfortably definition is relative to individuals views. But being able to pay up all bills and take up all responsibilities expected of an individual is living comfortably in my own opinion.

Nigeria is a country where the lives of the rich and powerful is much more important to the govt than that of the masses.

People spewing out rubbish just to trend online. She might be unemployed currently trying to form big girl level.
That's why these girls don't deserve to be pitied when they fall into wrong hands. If a guy can afford to spare 20k for a ring in this economy the guy isn't in the broke guys league.

The PDP is not in anyway better than the APC. The only edge they have now is the disappointment people have towards this govt. which can be to their advantage if they will provide a credible and people acceptable candidate at the polls.
Really don't know when Nigerians will get good governance.

Really, sometimes when I pass through those selling these okirika stuffs and see some ladies patronizing them looking Posh and classy, am baffled at how they look down on broke guys who try approaching them. Really many girls live fake lives and only foolish guys would want to go overboard to please them or match their fake standards
They call it packaging thou....

Really look cute together......Seriously love is beautiful when there is money.

If Buhari loves himself he had better not run for a second term. His govt. has failed the masses. Even the high point of his credibility has been rubbished by his inability to prosecute members of his govt that are presumed to be corrupt.

Really don't know what some people take social media for? Guess to some it a platform to showcase their level of intellect and moral values for the world to see.

I doubt if he's the biological father. Wickedness on the part of the man and he should be made to face the law.

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A romantic relationship gone cold. The girl was just flexing on the man.

How dirts took over Lagos still amazes me, the govt. watched and did nothing to salvage the situation till it became an embarrassment.

This sounds like a beer parlour gist. The reporting is seems unprofessional. My opinion thou.

The word is "some like mind like himself"

With the so many failures of this govt. some people are already pushing for a second term. If Buhari wants to retain some level of respect he better not run, than run and be disgraced at the polls.

it's just hypocrisy, you ask yourself if the girl you meet outside is not also a member of a religious institution.

Tell your friend to forget about the girl, she has given enough signals that her love is no longer with him.

Although the south African people are hostile to foreigners, a whole lot of atrocities committed by Nigerians over there isn't helping matters. A friend who lived there says some Nigerians are just too shady over there.

How did we descend so low as a people in this nation. Wickedness seems to be the order of the day. Results of having failed institutions of law and order.

If truly he is stringent measures would have been taken to curb the senseless killings. For the non deployment of the military to the affected region shows a sort of bias, even areas with less killings had military presence.
Thus govt. is just losing credibility day by day.

Crazy, must have been under the influence of alcohol.

Truth be told, your GF has found love elsewhere. You need to brace up to that fact. Getting a girl to love you in financial crisis is rare in this generation.

She's right to an extent, but should have used the word "most". The level of rot in our society clearly shows it all. Sometimes I wonder how we have so much religious institutions in the country and at the same time see so much wickedness and evil in the land.